Church of Christ Adoption and Orphan Care

Adoption Thoughts/Blog

Home
Why Should I Adopt? Adoption and The Starfish
Necessary Decisions-Picking an Agency, Decisions on Child, Country, Am I Too Old to Adopt?
Application, Home Study, Dossier
Waiting for a Match-Support, Getting Organized, Decisions with Referral, Tips on Naming Children
Preparing for Your Child/ How to Make Your Trip Easier on Other Children
Questions You May Be Asked
Preparing for Your Trip
Your Trip
Back Home With Your Child...Reality Check!
Considering Disruption of the Adoption Process
Adoptive Nursing
Transracial Adoption
Fund Raising
Lack of Support AND Rumors Rumors Rumors
Foreign Word Lists
Adoption Stories from Ethiopia Ethiopian Program Information
Adoption Stories from Russia
The Inheritance of Adoption-Stories from Parents of Grown Children
Domestic Adoption- Baby or Older Child? Pregnant?
Searching For Birth Parents/Domestic Adoption
Domestic Adoption Stories
Home Schooling and Adoption / Websites Specializing in Adoption Products
Pictures
Video
Adoption Thoughts/Blog
Our Wish and A Personal Prayer Request
Contact Us

This Blog contains the journey of bringing our Ethiopian daughter home, as well as our thoughts on adoption.  God has blessed us and it is our turn, no, our privilege to share with you.  We currently have some glitches on this blog.  Please forgive the "look" of this page while we try to resolve these problems.

Archive Newer | Older

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Mass Armadillo Exodus, What does it mean?

 

Everywhere I go I see armadillo carcasses…along the sides of busy highways, rural roads…the armadillo’s are moving.  Studies show that often animals know that geographic events are going to happen before they do.  So what does this all mean?

 

It means that I’m enjoying messing with you and that Armadillos may not be the brightest crayon in the animal crayon box.  Yep, had to use it! I mean how could I resist using the title, “Mass Armadillo Exodus, What does it mean?”. 

 

Really, I just wanted to share that God has very quickly moved our Dossier (adoption paperwork) onto Ethiopian soil.  On September 14th, 2009 Fed Ex delivered our dossier to Ethiopia where they will translate it and deliver it to the courts.  We are ready to wait for our little ones officially.  We look forward to sharing with you our official “wait date”.  Though the official wait is 5 to 6 months once we are on the wait list, we know that’s God has His own timing and, just as with our other wonderful journeys, our children will be ours in His time.

 

Praise God that we are one-step beyond where we were even two weeks ago! God is moving and this journey is such a joyous adventure!

_________________________

 

 

Praises!!!!
That God has seen to bless our wonderful friends with approval of their home study. and that more sweet children will now find their forever family!!!
That God is leading our lives. It doesn't matter if it's easy or hard, SOO COOL!
That God provided the funds through some WONDERFUL means to submit our dossier and begin our wait!!!

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests:
*That God’s hand is on the paperwork, that they proceed with not a glitch, getting translated and registered with amazing speed.
*That God brings our newest children home quickly.
*That God blesses us with the funds as we gather them to complete the next step of this process (accepting the referral of the twins when the time comes).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.
*Lastly, that we have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step.
________________________

Also, please join us in prayers for four beautiful Christian families and five sweet children who are facing obstacles above and beyond what a adoption process usually looks like. Governments will literally have to move for these older and special needs children to come home. Families are waiting for them and we are SO excited to see God work in these lives and these governments to bring these adoptive blessings home!

Olivia Mame (Ethiopia)-I would like to ask your prayers for a little sweet young girl in Ethiopia named Olivia Mame. There are some very immense road blocks, serious ones, that have to be conquered in order to finish the adoption of this precious young lady.

Jubilee (China)- A Christian family is struggling through major hurdles with their international adoption from China. Please pray for this family and for the government to move to bring her home.

Daniel (Liberia)-A little one with hydrocephaly awaits his family. Please pray that Daniel does not deteriorate farther and that people in authority to move this case feel the passion to see this through quickly.

Ronaldo and Julia (Guatemala)-For years this family has been trying to get their beautiful future children out of Guatemala. Every time it seems close there is another glitch. Please pray with us. Please pray that EVERY problem is resolved and every piece of paper has the perfection only God can give.

7:39 pm

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Blogging Flakes :)
You may notice that we have MANY blogs posted today, yet written other days.  This year we have been not only seeking our sweet twins in Ethiopia, but also home schooling five children/teens for the first time.  This summer had us gathering Dossier paperwork AND planning 1/2 year of home school.  Even cheating (our oldest is taking four classes at our local Home School Association), this has left me blogging (when the time allows) on our family blog.  We have been SERIOUSLY remiss at posting them here as well.  It has been VERY busy, but we are slowly starting to fall into a routine.  In order to glorify God in this whole process we are diligently trying to post both places now,  The below posts are "catch up" post that we have been writing on our family blog.
9:51 pm

Don't Just Believe...Act - Written September 15, 2009

(A Daily Internet Devotional by Steve Goodier)

One summer, a drought threatened the crop in a small town. On a hot
and dry Sunday, the village parson told his congregation, "There
isn't anything that will save us except to pray for rain. Go home,
pray, believe, and come back next Sunday ready to thank God for
sending rain."

The people did as they were told and returned to church the following
Sunday. But as soon as the parson saw them, he was furious. "We
can't worship today. You do not yet believe," he said.

"But," they protested, "we prayed, and we do believe."

"Believe?" he responded. "Then where are your umbrellas?"

The story applies to all of us. There are those people who leave
their umbrellas at home. Throughout their lives, they are merely
hoping their wishes and prayers will bear fruit, but they expect
little. Others expect their dreams and desires to come to pass. It
is as if they journey through life always prepared for something to
happen.
Today, how will you approach that which you are yearning for?

Will you expect your prayers and work to bring about hoped-for
results?

Will you bring your umbrella?

9:44 pm

An Orphans Prayer- Written September 13, 2009

I read this on another lovely family's blog. They are going through a really tough time as approval has been withdrawn for a specific little Taiwanese child because, well...those in authority are concerned and feel the family should be more affluent to care for this little girls special needs. Please remember, they were approved. They said that the funds were sufficient and then they changed their minds.

This makes my heart cry. Please pray for this child and the family that seeks to adopt her...please pray for discernment as they decide on how to proceed. As God wills, please pray for mountains to move.

Now...The Orphans Prayer followed by our own personal praises and prayer requests.

_____________________________________________


I am waiting...somewhere far...far away on the other side of the world.
I may not know who you are or what you look like,
but somewhere deep in my heart I know you are out there.
That one day you will come and find me.
It's a long journey, and it takes a lot of time...I wish it could be easier.
But I know the ones that come for me will not count the cost.
They will only see the joy in finding me.
For now I abide in the fields of the fatherless.
Day by day wondering why I was born here and not somewhere else?
Asking why my life couldn't have been different?
It is so lonely.
Even though I am surrounded by hundreds of other children, I know that something is missing...
I know in my heart I need a place to call home.
My arms long to be wrapped in a fathers embrace...
I long to be saved by a mother's love...

Gazing out the orphans window, I offer a prayer of hope,
"Oh God please help them come quickly."
Even as I lay in the darkness each night somehow I feel assured, that no matter how lost I appear,
I am not alone.
Holy hands guard my steps; sacred fingers wipe my tears, touching my lonely heart.
The one who made me, the God that knew me before I was born, hears me every time I call.
He whispers His promises in my ear.
I listen with hope to His voice.

But what I worry about most is that no one wants to look for me.
The fields are vast and there are so many scattered all over the earth.
I wonder how one little child, so lost, can be found?
Yet He calms my heart and assures me He will find you.
That He will make sure that you hear His voice clearly.
He has promised me that he will make a way through the fields,
that He will personally cut a path, and lead you right to my orphanage door.
My prayer is....When He speaks...Please don't forget to listen...
When He calls don't be too afraid to go.
For I am waiting...somewhere, far...far away on the other side of the world to come home.

-Anonymous

__________________________________________________
Praises and Prayer Requests...

Praises!!!!
That God has seen to bless our wonderful friends with approval of their home study. and that more sweet children will now find their forever family!!!
That God is leading our lives. It doesn't matter if it's easy or hard, SOO COOL!
That God provided the funds through some WONDERFUL means to submit our dossier and begin our wait!!!

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests:
*That God’s hand is on the paperwork, that they proceed with not a glitch, getting translated and registered with amazing speed.
*That God brings our newest children home quickly.
*That God blesses us with the funds as we gather them to complete the next step of this process (accepting the referral of the twins when the time comes).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.
*Lastly, that we have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step.
________________________

Also, please join us in prayers for four beautiful Christian families and five sweet children who are facing obstacles above and beyond what a adoption process usually looks like. Governments will literally have to move for these older and special needs children to come home. Families are waiting for them and we are SO excited to see God work in these lives and these governments to bring these adoptive blessings home!

Olivia Mame (Ethiopia)-I would like to ask your prayers for a little sweet young girl in Ethiopia named Olivia Mame. There are some very immense road blocks, serious ones, that have to be conquered in order to finish the adoption of this precious young lady.

Jubilee (China)- A Christian family is struggling through major hurdles with their international adoption from China. Please pray for this family and for the government to move to bring her home.

Daniel (Liberia)-A little one with hydrocephaly awaits his family. Please pray that Daniel does not deteriorate farther and that people in authority to move this case feel the passion to see this through quickly.

Ronaldo and Julia (Guatemala)-For years this family has been trying to get their beautiful future children out of Guatemala. Every time it seems close there is another glitch. Please pray with us. Please pray that EVERY problem is resolved and every piece of paper has the perfection only God can give.

9:43 pm

God's Provision and Dossier Astonishment - Written August 31st, 2009

I want to say the path to this adoption is unusual for us, but it’s not. It’s all about God and all about following His voice. That’s the only way we’ve known adoption. That’s the only way to expand the limits of imagination, of what we can fathom….following Him.

Though our journey is a step we’ve taken previously, it’s far from normal. Two weeks ago Monday we had $2000.00 with much more needed. Today we had over $7000.00 with a smidgen left over to go toward the next stage. Today we watched as God delivered us a small piece of this miracle we call our adoptive journey.

We see God as a God of big miracles. God is also a God that breathes on our every move, blessing us, walking with us. His timing is always perfect. His will is always the ultimate gift.

We want to thank each of you for the prayers we feel covering us. To each that gave so selflessly to bring these little ones home, we long to share with you the joy of holding them. Most of all though, we praise our most glorious Heavenly Father….celebrating and basking in His goodness. Thank you Father….

______________________________

Though our prayers have advanced, we still have a exciting journey ahead of us. We sit in wait now for the referral (pictures and information) on our future children. Would you please join us in prayer for our little ones and this adoptive journey.

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests
*That God’s hand is on the paperwork, that they proceed with not a glitch, getting translated and registered in God’s timing.
*That God blesses us with the funds as we fundraise to complete the next step of this process (accepting the referral of the twins when the time comes).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.
*Lastly, that we have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step.
________________________

Also, please join us in prayers for four beautiful Christian families and five sweet children who are facing obstacles above and beyond what a adoption process usually looks like. Governments will literally have to move for these older and special needs children to come home. Families are waiting for them and we are SO excited to see God work in these lives and these governments to bring these adoptive blessings home!

Olivia Mame (Ethiopia)-I would like to ask your prayers for a little sweet young girl in Ethiopia named Olivia Mame. There are some very immense road blocks, serious ones, that have to be conquered in order to finish the adoption of this precious young lady.

Jubilee (China)- A Christian family is struggling through major hurdles with their international adoption from China. Please pray for this family and for the government to move to bring her home.

Daniel (Liberia)-A little one with hydrocephaly awaits his family. Please pray that Daniel does not deteriorate farther and that people in authority to move this case feel the passion to see this through quickly.

Ronaldo and Julia (Guatemala)-For years this family has been trying to get their beautiful future children out of Guatemala. Every time it seems close there is another glitch. Please pray with us. Please pray that EVERY problem is resolved and every piece of paper has the perfection only God can give

9:40 pm

Praying for Governments to Move - Written August 29th, 2009
I think that I'm seeing a theme in so much of the stories of hardship and of triumph that God is bringing to light in my life recently. So many families are waiting for governments to literally move to bring their adopted blessings home. Some have been fighting for years, some for months. Some adoptive families are fighting to bring their special needs children home. Some families are praying and struggling for their older children or babies to come home. Often in the theme of these very special and personal stories, lies the amazing blessing that God has given. Children are ALWAYS a blessing, but also there is a blessing of Christian families with imprints on their heart waiting for children who they've never met, but are every bit their child. These are imprints that may not be of tiny infant feet, but the "stomping in muddle puddle" prints of a seven year old. All these families are in need of tremendous prayer for the movement of red tape, permission of governments in closed countries and the approval of governments that don't see adoption as a blessing. These stories are on my heart. As we pray and petition in our own adoption, I will be praying long and hard for these other families. I can NOT wait to share with you how these governments move, today, tomorrow, next month, or next year. I will be celebrating and singing with these wonderful families. Here are their prayer requests. Please, as you pray for our adoption, commit with me to pray for these five young ones and their four families waiting to embrace them.

Prayer Request One: Olivia Mame (Ethiopia)-I would like to ask your prayers for a little sweet young girl in Ethiopia named Olivia Mame. There are some road blocks, serious ones that have to be conquered in order to finish the adoption of this precious young lady. Please pray hard for her to come home. PLEASE pray for the government to move (which is what HAS to happen). Please pray God's hands are on this young one and this family until they are united. We know God is moving. You can read about Olivia Mame on Sandee's blog at
http://findingolivia.blogspot.com/2009/08/is-this-hardest-thing-ill-ever-do.html

Prayer Request Two: Jubilee (China)- A Christian family is struggling through major hurdles with their international adoption from China. Certain paperwork on this end is taking a long time to process and the Chinese government has withdrawn their approval of this families adoption of this sweet seven year old. Please pray for this family and for the government to approve the appeal of their decision (reversing it). Here is the blog with more information.
http://aplacecalledsimplicity.blogspot.com/2009/08/would-you-please-pray-andor-fast-with.html

Prayer Request Three: Daniel (Liberia)-A little one with hydrocephaly awaits his family. Please pray that Daniel does not deteriorate farther and that people in authority to move this case feel the passion to see this through quickly. Also, please hold up to God this family and Daniel, for their peace and comfort until they are in each others arms. To read more you can read the following blog....
http://smithsoup.blogspot.com/2009/08/leaning-on-everlasting-arms.html

Prayer Request Four: Ronaldo and Julia (Guatemala)-For more time than you can imagine this family has been trying to get their beautiful future children out of Guatemala. Every time it seems close there is another glitch. Please pray with us. Please pray that EVERY problem is resolved and every piece of paper has the perfection only God can give. Please join us in prayer that Ronaldo and Julia come home to their waiting family soon. Also, again, pray for peace and comfort for all until they arrive in each others arms.
To read more about this journey, please see
http://prayingthemhome.blogspot.com/2009/08/boy-brains.html

_____________________________
Though our requests seem so trivial compared to these stories, please continue to keep our journey in your prayers when you have the opportunity. We feel covered and have found such comfort and peace from God. Thank you for every prayer you've offered up. God is SO astounding and amazing!!!!

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests (Next couple of weeks)
*That God’s hand is on the remaining paperwork and that they proceed with not a glitch, quickly and correctly.
*That God blesses us with the funds to submit the paperwork (dossier) to Ethiopia when the time comes (hopefully within a week).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.
*Lastly, that we have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step
9:39 pm

First Week of Home School and God's Amazing Blessings - Written August 20, 2009

I sat at the home school table and heard a quiet crying from the girls back bedroom. It sounded like Bekah our three year old. It was so sweet and pitiful.
“Bekah honey, what’s wrong?” I asked her as I pulled her into my arms.
Sniff sniff, “I want more homework mommy.”
Oh, the trauma I inflict on my children. I just tried not to laugh and snuggled with her.

I was really concerned…hmmm…concerned isn’t the right word. I was really unsure of how this year would progress home schooling five children. Will the schedule be too intense? Too easy? Would I be stretching myself too thin? Actually, it’s been peaceful and fun. The schedule is working out wonderfully and though I know it needs some tweaking, the routine seems to be working so far. Don’t worry, I’m not saying that out loud (wink).

We are studying the usual Math, English, History, Science, Health and adding Gym and Africa/Ethiopia Studies to it as well. I love that there is so much available on the web to create the Africa curriculum for my younger kids. After not liking…no, detesting Math as a kid, I’ve been surprised how much I enjoy teaching it. I guess after years of trying to stretch the almighty dollar, multiplication is not so bad (smile).

This week we are still gathering funds to send the adoption paperwork (dossier) in. We have been blessed by some wonderful people who have shared with us their desire to help bring our newest blessings home. I’m stunned at the amazing ways God is fulfilling His gift to us. Wow…God is at work on us in ways that we don’t even have the ability to understand yet.

I want to mention yet again how wonderful God had been and IS to us. We don’t deserve Him and the gifts He continues to give. I feel so unworthy. As we see this crack in the door of how these funds will be provided, it amazes us and humbles us.

For those who have been called to pray for our family…
_____________________________________________

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests (Next 1-2 weeks)
*That God’s hand is on the remaining paperwork and that they proceed with not a glitch, quickly and correctly.
*That God blesses us with the funds to submit the paperwork (dossier) to Ethiopia when the time comes (hopefully within a week).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.
*Lastly, that we have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step
Posted by Kat at 6:21 AM 0 comments
9:37 pm

The State Capital and Our Missing (and Found) Three Year Old - Written August, 18th, 2009
2003 was the last time Thomas and I went away together without the children AND that was when we were bringing home Max from Moscow. We have had our “dates” and such, but overnight? Nope, we just haven’t done it.

Sunday we went to our State Capital. Mom kept all five children and Thomas and I had a night at the Holiday Inn. This was a trial run for our current youngest, Bekah (3). She had never spent the night at Grandma’s and will have to for at least a week when we go to Ethiopia. They were all great…not a tear. Mom said every time the phone rang Bekah would say, “That’s mommy!”, but not much else.

That’s without mentioning the fact that Bekah disappeared at about 2am though. Sarah (12) was spending the night in the “play room” with Bekah. Sarah had the top trundle bed and Bekah had the bottom, close to the floor (in case she fell out). Sarah woke up at 2am and Bekah wasn’t in her bed. She checked beside the bed…no Bekah. She wasn’t worried at this point as she figured that Bekah went into grandma. She got up and started looking…no Bekah. She wasn’t in Grandma’s room, the kitchen, bathroom, or anywhere else. Though she started to get really scared, she’s a trooper and didn’t panic. She instead went back to her room to look again, hoping beyond hope that she was just so sleepy and somehow didn’t see Bekah. Nope, Bekah wasn’t there. There was just a pile of covers UNDER the bed. To be safe, Sarah went close and looked at the covers…they looked a little weird. Bekah was wrapped under the covers, under the bed…sound asleep. Sarah, the sweet girl that she is, got her little sister and put her back on the bed. She told Bekah that she still needed to get covers or she would be cold. Bekah immediately started to climb back under the bed to go to sleep. Poor Sarah…

When Bekah woke up in the morning she immediately asked Grandma if she could play under the bed…hmmmm.
______________________________

Back to Thomas and I…

When we arrived the Secretary of State Apostille section, we were sure we’d have to find something to do for a couple of hours, after all we had 25 papers to be certified to be sent to Ethiopia. Everyone else was coming in with one or two…then there was us. We handed our papers over and it actually only took 30 very quick minutes to do all 25. This trip ended up being VERY quick….three and a half hours later, we were home. Ok, so it was more like five since we got turned around.

Anyway, this is to let everyone know that we have completed the next step…the Dossier (paperwork) is ready. We are now just finishing the “gathering of the funds” stage. If you could please join us in prayer for this last Dossier part (funds to accompany), we would really appreciate it. Without mentioning names, thank you so much to our friend that sent funds to aid in this step. It amazed us and encouraged us. We didn't expect it and really appreciated it. We hope to gather enough this week to send in the Dossier quickly. God has and will provide in His time. We are VERY thankful our insanity is not His and never could be (smile). He is SOOO good!

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests (Next 1-2 weeks)
*That God’s hand is on the remaining paperwork and that they proceed with not a glitch, quickly and correctly.
*That God blesses us with the funds to submit the paperwork (dossier) to Ethiopia when the time comes (hopefully within a week).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.
*Lastly, that we have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step
9:35 pm

God's Provision...Today's Prayer - Written August 15, 2009

As we are trying to gather the last minute funds needed for Dossier (paperwork) processing, we continue to live in prayer constantly. It’s funny, I have one side of me that is nervous and anxious (not in the optimum way) and another side of me that is so excited and can’t wait to see how God does this. He is just SO cool and it’s neat seeing Him work in our lives. Yes, there is a little trepidation, but we know God is in control and he has introduced us to our future children and placed their footprints right across our hearts. Today Thomas will attempt to sell a couple things to start bringing in the funds. I still have to focus mainly on home school, which starts on Monday. God has got this though and Thomas will work for Him to gather the last $4,700 for this part of our journey. Can you please continue to pray with us as we rejoice at God’s provision and ask Him for continued blessings financially (specifically this last $4,700 for this part of the process). He has been blessing us so richly.

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests (Next 1-2 weeks)
*That God’s hand is on the remaining paperwork and that they proceed with not a glitch, quickly and correctly.
*That God blesses us with the funds to submit the paperwork (dossier) to Ethiopia when the time comes (hopefully in about a week).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.
*Lastly, that we have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step

9:23 pm

Adoption Prayer Requests - Written August 14th, 2009

We are down to the wire in some ways :). All we need is the funds to be gathered to send with our paperwork (for this step in the adoption process). Please pray for the funds to pour in the next couple of days! We know this is all in God's hands and His timing and for that we are very thankful.

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests (Next 1-2 weeks)
*That God’s hand is on the remaining paperwork and that they proceed with not a glitch, quickly and correctly.
*That God blesses us with the funds to submit the paperwork (dossier) to Ethiopia when the time comes (hopefully in about a week).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.
*Lastly, that we have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step.

9:21 pm

IMMIGRATION APPROVAL!!!! - Written August 13, 2009

I woke up this morning super motivated. I was creating a home school curriculum on Africa/Ethiopia/Amharic today. There’s so much on the internet that I knew I could find what I needed. After hours of work, 18 weeks (1/2 year) of curriculum was created for my younger children. I felt productive! I felt hopeful!

Then a mini bomb hit. Some money we were counting on to help with the submitting of the dossier fell through. $1,500.00 in the over all scope of the adoption process is not much, but since funds are due at each step….$6,700.00 this time…well, this hurt. In tears I prayed. I prayed knowing that God would provide, but (yet again) letting my humanness flourish. I felt discouraged and challenged. Where the discouragement came from is obvious. I felt challenged because I have to see what I can’t see…the funds that will come. I seem to remember a verse about that…it has something to do with faith (smile).

I had to step away from my wallowing momentarily to pick up my oldest at football practice. He’s a blast to watch…all the kids are. We swung by Walgreens on the way home…scrounging around for enough spare change to grab some printer paper (a result of my Africa curriculum insanity). Our home (and air conditioning) awaited….

Even with a Suburban our car looks a tad like a clown car when we are unloading. Everyone stopped to retrieve this or that, items that just couldn’t be forgotten. I wish they’d do a little more of that (with the life forms created at the bottom of sippy cups that are left in there).

Of course as we settle in to relax (Lol lol lol…relax?! This close to the school year?! I made a funny!), I realized that I forgot my drink in the car. My wonderful oldest met the mailman out in front. That is when my day went from amazing lows to amazing highs. Today we received our immigration approval for two children under the age of two. EVERYTHING was perfect on the form. I don’t think I have seen a more beautiful looking piece of paper EVER. It took EXACTLY 14 days including the day we were fingerprinted!

What this means….as soon as the funds are gathered we can put everything together and send it to Ethiopia where we will be placed on the official waiting list!!!!!!

This is so very very good!

______________________________________________________

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests (Next 1-2 weeks)
*That God’s hand is on the remaining paperwork and that they proceed with not a glitch, quickly and correctly.
*That God blesses us with the funds to submit the paperwork (dossier) to Ethiopia when the time comes (hopefully in about a week).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.
*Lastly, that we have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step

9:20 pm

The Financial Aspect of Adoption - Written August 5th, 2009

Adoption is such a wonderful and beautiful journey. It is a journey powered by God. If God’s power wasn’t behind it, we’d never make it through the paperwork, red tape, endless wait and general adoption craziness. Yet, after waiting months or years to meet your little one…in that second…that second you hold them for the first time, that second they reach for you for the first time, or that second you get a glimpse of them for the first time….in that second ALL craziness fades to the background and it is all worth it.

Yet some never make it to that second. That second lies down a dark tunnel that many (especially in today’s economy) fear to tread. The financial aspect of adoption is daunting for most and down right frightening for many. Some look at it as insurmountable…and that second fades into the distance.

The financial obstacles of adoption can be breathtaking. The race you run to attain the funds and bring your child home can test anyone’s endurance.

An average International Adoption (including travel) can cost anywhere from approximately $20,000 to $50,000. These are not funds anyone drops lightly. Many adoptive parents have to fund raise to bring their children home. This is getting to be the norm instead of the exception. The thing is that for every family that says, “It’s too expensive” one child remains in an orphanage and without someone to cherish them.

This is a mixed kettle of fish. On one hand when the money isn’t there, how do you proceed? On the other hand, if you choose not to proceed, a child waits.

This is what it comes down to…faith.

“Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.” Hebrews 11:1

….faith that God called you to this child ….faith that God called you to adoption…. and faith that God will provide.

Even when you know you are called your faith may waiver, sadly. It’s easy after a period of time to forget that absolute knowledge of what God wanted you to do. I know this from personal experience. Remembering is what is necessary though, God will not lead and not provide. It may not be as is planned, but I love that we cannot put God and His plans inside a box.

I want to encourage all the adoptive parents out there to cling to our ever loving and ever providing God. He does not give up on you DO NOT give up on Him…He is, was, and always will be. There are times when we are tired, discouraged, and emotionally drained…God does not disappear…..He just has different timing than we do.

I also want to encourage (and say thank you personally) to all those who have helped bring families together. You are making a difference. You are helping to bring orphans into the arms of family. You are allowing God to use you to bring hope to the hopeless (which sometimes includes adoptive families).

Lastly, I want to say thank you to God who makes all things possible…even something tedious like money.

__________________________________________

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests (Next 3 weeks)
*That God’s hand is on the remaining fingerprints and paperwork and that they proceed with not a glitch, quickly and correctly.
*That God blesses us with the funds to submit the paperwork (dossier) to Ethiopia when the time comes (hopefully only 3-4 weeks).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.
*Lastly, that we have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step.

9:19 pm

Fingerprinting, Hydroplaning, and Tortillas - Written July 30th, 2009

Ok, so we aren’t often without the kids. We couldn’t bring them to the fingerprint appointment though, so there we were all alone. Yes, this sounds like a line from some warped romance novel. Forget the romance though, Thomas and I get goofy. Laughter, for some amazing reason, is one of the key elements in Thomas and I’s relationship. So here we are, going to get our fingerprints for the adoption of our twins….and we are so goofy and obnoxious. I really think that people most likely were just thinking, “How can they be laughing so much first thing in the morning.” That’s just Thomas and I.

We got up at 6:00am (insane for us during the summer) to a torrential down pour. Seriously…it looked like the heavens opened up and someone had a giant bucket. It wasn’t separate droplets, but a sheet of water. I was glad that I had confidence God would not flood the earth again. The rain eased and we carted four of our wonderful (and wet) blessings off to grandma’s (another blessing). Tom’s ,14 now, and would rather sleep (though he loves his grandma…she’s the bomb!).

We wandered the back roads into our large metropolitan city. Rounding the corners slowly, we felt the tires slide. It was kinda fun, must be what drifting feels like (which I would LOVE to purposely experience), but for about 60 seconds I didn’t breathe. Thomas was so cool though, “Wow” was all he said calmly. He used his super powers (to stay so calm he must have) and got us on firm ground with a lot of traction.

We parked for awhile and Thomas found much joy in feeding the birds a tortilla (don’t ask where it came from). They would dip the tortilla in muddy puddles and eat it (they did this with the bugs too…yum…makes me hungry). Thomas was trying to be so nice giving them tortilla’s to make bug tacos. Either that or he was enjoying pelting me with tortilla’s which he SAID was an accident.

We made it to the fingerprinting in one piece…though the constant giggling, laughter, and jokes made everyone wonder if we were going to pieces. The large building was practically empty and everyone was SO nice! They had those biometric scanners that will pass or fail your fingerprints instantly, so I think we’re ok. I am SO glad that’s over.

Brilliant me though, asked our local adoption group how long it took for them to get their approval . All the most recent ones had the approval come back in about 2 weeks. Now I’m a tad freaked. Yes, I know I shouldn’t be. We are following God on this. He will provide the next payment that needs to be included with the dossier. It’s just a little daunting. It’s the second larger amount we need to send (a little over $6000). I have TOTAL faith that God will provide, but my human nature comes to the forefront.

So, as I sit here tonight, I ask for more prayers. That I don’t let my humanity creep in and that we follow this adoption with peaceful hearts. Thank you all for your prayers. They mean so much. Please understand that we have lived in and seen blessing after blessing in our adoptions. In the past we’ve had paperwork that was supposed to take four months, take two weeks. In previous adoptions we’ve had the last $100 we needed come in the mail right when it was due. We’ve had one adoption that was supposed to take 12 months, take six and another adoption that was supposed to take 18 months, take 9. Prayers have aided miracles in our lives.

Today’s Adoption Prayer Request:
Please Pray…
Help us to have peace and not stress, trusting God in every step.

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests (Next 3 weeks)
*That God’s hand is on the remaining fingerprints and paperwork and that they proceed with not a glitch, quickly and correctly.
*That God blesses us with the funds to submit the paperwork (dossier) to Ethiopia when the time comes (hopefully only 3-4 weeks).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.

9:18 pm

Mini Adoption Update and Prayer Requests - Written July 29th, 2009

Thomas and I feel so blessed to have so many friends and family excited and concerned about our adoption process. We’ve recently received many questions as to what’s going on in our newest journey to bring home our twins. I thought I’d set down today and share what little we have at this point.

As many of you know, the adoption journey is filled with “Hurry! Hurry! Hurry!” and “Wait! Wait! Wait!”. “Hurry up and wait” was a phrase (I believe) created for the adoption process. I smile when I say that because it is in God’s hands (of which we are SO thankful!).

Tomorrow is our long awaited fingerprinting date for USCIS. This is US Citizenship and Immigration Services (I always want to say “NCIS”, but since that’s a crime drama….). We are praying that the fingerprints are acceptable the first time since many we know had to re-fingerprint numerous times. Once our fingerprints are accepted, we await the immigration approval for the twins to enter the country. Once the approval occurs we take our stack of paperwork to our state capital to be certified. Next (which is HUGE) we send our paperwork to Ethiopia to be registered. All of these steps have been known to have a snag occasionally, but our hopes/prayers are that everything goes without a hitch.

Immediate Adoption Process Prayer Requests
*That God’s hand is on the remaining fingerprints and paperwork and that they proceed with not a glitch, quickly and correctly.
*That God blesses us with the funds to submit the paperwork (dossier) to Ethiopia when the time comes (hopefully only 3-4 weeks).

All Adoption Prayer Requests:
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.

9:16 pm

Breakdowns, Root Canals, Smoke, and Bleach - Written July 17th, 2009

So I’ve officially ventured into a well known avenue called insanity. I’m sorry dear (normal) friends, but I had to go…insanity beckoned. You all know how completely normal I am, right? (My husband now walks out of the room shaking his head).

It has been an interesting week. It’s been full of, well…surprises I didn’t expect.

First I woke up not being able to breathe last Thursday because I was throwing up (I know you all needed to know that and your lives are now fulfilled). I survived and God used this time to show me some things I wasn't seeing (more later).

Then, last night I had my routine, “freaking out over finances during an adoption process.” I wasn’t going to have it this time. I don’t freak a ton over money. I figured if I told myself I wouldn’t freak out during this adoption enough times, it might actually be true (ha ha). I really was at peace for a long time. Satan worked on me this week though and in my humanity I let him. You would think that by now, after two complete adoptions, that I would know without a doubt that God has my back (front, side, upside down, and inside out). He is so good to me and has such patience I sometimes wonder when I am going to learn to trust God. I do, but something is obviously lacking at times when I let things get to me that God has under control. Finances during any adoption can be daunting…are daunting. Yet God let us know he has another two beautiful blessings for us. I don’t think a little thing like money will get in the way.

One of the biggest surprises this week happened when I was referred for a root canal by my AWESOME dentist (PROPS Dr. Berry!). I walked into the specialists office this morning thinking that he would just take a look….BUT NO…this doctor was proactive. He strapped me to the chair…the restraints biting into my flesh (ok, there were no restraints, but it sounded so dramatic). He tipped me back, took a very cool digital x-ray that appeared immediately on the computer (I’m easily entertained), and said, “We have time to do this now!” He said it like it was a good thing! Really? Really!

He put this “jaw prop-er” into my mouth (don’t you love MY English language) and then this form that looked like a popped balloon made into a square and maneuvered it into my mouth. He said they put that in so they didn’t accidently drop these GIANT spikes (that he proceeded to show me) down my throat. I’m thinkin’ that was a very thoughtful thing to do.

Needles don’t phase me, even the long curved ones that you think only exist in horror movies (think again). As he plunged this into my gums I felt a tiny sting. Then the next time he had to maneuver it a tad while STILL IN MY GUMS. This was going to be fun!

I lay there, praying for the doctor…ok, seriously…nothing focuses my mind like prayer, I smell a wonderful burning smell of the drill digging into the “guts” of my tooth. What was that bleach smell? I still don’t know!

I had to laugh (mentally, I wasn’t going to laugh out loud for fear of the restraints ;-)) when he said, “This looks GREAT!”. I thought to myself, “Yes, I often have people tell me my teeth ‘guts’ look hot hot hot!

Unfortunately, the first shots didn’t quite cut it (that’ll teach me to let a broken back tooth go for so long). After a total of eight shots, I find that apparently they had to trim back my gums which were growing over the broken tooth (thus gingivectomy). THEY TRIMMED MY FLESH!

I’m home now. The pain is settling a little, but I have five children…this is nothing!

I’m gonna settle down with a Vicadin soon so that I can sleep. Hey…are these colors supposed to be talking to me?

________________________________________________________

*All references to the dental specialist are a tad melodramatic, true, but coming from a person that would rather…ummm…fall down a flight of stairs than get a root canal. He was a good guy that had to put up with a patient that was a tad bit of a big baby!
________________________________________________________

On a serious note...
Please continue to pray with us as we bring our twins home from Ethiopia...
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Currently we are in the paperwork stage in which many issues can occur. Please pray that God has His hand on our paperwork and that it gets done and processed quickly and correctly.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.

9:15 pm

Clowns (AHHHH!) and Trusting God - Written June 24th, 2009

I feel like the two sides of a coin today. I feel kind of like the clown ( and I HATE clowns) with half my face happy and half sad (really it would be a stressed face, but I’m not sure what “stressed” would look like on a clown). A feeling of being overwhelmed has hit me today.

The first reaction of some will be, “And your adopting two more?”. It doesn’t have a whole lot to do with the children directly. I am stressed over something that I am almost never stressed over…money.

A couple extra expenses presented themselves and I’m at a loss how to proceed. It’s not adoption related, but life related. It’s an expense that is normally an easy fix in a typical year. This isn’t a typical year. Stop laughing that I said ANYTHING about our family is typical.

Any prayers are greatly appreciated.

On the “happy” side of the clown, our paperwork from California (that was supposed to take a long time) came in yesterday. We had only sent it off just a couple of weeks ago and here it sits in our hands complete. Also, USCIS (Immigration) paperwork went out today. This is one of the final steps that allows us to complete the paperwork that goes to Ethiopia. This is a waiting step. We wait for an invitation to go get fingerprints and we then wait for paperwork that says we are approved. This CAN be a long wait…we are praying (very literally) it’s a short one.

So you see why I feel a little like the two faced clown (those guys are just scary).

In all this stress, God spoke to me through a puppet (come on, you always knew I was weird). As I sat at VBS yesterday, I heard the kids youth minister talking to a puppet. Yes, there was an audience…I don’t believe he does that alone very often anymore :). They chatted about how walking around the walls of Jericho seemed like a silly thing to do and sometimes things God tells you to do may seem silly to others, BUT when we listen to God He brings the walls down. A goofy puppet and a hilarious Youth minister spoke to me through a skit to teach children. God has and will bring the walls down for all of us….we just need to listen, act, and trust Him.

_______________________________________________

Please continue to pray with us as we bring our twins home from Ethiopia...
Please Pray…..
*For these little ones God has chosen to place in our family…for their physical and emotional health in a difficult place.
*For their biological family…that God has His hand on them and brings them peace in whatever they must face.
*That God has His hand on this adoption, guiding us, bringing peace, and financially providing. That the funds pour in like water in a surge of blessing.
*Currently we are in the paperwork stage in which many issues can occur. Please pray that God has His hand on our paperwork and that it gets done and processed quickly and correctly.
*Last, though it may seem a bit premature, please specifically pray that once we are referred our little ones, that they come home quickly and pass court the first time (many are starting to have multiple court dates and a LONG wait until travel). The Ethiopian government is being very cautious and caring with their wonderful children though and for that we are so thankful.

9:12 pm


Archive Newer | Older

“Religion that God our Father Accepts as pure and Faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world” James 1:27 (NIV)

This site  The Web