Next steps
So you ask, "What is the next step?"
A meeting by phone or in person - During this
meeting, you'll have an opportunity to get to know me to help you decide if you want to use me on your special day. This call
can be as short or long as it needs to be to answer your questions about me.
If we are able to meet in person, it will usually be on the weekends or if you are in the Southern
New Jersey area we may meet on a weeknight evening. The meeting typically lasts about an hour or so. I will explain
the basic ceremony outline I typically use. You can modify that ceremony, combine it with one of your own, or develop one
that is unique to your desires. I then put together your own unique ceremony on paper, checking to ensure that the ceremony
flows smoothly throughout.
Sometimes schedules make it difficult to meet in person the first time and a longer phone call will give you the comfort
to book the date. Then, we can meet when schedules cross to discuss the ceremony in full and make any decisions not made during
the phone call. The idea here is to have flexibility, making the officiant shopping process painless where possible!
If you like what you hear, you book me -
You
will secure the day and time of your choice by placing a $100 deposit. This makes it possible for me to turn away others
who may ask for the same date and time.
Follow-up contact - Two weeks before the wedding - At least two weeks before the
wedding, you'll need to send me your license and fee balance. I will complete your certificate and prepare the other parts
for submission after the ceremony. By doing this, we get all the paperwork out of the way so that on your wedding day, we
can focus solely on the ceremony.
Day of the wedding - I arrive at the wedding location
approximately an hour before the ceremony so that I can run through highlights of what to do with the bride and the groom,
brides maids/matrons, groomsmen, musicians, and photographer. I will also meet with your readers, father of the
bride, best man, and any others who need last minute reminders of the few cues they each will have.