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Safe , Sane and Consentual

I have been using the word consent a lot , but I cannot over use it.

One perennial topic in the community is 'Safe , Sane and Consentual'

Safe - Make sure that what you are doing is safe for all parties involved. No one should go beyond their comfort zone. Also there should be no mortal danger or permanent physical damage. The risk of any infection must be minimal. Care must be taken to avoid physical or mental harm.

Sane - make sure that what you are doing is not over the top or just plain stupid.

Consentual - All parties involved must give consent and must be capable of giving knowledgable consent when they do.

If this credo is not followed an act that is loving can become ugly and quite frankly would be abuse. So do I believe in SSC? SSC's history dates back to 1983. I started into B&D in 1963!! So I believe in Safety, Expericence and Common Sense , not as a creed but a way of life!

 What is a Fetish?

      So what is a Fetish? He has become conditioned to a particular piece of clothing , he may become so conditioned that he must have this article worn during or prior to sexual relationships. Many fetishists are unable to function unless this piece of  attire is present.
   
   The word fetish was first used to describe an amulet or similar object of relgious veneration. The word later went though transformation by the Portugese and was brought home by adventerers who encountered these symbols during their voyages to Africa and other parts of the ancient Roman Empire.
   " Mistress Michelle was dressed in LEATHER , she looked into my eyes, she didnt say a word!!! I immediately fell to my knees , KISSING her boots!"
 
  Websters's says it is , "the compulsive use of some object or part of the body as a stimulus in the course of attainment of sexual gratification. "
   A fetishism develops as a result of the libido at some stage of development. In most cases, the fetish are able to recall associations in childhood of a early sexual arousal with specific expericences that brought into a sexual focus a particular object.
   Is fetish harmful? In most cases no! Almost everyone has some type of fetishism and if you do not , then you are one of the very few. It is only harmful when the fetish becomes the center of sexual libido.
   Since fetishism is a neurosis it can be elimiated with proper treatment. Disclosing the original expericence of the episode that changed the libido does not by itself nescarrily effect a cure. If  the condition has persisted for a long time , it may require intensive psyhotherapy and re-education.
   The only problem being some do not know when their fetishism has become harmful! And if some did , would they want to cure themselves? I myself do not let my fetishes overcome me, I work with them. This is solid sexual adjustment when you do. Mistress Michelle

My Videos..

 1) The Subjugation of Eve.
 2) Slave Therapy
 3) The Piercing of Jamie
 4) The Bizarre World of Mistress Michelle
 5) Pins & Needles
 6) A Night at HellFire
 7) Leather and Lace
 8) Obey My Command
 9) Bondage File 501

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