We are all many of us looking to improve our lives.  We want to feel fulfilled.  We want to live not just exist.  Achieving this end is actually not a material process.  To improve our lives we have to improve ourselves.  We have to go to the source of life, the real life.  It is not flesh.  Imagine your clothes telling you what to do?  If your outfit has been dictating, it is time to take charge.  Put it back in the closet and emerge to live in Christ.