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February 17, 2009
Second Saturday Seminar Our Second Saturday Seminar series continues this Saturday, 2/21, at 5:30 pm at
ICOH. Chris Comer, a hospice caregiver, will discuss health care issues of vital importance to us now and in the future.
A limited number of copies of "Five Wishes" will be available free of charge. This publication walks you through the
steps necessary to make your own health care decisions for use by the person who you choose to make health care decisions
for you when you are not able to make those decisions yourself. All are strongly encouraged to attend this informative
and timely discussion. Ash Wednesday There will be a joint Dignity Washington/St. Margaret's Ash
Wednesday service on 2/25 at St. Margaret's at 6:30 pm. If anyone has any old palm that they want to dispose of, they
can bring it to church this Saturday. The palm will be given to DW to turn into ash to be used on Ash Wednesday. DW's
St. Joseph's Day Dinner DW's 2009 St. Joseph's Dinner will be on Saturday, 3/14, at All Souls Episcopal Church
in Washington starting at 7:30pm. AGLCA Events There is a Leadership Presentation on
Sunday, 2/22, 5pm-7pm. The monthly AGLCA Game Night is on Saturday, 2/28th from 7pm-midnight. Please
RSVP to raknova@aol.com for directions to the game site. Ms Pat will be the ivory keys at the First Tuesday Social being held at the
Morrison House on March 3rd. See www.aglca.org for more info. Easter Triduum The liturgy committees of DW and D/ NoVa met to plan for our mutual
celebration of the Triduum feasts of Holy Week. All services start at 8:00 pm. As in the past, Holy Thursday and
the Easter Vigil will be at ICOH. On Good Friday, there will be a lay lead service at St. Margaret's. Women presiders
are needed for this service. There is also need for greeters and readers and Eucharistic Ministers and others
to help with the Triduum services. Please contact Harry B. if you would like to participate in these Holy Week services.
Your help is most necessary. The committee wants to extend an invitation to anyone who wishes to join the choir
for these liturgies and to sing along. Silvio (DC chapter) will also be coordinating all the music for these liturgies.
Accompanists from both communities are invited to come forward and to participate in the planning and in the production of
the music for these liturgies. Contact Silvio at silvster72@yahoo.com if you are interested. Following the Easter Vigil mass, we will be having our annual dessert social in the church
hall. Please bring something a little sweet to share. And please bring an Easter Lily to decorate the church. Dignity
USA As part of their publication "Dateline", D/USA is seeking news of a recent event or an upcoming event that
would be of interest to the nationwide DigntiyUSA readership Short articles and photos are very much welcomed.
Also, if there are individual chapter members who are celebrating major anniversaries, an addition to the family, passages,
etc., please make sure they are acknowledged in the "Transitions" section of the Dateline. Please contact Leo
N. Egashira, Publications Committee Chair, DignityUSA Board of Directors, (Dignity/Seattle), Legashira@yahoo.com 206/723-4759 for further information.
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February 14, 2009
FYI.....from the Washington Blade Friday, February 13, 2009
Obituary
Rev. Paul Murray, 61
Rev. Paul Murray, a gay Roman Catholic chaplain, professor and writer, died Jan. 30 in Tivoli, N.Y., of a systemic infection,
according to his friend, Stephen McDonnell. Murray was 61.
Murray was born Aug. 4, 1947, in Arlington, Va. He was the author of "Life in Paradox: The Story of a Gay Catholic Priest,"
a memoir published in 2008. The book detailed his life story, from growing up in Arlington as a politically conservative Episcopalian
to his conversion into the Roman Catholic Church. "Life in Paradox" also recounted his ordination in the Archdiocese of Washington
and his coming out as gay.
Murray was the founder and executive director of Among Friends, a D.C. facility that offered transitional housing, counseling
and job-search support to gay persons in crisis.
He also served Dignity Washington, a gay Christian community, as a presiding priest for at least the past two decades,
according to Dignity Washington's office manager, Rick Lynch.
In 1998, Murray became a Roman Catholic chaplain and visiting assistant professor of religion at Bard College. Murray
graduated from the college in 1971, according to a statement from Leon Botstein, Bard College president.
Murray is survived by his mother, Verna Murray of Arlington, Va.; his sister, Rebecca Burns of Alexandria, Va.; and two
nieces. A funeral Mass will take place at St. Stephen Martyr Church, 2436 Pennsylvania Ave., N.W., Saturday at 10:30 a.m.
JAMES WORSDALE
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For those of you who are not on the DW mailing list and/or may not otherwise be aware, we wanted to advise you that Father
Paul, a long time member and presider at DW, passed away recently. Please find below a copy of the notice from the paper
and a coy of the information from Bard College.
FROM THE WASHINGTON POST:
Paul E. Murray
MURRAY The Rev.
PAUL EDWARD MURRAY, PhD. On Saturday, January 31, 2009 The Rev. Paul Edward Murray, PhD. of Tivoli, New York. Son of Verna
H. Murray and the late H. Paul Murray. Brother of Rebecca (Robert) Burns.
He is also survived by his nieces Julia (Brandon)
Warga and Jennifer Glynn and a host of many friends. Friends may call at the Arlington Funeral Home, 3901 N. Fairfax Dr.,
Arlington, VA on Friday, February 13, 2009 from 6 to 8 p.m. A mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Saturday, February
14, 2009 at 10:30 a.m. in St. Stephen-Martyr Catholic Church, 2436 Pennsylvania Ave., NW, Washington DC. Interment to follow
in Oakwood Cemetery, Falls Church, VA. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions maybe made to the Bard Chapel
Pastoral
Fund, Bard College, PO Box 5000, Annandale-on-Hudson, NY
12504.
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To
the Bard College Community:
I have the sad duty to inform you that Father Paul Edward Murray '71, our Roman Catholic
chaplain and visiting assistant professor of religion, died suddenly at his home in Tivoli on Friday evening.
Author of
the recent memoir Life in Paradox: The Story of a Gay Catholic Priest, Father Murray engaged theological truth with courage
and faith. Before returning to Bard in 1998, Paul was the founder and executive director of Among Friends, Inc., and engaged
in pastoral ministry in the Archdiocese of Washington, D.C. He received his Ph.D. in anthropology from the Catholic University
of America. Paul was a loyal and devoted alumnus, a caring and kind teacher, and a much loved
priest.
The Chaplaincy
is making arrangements for a memorial service that will be held on campus later in the semester. The community is invited
to join the Religion Colloquium today, Monday, February 2, at 5:30 in Olin 205.
On behalf of everyone in the Bard community,
I send heartfelt
condolences to his family.
Leon Botstein
Bard College President
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February 4, 2009
Greetings,
St. Blaise
Yesterday was the feast of St. Blaise, the day when we, as Catholics, participate in the beautiful tradition of having
our throats blessed. To do this, the priest consecrates two candles, generally by a prayer, and then holds each in a crossed
position on the throat of the person being blessed. At the same time the following blessing is given: "Through the intercession
of Saint Blaise, bishop and martyr, may God deliver you from ailments of the throat and from every other evil. In the name
of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen." St. Blaise, a physician and bishop, asked God to cure a child
who was choking to death on a fish bone and the child's life was saved. Thus, St. Blaise is the patron saint of healthy throats.
In honor of St. Blaise day, we will have a throat blessing after mass this Saturday.
Teaching Our Faith
The liturgical calendar, which starts with the First Sunday of Advent, is broken up into five seasons: Advent, Christmas,
Lent, Easter and Ordinary Time. The weeks of Ordinary Time, though far from ordinary, do not celebrate a specific mystery
of Christ (like Sundays of the other seasons), but rather are devoted to the mystery of Christ in all its fullness.
This season lasts for 33 or 34 weeks and is found between the seasons of Christmas and Lent, and again between Easter and
Advent.
During Ordinary Time, we celebrate the Feast of the Presentation of the Lord
on February 2. This feast is celebrated to commemorate the circumcision of Jesus as well as his dedication to God according
to the Law of Moses. It is celebrated forty days from the date of Christmas because in Jewish custom, a woman was unclean
after childbirth and could not enter the Temple until a period of purification happened. Mary and Joseph presented Jesus
to the priests of the Temple dedicating him to God. Simeon, an old man who prayed at the temple day and night, recognized
that Jesus was the one that would redeem Israel. His prayer became what is known as the Canticle of Simeon and
is prayed during night prayer by priests, religious, and some of the faithful. "Lord, now let your servant go in peace;
your word has been fulfilled: my own eyes have seen the salvation which you have prepared in the sight of every people: a
light to reveal you to the nations and the glory of your people Israel." Before the reforms of the Second Vatican Council,
February 2 was known as Candlemas, which used to conclude the season of Christmas and Epiphany. Priests bless beeswax
candles on this day for use in both churches and homes throughout the entire year.
Ordinary Time ends with the secular celebration of Mardi Gras. This
celebration offers one last party before the penitential season of Lent begins on Ash Wednesday (February 25 this year).
Ash Wednesday is named for the ashes that are placed on the forehead in the shape of a cross. The ashes are the result
of burning the dried palm branches from Palm Sunday of last year. The Season of Lent lasts from Ash Wednesday to the
evening Mass of the Lord's Supper on Holy Thursday. Throughout this penitential season, we, as Catholic Christians, are challenged
by three Lenten tenets: prayer, fasting, and almsgiving. As we approach Lent, how are you going to increase your prayer
life, fast from things that may not be the best for you, and how will you give to the poor?.................................................(Thanks
to M. Scheeser of DW)
DW Valentine's Day Potluck Dinner
The next DW potluck will be on Saturday, 2/14, in the party room at 1016
S. Wayne St. in Arlington near Columbia Pike. All are invited. Please bring a main dish, a side dish, a beverage,
or a dessert.
Tax Letters
Tax letters with information concerning the amount of contributions to
D/NoVA during 2008 have been given or mailed to all who contributed by check. If you did not receive a letter or if
you have any questions about the letter you received, please respond to this email or contact out treasurer, David L.
Dignity NoVA is a 501 (c) 3 tax exempt organization and as such, contributions
of cash and contributions in kind to D/NoVA are fully deductible as provided by law except that contributions of time are
not deductible.
Financial Report
2008 D/NoVA FINANCIAL STATEMENT
January 1, 2008 through December 31, 2008
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General Fund |
Belle Fund |
Total |
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Balance 1/1/2008 |
9681.1 |
4492 |
14173.1 |
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Income 2008 |
14156.85 |
1552* |
15708.85 |
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Expenses
2008 |
16518.84* |
752 |
17270.84 |
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Balance 12/31/2008 |
7319.11 |
5292 |
12611.11 |
*1,200 was transferred from the General Revenue Fund to the Belle
Fund
While
our attendance seems to be holding up, our finances continue to deteriorate. We are spending more than we receive. On average,
we spend over $300 per week, but we are taking in less than $200 per week. Fortunately, as of 1/1/2009, we had $12,611.11
in the bank. $7,000 of this amount is in a CD paying 2.55% due 7/12/2009.
|
TRENDS
Balance as of 01/01/2007
17,167.18
Balance as of 01/01/2008 14,173.10
Balance as of 01/01/2009
12,611.11 |
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January 10, 2009
Greetings!
Happy New Year! We start the new year with a busy schedule this
coming Saturday, 1/10,
at ICOH.
At 4:15 pm, the new board of directors will hold their first meeting
of the year. Several important
issues are to be discussed including
our liturgical and other plans for 2009, a financial report for 2008,
and a budget
for 2009. All are welcome and encouraged to attend this
meeting to give advice and support to the board.
We
are most delighted to welcome Sister Jeannine Gramick to our Second
Saturday Seminar series. Sister Jeannine's topic
is "Journey of the
Three Queens: Where We've Been, Where We are Now and Where We're
Going." This will start promptly
at 5:30 pm.
At 6:30 pm, please join us for our regular liturgy celebrating the
Baptism of the Lord.
Following
mass, we are planning a group dinner at a local restaurant.
Hope to see you this Saturday.
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December
25, 2008
Merry
Christmas
The President and Board of Directors of Dignity Northern Virginia welcome you to our
Christmas Eve mass. We extend to you and your families the peace and love and hope that our new born Savior brings into our
world and into our lives this night.
Please help us continue the celebration by joining us in the social hall immediately
following mass for a sweets party. All are most welcomed and encouraged to attend.
Christmas
Day
D/Washington will sponsor a mass on 12/25 at 6:00pm at St. Margaret's.
Upcoming
Events
The Feast of the Holy Family will be celebrated at D/NoVA this Saturday at 6:30 PM
at ICOH, and on Sunday at DW at St. Margaret's at 6:00 PM.
On Thursday, January 1, 2009, DW will sponsor a mass to celebrate the Feast of Mary,
Mother of God, at the Dignity Center at 7:30 PM.
Our new Board of Directors take office on January 1, 2009. Many thanks to our current
board members who have given generously of their time and talent to keep our organization operating. We will have our regular
liturgy with installation and blessing of our new board of directors on Saturday, January 3, 2009 at 6:30 PM at ICOH.
Dignity
Northern Virginia's Web Site
Please be sure to regularly check out our web site at: dignitynova.org There you can
find copies of our Bulletins, links to other interesting web sites, a calendar of events, interesting reflections on issues
of pertinence to our community, and a wealth of other information. If you have any links or other information which you think
should be added to our web site, please let David L know.
Thanks
No doubt, your mailbox is filled with request for year end donations from many worthy
organizations whose needs may be more acute this year than in the past. And of course, it is our hope that you will be as
generous as possible to help sustain the faith community of D/NoVA. In 2008, our expenses of almost $17,000 have exceeded
our income by almost $4,000. However, we still very blessed to have over $11,000 in the bank to help sustain us over the year
ahead. As the New Year approaches, instead of making a special year end plea to help restore our dwindling funds, we simply
ask you to please accept our heartfelt thanks for all you have done this past year for D/NoVA and our warmest wishes for the
holidays. ____________________________________
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December 22, 2008
COME HOME FOR CHRISTMAS
Please join us this Wednesday evening at 8:00 PM at ICOH for our Christmas Eve mass.
If possible, please bring a poinsettia to help decorate the church and some sweets to share for our dessert social which follows
mass. All of your friends and family are most welcome to join us as we celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus
Christ.
As we celebrate this holy season we want to take note of our musicians who support and assist us in
an extraordinary manner as we pray. While the celebration of any liturgy is dependent upon so many people - the presider,
the congregation, the musicians, the lectors and acolytes and many others - our singing is essential to the nature of liturgy
as well as to the effect the sacred rites have on us.
As of January 1st our musical accompanist's roster will
change a bit. Gene remains our mainstay, and we are grateful to him for his cheery spirit, his time and many talents - and
his willingness to step in in emergency situations.
Greg C. takes his leave from us. We express or heartfelt
gratitude to him for his years of service to us. We hope that he will not be a stranger to our community in the future, and
we wish him well in his many musical commitments.
We welcome Ted G. as a new member of our musical cadre. Ted
is a graduate of the Cincinnati College-Conservatory of Music with a degree in organ and music education. He possesses a Master
of Church Music degree from the College of Church Musicians at the Washington National Cathedral. He has - and continues to
accompany - congregations at Christ Church in Alexandra, the Beth El Hebrew Congregation, the Fort Myer Old Post Chapel, St.
Mary's Church in Old Town and the First Church of Christ, Scientist in Alexandria.
We offer a hearty welcome
to Ted and we hope that you will engage him in welcoming conversation when you see him.
We also welcome Russell
Z., a member of the Dignity Washington community, who will accompany our community on his guitar, as may a member of many
years, Susan K.
Welcome, and a happy and fruitful musical year to one and all!
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December 14, 2008
Here is our schedule for the holiday season including services at Dignity Washington
Sat 12/13 3rd Sunday of Advent with Anointing service at ICOH at 6:30 PM
Sun 12/14 3rd Sunday of Advent with Reconciliation service at St. Margaret's at 6:00 PM
Sat 12/20 4th Sunday of Advent at ICOH at 6:30 PM
Sun 12/21 4th Sunday of Advent at St. Margaret's at 6:00 PM
Wed 12/24 Christmas Eve Mass at ICOH at 8:00 PM with Dessert Social to follow
Please bring a poinsettia to decorate the altar and some sweets to share
Thur 12/25 Christmas Day Mass at St. Margaret's at 6:00 PM
Sat 12/27 Feast of the Holy Family at ICOH at 6:30 PM
Sun 12.28 Feast of the Holy Family at St. Margaret's at 6:00 PM
Thur Feast of Mary, Mother of God at the Dignity
Center at 7:30 PM
1/1/2009
The president and Board of Directors of Dignity Northern Virginia thank you sincerely for your support throughout
the year. We wish for you and your families the gift of God's joy and peace and love during the Christmas season
and best wishes for a healthy and Happy New Year!
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December 12, 2008
Second Saturday Seminar
This Saturday at ICOH beginning at 5:30 p.m. The Rev. Dr. J. B. Hawkins IV, Ph.D., Executive Director, Center
for Anglican Communion Studies, Virginia Theological Seminary and a participant at the 2008 Lambeth Conference will discuss:
"The Anglican Communion After the Lambeth Conference." We are incredibly fortunate to have the opportunity to hear
from Dr. Hawkins on this issue which heretofore we have only been able to read but in the newspapers. Please plan to
join us for the program.
If you know of anyone who might be a potential presenter for our seminars, please contact Harry B.
Anointing
We are alos going to have an anointing
service during mass this Saturday. Anointing of the Sick is one of the seven sacraments. The sacrament prays for the
physical or emotional healing of the ill person, if that be the will of God. Its primary purpose, however, is spiritual. It
offers us grace to strengthen our faith and our ability to accept and endure the trials and struggles that come with serious
illness. The sacrament was commonly known before Vatican II as Extreme Unction or Last Rites. This name arose because over
time the sacrament became more identified as a preparation for death. Vatican II sought to bring the administration of the
sacrament back to its original and fuller meaning. One should not wait
until death is imminent to receive the sacrament, and we should no longer use the term "last rites" to refer to the sacrament.
Food Drive
During the holiday season, D/NoVA will help Our
Lady Queen of Peace Church to replenish their pantry which serves nearly 140 families each month. They are running low on
the following items: rice (large bags appreciated, they will rebag), dry beans (again they will repackage), canned vegetables,
soup, small jars of peanut butter, small jars of jelly, pasta and pasta sauce. Please bring these items to church with
you and we will arrange to take the items to OLQP. Thanks for your help in this very worthy effort.
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December 7, 2008
NOVAM
Last year, NOVAM's Adopt-a-Family program
made the holidays bright for more than 180 children in the Northern Virginia area who are infected or affected by HIV/AIDS.
NOVAM is very excited to provide the Adopt-a-Family program again this year. They would love for you to participate!
NOVAM could not help make the holidays special for so many families in Northern Virginia without your dedication and generosity.
They still have 30 children who need to be adopted for the holidays, and time is running out. If you have any further questions
please contact NOVAM at (703) 533-5505, ext. 15 or by email them at jbeddoe@novam.org. CARA
D/NoVA has been invited to the Capital Area Rainbowlers Association's
(CARA) HOLIDAY SOCIAL BOWLING NIGHT on MONDAY, DECEMBER 29 • 8 TO 10 P.M. at the AMF ALEXANDRIA LANES (home
of CARA's Ten-Pin Pride and SMACK leagues) at
6228-A N. Kings Hwy. • Alexandria, VA 22303. Bowling only $3 per person per game. $2.89 for shoe rental
with FUN Door prizes/RAFFLES and lots of socializing! Grab a friend and come BOWL! All are welcome! For info contact:
rob@avantedgemedia.com PRESIDENTIAL INAUGURATION
Dignity/USA is one of several leading LGBT organizations
that have signed on to two events taking place the evening of the Inauguration. The events represent a range of price points,
in order to be as inclusive and accessible as possible. Tickets for the first event, "Out for Equality," will go on sale this
week, and tickets for the second event, "Dance for Equality," will go on sale in mid-December. Below
are the details for this event: OUT FOR EQUALITY The LGBT community commemoration of Barack
Obama & Joe Biden's Inauguration Tuesday, January 20, 2009 7 p.m. - Midnight Mayflower
Hotel 1127 Connecticut Avenue, NW Washington, D.C. Featuring entertainment and appearances by Melissa
Etheridge, Cyndi Lauper, Rufus Wainwright, Thelma Houston and others to be announced Open bar and cocktail
buffet Tickets are $350 per person before December 16 and $375 thereafter. Attire: Festive or Formal Tickets
go on sale Wednesday, December 3, 2008 at 9am at www.boxofficetickets.com/outforequality In mid-December tickets will be released for sale for the event below.
DANCE FOR EQUALITY An Inaugural Commemoration Tuesday, January 20, 2009 Town Danceboutique 2009
8th Street, NW Washington DC 9pm-3am Tickets will be released for sale mid-December. Talent to
be announced. Sex as God Intended by John J. McNeill Lethe Press is proud to release the latest
work from the acclaimed Biblical scholar John J. McNeill. "Sex as God Intended It will make you think.
It will make you question everything you've heard in the media or in church about homosexuals and God. It will make you question
the rightness or wrongness of gay marriage. It will make you take a closer look at your faith and your beliefs. It is a book
that encourages spiritual and intellectual growth, and a book that all Christians should read, even if your pastor or minister
or priest tells you it is evil." -- Jack Gardner, Edge Boston Noted biblical scholar, moral theologian, and
psychotherapist John J. McNeill (The Church and the Homosexual) offers further insight into the portrayal of sex in the Bible
and discusses how the original sex positive viewpoints have been twisted by the Church and society over the years. Citing
the generally overlooked Biblical book The Songs of Songs, McNeill argues that human sexual activity represents a form of
"play" that provides a source of pleasure, joy and love. From the beginning, he says, this is what God intended sex to be,
not a cause of judgment, oppression, and resentment. New York-based psychotherapist and retreat director Ken
Page contributed the foreword. This volume also offers a Festschrift celebrating the life and work of John J. McNeill. In
a collection of thirteen essays, voices of acclaimed religion scholars, theologians, ministers and teachers such as Mark Jordan,
Robert E. Goss, Jim Mitulski, Mary Hunt, Mel White, Daniel Helminiak, and Troy Perry are raised to cite the influence McNeill's
studies-and the example of his personal life-have had on their professional research and lives. This book
appears in coordination with the upcoming release of a video documentary about John McNeill, "Uncommon Jesuit," produced by
Festschrift contributor Brendan Fay. You can order at Queerbooks.com or at TLABooks or through Amazon or
ask your local bookseller to carry John's latest book. About John J. McNeill McNeill is a former Jesuit priest
who clashed with Church officials over his compassionate and sex-positive teachings about homosexuality. And this current
book continues in that tradition with a chapter on the very timely topic of Gay Marriage. McNeill makes the case that gay
people gaining the right to marriage equality promises to improve society's ideas about traditional heterosexual marriage;
same sex marriage would be good for everybody, if only because it offers of a model of relationship as equal partnership.
Sex as God Intended concisely presents wisdom about sexuality and homosexuality that McNeill has gained over his 83 year life.
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November 30, 2008
World AIDS Day
In honor of World AIDS Day, D/NoVA had a special service during mass this past Saturday
to pray for those living with HIV/AIDS and to remember those whose lives touched our hearts and who have been taken
away from us by HIV/AIDS. To express more than words could ever do, candles were lit in their honor.
Father Joe H. opened our service with this special prayer:
"On this First Sunday of Advent, we gather with the knowledge that
this coming Monday the global community will observe World AIDS Day. In this Advent celebration of the Paschal Mystery,
we wait in joyful hope for a cure to this world crisis, uniting ourselves in prayer for all whose lives and whose families
have been ravaged by HIV and AIDS."
During mass,
we prayed for the scientific community, that it might be supported and encouraged in discovering a cure for the terrible pandemic of HIV/AIDS. We prayed that we might be aware
of the yearning for compassion, welcome, and service of those living with HIV/AIDS.
We prayed for those with HIV/AIDS who feel rejected, persecuted, shamed, and abandoned
and for the families and circles of friends who care for persons living with HIV/AIDS.
At the close, Father Joe offered this blessing:
As a worshiping community, we have
been challenged by such a moment as this!
A moment when we know we are living
with AIDS and that we are loved and affirmed.
A moment in which we can offer compassion
to those with AIDS and HIV.
A moment where we can sit and comfort
those who suffer illness or grieve loss.
A moment when we stand in solidarity
with the care partners, health care workers, and researchers as they continue their diligent labor.
A moment and an opportunity to be
with all those who are ill with any disease. Those worried, fearful or weary. Those carrying others in prayer.
In this moment: We all stand in need of God's healing.
If you who were not able to make it to this very touching service, we have
attached a picture of our memorial candles and ask that on Monday, December 1, World AIDS Day, you remember
all the victims of HIV/AIDS in your prayers.
Thanks to Father Joe for his leadership; to Kevin S., Mark J., and David L. for gathering
the items needed for this service; and to Harry B. and Jack K. for putting it all together.
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November 28, 2008
World AIDS Day
In honor of World AIDS Day, D/NoVA is planning a special service during mass this Saturday,
Nov. 29, to honor the memory of those who have died of AIDS. Please join us in remembering in a special way the lives
of those who touched our hearts and who were taken away from us by AIDS.
Seasonal Events
During the holiday season, D/NoVA will help
Our Lady Queen of Peace Church to replenish their pantry which serves nearly 140 families each month. They are running low
on the following items: rice (large bags appreciated, they will rebag), dry beans (again they will repackage), canned vegetables,
soup, small jars of peanut butter, small jars of jelly, pasta and pasta sauce. Please bring these items to church with
you and we will arrange to take the items to OLQP. Thanks for your help in this very worthy effort.
Also, D/NoVA is supporting the American
Red Cross' "Holiday Mail for Heroes" campaign to distribute holiday cards to service members and veterans both in the
United States and abroad. The Holiday Mail for Heroes program is a great way to acknowledge the sacrifices of our
men and women in uniform. You can bring holiday cards inscribed with your greeting in unstamped envelopes to D/NoVA,
and we will forward them to: Holiday Mail for Heroes, P.O. Box 5456, Capitol Heights, MD. 20791-5456. All cards
must be brought to church no later than Dec. 6. No glitter cards can be accepted.
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November 22, 2008
10th Annual International Transgender Day of Remembrance
November 20th was the
10th Annual International Transgender Day of Remembrance, an opportunity
to remember those who have been killed due to anti-transgender hatred and prejudice. Over the last decade, more than one transgender person a month has died due to anti-transgender violence. Transgender Day of Remembrance is an opportunity to memorialize the lives of
the individuals who have died violently because of hatred and prejudice. It is an opportunity for allies to come forward
and commit to ending violence against transgender people, to securing equality for all before the law regardless of gender
identity or expression and to ensuring that no one is denied basic human rights or equal dignity simply because of who they
are.
Book of Remembrance
It is the Church's custom and tradition to remember all the deceased, and particularly our deceased
loved ones during the month of November. D/NoVA's
Book of Remembrance keeps before our eyes the names, the memories and the lives of those who have gone before us and who have
served in some way as mentors and teachers for us in the ways of life and faith.
You will have the opportunity when you come to Mass to add the names of deceased friends and loved ones in the Book of Remembrance
which will be placed on the altar during our Masses in November. We ask God
in every Mass to give these deceased loved ones eternal rest and life on high in God's realm and our thoughts are especially
with those who have been killed due to anti-transgender hatred and prejudice.
World
AIDS Day
In
honor of World AIDS Day, D/NoVA is planning a special service during mass on Nov.
29 to honor the memory of those who have died of AIDS. Please join us in remembering
in a special way the lives of those who touched our hearts and who were taken away from us by AIDS.
DC
Different Drummers is sponsoring a special World AIDS Day musical presentation to benefit some local charites on Wednesday,
Dec. 1 at 8:00pm with a VIP reception at 7:00pm. The event will take place at the new Harmon Hall of the Shakespeare
Theatre at 610 F Street, NW in Washington. Tickets and further information can be obtained by calling 202-547-1122 or on the
web at: dcdd.org
Seasonal
Events
During the holiday season, D/NoVA will help Our Lady Queen of Peace Church
to replenish their pantry which serves nearly 140 families each month. They are running low on the following items: rice (large
bags appreciated, they will rebag), dry beans (again they will repackage), canned vegetables, soup, small jars of peanut butter,
small jars of jelly, pasta and pasta sauce. Please bring these items to church with you and we will arrange to take
the items to OLQP. Thanks for your help in this very worthy effort.
Also, D/NoVA is supporting the American Red Cross' "Holiday Mail
for Heroes" campaign to distribute holiday cards to service members and veterans both in the United States and abroad.
The Holiday Mail for Heroes program is a great way to acknowledge the sacrifices of our men and women in uniform.
You can bring holiday cards inscribed with your greeting in unstamped envelopes to D/NoVA, and we will forward them to:
Holiday Mail for Heroes, P.O. Box 5456, Capitol Heights, MD. 20791-5456. All cards must be brought to church no
later than Dec. 6. No glitter cards can be accepted.
Second
Saturday Seminar
At
our next session on December 13 at ICOH beginning at 5:30 p.m. The Rev. Dr. J. B. Hawkins IV, Ph.D., Executive Director,
Center for Anglican Communion Studies, Virginia Theological Seminary and a participant at the 2008 Lambeth Conference will
discuss: "The Anglican Communion After the Lambeth Conference." We are incredibly fortunate to have the opportunity
to hear from Dr. Hawkins on this issue which heretofore we have only been able to read but in the newspapers. Please
plan to join us for the program.
If
you know of anyone who might be a potential presenter for our seminars, please contact Harry B.
Anointing
We
are planning to have an anointing service during mass on December 13. Anointing of the Sick is one
of the seven sacraments. The sacrament prays for the physical or emotional healing of the ill person, if that be the will
of God. Its primary purpose, however, is spiritual. It offers us grace to strengthen our faith and our ability to accept and
endure the trials and struggles that come with serious illness. The sacrament was commonly known before Vatican II as Extreme
Unction or Last Rites. This name arose because over time the sacrament became more identified as a preparation for death.
Vatican II sought to bring the administration of the sacrament back to its original and fuller meaning. One should not wait
until death is imminent to receive the sacrament, and we should no longer use the term "last rites" to refer to the sacrament.
Christmas Eve
We are planning our traditional Christmas Eve mass to take place on 12/24 at ICOH at 8:00 PM with a pot luck desert
social following mass. Please bring your family and friends to join us in the celebration of the birth of our Lord.
And remember to bring a treat to share at the party and a poinsettia to decorate the church. But mainly, just be sure
to share this wonderful celebration with your faith community.
Items
D/NoVA
sent a check in loving memory of Mrs. Joan O'Hare, mother of Father Joe O'Hare, to the Sisters of Providence in accord with
the family wishes.
D/NoVA
sent a check to NOVAM to support their efforts in providing assistance to those individuals suffering with AIDS.
D/NoVA
is looking for ideas on improving our web site. The best idea will win a prize to be determined at a later date.
Please contact John W.
The next meeting of the D/NoVA board of directors is scheduled for
December 6 at 6:00PM at ICOH. All are encouraged to attend and participate in the these meetings.
On December 6, a graduate student from Liberty University who is studying
marriage and family therapy plans to attend mass with us. He is working on a paper for his class. In short, the
paper requires that he join a support group/meeting/etc. and interview someone afterward. The objective of the paper
is for future therapists to take a step toward understanding the world view of a group that is routinely stereotyped,
discriminated against, etc. He believes that GLBT folks suffer an inane amount of inhumanity, and that by understanding
the issues of marginalized groups, future therapists would be in a better position to help someone in therapy.
Please consider making yourself available to discuss these issues with him after mass. If you have any questions or
concerns, please contact David L. for additional information about the project.
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November 12, 2008
On Sunday, November 9, Mrs. Joan O'Hare, the mother of Father Joe O'Hare, passed away as
a result of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage she suffered the evening before. Mrs. O'Hare was 84. According to Joe
who is one of our presiders, his mother was enjoying a birthday celebration for her granddaughter on Saturday evening,
along with many family members and friends, and she was stricken suddenly on her way home. In addition to Joe, Mrs.
O'Hare is survived by her husband, and several children and grandchildren.
Information available at this time is that Mrs. O'Hare will be buried at Arlington National
Cemetery on Tuesday, December 16. The funeral Mass will take place that day, at 12:45 PM, in the chapel at Ft. Myer.
Joe has mentioned that his mother wanted donations in her memory to be made to the Sisters of Providence of Indiana, an order
she knew and cherished. (As we learn more details, we will be sure to pass them along.) Thanks to DW for providing
us with this information. Those wishing to send personal expressions of sympathy to Joe may address them as follows:
Joseph O'Hare
1912 Flowering Tree Terrace
Silver Spring, MD 20902
Book of Remembrance
It is the Church's custom and tradition to remember all the deceased, and particularly our deceased
loved ones during the month of November. We celebrated All the Saints on Thursday and All Souls Day on Friday which
was a day to remember all the deceased - those who, like each of us - are called to be saints. The Second Vatican Council
reminds us that the vocation to which each of us is called is the vocation of holiness - to be the best saints we can be in
the midst of the life we live out each and every day.
Our Book
of Remembrance keeps before our eyes the names, the memories and the lives of those who have gone before us and who have served
in some way as mentors and teachers for us in the ways of life and faith. You will have the opportunity when you come to Mass
to add the names of deceased friends and loved ones in the Book of Remembrance which will be placed on the altar during our
Masses in November. We ask God in every Mass to give these deceased loved ones eternal rest and life on high in God's realm.
VETERANS'
DAY 2008
D/NoVA thanks all of our Veterans and active duty servicemen and women and their families who
have sacrificed so much so that we can live in a country free to exercise our own religious freedoms. We honor
their service, remember their sacrifice, and pray for the peace which they have given so much.
In today's Washington Post, there were two articles which might be of interest.
Hope these links work.
CONCERT FOR HOPE
Please join Northern Virginia AIDS Ministry this Saturday, November 15 at 7:30pm for the
2nd annual Concert for Hope. The Concert for Hope is a musical celebration in honor and recognition of World AIDS Day.
The concert will take place at the beautiful new Kenmore Middle School Auditorium where 2 panels from the AIDS Memorial Quilt
will be on display. The school is located at 200 South Carlin Springs Road in Arlington, VA.
Tickets can by
purchased by calling 703-533-5505 x13. Tickets begin at $25.
Please see David L if you are interested in purchasing a NOVAM Christmas ornament.
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November 6, 2008
This is to remind you that we will be having our Second Saturday Seminar tomorrow, 11/7/2008, starting at
5:30 pm at ICOH. Harry B. will be leading us in a discussin of the gospel of Mark. Mass follows at 6:30 pm.
All are welcome to attend.
2008 ANNUAL MEETING NOTES and ELECTION
Dignity NoVA held its Annual Meeting on Saturday, 11/1/2008, at ICOH. The meeting was called to order immediately following mass. There were 16 people in
attendance. The president, Beth W., determined that there were a sufficient number
of members present to constitute a quorum for the purposes of conducting the Annual Meeting as set forth in our bylaws.
Our president, Beth W. gave the following report:
We at Dignity
NoVA continue to be blessed with a group of people who value their Catholic faith enough to choose to participate as members
of Dignity despite the hierarchy's lack of welcome. We have a core group of members who offer their time and talent to run
the chapter Board of Directors and hold a weekly liturgy. We have several priests who generously share the duty of presider
at our Mass, even though some parishes have difficulty finding priests to serve them. Some talented people serve in the ministry
of music, playing the piano and organ for community participation. Others have helped us socialize by preparing refreshments
after Mass, by hosting parties at their homes, and by bringing food for special potluck socials. We wish to involve more members
in active work with our chapter. So we ask you to search yourselves for ways you can participate more fully in the activities
of Dignity NoVA.
Our treasurer, David L. gave the following financial report:
For the period 01/01/2008 through 10/31/2008, we had $10,454.64 in Income and $13,818.36 in Expenses. On 10/31/2008, we had a balance of $6,317.39 in the General Fund and $5,427.00 in
the Belle Fund. We started off on 01/01/2008 with a total balance of $14,173.10
and we had a total balance of $11,744.39 on !0/31/2008.
We are holding steady at 15 to 20 people at every mass. Although our attendance is sufficient to sustain our community spiritually, our finances
continue to deteriorate as we spend more each week than we take in. On average,
we spend over $300 each week, but we are taking in less than $200 each week.
Our community could not continue without the countless
hours of time freely contributed by our members. Just as volunteering is a personal
decision, so is financial support for our community based on each persons' financial circumstances. Some will be able to give
more and others less. On average, if each of the 15 to 20 people attending mass
could contribute $15 to $20 per week, we would be able to cover our expenses and not continue to deplete our reserves.
Our Liturgy Chair, Harry B. gave the following report:
We are going to try to have an anointingh service before
Christmas. We will have the Christmas Eve mass at 8:00 Pm with a pot luck dessert
social following mass. All will be encouraged to bring a poinsettia to decorate the church.
HAry B. will be presenting our Second Saturday Seminar next Saturday, 11/8, at ICOH @5:30 PM on the gospel of St. Mark.
There was a discussion of moving to a church on a Metro line. The individual
who made this suggestion did not attend the meeting to present any factual basis for the recommendation other than an opinion
offered with the suggestion that it would be more convenient if D/NoVA was located on a Metro line. It was noted that the board had previously discussed and rejected the idea of moving. Kevin S. was of the opinion that since the board had previously decided the issue, we need not consider
it further. Comments regarding how much we appreciated ICOH were offered. David L. noted that the board had received input on the issue and it was concluded
by the board that while being located on a Metro might be more convenient for some people, it would be less convenient for
others. In fact, there was an indication that if we moved from ICOH, certain
members would seek another spiritual home. It was the consensus of those at the
Annual Meeting that since no data was presented indicating the availability of another church, the cost of another church,
the willingness of another church to let us use their facilities on Saturday evening and for Christmas Eve services and for
Holy Week, and no evidence that the potential membership gain would offset the potential membership lost if we moved from
ICOH, the issue of moving would not be considered any further until compelling evidence was presented which would warrant
further consider of a move. Mark J. noted that we could increase our advertising
of the fact that we usually can and do pick up people from the Metro who wish to attend mass with D/NoVA.
There was a discussion of possible fund raising events and implementing a dues structure for D/NoVA. Beth W. noted that D/USA had started charging $50 a year for dues.
$10 of that is returned to the local chapter. Mark J. noted that raising
dues would not generate very much income. He was of the opinion that we needed
to be more aggressive about holding fund raisers for the chapter. David L. noted
that D/USA requires that there be 10 dues paying members for there to be an official Dignity chapter. David also noted that we probably had no more than 10 or 11 members who were also members of D/USA. No decision was made to raise chapter dues at this time, but there was recognition
of the continued shortfall of income.
There was a discussion of our gifts to other organizations. There was
some sentiment that we had not been giving enough to other groups. David L. noted
that the board had authorized $1200 from the General revenues be given to the Belle Fund which has been designated as the
fund from which we give money to other groups. He noted that we had given $627
in 2008 with over $400 of that going to D/USA when the president of D/USA visited us a few months ago. He also noted that we needed to consider donating money to NOVAM (about $250) to continue our membership
and involvement with that organization. In view of our deteriorating financial
situation, it was the consensus of those at the Annual Meeting that we needed to be prudent in giving money to other groups.
Our secretary, Laura H. introduced the candidates for election to positions on the board starting on 01/01/2009
noting that we had just enough candidates to fill all of our vacant positions on the board.
Harry B. made a motion to elect all the candidates to the appropriate positions.
Gene V. and Benjamin C. seconded the motion. A voice vote was conducted
and the secretary announced that following people were elected to the positions noted for a term of one year beginning 01/01/2009. For the position of president...................Mark J.; For the position of vice-president...........Beth W.;
For the position of secretary...................Laura H.; For the position
of treasurer...................David L.; For the position of At Large Member.....John
W.; For the position of At Large Member.....Patrick McN.
Prior to adjournment, Kevn S. expressed for the entire organization, gratitude to Beth W. for her willingness to have
served as president for the past 2 years.
The Annual Meeting was adjourned. A festive reception to honor the newly
elected board was held following the meeting.
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Father Joe S. asked that we inform you of a new Whitman Walker Clinic Weekly Gay Men's Peer Support, beginning soon.
He will be a Group Facilitator (www.wwc.org)
Meeting on Wednesday nights from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM for 12 sessions
Whitman Walker
Clinic – Elizabeth Taylor Medical Center – 14th & R Streets, NW
November 5
December 3
November 12
December 10
November 19
December 17
No Meeting Thanksgiving week
No Meeting
Christmas week
No Meeting
New Year's week
No Meeting January 6
February 4
January 13
February 11
January 21
February 18
January 28
Confidential support group for men considering coming out, just out or still adjusting to being
out. Topics include personal emotional issues; dealing with family and friends;
"degrees of out-ness" in the workplace; living and socializing in the gay community; dating and relationships; HIV/AIDS, STD's
and safe sex; and other topics of interest to group members.
Gay Latino Men
DISCUSSIONS IN SPANISH. Confidential
support group for gay Latino men to discuss their experiences and challenges as . . . Latino men in the multi-cultural GLBT
community . . . and . . . Gay men in the Latino community. Topics include attitudes of the Latino community, family and friends;
employment and careers; socializing, dating and relationships; HIV/AIDS, STD's and safe sex; sources of community support;
and other topics of interest to group members.
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October 30, 2008
Immediately following Mass this Saturday, we will be holding our annual meeting and elections for the
coming year. Included on the agenda will be:
1. a report from the president,
2. a discussion of our current financial situation,
3. a discussion of an issue raised by a member concerning possible relocation of mass
from ICOH to a location closer to Metro (this idea has been previously discussed by the board and rejected, but it has been
submitted yet again for discussion with no supporting data or information other than an opinion that it would be more convenient
for some people),
4. a discussion of possible fund raising events for D/NoVA including the implementation
of a dues structure for D/NoVA,
5. a discussion of our gifts to other organizations and causes,
6. a discussion of any issues which are of concern to you, and
7. the election of a new Board of Directors to lead us in 2009. In view of
the fact that we have just enough candidates for each open seat on the board, I have determined that pursuant to Article IX,
Section 2 d of the D/NoVA Bylaws, we will conduct the election by voice vote at the general meeting. Pursuant to Article
IX, Section 3, no new nominations from the floor at the meeting will be in order.
Q & As at any time through the meeting will be in order.
Your attendance and participation is highly encouraged. Following the meeting there will be a special
reception to celebrate the election of our new board.
Please find below a listing of the people have submitted statements for the offices of President,
Vice President, Treasurer, Secretary and the two at-large board positions.
Laura Hart
Secretary D/NoVA
President
Mark J.
I submit my name for the office of president of Dignity NOVA Board of Directors. i will do my best to fulfill with
dignity and trust the obligations and challenges that await me.
Vice President
Beth W.
I would be glad to continue serving our community of D/NoVA by
running for the office of Vice President.
Treasurer
David L.
I ask for your support as I seek
another term as Treasurer of D/NoVA. I have learned very much since I became Treasurer in November 2005, and I
wish to continue to contribute to the organization as best I can.
Secretary
Laura H.
I would be very happy to serve
as D/NoVA's secretary again this coming year. I have a strong desire to do my part to make our community successful.
At-Large
John W.
I have been a member of Dignity Northern Virginia since in inception.
In the Spring of this year (2008) I was asked if I would be willing to serve on the Board in the recently-vacated at-large
seat, a request I accepted.
Once on the Board it became apparent to me that there was a direct correlation
between attendance, the collection plate, and Dignity's ability to survive as an institution. As unpopular as it seems to
be in the Catholic psyche to link worship and money, it is a fact of life that our weekly Mass costs money. And frequently
our weekly contributions do not meet out weekly expenses. Even with a comfortable bank balance, deficit spending cannot endure
forever.
We must assume that those who do attend Mass are contributing what they
can afford or are comfortable with, so asking more contributions for our core attendees is not the answer. Rather, I propose
that Dignity/NV conduct an awareness campaign in an attempt to increase and maintain attendance. My proposal is to run this
campaign in community weekly newspapers such, as the Falls Church Free Press. The campaign could consist of paid advertisements,
news releases, and background stories. This would not be cost free, but it may prove to be money well spent.
At Large
Patrick McN.
I wish to run for the at large seat on the Dignity NOVA Board of Directors.
It would be an honor to serve.
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October 9, 2008
Please don't forget to join us this coming Saturday, October 11 at 5:30pm at ICOH for a special presentation as part
of our Second Saturday Seminar series. D/NoVA proudly present a lecture by Dr. Eugene Fisher discussing the present
state of the Jewish-Christian dialogue. Dr. Fisher is the preeminent expert in this field in the USA. All are
highly encouraged to attend this very special presentation which we are honored to sponsor. As usual, many thanks to
Harry B. for making all the arrangements for this program. If you plan to be present for Dr. Fisher's
presentation, you might wish to read his article on-line: Fisher, Eugene J.: "The Impact of Christian-Jewish
Dialogue on Catholic Biblical Studies" (2008) The article appears at http://escholarship.bc.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1142&context=scjr D/NoVA Election News: At the Board of Directors meeting on October 4, our Secretary, Laura H., announced
that we did not have sufficient nominations for all of our officer and at-large board member positions which become vacant
as of January 1, 2009. There is a possibility that a new candidate will run and that some of the current board will
reluctantly run again for different positions, but additional self-nominations would be welcomed. Laura has extended
the period for self-nominations until 10/15. Please contact her or any of the other current board members if you wish
to serve our community as a board member. Annual Meeting and Elections: The D/NoVA Board also decided
to hold our Annual Meeting on Saturday, November 1, immediately following the mass. In view of the limited number of
candidates for election, the Secretary will conduct the elections by a voice vote at the meeting. There will also be
an updated report on our financial situation from the Treasurer, and the President will discuss any other pertinent issues.
If you have any items or issues which you would like to discuss, please contact our president, Beth W. Musicians:
Our community is incredibly blessed to have the talents of Greg C. and Gene V. to call upon to lead us in music at our masses
each week. Not only do they lead us at mass, but they also spend time at home researching and selecting the appropriate
music for each mass, and then rehearsing the music selected. Their efforts to enhance our worship service are invaluable.
However, we are concerned with the issue of "burn out," and we do not want that to happen to either of them. If anyone
is aware of a musician who might be willing to help out once every month or two, or to fill in during an emergency, please
contact Harry B. National Coming Out Day, Saturday, October 11, 2008: For additional information, visit
the HRC web site at: HRC | National Coming Out
Day: October 11, 2008 Anointing Service: We are attempting to schedule an anointing service for October
18. Christmas Eve: We will again be having mass at ICOH on Christmas Eve at ICOH at 8:00pm with our annual
potluck dessert social to follow. Outreach: John W. is leading our effort in this area. If anyone
is aware of any local publications that might offer free advertising space for community organizations such as ours, please
let him know. Also, if anyone has any ideas about ways to improve our web site, please contact John. Vatican
II: In view of our programs concerning Vatican II, you might be interested in this book review which was published in
Sunday's Washington Post: A Spirit of Affirmation - washingtonpost.com Finally, thanks to
Beth W., Karen P., Jack K. and others for arranging our St. Francis of Assisi feast day pet blessing; thanks to David L. for
preparing copies of our pledge for Dignity USA's Solidarity Sunday initiative; and thanks to the two dozen folks who were
there on Saturday, October 4 for these events.
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September 29, 2008
ELECTIONS. The election season is on now--not just for the President of the USA, but also for the President of
D/NoVA (a less powerful office, but no less important) and for the Board of Directors of D/NoVA. The offices of President,
Vice-President, Secretary and Treasurer are up for election as well as two At Large members of the BoD. The term of
office is for one year starting January 1, 2009. It is crucial that we have members serving in each of these
offices. In January of every year, we must submit to the State of Virginia a listing of the names and addresses of each
of our officers and board members along with a $25 registration fee. If we do not have the names and addresses of officers
and board members to submit, we loose our incorporation status in Virginia. If we are not incorporated in Virginia,
there is a possibility that we will loose our tax-exempt status from IRS meaning that contributions to D/NoVA will no longer
be tax deductible. The deadline for filing to run for one of the open positions is September 30, 2008
unless that date is extended by the Secretary. Please consider throwing your hat into the ring for one of the open positions
by responding to this email with an indication of the position you wish to run for along with a very brief 2 or 3 sentence
statement of why you want to run for the office indicated. As of today, it appears that we have only three people from
the current board who are willing to serve another term. Board of Directors Meeting. There will be a Board
of Directors meeting this coming Saturday, 10/4, at ICOH starting at 5:30 pm. All are welcome and encouraged to attend. St.
Francis of Assisi. To celebrate the feast of St. Francis of Assisi, there will be a special blessing of pictures of
your pets during mass this Saturday, 10/4. Be sure to bring your pet pics as proxies for the pet blessing. Dignity
Washington's 36th Anniversary. Congratulations to DW for 36 years of service to the GLBT Catholic community of the Washington,
DC area. They are celebrating the anniversary with a dinner party this Saturday night starting at 7:00pm. Last
minute reservations for the dinner at the Dignity Center may still be available. The cost is $30. If you wish to attend,
contact David L. at 703-243-2350 by September 30. Second Saturday Seminar. On Saturday, 10/11, starting
promptly at 5:30 PM, D/NoVA proudly present a lecture by Dr. Eugene Fisher discussing the present state of the Jewish-Christian
dialogue. Dr. Fisher is the preeminent expert in this field in the USA. All are highly encouraged to attend this
very special presentation which we are honored to sponsor. As usual, many thanks to Harry B. for making all the arrangements
for this program. If you plan to be present for Dr. Fisher's presentation, you might wish to read his
article on-line: Fisher, Eugene J.: "The Impact of Christian-Jewish Dialogue on Catholic Biblical Studies" (2008)
The article appears at http://escholarship.bc.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1142&context=scjr ICOH. D/NoVA is invited to Mass at ICOH @10:00 am on Sunday, October 5 and then help with the "Big Pumpkin
Unloading." Please consider supporting this effort of our gracious host at ICOH. Also, on Saturday 10/18
from 10:00 am to 2:00 pm on the ICOH parking lot, D/NoVA is invited to bring old electronics for destruction and disposal
(mother boards destroyed in your presence) and remainders disposed of ecologically. Parents of GLBT children.
Kris Goodrich is a doctoral candidate in Counseling and Human Services at Syracuse University. Currently, she is working
on her dissertation research which explores the experiences of heterosexual parents with lesbian, gay or bisexual-identified
sons or daughters. She is seeking qualified volunteers who might be interested in participating in a survey on this
subject and is hoping for a larger number of responses from persons with different types of experiences. The survey
can be found at this link: https://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=klSmOZak3Vr7k9esEuaVBg_3d_3d Northern Virginia AIDS Ministry Concert for Hope. Please join NOVAM on Saturday, November 15, 2008, for
the 2nd annual concert at 7:30 pm at Kenmore Middle School Auditorium, 200 South Carlin Springs Road, Arlington, VA 22204.
Tickets are available online or by calling 703-533-5505 x13. The Concert for Hope is a musical celebration in honor
and recognition of World AIDS Day which is held annually on December 1st. The goal is to bring the community together in an
uplifting, positive way and promote the good work that is being done locally to combat HIV/AIDS. This event is a celebration
of life and the power of community to make a difference for individuals, children and families affected or infected by this
illness. Performers will include Potomac Fever, an a capella ensemble of the Gay Men's Chorus of Washington,
D.C., and Mosaic Harmony, a multicultural, interfaith choir based in the Washington, D.C. area. _____________________________________________________________ September
10, 2008
Dignity NoVA resumes our Second Saturday Seminars this coming Saturday, 9/13, at 5:30 PM (SHARP) at Immanuel Church on
the Hill with a presentation by Harry B. on "The Biblical Portrait of the History and Geography of the Holy Land." Presenting
an overview of biblical history in both the Old and New Testaments, Harry will blend in the geographical aspects of the Bible's
narrative which influences both what biblical history says and how it says it. This presentation should be of interest to
all and especially will assist those who are registering for Harry's March, 2009, Lenten pilgrimage journey to the Holy Land
- to which all are invited to join. Mass follows at 6:30 PM. All are welcomed and invited to join the D/NoVA community
in the seminar and in the celebration of the mass.
Of very special note, please save the second Saturday
dates for the next few months as D/NoVa is proud, thrilled and honored to be able to announce that two highly distinguished
presenters: Dr. Fisher and Dr. Hawkins, both of whom are world experts in their fields will be joining us for our seminars.
Please bring these sessions to the attention of friends who may wish to take advantage of the wealth of knowledge
and experience which these gentlemen will offer to us. These rare opportunities to hear from world-class experts on
these subjects in our informal setting should not be missed!
SESSION EIGHT - Saturday, October 11, 2008 - 5:30 p.m.
"The Present State of the Jewish-Christian
Dialogue"
Presenter: Dr. Eugene J. Fisher, Ph.D.
Former Director, Secretariat for Ecumenical and Interreligious
Affairs,
United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, and
Consultor to the Vatican's Commission for Religious Relation
with the Jews
SESSION NINE – Saturday, November 8, 2008 - 5:30 p.m.
"The Texts of Luke and the New
Liturgical Year"
(A preparation for the gospel cycle for the new liturgical year)
Presenter: Harry S. Benjamin,
MA, STL, SSL
SESSION TEN - Saturday, December 13, 2008 - 5:30 p.m.
"The Anglican Communion After the Lambeth
Conference"
Presenter: The Rev. Dr. J. B. Hawkins IV, Ph.D.
Executive Director, Center for Anglican Communion
Studies,
Virginia Theological Seminary
(a participant at the 2008 Lambeth Conference)
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September
3, 2008
ICOH is not availabvle to us this coming Saturday, 9/6. Accordingly, we will have mass at St. Clement's Church
at 6:30 pm. You can find directions to St. Clement's on the Directions page of our website, dignitynova.org
Before
mass at 5:30 pm, there will be a board meeting at St. Clement's. We will be discussing our upcoming elections and other
issues. All are welcome and encouraged to attend.
Dignity NoVa's "Second Saturday Seminar" series will
reconvene on September 13, with a presentation by Harry B. on "The Biblical Portrait of the History and Geography of the Holy
Land." Presenting an overview of biblical history in both the Old and New Testaments, Harry will blend in the geographical
aspects of the bible's narrative which influences both what biblical history says and how it says it. This presentation will
assist those who are registering for Harry's March, 2009, Lenten pilgrimage journey to the Holy Land - to which all are invited
to join (see attached).
We are still working to confirm our speaker for October 11. On November 8,
with the transition into a new liturgical year on the First Sunday of Advent (November 30), Harry B. will offer an overview
of Luke's Gospel which is highlighted during the course of the Sundays of the new year. Luke reminds us that Jesus is the
Spirit-filled healer and reconciler whose presence and mission continues in and through us. The Gospel's companion piece,
the Acts of the Apostles, will also be considered in this presentation.
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August 9, 2008
Many thanks to the 35 people who joined us on Saturday night to witness Karen and Beth renew their vows, and joined us
in a wonderful reception following mass. A special thanks to Angie and Eileen who provided the decorations and refreshments,
and to all those who helped set up and clean up afterwards. It was a special, historic event for D/NoVA as well as for
the entire LGBT community. Thanks to Beth and Karen for sharing their 25th anniversary with us and for being role models
in our community.
Next Saturday, August 9, we will be having an anointing service as part of our weekly mass.
Please join us.
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July 31, 2008
We want to remind everyone that long-time Dignity members Karen and Beth are celebrating their 25th Anniversary
with a "renewal of vows" at Dignity/Northern Virginia's 6:30 PM Mass, at Immanuel Church-on-the-Hill in Alexandria, this Saturday,
August 2. All are cordially invited to Saturday evening's service, and the reception which follows in the social
hall.
Mr. H. Paul Murray, the father of Dignity/Washington's Fr. Paul Murray, has passed away. The visitation will
take place tonight, July 31, from 6:00 to 8:00 PM, at Arlington Funeral Home. The address of the funeral home is 3901
Fairfax Drive, Arlington, Virginia (located three blocks from the Virginia Square Metro station). Funeral services will
take place on Friday, August 1, at 11:00 AM, at St. George's Episcopal Church. The address of the church is 915 N. Oakland
Street, Arlington, Virginia (located one block from the Virginia Square Metro station). There will be a reception, followed
by a procession to Oakwood Cemetery (in Falls Church) for burial. For those who might want to send personal expressions
of sympathy, here is the mailing address Paul is using during his current stay in DC (through August 20):
Paul Murray
P.O. Box 57321
Washington, DC 20037
(After Paul returns to New York later in the
summer, his permanent mailing address is: Bard College, P.O. Box 5000, Annandale-on-Hudson, NY 12504.)
Thanks
to DW for providing this information.
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July 11, 2008
Dignity NoVA has supported the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN) in their mission. SLDN is a national, non-profit
legal services, watchdog and policy organization dedicated to ending discrimination against and harassment of military personnel
affected by "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and related forms of intolerance. We are pleased to pass along this information
about an important SLDN event on Sunday evening.
60 Minutes will air an update on former Army Sergeant Darren Manzella, who was featured in a segment on gays in the military
last December. Please join SLDN and Darren this Sunday evening to watch 60 Minutes at one of two locations: Duplex
Diner (18th and U Streets NW, DC) or Freddie's Beach Bar in Crystal City, VA (555 S. 23rd Street) at 6:30 p.m. Darren
will join SLDN staff and friends at both locations. The program will begin at 7:00 p.m. We hope to see you there!
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July
10, 2008
Click here to sign the NCR signature ad for Sr. Louise Lears and to make a donation.
Support Sister Louise
Lears, SC
Placed under Interdict by Archbishop Raymond Burke
Add your name to a full-page ad in the National Catholic Reporter
Sponsored by the National Coalition of
American Nuns*
Signatures will be appended to the text below:
Bread, Not Stones
Which of you, if your children ask for bread, will give them stones?
--Matthew 7:9
On June 26, 2008, Archbishop Raymond Leo Burke removed Sister Louise Lears, SC, from the Pastoral Team of Saint Cronan
Parish and placed her under an interdict, which prohibits the reception of the Sacraments. In late December 2007, the Archbishop
delivered to Sister Louise a formal summons, accusing her of four canon law violations--all connected to her support of the
ordination of two women to the Roman Catholic Priesthood in November 2007 in St. Louis.
Throughout the process of investigation, Sister Louise and St. Cronan's parish community asked the Archbishop for opportunities
to communicate personally with him. Instead of engaging Sister Louise in dialogue, the Archbishop acted in a legal manner.
Instead of a pastoral approach, the Archbishop chose an adversarial process. Instead of using this situation as an opportunity
for creative growth, the Archbishop retreated to outdated methods of control. Sister Louise and the community of St. Cronan's
asked for bread, so that they and the church could be nourished and grow. They received stones.
Together with the people of Saint Cronan's and the National Coalition of American Nuns, we, the undersigned, stand in
solidarity with Sister Louise Lears as a woman of integrity and courage. We stand with all men and women who seek a church
that values gender equality in every aspect of life and ministry, including priestly ordination. We stand with all who feel
oppressed by patriarchal and imperial structures in the Church, rather than the loving and compassionate model the Gospel
reflects.
It is difficult to imagine that Peter would place Paul under interdict for advocating the admission of uncircumcised
Gentiles into the faith community. It is difficult to imagine Jesus harshly punishing a faithful disciple for disagreeing
with him. It is difficult to imagine how the Christian faith could develop without the voices of faithful dissent. It is difficult
to imagine a Gospel-based faith community that stifles freedom of conscience.
We pray for Church leaders. We ask that they provide, not stones, but the bread of life for Sister Louise, for St. Cronan's
community, and for all of us who seek nourishment.
For background on the case, click on the links below:
Signature submission deadline - August 5, 2008
Ad appearance - August 22, 2008 issue of the National Catholic Reporter
Signatures - listed alphabetically by state
National Coalition of American Nuns - requests donations to help pay for the ad
Suggested donations:
$25 for individuals,
$50 for organizations
(more if you can; less if you can't)
Two ways to sign the NCR ad and send donations:
1. Internet: Click here to sign ad and donate by credit card or go to www.ncan.us Your Name
Address
City, State, Zip
Phone number
E-mail address
AND
To donate, send check, payable to National Coalition of American Nuns, to
National Coalition of American Nuns
12434 Klinger
Detroit, MI 48212-2764
A donation is not necessary to include your name in the ad.
Donations, beyond costs, will be given to Sister Louise Lears.
* Founded in 1969, the National Coalition of American Nuns is a Roman Catholic organization of women religious dedicated
to studying, working and speaking out on issues of human rights and justice in Church and society.
Thanks for your support!
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July 10, 2008
As of June 30, our net worth was $13,175.17 which is about $1,000 less than it was at the start of the year.
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June 19, 2008
We will be at St. Clement's for mass this coming Saturday evening at 6:30 PM. Please check our web site for directions:
dignitynova.org
Thanks to Father Stephen for leading us in our last Second Saturday Seminar of this semester,
and for leading us down memory lane of the "old" mass, transitioning into the changes resulting from Vatican II, and into
a very interesting discussion of the drastic changes coming in our Catholic liturgy. Further information about these
changes can be found at:
USCCB: Dramatic debate, cliffhanger result on liturgy | National Catholic Reporter
Conversation Cafe
Additional comments can be found at:
Whispers in the Loggia
Equality
Virginia is sponsoring a community meeting on Saturday, June 28 from 10:00AM until 2:00 PM at Unitarian Universalist Church
in Arlington to discuss issues of transgender identities as well as a briefing on the Federal Employment Non-Discrimination
Act (ENDA). Following the briefing will be a community discussion regarding Equality Virginia's bill to stop workplace
discrimination. For additional information and to RSVP, see:
Events - Equality Virginia
The
life expectancy of people who frequently attend religious services is 83 whereas the life expectancy of those who attend infrequently
is 75.
Live life longer! Attend mass with Dignity frequently.
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June 11, 2008
D/NoVA was honored to have DignityUSA President
Mark Matson and Executive Director Marianne Duddy-Burke join us at mass last Saturday evening. They spoke briefly about
D/USA's efforts during the Pope's visit which were very well received and widely distributed, about their plans for D/USA,
and about the success of their efforts so far to help re-energize D/USA and to re-connect with the chapters. As Father
Tim noted during his homily, it is important that we understand that we are not alone, but that we are part of a larger community
and organization which can significantly increase the effectiveness of our voice in responding to the Vatican. At the
end of mass, our president, Beth W., presented Marianne and Mark with a check for D/USA in the amount of $402 which represented
the $202 collected the last two weeks and $200 from the Belle Fund. Thank you very much for your generosity.
It
is not required that you be a member of D/USA to be a member of D/NoVA. However, D/USA does provide a critical service
which deserves our support. Membership in D/USA costs $50 a year. You can find out more about D/USA and become
a member by visiting their web site at: dignityusa.org Current members of D/USA are reminded that ballots
for the board of directors are due now. Among the candidates running for the board is Mark Clark of Dignity Washington
who is worthy of your consideration and support.
Our last Second Saturday Seminar for this semester will be this
Saturday evening, June 14, at 5:30 PM at ICOH. Father Stephen will lead the discussion on "Our Liturgy. Where from?
Where to?" Please join us for this program and stay for mass which will follow at 6:30 PM.
On Sunday, June
15, D/NoVA will be distributing our brochures from the DW booth at the Capital Pride Festival. Please stop by and say
hi. Thanks to DW for letting us share their space.
On Monday, June 16, there will be an LGBT Interfaith
Service at Hope Church UCC at 6130 Old Telegraph Rd. in Alexandria from 7:00 to 9:00 PM. All are invited to attend.
On Saturday, June 21, we will be celebrating mass at St. Clement's at 6:30 PM. Visit our website at dignitynova.org
for directions.
In March, 2009, Harry B. will be leading a 10-day tour of the Holy Lands. The trip's projected
cost will be about $2900 each based on two people sharing the same twin bedded room with private bath. The trip is open
to one and all, but will be limited to a maximum of thirty-five (35) travelers. Please direct any questions and concerns you
may have to Harry at: departurepoint@aol.com or by fax at (703) 242-4212, or by toll-free phone at (800) 764-6836. And if you are thinking of joining other members of
D/NoVA on the trip, please let him know your intentions soon by e-mail, fax or phone so that he can begin to construct a tentative
list of prospective voyagers. Please see the attached itinerary for further information. (Sorry if there is no
attachment as I am having some pc problems.)
Happy Pride!
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June 6, 2008
On Saturday evening, June 6, Mark Matson, the president of DignityUSA, and Marianne Duddy-Burke, the Executive Director
of D/USA will be with us to celebrate mass at 6:30 pm. They will speak to us briefly about the activities of Dignity
USA, and they will be glad to address any questions or concerns you might have about the group. D/USA is THE voice for
LGBT Catholics in this country. Mark and Marianne are here to help plan the D/USA Convention which will be held in DC
in 2011. They will be meeting at the Dignity Center at noon on Saturday to consider some different models for the convention
in 2011 to attempt to make the convention more attractive to a larger and wider audience. Please join us for the meeting
or send your ideas to us by replying to this email.
D/NoVA has been collecting money for D/USA at mass
the last two weeks. We collected $202. Together with $200 from the D/NoVA Belle Fund, we plan to present Mark
and Marianne with a check for $402 to show D/NoVA's appreciation and support for all their efforts during the Pope's recent
visit as well as for their efforts to re energize D/USA. Thank you for your contributions. In case you are
not on the D/USA email list, please visit them on the web at dignityusa.org and be sure to read the Publication
"Dateline" for a comprehensive look at the many activities D/USA is taking on our behalf as LGBT Catholics.
After
mass, all are welcome to kick-off Pride Week in Washington with a Dignity Washington Pot Luck on the rooftop of Jim Bedore's
condo at 1901 Wyoming Ave, NW, Wash, DC.
As part of Pride Week, there will be an interfaith service on
Tuesday, June 10th at 7:30 PM at Foundry UMC at 1500-16th St, NW, Washington, DC. Some of our presiders are expected
to take part. All are welcome.
On Saturday, June 14, at 5:30 PM Father Stephen will be presenting the last
of our Second Saturday Seminars for this semester. Please join us for another enlightening discussion.
On
Monday evening, June 23, join DW at the Washington Nationals baseball game at the new stadium. Tickets are $20 and can
be obtained by contacting Jake Huddson at 202-291-406 or at jhudson@imf.org
DignityUSA members are reminded to vote in the election for the candidates to the new Board of Directors.
Ballots must be received by June 20. Please give consideration to DW's Mark Clark who is running for the board.
Happy
Pride!
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May
29, 2008
Dignity sponsored a series of events before and during the recent papal visit that sent our message around the world
on a wave of impressive media coverage. Most widely read was an AP story that has been seen in more than 170 outlets
to date.
On April 10, Dignity USA cosponsored a panel discussion with notable LGBT Catholics organized
by New Ways Ministry. To listen to an audio file of the event, visit:
New Ways Ministry
Dignity
New York was at the UN on April 12 and their witness received tremendous media coverage both throughout the US and overseas.
AP photos and video have been used by many local outlets, blogs, and papers. To see pictures, watch a video news report,
and read the speeches from this event, visit:
DignityUSA - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgendered Catholics
and
Dignity
New York
On April 16, D/Washington coordinated two Witnesses along the papal motorcade routes. These was
reported on in the Washington Post and in a front page article in the Washington Blade which can be read at:
Pope
waves to gay Catholic group - Washington Blade
On April 19, D/NY member Brendan Fay (who co-produced the film
on Father Mychal Judge which several of us recently viewed) coordinated an interfaith vigil at ground Zero that focused on
the legacy of Father Judge. The vigil was covered by several local TV stations and newspapers.
Dignity
USA Vice President Lourdes Rodriguez-Nogues appeared on the worldwide Univision news show Aqui y ahora; and Jamie Manson of
D/NY appeared on a local TV news show where she discussed women's ordination and other issues.
During the week
of April 21, CBS News on Logo carried a story about Dignity's response to the papal visit.
Many thanks are due
to all those dedicated, hard working folks who courageously stood up for us during the papal visit so that our prophetic voice
would not be silenced.
Dignity USA president Mark Matson and Executive Director Marianne Duddy-Burke are going
to try to join us for mass on Saturday, June 7. It is expected that they will speak to us concerning the new initiatives
they are taking to strengthen D/USA as the voice of GLBT Catholics in this country as well as to re-energize the Dignity Chapters
across the nation.
D/NoVA will again be collecting money after mass this Saturday for D/USA. Many
thanks to those who helped us collect $122 last week for D/USA. D/NoVA will match up to $200 in donations. If
you wish to give by check, please make you check payable to D/NoVA. You may also send any contributions to our post
office box:
D/NoVA
PO Box 100566
Arlington, VA. 22210-3566.
We will combine the
funds and present a single check to Mark and Marianne at mass on June 7 to show D/NoVA's appreciation of D/USA's efforts and
support of D/USA's new leadership.
D/USA provided an essential presence and voice for GLBT Catholics during
the Pope's recent visit to America. That voice is not free. Our support of D/USA's mission is critical.
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May 22, 2008
About
30 people including two former presidents of D/NoVA joined in the celebration of our 16th Anniversary last Saturday night
at a potluck dinner at ICOH. Many thanks to Father Tim for his words of congratulations and inspiration during his homily
at the Trinity Sunday mass which preceded the party. And many thanks to everyone who attended and contributed food and
drink, and to all those who helped make the evening such a wonderful success. Congratulations to our 2008 Community
Service Award winners who were in attendance, Eileen H. and Tom B. Monika R. and Kevin S. also received
Community Service Awards and the President's Award was given to Mark J.
UPCOMING EVENTS:
Dignity
USA
In connection with their attendance at planning meetings in Washington concerning the 2011 D/USA convention
which will be held in Washington, Dignity USA president Mark Matson and Executive Director Marianne Duddy-Burke are going
to try to join us for mass on Saturday, June 7. It is expected that they will speak to us concerning the new initiatives
they are taking to strengthen D/USA as the voice of GLBT Catholics in this country as well as to re-energize the Dignity Chapters
across the nation.
D/NoVA will be collecting money after mass on the next two Saturdays for D/USA.
D/NoVA will match up to $200 in donations. If you wish to give by check, please make you check payable to D/NoVA.
You may also send any contributions to our post office box:
D/NoVA
PO Box 100566
Arlington, VA. 22210-3566.
We will combine the funds and present a single check to Mark and Marianne at mass.
D/USA's
new leadership provided an essential presence and voice for GLBT Catholics during the Pope's recent visit to America.
That voice is not free. Our support of D/USA's mission is critical.
If there is anyone with expertise
in convention planning who might be interested in attending these meetings on June 7 to help plan the 2008 D/USA Convention,
please respond to this email or contact David L.
GMCW
The Gay Mens Chorus of Washington kicks
off the 2008 Capitol Pride Week with a concert, America, the FABULOUS! featuring the Miss Fabulous America Pageant on Friday,
June 6, 2008 at 8 pm and again on Saturday, June 7, 2008 at 8 pm (ASL Interpreted) at the Lisner Auditorium of The George
Washington University, 730 21st Street, NW, Washington, DC. Further information and tickets can be purchased at www.gmcw.org
PRIDE 2008
The 2008 Capitol Pride Celebration is right around the corner. Of special interest
is the Interfaith Service to be held on Tuesday, June 10th, at 7:30PM at Foundry UMC located at 1500 - 16th St, NW, Washington,
DC. It is anticipated that one or two of our Dignity Presiders will be taking part in this service which celebrates
the GLBT faith communities. Additional information on all of the activities of Pride Week can be found at:
2008
Capital Pride Calendar ~ History. Vision. Legacy. ~ Capital Pride 2008
D/NoVA will have outreach efforts at the
DW booth at the Capitol Pride festival on Father's Day, Sunday, June 15th.
Second Saturday Seminar
Our
last Second Saturday seminar for the season will be on Saturday, June 14th starting at 5:30pm @ICOH before our regularly scheduled
mass at 6:30 pm. Father Stephen McDonnell will be presenting that evening. All are invited and encouraged to attend
this last session before we break for the summer.
Moon Over Washington
All are invited to attend
DW's potluck dinner on the rooftop at Jim Bedore's home following mass on Saturday, June 7. Please contact David L.
for further information.
Night Out With the Washington Nationals
D/NoVA is invited to join Dignity/Washington
and Team DC for "Night Out with the Washington Nationals!" The baseball game will be against the LA/Anaheim Angels on
Monday, June 23. Tickets are $20.00 a piece and will go on sale soon. We are also looking for opportunities to still have
a tailgate party before the game. If anyone lives close to the new stadium or has access to an outdoor parking place near
the stadium, please contact Jake Hudson at (202) 291-5406 [H] or via email at:
jhudson@imf.org.
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May 16, 2008
D/NoVA will be celebrating its 16th Anniversary with a pot luck dinner after mass this coming Saturday night.
Please consider the following as a guide to what to bring. For those with a last name beginning A to I, it is suggested that
you bring a main dish. If your last name begins from J to Q, bring a dessert; and from R to Z, bring an appetizer.
But this is a suggestion only. The main thing is that you come and join the celebration of D/NoVA's 16 years of service
to the community and honor those members of our community who have given so much to keep our group healthy and strong.
At
DW this coming Sunday, 5/18, there will be a guest homilist, the Rev. Peter Antoci, Episcopal Chaplain and Vicar at
the University of Maryland in College Park. As many of you know, Peter is a former member of D/W, and previously served
the community in a variety of leadership roles.
Bishop Geoffrey Robinson, Auxiliary Bishop (retired) Sidney,
Australia, discusses his new book, "Confronting Power and Sex in the Catholic Church-Reclaiming the Spirit of Jesus"
on Monday, May 19 at 7:00 pm at the National 4-H Youth Conference Center, 7100 Connecticut Ave, Chevy Chase MD. From
1997 until 2003, Bishop Robinson co-chaired the committee which coordinated the Australian Catholic Church's response to revelations
of sexual abuse. Following his talk, Bishop Robinson will sign copies of his book. (Available that evening for purchase at
cost. Cash or check only.) This event is sponsored by Voice of the Faithful, Greater Washington Affiliates.
For more information about the event contact Bob Stewart at 703-819-0479 or grobertstewart@aol.com
OTHER UPCOMING EVENTS- SAVE THE DATE
On Friday, June
6, some of our Dignity/USA national officers will be in town for a meeting. If you are interested in possibly
providing housing for D/USA President Mark Matson and/or D/USA Executive Director Marianne Duddy-Burke, please contact DW
Chapter President Ray Panas at: rpanas@starpower.net. Marianne and Mark will attempt to join us at mass on Saturday, June 7,
if their meetings wrap-up in time. Thanks for your help!
The Gay Mens Chorus of Washington kicks off the
2008 Capitol Pride Week with a concert, America, the FABULOUS! featuring the Miss Fabulous America Pageant on Friday, June
6, 2008 at 8 pm and again on Saturday, June 7, 2008 at 8 pm (ASL Interpreted) at the Lisner Auditorium of The George Washington
University, 730 21st Street, NW, Washington, DC. Further information and tickets can be purchased at www.gmcw.org
Our last Second Saturday seminar for the season will be on Saturday,
June 14th starting at 5:30pm @ICOH before our regularly scheduled mass at 6:30 pm. Father Stephen McDonnell will be
presenting that evening. All are invited and encouraged to attend this last session before we break for the summer.
D/NoVA is invited to join Dignity/Washington and Team DC for "Night Out with the Washington Nationals!"
The baseball game will be against the LA/Anaheim Angels on Monday, June 23. Tickets are $20.00 a piece and will go on sale
soon. We are also looking for opportunities to still have a tailgate party before the game. If anyone lives close to the new
stadium or has access to an outdoor parking place near the stadium, please contact Jake Hudson at (202) 291-5406 [H] or via
email at:
jhudson@imf.org.
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May 5, 2008
Thanks and
best wishes to Father Joe P. Thanks for the extraordinary honesty, humanity, and insight in the homily he delivered
to us last Saturday night. And best wishes for a safe journey and successful semester this summer in Chile. We
will miss him, keep him in our thoughts, and pray for his safe return at the end of the summer.
Second Saturday
Seminar
Be sure to join us this Saturday, May 10 starting at 5:30PM for the next session in our seminar series.
Fr. Alexei's topic will be "Ecumenism - the Church and Inter-Religious Dialogue." Pope Benedict's recent visit to the
United States involved meetings with religious leaders and focused to a great extent on the Church's relationship with Christian
and non -Christian religious traditions and practices. Fr. Alexei's comments will highlight some of those relationships
and reflect on the Church's present posture in the field of inter-religious dialogue.
D/NoVA's 16th Anniversary
D/NoVA will celebrate it's 16th anniversary with a pot luck in the social hall @ ICOH after mass on May 17.
All are welcomed and encouraged to attend to celebrate D/NoVA's continued service to the GLBT community of Northern Virginia.
D/USA "Quarterly Voice"
View the 2nd Quarter 2008 QV Quarterly Voice in PDF:
http://www.dignityusa.org/pdf/qv/2008/QV_DUSA_2ndQtr2008.pdf
Journey to the HOLY LANDS in March 2009
Harry B. will be leading a pilgrimage vacation to the
Holy Lands next March. While many Americans express fear of traveling in the Holy Land, Harry's experience strongly suggest
that our fears are stretched out of reasonable proportions. Should a cancellation of the program, however, be called
for, he would not hesitate to take appropriate action. And it goes without saying that he would not take any person or any
group into harm's way. Visitors from other countries are, in fact, flocking to the Holy Land in substantial numbers.
The
accompanying material will provide an explanation of the program. The per-person cost of the trip is projected at this time
to be $2,900, based on two people sharing a twin-bedded room with private bath and departing from Washington, D.C.'s Dulles
International Airport. The cost of departures from other cities would be prorated accordingly. The projected per-person cost
is subject to revision prior to departure due to fluctuating fuel costs, the international currency market and other variable
factors.
By August 1st, Harry would like to have a sense of the number of people who might seriously consider
making the journey. He needs to have the proverbial 'ball park figure' so as to know how many seats to block on the flights
and how many rooms to continue to hold for the group in the hotels. Completed application forms and deposits will need to
be made around Labor Day – or as soon thereafter as someone is intending to travel. By the time registrations
are required you should be able to register for the travel program on line at his company's site, www.DeparturePointTravel.com
The trip is open to one and all, but it is best to limit the group to a maximum of thirty-five (35) travelers.
Please direct any questions and concerns you may have to Harry at: departurepoint@aol.com or by fax at (703) 242-4212, or by toll-free phone at (800) 764-6836. Also contact him if you are not able to access the
attachment. And if you are thinking of joining Harry on this jurney, please let him know your intentions soon by e-mail,
fax or phone so that he can begin to construct a tentative list of prospective voyagers.
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May 3, 2008
A big thank
you goes out to Monika and Marty for hosting Movie night last Saturday. Good food, drink, conversation and the viewing of
“The Saint of 9/11” made for a wonderful community get together. In
addition, $450 was raised for our General Revenue Fund.
On May 17th Dignity NOVA will be celebrating its 16th
anniversary. We will be having a potluck immediately following Mass at ICOH. Please see Karen P. for details. Additional
information will be announced.
Our Second Saturday Seminar series continues on May 10 with Father Alexei conducting
the seminar. The seminar begins at 5:30 PM at
ICOH with our regular mass following at 6:30 PM.
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April 12, 2008
The Fourth Sunday of Easter
Readings: Acts 2:14a, 36-41 I Peter
2:20b-25 John 10:1-10
For a commentary on the readings, see: http://www.dignityusa.org/breath/spirit.html
New Board Member Our president, Beth W., announced that John W. had accepted appointment to the
board as an At Large Member for a term to run through 2008. Many thanks to John
for his willingness to serve our community in this important role.
Papal Visit Activities On
Monday, April 14 (6:15PM) Inclusive
Catholic Liturgy sponsored by the Women's Ordination Conference @ Foundry United Methodist Church, 1500 16th Street NW, Wash.
On Wed, April 16 (5:00PM) Presentation of GLBT Catholics sponsored by Dig/Wash at the Basilica of the National Shrine
of the Immaculate Conception, 400 Michigan Avenue NE, Washington, DC. Tom B. and Ray P. will arrive early to secure space along Michigan Avenue between Harewood and Irving Streets. People should plan to join us around 4:30. The
Catholic U Metro stop is 4 blocks away.
GLAA Award to Dignity Washington
On Thursday, April 17 (6:30-9:00PM) DW is to receive the 2008 Distinguished
Service Award from GLAA at the Washington Plaza Hotel, 10 Thomas Circle, Washington DC. Tickets $50 R.S.V.P. to equal@glaa.org or 202-667-5139
D/NoVA Board of Directors Meeting The next meeting of
the board will be on Saturday, April 19th starting at 5:00PM @ ICOH. Several important
issues including planning for our 16th Anniversary will be discussed. All are
welcomed and encouraged to attend.
AGLCA 25TH ANNIVERSARY GALA DINNER INFORMATION Saturday evening, April 19, 2008;
7:00 PM-12:00 AM @ Embassy
Suites Hotel, 1900 Diagonal
Road, Alexandria, VA 22314 . Black tie (optional)
for the gentlemen or a suit /coat and tie. Formal or semi formal dresses (optional) or pants suits, skirts, etc., for the
ladies. Cash bar. Contact Billy L. at aglca25th@gmail.com or 202.421.5085.
Cabaret Night
April 25 (Friday): At The NEW Piano Bar Upstairs at Bistro Lafayette, 1118 King Street, Old Town Alexandria, 9:00 PM To Approximately
12:00
AM. The tradition of the monthly AGLCA Cabaret Night continues, thanks to the wonderful people at Bistro Lafayette,
and promises to be bigger and better than before. The magnificent Pat Rohrer is back at the keyboard in a newly redecorated
space and a good time will be had by all. Suggested attire: Snappy Casual.
NOVAM’s annual gala fund raiser, Imagine 2008, is scheduled for Saturday, April 26, 2008 at the Torpedo Factory. For additional
information, contact Lisa K. at (703) 533-5505 ext 13.
Save the
Date
The Washington Mystics have invited D/NoVA members to attend the game on
May 31st with the HRC. Discount ticket information
will be provided later.
Fortunate Families a national network that ministers to Catholic parents of GLBT children has added
useful new features to their website, including: a list of GLBT-friendly organizations and churches, two new DVDs and “Answers to Your Questions For a Better Understanding of Sexual Orientation,” a recently published article from the American Psychological Association. http://www.fortunatefamilies.com/index.htm
Sr.Jeannine notes that lesbian women over age 60 might be interested in the organization “Old
Lesbians Organizing for Change” which has announced plans for a national gathering entitled “California Dreaming:
Building a Better World for Every Old Lesbian” to be held at the Hacienda Hotel in LA, CA, from July 30 to August 3,
2008. For registration and other info, please go to: www.oloc.org.
Harry B. is planning to lead a group of interested participants
on a “Pilgrimage to the Holy Land” in March 2009. For more details, contact Harry on
703 242-4203 or at: departurepoint@aol.com
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March 29, 2008
Readings: Acts
2:42-47 I Peter 1:3-9
John 20:1931
For a commentary on the readings, see: http://www.dignityusa.org/breath/spirit.html
Easter Triduun 2008
Many thanks to the Liturgy Committees of DW and D/NoVA (Harry B. and Jack K.) for the planning and execution of our Easter liturgies. The ceremonies and rituals were beautiful, and the music was inspiring.
We received many comments on the beautiful altar of repose that Kevin S. set up on Holy Thursday. Many thanks to all those who contributed their time and talent to make this Easter a truly unique spiritual
experience probably unmatched by any other community in the area. Thanks to those
who brought the beautiful lilies to decorate our church. And thanks to all those
who contributed to and join in the wonderful dessert social after the Vigil Mass on Holy Saturday. An abundance of goodies made the fellowship a great success.
Thanks to Karen P. and the crew for setting up and cleaning up after the party.
We are proud to report that we had about 70 people in attendance at the Vigil Mass.
Please share with Harry B. or members of the board any comments you might
have about our Triduum services. We are always looking for ways to improve liturgies
and meet the needs of our members.
Second Saturday Seminar Our next seminar on the topic of “The Catholic Social
Imagination- Issues of Catholic ‘Social’ Teaching” will
be presented by Father Joe P. of Georgetown University on April 12th starting promptly at 5:30 PM @ ICOH. We have had good attendance and great reviews from these sessions.
Please join us for these very informative and informal sessions to learn more about our faith and to help us grow as
mature adults in our faith.
Session Five, “Reforming the Way We Worship?” will be presented by Father Stephen M. on Saturday, May 10, 2008 beginning at 5:30 p.m.
Dignity NoVA's
Web Site: Please be sure to regularly check out our web
site at: dignitynova.org
There you can find copies of our Bulletins, links to other interesting web sites, a calendar of events, interesting
reflections on issues of pertinence to our community, and a wealth of other information. Let us know if you have any links
or other information which you think should be added to our web site.
D/NoVA Board of Directors Meeting
The next meeting of the board will be on Saturday, April 19th starting at 5:00PM @ ICOH. Several important issues including planning for our 16th Anniversary will be discussed. All are welcomed and encouraged to attend.
AGLCA 25TH ANNIVERSARY GALA DINNER INFORMATION Saturday evening, April 19, 2008;
7:00 PM-12:00 AM @ Embassy Suites Hotel, 1900 Diagonal
Road, Alexandria, VA
22314 . Black
tie (optional) for the gentlemen or a suit /coat and tie. Formal or semi formal dresses (optional) or pants suits, skirts,
etc., for the ladies. Cash bar. Contact Billy L. at aglca25th@gmail.com or 202.421.5085;
or contact Gina V. at 202.397.0182 or at blythe1956@aol.com
NOVAM’s annual gala fund raiser, Imagine 2008, is scheduled for Saturday, April 26, 2008 at the Torpedo Factory. For additional information, contact
Lisa K. at (703) 533-5505 ext 13.
Save the Date The Washington Mystics have invited D/NoVA members
to attend the game on May 31st with the HRC. Discount ticket information will be provided later.
If you have any items of interest for our D/NoVA community, please send them to us at our email address: dignitynova@gmail.com
Continue to celebrate Easter and enjoy the beauty of the Cherry Blossom and Spring in the wonderfully blessed
Washington, DC area.
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Saturday, February 23, 2008
Readings: Exodus 17:3-7
Romans 5:1-2, 5-8 John 4:5-42
For a commentary on the readings, see: http://www.dignityusa.org/breath/spirit.html
Laura H. who was elected as an At Large member of the Board of Directors has been
appointed as our new Secretary by our President, Beth W. She replaces Gina V.
who had to resign from the Board because of a work transfer. Many thanks to Gina for her service to our community, and thanks to Laura for stepping forward to perform
the duties of Secretary for our organization. On behalf of the D/NoVA community,
the Board would like to express its appreciation to Gina for the new spirit and energy she brought to our community. We will miss her. Any member who might
be interested in being appointed to the Board as an At Large member should see our president, Beth W.
Penance Service March 1. Individual confession available about 20 minutes before mass.
Second Saturday Seminar
Our next seminar on the topic of “How the Bible Came To Be” will be presented by Harry B. on March 8th
starting promptly at 5:30 PM @ ICOH.
We have had good attendance and great reviews from the first two sessions. Please
join us for these very informative and informal sessions to learn more about our faith and to help us grow as mature adults
in our faith.
Holy Week planning is underway. We will again
join with DW to sponsor the Triduum services. There is a need for Readers, Eucharistic
Ministers, Greeters and Ushers, etc. as well as help with the pot luck dessert social which will follow the Easter Vigil. Please see Harry B. or any member of the Board if you might be able to help out. Sign up sheets will be available in the
back of church. Please pick-up a copy of our Easter 2008 schedule and fact
sheet which describes the meaning and intent of out Triduum services.
DW’s Annual St. Joseph’s Dinner: March 29th @ All Souls Memorial Episcopal Church.
Dignity NoVA's Web Site: Please be sure to regularly check out our
web site at: dignitynova.org
There you can find copies of our Bulletins, links to other interesting web sites, a calendar of events, interesting
reflections on issues of pertinence to our community, and a wealth of other information. Let us know if you have any links
or other information which you think should be added to our web site.
2007 Dignity NoVA Financial Statements: Please
pick up a copy of our 2007 Financial Statement from the table in the church vestibule.
If you have any questions, please contact David L.
2007 Contribution Letters: Recently, statements
have been distributed to those individuals who made contributions to D/NoVA by check during 2007. If you contributed
by check but do not receive this statement in the next week or so, please contact our treasurer, David L. Also,
if you have any questions or comments on the accuracy of the statement you receive, please discuss these with him.
“So The Bible Tells Me So”: Date To Be Announced. D/NoVA
is co-sponsoring a showing of this movie with ALGCA. Anyone interested
in leading a panel discussion or fielding questions after the movie should contact Beth W.
AGLCA 25TH ANNIVERSARY GALA DINNER INFORMATION Saturday evening, April 19, 2008;
7:00 PM-12:00 AM @ Embassy Suites Hotel, 1900 Diagonal
Road, Alexandria, VA
22314 . Black
tie (optional) for the gentlemen or a suit /coat and tie. Formal or semi formal dresses (optional) or pants suits, skirts,
etc., for the ladies. Cash bar. Contact Billy L. at aglca25th@gmail.com or 202.421.5085;
or contact Gina V. at 202.397.0182 or at blythe1956@aol.com
NOVAM’s annual gala fund raiser, Imagine 2008, is scheduled for Saturday, April 26, 2008 at the Torpedo Factory. For additional information, contact
Lisa K. at (703) 533-5505 ext 13.
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Saturday February 9, 2008
Readings: Gnesis 2:7-9; 3:1-7 Romans 5:12-19 Matthew 4:1-11
For a commentary
on the readings, see: http://www.dignityusa.org/breath/spirit.html
Gina
V., our Secretary, announced that because of a work transfer, she will not be able to fulfill the duties of Secretary
for the remainder of her term. On behalf of the D/NoVA community, the board would like to express its appreciation to Gina
for the new spirit and energy she brought to our community. We will miss her. Any members who might be interested in being
appointed to the Board should see our president, Beth W.
Dignity Northern Virginia's Web Site: Please be sure to
regularly check out our web site at: dignitynova.org There you can find copies of our Bulletins, links to other interesting
web sites, a calendar of events, interesting reflections on issues of pertinence to our community, and a wealth of other information.
If you have any links or other information which you think should be added to our web site, please let David L know.
2007
Dignity NoVA Financial Statements: Please pick up a copy of our 2007 Financial Statement
from the table in the church vestibule. If you have any questions about our financial situation, please contact David L.
2007
Contribution Letters: Recently, statements have been distributed to those individuals who
made contributions to D/NoVA by check during 2007. If you contributed by check but do not receive this statement
in the next week or so, please contact our treasurer, David L. Also, if you have any questions or comments on the accuracy
of the statement you receive, please discuss these with him.
D/NoVA
Board of Directors are
meeting on Saturday, 2/16 at 5:00 pm at ICOH to discuss several important issues including the vacancy on the board and planning
our potluck social following the Easter Vigil on 3/22.
Couples Blessing: For St. Valentine's Day, we have
a special couples blessing at mass on Feb. 16th.
Dignity Washington Valentine's Community Potluck Dinner: DW's Valentine's Potluck Dinner is Sat., 2/16 @7:30 PM
in the party room at "The Barclay," @ 1016 S. Wayne Street, in Arlington,VA.
Loyola College in Baltimore: If any members of our community might be interested
in speaking to the GLBT group at Loyola about both D/NoVa and the position of LGBT individuals within the Church, please contact
our president.
“So The Bible Tells Me So ”: Date To Be Announced. D/NoVA is co-sponsoring a showing of this
movie with ALGCA. Anyone interested in leading a panel discussion or fielding questions
after the movie should contact Beth W.
THESIS REQUEST: Kathleen Boucher is a student at Amherst who attends
Dignity and who is writing her honors thesis for the Sociology Department in part on the history of Dignity and the impact
it has had on the GLBT community and on the broader issue of being GLBT and Catholic. She is collecting data through in-depth
interviews which will take about an hour to complete. The strength of her research depends its large size and variation. As
a result any help is welcome. If you would be interested in being interviewed by Kathleen, please contact her at kboucher08@amherst.edu
or at 202-607-1532.
AGLCA 25TH ANNIVERSARY GALA DINNER INFORMATION Saturday evening, April 19, 2008;
7:00 PM-12:00 AM @ Embassy Suites Hotel, 1900 Diagonal Road, Alexandria, VA 22314 .
Black tie (optional) for the gentlemen or a suit /coat and tie. Formal or semi formal dresses (optional) or pants suits, skirts,
etc., for the ladies. Cash bar. Contact Billy L. at aglca25th@gmail.com or 202.421.5085;
or contact Gina V. at 02.397.0182 or at blythe1956@aol.com
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Saturday, January 26, 2007
Readings: Isaiah 8:23-9:3 I Corinthians 1:1-13, 17 Matthew 4:12-23
For a commentary on the
readings, see: http://www.dignityusa.org/breath/spirit.html
Gina
V., our Secretary, announced that because of a work transfer, she will not be able to fulfill the duties of Secretary
for the remainder of her term. On behalf of the D/NoVA community, the board would like to express its appreciation to Gina
for the new spirit and energy she brought to our community. We will miss her. Any members who might be interested in being
appointed to the Board should see our president, Beth W.
Dignity Northern Virginia's Web Site: Please be sure to regularly
check out our web site at: dignitynova.org There you can find copies of our Bulletins, links to other interesting web sites,
a calendar of events, interesting reflections on issues of pertinence to our community, and a wealth of other information.
If you have any links or other information which you think should be added to our web site, please let David L know.
2007 Dignity
NoVA Financial Statements: Please pick up a copy of our 2007 Financial Statement from
the table in the church vestibule. If you have any questions about our financial situation, please contact David L.
2007 Contribution
Letters: Recently, statements have been distributed to those individuals who made contributions
to D/NoVA by check during 2007. If you contributed by check but do not receive this statement in the next week
or so, please contact our treasurer, David L. Also, if you have any questions or comments on the accuracy of the statement
you receive, please discuss these with him.
St.
Blaise Feast Day: February
3 (Blessing of Throats after Mass on Saturday, Feb. 2)
Second Saturday Seminar: February 9th @ 5:30 PM @ ICOH. Please join in as Harry B. leads us in our second session discussing Vatican II.
Couples Blessing:
For St. Valentine's Day, we have a special couples blessing at mass on Feb. 16th.
Dignity Washington Valentine's Community Potluck Dinner: DW's Valentine's Potluck Dinner is Sat., 2/16 @7:30 PM
in the party room at "The Barclay," @ 1016 S. Wayne Street, in Arlington,VA.
Loyola College in Baltimore: If any members of our community might be interested
in speaking to the GLBT group at Loyola about both D/NoVa and the position of LGBT individuals within the Church, please contact
our president.
“So The Bible Tells Me So ”: Date To Be Announced. D/NoVA is co-sponsoring a showing of this
movie with ALGCA. Anyone interested in leading a panel discussion or fielding questions
after the movie should contact Beth W.
THESIS REQUEST: Kathleen Boucher is a student at Amherst who attends
Dignity and who is writing her honors thesis for the Sociology Department in part on the history of Dignity and the impact
it has had on the GLBT community and on the broader issue of being GLBT and Catholic. She is collecting data through in-depth
interviews which will take about an hour to complete. The strength of her research depends its large size and variation. As
a result any help is welcome. If you would be interested in being interviewed by Kathleen, please contact her at kboucher08@amherst.edu
or at 202-607-1532.
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Saturday, January 19, 2008
For a commentary on the readings see Dignity USA's web site at:
DignityUSA - Breath of the Spirit: Pastoral, Liturgical, Teaching, and Social Justice
IMPORTANT TAX NOTICE
Dignity Northern Virginia has been classified as a public charity by IRS and is exempt from federal income
taxes under section 501 ( c ) (3) of the IRS Code. It is qualified to receive tax deductible bequests, devises, transfers
or gifts; and in general, contributions to Dignity Northern Virginia can be claimed as a deduction on an individual’s
tax return under section 170 of the Code.
According to IRS, "cash" means any form of monetary contribution including cash, checks, money orders, credit
card contributions, etc. An individual must keep records to prove the amount of the cash, check, or payroll deduction
contributed to Dignity/NOVA if the individual wishes to claim a deduction on his or her tax return. While D/NoVA does not
have or keep a record of the amount of dollar bills, etc. that an individual puts into the collection basket, we do keep a
record of an individual’s contributions made by check.
Starting January 1, 2007, IRS advised that donors must keep better records -- checks, receipts, credit card
statements, etc. -- for all cash donations no matter how small in order to deduct those contributions from an individual's
tax return. D/NOVA is in compliance with these requirements and will continue to make every effort
to correctly document all contributions made by check. By February 1, 2008, D/NOVA will be providing documentation to
all individuals who made contribution by check in 2007. D/NOVA has no way of identifying cash contributions other than
check placed in the collection basket unless the individual places the contribution in a sealed envelope with identifying
information including the contributor's name and address or makes other arrangements with the Treasurer.
If you have questions concerning deductibility of contributions, consult your tax adviser. Questions concerning
D/NOVA finances and reporting should be addressed to the President or Treasurer.
St.
Blaise Feast Day February 3 (Blessing of Throats
after Mass on Saturday, Feb. 2)
Dignity Washington Valentine's Community Potluck Dinner
DW's Valentine's Potluck Dinner is Sat., 2/16 @7:30 PM in the party room at "The Barclay," @ 1016
S. Wayne Street, in Arlington,VA.
Palms into Ashes
With the approach of Ash Wednesday (on February 6), we will be collecting palms to be turned
into ash for Ash Wednesday. Those of you with palms from last year are invited to bring them with you to any of
our Saturday Masses at ICOH, and turn them in at the back of the church.
Bishop Gene Robinson
Bishop Gene Robinson, the first openly gay, non-celibate Episcopal priest to be named
bishop talked about his personal life and his religion in a speech delivered last month at the NOVA Southeastern University
in Florida. His very interesting, amusing, enlightening, and affirming speech can be seen by finding the link on Google at Bishop Robinson c-span American Perspectives It begins at the one hour mark into
the program and you can skip the first program and get to Bishop Robinson's remarks.
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Feast of the Baptism of the Lord (Sunday, January
13, 2008)
The Proclamation of the Date
of Easter on Epiphany dates from
a time when calendars were not readily available. It was necessary to make known the date of Easter in advance, since many
celebrations of the liturgical year depend on its date. The number of Sundays that follow Epiphany, the date of Ash Wednesday,
and the number of Sundays that follow Pentecost are all computed in relation to Easter. Although calendars now
give the date of Easter and the other feasts in the liturgical year in advance, the Epiphany proclamation still has value.
It is a reminder of the centrality of the resurrection of the Lord in the liturgical year and the importance of the great
mysteries of faith which are celebrated each year. Since Ash Wednesday is less than a month away, the Epiphany Proclamation
is reprinted here to alert all to the early start of Lent this year.
“Dear brothers and sisters, the glory of the Lord has shone upon us,and shall ever
be manifest among us, until the day of his return. Through the rhythms of times and seasons let us celebrate the mysteries
of salvation. Let us recall the year’s culmination, the Easter
Triduum of the Lord: his Last Supper, his crucifixion and death, his burial, and
his rising, celebrated between the evening of the 20th of March
and the evening of the 23rd of March.
Each Easter—as on each Sunday—the Holy Church makes present the great and saving deed by which Christ has forever
conquered sin and death. From Easter are reckoned all the days we keep holy. Ash
Wednesday, the beginning of Lent,will occur on the 6th
of February. The Ascension
of the Lord will be commemorated on the 4th of May.
Pentecost, the joyful conclusion
of the season of Easter, will be celebrated on May 11th.
And this year the First Sunday of Advent
will be on the 30th of November.
Likewise the pilgrim Church proclaims the Passover of Christ in the feasts of the holy Mother of God, in the feasts of the
Apostles and Saints, and in the commemoration of the faithful departed. To Jesus Christ, who was, who is, and who is to come,
Lord of time and history, be endless praise, forever and ever. Amen.”
"My Girlfriend Did
It"
On January 17th, the Alexandria Gay & Lesbian Community Association
invites all to join them for a free screening and discussion of the film, "My Girlfriend Did It, "-a documentary
that explores the dynamics of violence in same-sex relationships and examines the impact of oppression when addressing this
abuse. The screening will take place at 7:0 PM at the Dr. Oswald Durant Memorial Center, 1605 Cameron Street, Alexandria.
Refreshments provided. Co-hosted by the Alexandria GLCA, the Alexandria Sexual and Domestic Violence Programs, Alexandria
City Councilman Justin Wilson, and the Anti-Violence Project of Equality Virginia. For more information, please contact Erika at 202-277-8439; Domestic Violence Hotline: 703-838-4911;
Sexual Violence Hotline: 703-683-7273.
BOARD OF DIRECTORS
MEETING
The D/NoVA BOD
will meet at 5:30 PM @ICOH on 1/26 to discuss plans for the new year including our spiritual and social calendar for 2008,
Lent and Easter plans, our budget, membership, and a variety of other issues which are of importance to our community.
Your input is needed. All are welcome and encouraged to attend.
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St. Blaise Feast Day February 3 (Blessing of Throats after mass on Saturday Feb. 2, 2008)
Many Catholics might remember Saint Blaise's feast day because of the Blessing of the Throats that took place
on this day. Two candles are blessed, held slightly open, and pressed against the throat as the blessing is said. Saint Blaise's
protection of those with throat troubles apparently comes from a legend that a boy was brought to him who had a fish bone stuck in his throat. The boy was about
to die when Saint Blaise healed him.
Prayer in honor of St. Blaise: O GOD, deliver us through the intercession of Thy holy bishop and martyr
Blaise, from all evil of soul and body, especially from all ills of the throat; and grant us the grace to make a good confession
in the confident hope of obtaining Thy pardon, and ever to praise with worthy lips Thy most holy name. Through Christ our
Lord. Amen.
Dignity Washington Valentine's Community Potluck Dinner
D/W's Valentine's
Community Potluck Dinner is Saturday, 2/16 @7:30 PM in the party room at "The Barclay," which is located at 1016 S. Wayne
Street, in Arlington, Virginia.
Palms into Ashes
With the approach
of Ash Wednesday (on February 6), we will be collecting palms to be turned into ash for Ash Wednesday. Those
of you with palms from last year are invited to bring them with you to any of our Saturday Masses at ICOH, and turn
them in at the back of the church.
Musical Director for the Lesbian and Gay Chorus of Washington
Rick M., Co-Facilitator
of the Lesbian and Gay Chorus of Washington, reports that the chorus is seeking a new Music Director. Full information
about the position, which has an annual salary of $18,000, is posted on the Chorus website, www.lgcw.org. Application deadline is January 15.
LAST CALL FOR ITALY!
Sister
Jeannine's Gramick's pilgrimage to Sicily, Naples and Rome leaves on March 4 and returns in time for you to participate in
our Easter Triduum services with DW. Join with other members of D/NoVA and DW who are going on the pilgrimage.
Further information is available by contacting Sister Jeannine at NewWaysM@verizon.net or call her at 301-277-5674.
Bishop
Gene Robinson
Bishop
Gene Robinson, the first openly gay, non-celibate Episcopal priest to be named bishop talked about his personal life
and his religion in a speech delivered last month at the NOVA Southeastern University in Florida. His very interesting,
amusing, enlightening, and affirming speech can be seen by finding the link on Google at Bishop Robinson c-span American Perspectives It begins at the one hour mark into the program and you can skip the first program and get to Bishop Robinson's
remarks.
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Feast of the Epiphany January 5, 2008
Dignity NoVa is sponsoring a once-a-month program of adult continuing education beginning next Saturday,
January 12, 2008, at 5:30 PM at ICOH. These "Second Saturday Seminars" will be focused on growth
in understanding our faith and our mission as contemporary disciples.
The Church has
and continues to evolve and change; and we cannot hope to understand the Church's present teaching on issues of our lives
without opening the doors of the Second Vatican Council. The first two sessions will be presented by Harry
B. who will lay out the historical and theological background and basis for the Church's present positions on biblical, doctrinal,
social, ethical and moral issues and spirituality flowing from the documents of the Second Vatican Council. He will
also lead us in the third session which will look at the Church and the Scripture in the 21st century.
No prerequisites
or reservations are required. All are welcomed and encouraged to attend. Each seminar will end
in time for the regular Saturday liturgy at 6:30 PM. Each seminar is free of charge and open to all interested individuals.
"My Girlfriend Did
It"
On January 17th, the Alexandria Gay & Lesbian
Community Association invites all to join them for a free screening and discussion of the
film, "My Girlfriend Did It, "-a documentary that explores the dynamics of violence in same-sex relationships and examines
the impact of oppression when addressing this abuse. The screening will take place at 7:0 PM at the Dr. Oswald Durant Memorial
Center, 1605 Cameron Street, Alexandria. Refreshments provided. Co-hosted by the Alexandria GLCA, the Alexandria Sexual and
Domestic Violence Programs, Alexandria City Councilman Justin Wilson, and the Anti-Violence Project of Equality Virginia.
For more information, please contact Erika at 202-277-8439;
Domestic Violence Hotline: 703-838-4911; Sexual Violence Hotline: 703-683-7273.
St. Blaise Feast Day February 3 (Blessing of Throats after mass on Saturday Feb. 2, 2008)
Many Catholics might remember Saint Blaise's feast day because of the Blessing of the Throats that took place on this
day. Two candles are blessed, held slightly open, and pressed against the throat as the blessing is said. Saint Blaise's protection
of those with throat troubles apparently comes from a legend that a boy was brought to him who had a fish bone stuck in his
throat. The boy was about to die when Saint Blaise healed him.
Prayer in honor of St. Blaise: O GOD, deliver us through the intercession of Thy holy bishop and martyr Blaise, from
all evil of soul and body, especially from all ills of the throat; and grant us the grace to make a good confession in the
confident hope of obtaining Thy pardon, and ever to praise with worthy lips Thy most holy name. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
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CHRISTMAS EVE, December 24, 2007
MERRY
CHRISTMAS-------A
PROCLAMATION OF THE BIRTH OF CHRIST
Today, the
twenty-fifth day of December, in this, the two thousand seventh year of Our Lord; Unknown ages from the time when God created
the heaves and the earth, and then formed woman and man in God’s own image; Seven thousand years after the flood, when
God made the rainbow shine forth as a sign of the covenant; Twenty-one centuries from the time of Abraham, and Sarah; Thirteen
centuries after Moses led the people of Israel out of Egypt; Eleven hundred years from the time of Ruth and the Judges; One
thousand years from the anointing of David as king; In the sixty-fifth week according to the prophecy of Daniel; In the one
hundred and ninety-fourth Olympiad, the seven hundred and fifty-second year from the foundation of the city of Rome; The forty-second
year of the reign of Octavian Augustus, the whole world being at peace; Jesus Christ was born in the city of Bethlehem of
Judea, the Son of Mary. Today is the nativity of Our Lord, Jesus Christ, according to the flesh.
A Christmas Message from our
president, Beth, to the Dignity/NoVA community:
Over 2,000 years ago God blessed our world with
the presence of Jesus, in the form of a tiny baby. His parents, Mary and Joseph, protected him and raised him in a world of
poverty and violence not unlike our own today. But the life and teachings of Jesus brought incomparable generosity and love
to all humanity. Today over 2 billion Christians all around the world celebrate the birth of this wondrous God-Child.
May we join with them in spreading the light and love of this incarnate God to all our earthly brothers and sisters. Have a blessed Christmas and a happy and healthy new year!
D/NoVA Christmas Projects
Thanks to all those who purchased Christmas ornaments from DW's
Defenders to support NOVAM's programs. Thanks also for the many contributions of items and toys and money for the Carpenter's
Shelter and for ICOH's Christmas toy drive. Thanks to Karen and Beth who delivered a large box of toiletries and two boxes
and a large bag of toys as well as over $100 in cash to the Carpenter's Shelter last Monday. We also gave a large bag of toys
to the ICOH Christmas toy drive. The Board of Directors of D/NoVA also authorized a contribution of $100 to the ICOH toy drive.
Upcoming Events
TONIGHT! Please join us after mass for
a festive celebration of Christmas. We promise that the party will end in sufficient time for you to get home in time for
Santa's arrival.
D/Washington will have a mass at 6:00pm on Christmas Day at St.
Margaret's.
Next Saturday, Dec 29, we will be meeting
at St. Clement's Church for our regular mass at 6:30pm.
On Tuesday, January 1, 2008, DW will be sponsoring a mass to
celebrate the Octave of Christmas and the solemnity of Mary, the Mother of God at the Dignity Center at 7:30pm.
The first session in our “Second Saturday
Seminar” series begins on Saturday January 12, 2008 at ICOH at 5:30 pm with the subject: “What Was the Second
Vatican Council All About- Part 1”. Your attendance and participation in these seminars is highly encouraged. No prerequisites
are needed and All are welcomed!
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December 22, 2007
Readings:
First: Isaiah 7:10-14 Second: Romans 1:1-7 Gospel: Matthew 1:18-24
The Advent Wreath
Advent wreaths can be made of various evergreens, signifying continuous life. The laurel signifies victory
over persecution and suffering; pine, holly, and yew, immortality; and cedar, strength and healing. Holly also has a special
Christian symbolism: The prickly leaves remind us of the crown of thorns, and one English legend tells of how the cross was
made of holly. The circle of the wreath, which has no beginning or end, symbolizes the eternity of God, the immortality of
the soul, and the everlasting life found in Christ. Any pine cones, nuts, or seedpods used to decorate the wreath also symbolize
life and resurrection. All together, the wreath of evergreens depicts the immortality of our soul and the new, everlasting
life promised to us through Christ, the eternal Word of the Father, who entered our world becoming truly human and who was
victorious over sin and death through His own passion, death, and resurrection.
The four candles represent the four weeks of Advent. A tradition is that each week represents one thousand
years, to sum to the 4,000 years from Adam and Eve until the Birth of the Savior. Three candles are purple and one is rose.
The purple candles in particular symbolize the prayer, penance, and preparatory sacrifices and goods works undertaken at this
time. The rose candle was lit on the third Sunday, Gaudete Sunday, when the priest wore rose vestments at Mass; Gaudete Sunday
is the Sunday of rejoicing, because the faithful have arrived at the midpoint of Advent, when their preparation is now half
over and they are close to Christmas.
The progressive lighting of the candles symbolizes the expectation and hope surrounding our Lord’s first
coming into the world and the anticipation of His second coming to judge the living and the dead. The light again signifies
Christ, the Light of the world. A white candle placed in the middle of the wreath represents Christ and is lit on Christmas
Eve. (Copied in part from
the Cath Her)
Items
Thanks to
all those who purchased Christmas ornaments from DW's Defenders to support NOVAM's programs. Thanks also for the many contributions
of items and toys and money for the Carpenter's Shelter and for ICOH's Christmas toy drive. The Board of Directors of D/NoVA
also authorized a contribution of $100 to the ICOH toy drive.
On Christmas
Eve, we will have a mass at ICOH at 8:00pm. Please bring your friends and family to celebrate the feast of the Nativity, the
birth of our Lord and Savior. In keeping with our tradition, you are requested to bring a poinsettia to decorate the church.
In addition, we will have our annual Christmas dessert potluck social following mass in the church hall. Please sign up on
the list at the back of church indicating what you are bringing. But whether you sign up or not, or whether you bring something
or not, the most important contribution you can make is the gift your presence. Please join us after mass for a festive celebration
of Christmas. We promise that the party will end in sufficient time for you to get home in time for Santa's arrival.
DW will have a mass at 6:00pm on
Christmas Day at St. Margaret's.
On Saturday,
December 29, we will be meeting at St. Clement's Church for our regular mass at 6:30pm.
On Tuesday,
January 1, 2008, DW will be sponsoring a mass to celebrate the Octave of Christmas and the solemnity of Mary, the Mother of
God at the Dignity Center at 7:30pm.
The first
session in our “Second Saturday Seminar” series begins on Saturday January 12, 2008 at ICOH at 5:30 pm with the
subject: “What Was the Second Vatican Council All About- Part 1”. Your attendance and participation in these seminars
is highly encouraged. No prerequisites are needed and All are welcomed!
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December 15, 2007
Readings: First: Isaiah
35:1-6, 10 Second: James 5:7-10 Gospel: Matthew 11:2-11
James doesn't let
us forget what both Isaiah and Jesus discovered: we're only truly fulfilled and happy when we're concerned with others' needs
and not our own
Thanks to Father A for arriving early last Saturday to
offer us the opportunity for individual confessions. And thanks to Father Stephen will be an leading us in an anointing
service. Please attempt to take advantage of these wonderful services which our priests are so generously offering to provide
to our community.
D/NoVA's mission statement and goals as stated in our
bylaws include efforts of charitable giving not only to support worthy groups, individuals, and causes, but also to establish
and enhance our reputation in the community. As part of this effort and in keeping with our tradition, D/NoVA is supporting
several causes this Christmas season.
The Defenders of D/Washington are selling Christmas ornaments
to support NOVAM's programs. Each ornament cost $15. If you would like to purchase an ornament, please see David L. We are
collecting toiletries and other small personal items such as scarves and gloves for Carpenter's Shelter in Alexandria. We
are also collecting toys and other gifts to support ICOH's toy drive. In lieu of purchasing gifts, you might consider making
a small cash (or check) donation which we will give to the respective charity along with the gifts collected. These cash gifts
should be clearly segregated from our regular weekly collection. The Board of Directors has also authorized a contribution
of $100 to the ICOH toy drive.
We will have our regular Saturday liturgy on December
22.
On Christmas Eve, we will have a mass at ICOH at 8:00pm.
Please bring your friends and family to celebrate the feast of the Nativity, the birth of our Lord and Savior. In keeping
with our tradition, you are requested to bring a poinsettia to decorate the church. In addition, we will have our annual Christmas
dessert potluck social following mass in the church hall. Please sign up on the list at the back of church indicating what
you are bringing.
But whether you sign up or not, or whether you bring
something or not, the most important contribution you can make is the gift your presence. Please join us after mass for a
festive celebration of Christmas. We promise that the party will end in sufficient time for you to get home in time for Santa's
arrival.
DW will have a mass at 6:00pm on Christmas Day at St.
Margaret's.
On Saturday, December 29, we will be meeting at St. Clement's
Church for our regular mass at 6:30pm.
On Tuesday, January 1, 2008, DW will be sponsoring a
mass to celebrate the Octave of Christmas and the solemnity of Mary, the Mother of God at the Dignity Center at 7:30pm.
The first session in our “Second Saturday Seminar”
series begins on Saturday January 12, 2008 at ICOH at 5:30 pm with the subject: “What Was the Second Vatican Council
All About- Part 1”. Your attendance and participation in these seminars is highly encouraged. No prerequisites are needed
and All are welcomed!
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November 24, 2007
Happy Thanksgiving
This Thanksgiving week, we take a break from the pressures of daily life to give thanks
to our God for the gift of life and for the countless blessings of family and friends and for our faith community. May all those who are traveling this holiday season be safe in their journeys.
Book of Remembrance
-- 9th Annual International Transgender Day of Remembrance
It
is the Church's custom and tradition to remember all the deceased, and particularly our deceased loved ones during the month
of November. Our Book of Remembrance keeps before our eyes the names, the memories and the lives of those who have gone
before us and who have served in some way as mentors and teachers for us in the ways of life and faith. You will have the opportunity when you come to Mass to add the names of deceased friends and loved ones
in the Book of Remembrance which will be placed on the altar during our Masses in November. In
addition, in a special way tonight, D/NoVA remembers the lives of transgender people who were killed due to anti-transgender
hatred and violence as commemorated on November 20. For more information visit:
www.gender.org and www.nctequality.org We ask God in
every Mass to give these deceased loved ones eternal rest and life on high in God's realm.
World AIDS Day
Join the Northern Virginia AIDS Ministry at the inaugural “Concert for Hope”
on Friday, November 30th at 7:30 p.m.
The “Concert for Hope” is a musical celebration in recognition of World AIDS Day, and
will feature performances by the Howard Gospel Choir, Jason & deMarco, and the Unity Fellowship Church of DC Drum Ministry.
The Concert for Hope will take place at the Kenmore Middle School Auditorium located at 200 South Carlin Springs Rd. in Arlington, VA. Tickets are available
on line at www.novam.org or at 703-533-5505 x13.
Immaculate Conception - DW will have a mass at 7:30 pm on Friday December 7 at the DigCtr.
Penance Service
-- Saturday, December 8, 2007
Anointing Service --
Saturday, December 15, 2007
Christmas Schedule
D/NoVA will have its regular mass on Saturday Dec. 22; and DW will have its regular mass on Sunday, Dec
23. On Christmas Eve, Monday, Dec 24th, D/NoVA will have a mass at
8:00
pm followed by our
Annual Christmas Dessert Social. On Christmas Day, Dec. 25, DW will have a mass
at 6:00
pm at St. Margaret's.
Thanksgiving/Christmas Charity - Further
information will be forthcoming shortly.
Christmas Ornaments for NOVAM - Further
info coming.
AOL
Problems - AOL
subscribers have reported problems accessing D/NoVA’s web site. This is
an AOL problem, not a problem with our website. It is recommended that you use
another browser such as Firefox 2 which is an excellent free browser and which can be found at : http://www.mozilla.com/en-US/firefox/ Please see David L. if any other problems; and be sure to check the Bulletins page on our web site for the latest updates when you are not able to attend
mass.
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November 3, 2007
Dignity NoVA Annual Meeting and Elections
The Annual Meeting and elections
of a new board of directors takes place tonight immediately following mass. The social will follow the meeting. Many thanks
to all of those who considered serving our community as a member of the board of directors and congratulations to those who
are elected tonight.
Book of Remembrance
It is the Church's custom and tradition to remember all the deceased, and particularly
our deceased loved ones during the month of November. We celebrated All the Saints on Thursday and All Souls Day on
Friday which was a day to remember all the deceased - those who, like each of us - are called to be saints. The Second
Vatican Council reminds us that the vocation to which each of us is called is the vocation of holiness - to be the best saints
we can be in the midst of the life we live out each and every day.
Our Book of Remembrance keeps before our eyes the names, the memories and the lives of those who have gone before
us and who have served in some way as mentors and teachers for us in the ways of life and faith. You will have the opportunity
when you come to Mass to add the names of deceased friends and loved ones in the Book of Remembrance which will be placed
on the altar during our Masses in November. We ask God in every Mass to give these deceased loved ones eternal rest and life
on high in God's realm.
Veterans Day Mass on November
10, 2007
Next
Saturday, we will have a special service in honor of our Veterans. You are encouraged to bring pictures of those special Veterans
in your life who sacrificed so much so that we can live in freedom.
World AIDS Day
Join the Northern Virginia AIDS Ministry at the inaugural “Concert for Hope” on Friday, November 30th at 7:30 p.m.
The “Concert for Hope”
is a musical celebration in recognition of World AIDS Day, and will feature performances by the Howard Gospel Choir, Jason
& deMarco, and the Unity Fellowship Church of DC Drum Ministry. The Concert for Hope will take place at the Kenmore Middle
School Auditorium located at 200 South Carlin Springs Rd. in Arlington, VA. Tickets are available on line at www.novam.org or at 703-533-5505
x13. |
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“While You Were Out”
We are discontinuing this quarterly publication.
Our Weekly Bulletins are now posted on our web site: dignitynova.org All are encouraged
to visit our web site frequently for updates. |
Bishop Spong's Reflections on the Dignity USA Convention
There are a few copies of this remarkable,
reaffirming, supportive document on the table in the vestibule. Please visit the REFLECTIONS page our web site to read this
document.
October 27, 2007
Congratulations
to D/Washington for 35 years of service to the GLBT community.
As a result of the St. Francis' Day pet blessing and the fund-raising event, $915 was collected for and distributed
to the various animal welfare charities. Many thanks for your generosity.
There will be
a Board of Directors meeting on Sunday, 10/28, at the home of David L. We will be planning special services and
events for the fall and Christmas. All are welcome and encouraged to attend. Please see David or any of the Board members
for info and directions.
Dignity Washington
will be sponsoring a mass on All Saints Day, this coming Thursday evening at 7:30 pm at the Dignity Center. All Saints Day
was instituted to honor all the saints, known and unknown.
The vigil of
this feast is called
Halloween. HAPPY HALLOWEEN!
Our Annual General
Membership meeting will be at ICOH after mass on 11/3. At that time, we will conduct elections for the new Board of
Directors. The president
and treasure will also report on items of interest to the community, and any questions about our chapter will be in order. We have candidates for 3 out of 4 of the officer positions
on the Board as well as candidates for both at-large positions. We still need a candidate to run for the position of Secretary.
In addition, our new draft bylaws will be discussed and voted upon at the meeting.
CANDIDATES STATEMENTS:
For President: Beth W...........The church community
of D/NoVA means a great deal to me--it is my spiritual home. I have been a member of Dignity since 1982 and have served in
various capacities (choir member, lector, Eucharistic minister, At-Large Board member, and President). I am offering
to serve as President for the coming term. I hope to help our chapter increase in membership and activities, both religious
and social. I welcome the suggestions and assistance of D/NoVa members in improving our chapter.
For Vice President: Mark J......I would like to serve one more term as vice-president of D/NoVA to help complete unfinished business
and to work towards building a better, brighter chapter in the year ahead.
For Secretary:
Vacant
For Treasurer:
David L.......I have been attending services sponsored by D/NoVA for many years and have served as treasurer of D/NoVA
for the past two terms. During that time, I have gained as much if not more from my involvement with the D/NoVA community,
especially the personal relationships I have developed. I ask for your vote as I seek re-election.
At Large: Karen
P......I am willing to serve another term as an At-Large member.
At Large: Laura
H...I'd like to be considered for the BODs as an At-Large member. Being at large will give me insight into D/NoVA where
I feel I have found a spiritual home often missing from my adult life.
Nov.
10: We will have a special service on 11/10 in honor of our Veterans.
Nov. 30: NOVAM presents a “Concert
for Hope” for World AIDS Day.
Sunday, October 14, 2007 The
Twenty-eight Sunday in Ordinary Time
Many thanks to Father Stephen for conducting such a beautiful service for us last Saturday night as we celebrated
and blessed our beloved pets both living and deceased. And a big thanks to all of you who made our celebration
of St. Francis' Day with a pet blessing such a grand success. Almost 3 dozen folks found their way to St. Clement's
with pictures of their pets. And thanks to Eileen H. and Anje B. and all the others who made the fund-raising event after mass such a delicious
and wonderful success. We will report on the amounts of money collected and donated to the various animal welfare charities
shortly.
Thanks
to St. Clement's for their hospitality during the past few weeks and many thanks to you for finding us there!
Karen P. has accepted appointment as Acting Secretary for D/NoVA. Her appointment will run through 11/3
when a new BoD is elected at the annual general membership meeting. Thanks again to Elizabeth P. for serving in the position
of Secretary, and thanks to Karen for stepping forward to help us in the transition.
There will be
a Board of Directors meeting on Sunday, 10/28, at the home of David L. We will be planning special services and
events for the fall and Christmas. All are welcome and encouraged to attend.
Our Annual General
Membership meeting will be at ICOH after mass on 11/3. At that time, we will conduct elections for the new Board of
Directors. The president and treasure will also report on items of interest to the community, and any questions about
our chapter will be in order. We have candidates for 3 out of 4 of the officer positions on the Board as
well as candidates for both at-large positions. Additional information will follow shortly, but we still need a candidate
to run for the position of Secretary. Thanks to those candidates for stepping forward to serve the community during the coming
year, and thanks to all those who have offered their words and actions in support of our community, and to all those who gave
careful, thoughtful and prayerful consideration on how they could best help our community.
In
a mailing to all those on our D/NoVA mailing list a few days ago, we provided the latest version of our new bylaws. These
bylaws are submitted by the BoD to the membership for adoption. They will be discussed and voted upon at the 11/3 meeting.
If you did not receive this email, perhaps you are not on our current email list. Please provide your email address to Karen
P., our Acting Secretary.
The Dignity USA
Dateline publication was recently sent to all those on the D/USA mailing
list. Included is information concerning the extension of time until 12/31/2007 for pre-registration to the 40th
Anniversary Dignity Convention taking place in San Francisco from July 2-5, 2009. Information about the new D/USA
dues structure is also there. You can view this interesting and informative document at:
http://www.dignityusa.org/pdf/datelines/2007/DUSADatelineOct07.pdf
Oct. 20: D/Washington
celebrates 35 years of service to the GLBT community.
Nov. 30: NOVAM
presents a “Concert for Hope” for World AIDS Day.
Sunday, October 7, 2007
The Twenty-seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time
We return
to ICOH next Saturday, October 13, with mass starting at 6:30 pm. Many thanks to the community of St. Clement
for their hospitality during the past few weeks.
Tonight we will be joining Dignity chapters all over the country in celebrating Solidarity Sunday. We have printed
the Pledge below. Following mass tonight, there will be a fund-raising dinner. We will be raising funds for a variety of animal
related charities. Please see Eileen H. for directions and further information.
At its meeting on 9/23, the BoD extended the deadline for filing of nominations for the BoD to 10/7. The offices
of President, Vice-President, Secretary and Treasurer as well as two at-large members of the BoD are up for election this
year. Please consider placing your name in nomination for one of these positions by submitting a very brief statement of your
desire to serve the community on the BoD. By 10/7, please send your statement of intent to dignitynova@gmail.com or give it to any current member of the BoD. There will be general membership
meeting following mass on 11/3 at which time the election will be held.
Solidarity Sunday Pledge
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I pledge: I will work for civil and human rights for all people,
including gays, lesbians, bisexuals and the transgender. Civil rights are not special rights. I will seek to stop jokes
and unkind language about anyone, including gays, lesbians, bisexuals and the transgender when spoken in my presence. Words
that hurt and bigotry are not funny. I will speak out against any slander, debasement, lies or dehumanization of anyone,
including gays, lesbians, bisexuals and the transgender, including when spoken by political or religious leaders. Violent
speech leads to physical violence. I will work to stop physical violence against anyone, including violence against gays,
lesbians, bisexuals or the transgender. Violence against any person is violence against all people. |
Breath of the Spirit (abridged) Habakkuk 1:2-3; 2:2-4 ; II
Timothy 1:6-8,13-14; Luke 17:5-10
For Jesus, faith isn't a commodity to which one can add ounces or inches. Faith doesn't require
an increase of volume as much as it demands to be put to use. Those who operate from just a miniscule of faith can "move trees"
if they actually utilize that faith. Christian faith revolves around carrying on the dream the historical Jesus originally
had and passed on to his followers. In the late 600s and early 500s B.C.E., the prophet Habakkuk tried to keep the dream alive
which Yahweh centuries before had instilled in the Chosen People. They dreamt of living freely in their own land, in control
of their own destiny. Though the Israelites had believed that dream would be fulfilled after their great nemesis, Assyria,
was definitely defeated in 626 B.C.E., Babylon's rapid rise created yet one more period of fear and instability. Their dream
was close, yet so far. That's why Yahweh commands the prophet, "Write down the vision. (It) still has its time, presses on
to fulfillment, and will not disappoint; if it delays, wait for it. It will surely come, it will not be late." In other words,
"Hang in there! Dreams take a long time to come true."
There's one difference between Habakkuk and Jesus' followers. Unlike the prophet's audience,
we must accept some responsibility for our faith-dreams' fulfillment. Only we, with the Holy Spirit's help, can cause them
to take flesh and move our world to the place God wants it to be. It takes lots of determination and hard work to become the
community Jesus intends us to be. In the lifetime of many of us, our experience of Vatican II demonstrated that reality. It
didn't all happen 45 years ago. Those 2,500 bishops who attempted "to stir into flame" the dream of Jesus presumed we'd continue
the stirring for as long as we lived.
Sunday,
September 30, 2007
Twenty-sixth
Sunday in Ordinary Time
Many thanks to
Father Stephen and to the Liturgy Committee for the inspirational and comforting anointing service last Saturday night.
At the BoD meeting
last Sunday, our president read a letter from Elizabeth P. who has served as our Secretary. For personal reasons, Elizabeth
will not be able to fulfill her duties as Secretary and will not be able to run for election to the board for the next term.
The Board expressed its understanding of the personal pressures which enable each of us to serve as best we can, when and
where we can. On behalf of the entire community, the Board wishes to express its gratitude for Elizabeth's generous service
in the past. Her professionalism and spirit will be sorely missed at the BoD meetings.
We welcome Father
Tim as our presider tonight. Please be sure to introduce yourself to Father Tim and make him feel welcome. We are very grateful
for his willingness to cross that river and preside for us.
“Second Saturday Seminars” are coming. Watch for it!
We will be at St. Clement's again next
Saturday, 10/6.
At that time, we will have a blessing of pictures of our beloved pets. Please remember to bring your pictures to mass next
Saturday. Following mass, there will be a fund-raising dinner. We will be raising funds for a variety of animal related charities.
Further information about the specific charities, methods of donations, directions, etc. will be provided separately.
Next Saturday
we will also be joining Dignity chapters all over the country in celebrating Solidarity Sunday. Additional information about
Soladarity Sunday can be found on the D/USA web site at dignityusa.org
At
its meeting last Sunday, the BoD extended the deadline for filing of nominations for the BoD to 10/7. The offices of President,
Vice-President, Secretary and Treasurer as well as two at-large members of the BoD are up for election this year. Please consider
placing your name in nomination for one of these positions by submitting a very brief statement of your desire to serve the
community on the BoD. By 10/7, please send your statement of intent to dignitynova@gmail.com or give it to any currrent member
of the BoD. There will be general membership meeting following mass on 11/3 at which time the election will be held.
ITEMS
PRIOR TO MAY 2007 |
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With regrets, the President of D/NOVA announces that she has received
and accepted the resignation of Mary M. as our Secretary effective with the board meeting on April 15, 2007. Mary has
served our community for many years and generously contributed her many gifts to us over the years.. She has served as
Secretary since November 1, 2005. The President under the authority of our bylaws has appointed Mary as an At Large
member of the BOD effective April 15, 2007 for a term of office which extends through October 2007. Thanks again, Mary,
for all of your support for our chapter.
In accordance with the bylaws, the
President of D/NoVA is pleased to announce that Elizabeth P. who was elected as an At Large member of the Board of Directors
in our last election has accepted appointment to the position of Secretary. In addition, Eileen H. has accepted appointment
to the board as a member at large. Many thanks to both Elizabeth and Eileen for stepping forward to serve our community
during these times of change.
Elizabeth will now serve as
the editor of the Bulletin in addition to her duties and responsibilities as Secretary for D/NoVA. Any comments, suggestions,
or items of community interest for publication in the Bulletin can be sent to Elizabeth at dignitynova@gmail.com
Many thanks to Elizabeth for volunteering to take on this task. And a special thanks to Mary M. who has served so faithfully
and ably as the editor and Secretary for our community. Our community is truly blessed with so many people
who are willing to share of their time and talent and treasure to keep us going. Be sure to say a word of thanks to
Mary, Elizabeth and Eileen when you see them.
FREDERICK 'FREDDY'
WILLIAMS
It is with great sadness
that we report on the passing of Freddy Williams, John's brother. The following notice was published in The
Virginian-Pilot on April 11, 2007.
Frederick "Freddy" Williams,
formerly of Virginia Beach, passed away suddenly April 5, 2007, while visiting his brother in Arlington, Va. Born April 30,
1940, to the late John J. Williams Sr. and Frances Shea Williams, he was a lifelong resident of the North End, until moving
to Florida and cruising in and around the Miami area. He is survived by his brother, John J. Williams Jr. of Arlington; his
sister, Frances E. Williams of Miami; two nieces and three nephews, and eight grandnieces and nephews. A celebration of his
life will take place at Star of the Sea Catholic Church, 1404 Pacific Ave., Virginia Beach, Friday at 3 p.m. In lieu of flowers,
please make donations to his favorite activity, the Special Olympics. Inquiries may be directed to Advent Funeral & Cremation
Services, Annapolis & Falls Church, Va.
John advised us that Freddy suffered
a massive heart attack last Thursday and died in the ER at Arlington Hospital. Freddy's funeral will be this
weekend at their old parish church in Virginia Beach, Star of the Sea.
Needless to say, all
of us knew and loved Freddy very much, and always enjoyed being with him when he was able to attend our services while visiting
with John. We share in the grief being experienced by John and the family. We will miss seeing Freddy at
our masses and having him as part of our family.
Our thoughts and prayers are
with Freddy and John and the family.
NOVAM
Join other D/NOVA members at NOVAM's 20th
anniversary celebration at their IMAGINE gala event on Saturday, April 28. This is the largest AIDS fund raiser in Northern
Virginia drawing a crowd of over 1,000 people each year. Guests from over 50 pre-parties gather together at the Torpedo
Factory Art Center in Old Town Alexandria to enjoy fabulous desserts, cocktails, dancing, live entertainment, and the
opportunity to bid on fantastic live and silent auction items. More information about the event and to obtain tickets,
please contact Regan Davis at rdavis@novam.org. D/NOVA financially supports and is a member of NOVAM.
DIGNITY/USA FUND
RAISER
Tom Y. of DW will host a fund raiser
to benefit DignityUSA on April 28 at 7:30 at the Dignity Center. The evening will include refreshments, entertainment
in the form of some film clips, and fellowship. No minimum contribution is needed to attend, but Tom says, "Bring your
checkbooks!". For further information, please contact Tom.
PICS PLEASE, PLEASE,
PLEASE
Dignity/NOVA's 15th anniversary
dinner and party is scheduled for May 19th in the ICOH church hall immediately following the 6:30 pm mass. We will
be providing the set up, entree, cake, drinks and dessert; and asking for "potluck" side dishes. Karen is coordinating this.
As part of the program, we will presenting a memorial to those members who are now deceased and who helped us make it
during the first 15 years. If you have anyone who you think should be remembered, please contact Mark J. Also,
if you have any pics that we might be able to use during the memorial and/or any general pics from prior D/NOVA celebrations
please give them to Mark as soon as possible.
DIGNITY
USA CONVENTION
Join other Dignity/NoVA
members including our President and several members of the Board of Directors at the 18th National Biennial Convention of
DignityUSA in Austin, TX from July 5 to July 8, 2007. Don't miss the Keynote Address to be delivered by Bishop John Shelby
Spong as well as other workshops and events and lots of fun along the way. Additional information and registration information
can be obtained at the DignityUSA web site: http://www.dignityusa.org/
A Dignity/NoVAmember
who paid the $100 pre-registration at the last convention in Philadelphia is not able to make it to Austin this year. He will
be glad to transfer his pre-registration to anyone who is going and who would need that pre-registration to help with the
expenses of the convention. Please contact David L. for further details.
CAPITOL PRIDE EVENTS
Washington's 2007 "Capitol Pride"
starts on June 1. Of special interest is the Capital Pride LGBT Interfaith Service, "Together in Pride, Together in
Faith." sponsored by local faith communities. This year's Interfaith Service is next Tuesday, June 5, at 7:30 PM; and,
it takes place at the Lincoln Temple United Church of Christ, located at 1701 - 11th St. NW (11th and R Streets, NW). Bishop
Rusty Smith of the Evangelical Anglican Church, who is Director of the Northern Virginia AIDS Ministry, will be the main speaker
at the service. The music, "Mosaic Harmony led by David North," will feature a multicultural, interfaith choir based
in the Washington, DC area, with a mission to "unify the world, one song at a time." All are cordially invited to attend
and participate.
The Pride Parade takes place next
Saturday evening, June 9. DW will be marching in the parade, and D/NoVA is invited to march with them. DW will
also have a booth at the Pride Festival on Sunday, June 10. Members of D/NoVA will be there to help staff the booth and distribute
D/NoVA literature. Peter Edwards & Mario Sengco are coordinating DW's efforts, and they're looking for folks
who can march with the Dignity group on Saturday, and volunteers to help staff the booth on Sunday. If you're able to
participate on either day, or want more details, please be sure to either see or contact Peter (202-488-8373; dcpedwards@verizon.net) or Mario (443-321-9841; srm0971@netscape.net). And if you are there on Sunday, please be sure to stop
by the Dignity booth and say hi!
DW's annual "Moon Over Washington" community potluck dinner will this year take place
the weekend after Pride, on Saturday, June 16. The time is 7:30 PM, and the location is the rooftop at the home of Jim
Bedore (1901 Wyoming Avenue, NW). D/NoVA members are most welcome to join in the fun.
FREDERICK "FREDDY"
WILLIAMS
In memory of our deceased member
Freddy Williams, the board of directors authorized a contribution to the Special Olympics of Northern Virginia. This
contribution was in keeping with the family's request that in lieu of flowers, donations be made in Freddy's memory to his
favorite activity, the Special Olympics. Freddy is dearly missed by all in our D/NoVA family, and our deepest sympathies
go out to his brother John and the rest of Freddy's loving and caring family. Eternal rest grant unto him O, Lord. And
let perpetual light shine upon him...May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the Mercy of God, rest
in peace. Amen
TV WORTH WATCHING
As part of its Pride month celebration,
Turner Classic Movies (TCM) is presenting movies every Monday and Wednesday in June on the topic of gay images in films.
Check your local cable company for the correct channel. www.http://www.tcm.com/thismonth/
WETA marks Gay & Lesbian Pride
Month with an array of biographical, historical and issues-based films pertaining to the gay and lesbian experience in America.
WETA is committed to presenting programs reflecting the diversity of our community. www.weta.org/features/gaypride.php
ANOINTING:
JUNE 16th
On Saturday,
June 16, we will have an anointing service as part of our regular liturgy. Anointing of the Sick is one of the seven sacraments.
The sacrament prays for the physical or emotional healing of the ill person, if that be the will of God. Its primary purpose,
however, is spiritual. It offers us grace to strengthen our faith and our ability to accept and endure the trials and struggles
that come with serious illness. The sacrament was commonly known before Vatican II as Extreme Unction or Last Rites. This
name arose because over time the sacrament became more identified as a preparation for death. Vatican II sought to bring the
administration of the sacrament back to its original and fuller meaning. One should not wait until death is imminent to receive
the sacrament, and we should no longer use the term "last rites" to refer to the sacrament.
PLAY BALL!
Join DW and other gay organizations
from the greater DC area at the Washington Nationals baseball game on Monday evening, July 16th. There will
be a pregame tailgate party in the RFK parking lot. Those wanting game tickets should contact DW's Jake Hudson at jhudson@imf.org
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- 15th ANNIVERSARY RECAP
While it was not standing room only,
a wonderful crowd of over 50 members and friends gathered at Immanuel Church-on-the-Hill Social Hall after mass on Saturday,
June 2, 2007 to celebrate Dignity Northern Virginia's 15th anniversary.
A bountiful, beautifully decorated
buffet table awaited the crowd. Fr. Joe H. led us in grace, but someone else beat him to the head of the enhanced potluck
dinner line.
As dining progressed, Mark J. and
Anje B. started the program which was brilliantly conceived, produced, written and directed by Mark. Following a rousing opening
number by the music director, Greg C., there was an emotional tribute to our members who have passed away. Into a bed of white
roses, an individual red rose was placed in honor of those who are now in heaven. For James and Robert, Eve A. and Monica
R. placed the memorial red roses. Mr. and Mrs. Rathsack placed red roses in memory of their beloved daughter and our friend,
Sarah. Mark J. and Tom J. carried roses in memory of Mark's mom, Belle. John D.'s widow, Kathleen, placed the rose in his
honor. It was so great to see Michael L. who delivered a moving eulogy at the memorial mass which preceded the dinner and
who carried the rose for his recently deceased partner, Steve S. Marti C. placed a rose for John W. who was not able to be
there to do it as a memorial to his recently deceased brother, Freddy. And finally, David L. and Eileen H. placed the remaining
roses in the vase as others in the room remember those who are now in heaven.
As the program continued with music
and songs, Beth W., our president, presented our 2007 Community Service Awards to Susan K., Jack K., and Harry B. to honor
their commitment to our community by their tireless efforts as musician, sacristan, and liturgy chair, respectively. A spread
of flowers in the honor of each of them will be located in the chapel as Dignity/USA gathers in Austin, TX in early July for
their convention.
Beth also presented Lifetime Achievement
Awards to Paul W., Laura N., and Eve A. to honor their years of leadership and commitment to Dignity NoVA. A check in the
amount of $100 each will be sent to Mercy Corps in Portland, OR, in honor of Paul; and another $100 check will be sent to
St. Clement’s in honor of Laura. A check in the amount of $250 will be sent to the Northern Virginia AIDS Ministry (NOVAM)
in honor of Eva and to show our community’s overall support for NOVAM as a “Friend of NOVAM
Beth W. then presented two Presidential
Awards. The first went to David L. for his service to our community as treasurer and scheduler. The last award of the evening
was given to Sister Jeannine Gramick in recognition and celebration of her 30th anniversary as the co-founder and
leader of New Ways Ministry.
After the finale (which included
a light show,) a bouquet of flowers was presented to Beth W., Mark J., Elizabeth P., David L., Karen P., Eileen H., Anje B.,
Greg C., and Susan K. for all of their hard work in putting on the celebration; and a special thanks was given to Tom J. and
Tom Y. for their technical assistance on the video and audio presentations.
It was truly a remarkable, memorable
evening. Thanks to all those who we may have forgotten to mention and who helped with the celebration of D/NOVA’s 15th
anniversary of service to the GLBT community of Northern Virginia. The clean-up crew worked late into the night and we think
that we left the hall in better condition than we found it; and a special thanks to that little group that stayed even later
into the night to help resolve the problems with the unlocked door.
And most important, thanks to all
those who attended, filled the church with music and the hall with merriment, shared your friendship and delicious food, and
provided a firm foundation for us to launch into our next generation. Happy Anniversary! |
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1. TREASURER'S NOTE
The treasurer has prepared and distributed tax letters
to those individuals who made contributions to D/NOVA by check. D/NOVA is required to provide by January 31, 2007,
a statement to individuals who contributed a separate donation of $250 or more during 2006. If you made a separate
contribution of more than $250 in 2006, you will need a statement to this effect from D/NOVA to deduct the contribution from
your tax returns. If you do not receive such a statement, please let the treasurer know. If you did not contribute
more than $250 in any separate donation, your contributions are still tax deductible to the full extent allowed by law.
You can take the deduction based on your own records and you do not need a statement from D/NOVA to take the deductions.
However, the treasurer will be glad to furnish any individuals who request it, a statement reflecting our records
of your donations. Please let the treasurer know if there are any errors in the statements provided.
Starting
January 1, 2007, IRS advises that both donors and charities must keep better records -- checks, receipts, credit card statements,
etc. -- for all cash donations no matter how small in order for those contributions to be deductible from an
individual's tax return. According to IRS, "cash" means any form of monetary contribution including cash,
checks, money orders, credit card contributions, etc. D/NOVA has and will continue to make every effort to correctly
document all contributions made by check. D/NOVA has no way of identifying cash contributions other than check,
placed in the collection basket unless the individual places the contribution in a sealed envelope with identifying information
including the date, the contributor's name and address, or makes other arrangements with the Treasurer. Remember that
for your contributions to D/NOVA in 2007, in order for those contributions regardless of the amount to be deductible, you
must maintain as a record of the contribution, a bank record (such as a canceled check) or a statement from D/NOVA either
of which must include the date and amount of the contribution.
2. Our New Hymnals
As most of you are already aware, we have new hymnals, "Breaking
Bread 2007," for the new liturgical year. In addition to most of the hymns we sing at mass, the book contains the
Order of Mass from pages 3 to 31 which allows you to follow along with the mass especially the Nicene Creed on page 12 which
we have been reciting at mass. Also, the book contains the weekly Scripture Readings which permit you to follow along
as the scriptures are being proclaimed. For example, the reading that we will use on February 17 can be found beginning
on page 73. In previous years, the hymnals we used only included the songs we sing.
We would appreciate your thoughts and opinions on the new hymnals.
They cost a little bit more than the old hymnals, and they are a little bigger than the old hymnals. Please let
the president know your thoughts on this so that we will have some guidance when it comes time to order new books for the
next liturgical year this summer. You could also send your comments to our D/NOVA email account at dignitynova@gmail.com or you can leave a message on our Voice Mail at 703-912-1662. Thank you for your assistance.
3. D/NOVA NEEDS YOU!
D/NOVA exists as a community of faith because of the kind and generous
actions of our members. The contributions of time and talent and treasure keep our group going and going and going.
However, there are several areas of concern where D/NOVA needs help now. We are in need of help with our web site which
has gone down. Please let us know if you can help us put together a new web site. We need a greeter who can
greet folks as they come into the church and pass out our Bulletin as they leave after mass. We are always in
need of volunteers to help with the various roles during the liturgy. We are contemplating having a Seder again this
year, and we need volunteers to help accomplish this event. Easter is very early this year and your help in preparing
the joint DC/NOVA Holy Week programs is needed. And in May, D/NOVA will celebrate it's 15th anniversary of service
to the GLBT community of Northern Virginia. Your assistance in helping to put together a truly memorable event is needed.
As you can see, there is a lot on our plate right now. The
Board of Directors and our Liturgy Chair simply cannot pull off all of these tasks alone. D/NOVA needs your help.
The Board wants to revive and energize our community, but we can't do it without the support and active involvement of the
community. Please consider how you can help our community thrive and prosper. Please chat with the president or
any member of the board or our Liturgy Committee Chair to find out further information about our needs. Your involvement
will not only strengthen our community, but you will also find that it will be very rewarding both personally and
spiritually.
Needless to say, there are so many demands on your time.
We understand your limits and appreciate
all that you have done and continue to do to make D/NOVA work. As you consider our request for assistance, please
reflect on the prayer of St. Francis of Assisi:
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where
there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair,
hope;
where there is darkness, light;
Where there is sadness, joy;
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled
as to console;
To be understood as to understand;
To be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we
are pardoned; And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
God Bless!
4. D/NOVA Board Meeting
The next meeting of the D/NOVA board of directors will take place on
Sunday, 2/18, starting at 2:00 PM at the home of David L.
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