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      Hello visitors,

       This page is dedicated to the memory of my mom, Linda Louise Patrick Leach. I lost her to cancer,
      specifically breast cancer, in August of 2003. Mom would have been 58 on her birthday that year. It was a
      difficult loss for me because she was not only my mother, but she was one of my best friends. This part of
      my site contains photographs of her life and other items I find pertinent to her life. In essence, because these
      memories are collected here, she lives on as long as we remember her. Her laughter, song, and wisdom
      still guide my life. I hope she will live on through me and my brother Kendall for the rest of our lives.
      Mom I miss you and wish you were here.


      Kyle


      Mom, Vacation Nags Head


      Do not stand at my grave and weep,
      I am not there; I do not sleep.
      I am a thousand winds that blow;
      I am the diamond glints on snow.
      I am the sunlight on ripened grain;
      I am the gentle autumn's rain.
      When you awaken in the morning hush,
      I am the swift uplifting rush
      Of quiet birds in circled flight.
      I am the soft star that shines at night.
      Do not stand at my grave and cry.
      I am not there; I did not die.

      -Anonymous


      Mom & Dad

      This Is the Real Tao

      Anyone unwilling to settle for ready-made philosophy
      must learn to stitch together something suitable
      from the scraps life hands us--
      and so:
      if the bolts aren't rusty
      and the wood doesn't split
      and the plastic bags provided contain all the right parts,
      then I
      must balance
      that with the times when
      I go to the hardware store twice
      and return twice
      with the wrong bracket, the too-long bolt.

      When I hit the nail on the head,
      I recall the day it was my thumb
      and account the sweet thunk of steel biting wood
      to comfort my old injury
      and do this without dimming the pleasure of today,
      a day when things go unaccountably right.

      Bob Engel


      Mom, Brother & Sisters

      Cathedrals, from Magazine, by Jump Little Children
      In the shadows of tall buildings
      Of fallen angels on the ceilings
      Oily feathers in bronze and concrete
      Faded colors, peices left incomplete
      The line moves slowly past the electric
      Fence across the borders between
      Continents

      In the cathedrals of new york and
      Rome there is a feeling that you should
      Just go home and spend a lifetime
      Finding out just where that is

      In the shadows of tall buildings the
      Architecture is slowly peeling marble
      Statues and glass dividers someone
      is watching all of the outsiders the line
      Moves slowly through the numbered
      Gate past the mosaic of the head of
      State

      In the cathedrals of new york and
      Rome there is a feeling that you should
      Just go home and spend a lifetime
      Finding out just where that is

      In the shadows of tall buildings of
      Open arches endlessly kneeling sonic
      Landscapes echoing vistas someone
      is listening from a safe distance the
      Line moves slowly into a fading light a
      Final moment in the dead of night

      In the cathedrals of new york and
      Rome there is a feeling that you should
      Just go home and spend a lifetime
      Finding out just where that is

      Mom & Kyle

      Hold On by* Sarah McLachlan
       
      Hold on
      Hold on to yourself
      for this is gonna hurt like hell
      Hold on
      Hold on to yourself
      you know that only time will tell
      What is it in me that refuses to believe
      this isn't easier than the real thing
      My love
      you know that you're my best friend
      you know I'd do anything for you
      my love
      let nothing come between us
      my love for you is strong and true
      Am I in heaven here or am I...
      at the crossroads I am standing
      So now you're sleeping peaceful
      I lie awake and pray
      that you'll be strong tomorrow and we'll
      see another day and we will praise it
      and love the light that brings a smile
      across your face
      Oh god if you're out there won't you hear me
      I know that we've never talked before
      oh god the man I love is leaving
      won't you take him when he comes to your door
      Am I in heaven here or am I in hell
      at the crossroads I am standing
      So now you're sleeping peaceful
      I lie awake and pray
      that you'll be strong tomorrow and we'll
      see another day and we will praise it
      and love the light that brings a smile
      across your face...
      Hold on
      hold on to yourself
      for this is gonna hurt like hell

      Mom & Kyle

      Mom in Germany
       

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