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St Luke’s Welcomes Newcomers
 
"The Episcopal Church Welcomes You"

    You'll see this sign at virtually every Episcopal Church in the nation.  And it's true...we really do enjoy seeing visitors, newcomers and seekers at our doors and in our pews, and we like to do our best to make you feel welcome...whether you're "church shopping" or just dropping by for a visit.

    We understand that things can seem can seem a bit awkward when you visit a church for the first time, especially if that church is of a different denomination than what you are accustomed to.  Often you're not sure what you should say or do, or what to expect.  You may feel a little like an outsider at a family gathering...a little shy, a little overwhelmed, a little worried that you will commit some kind of major faux pas.  We hope that this "Visitor's Guide" will help you feel more comfortable as you consider worshipping with us.

    If you're not accustomed to liturgical worship, our services may seem a bit complicated at first.  Please don't worry about "not getting it right."  The important thing is that you are here.  Many of us were newcomers once upon a time...and even cradle Episcopalians have been known to "miss a beat" on occasion (corner me at church sometime and I may tell you about the time I got lost returning to my seat after communion in a church I was visiting and found myself in the sacristy by mistake!).  Savor the richness and beauty of worship in this place, and don't worry too much about the details. 
 
We try to do everything we can at St. Luke's to make things easier on visitors.  Here are a few "helps" you can expect to find when you visit:
  • Greeters: You'll find a greeter at every entrance to the church on Sundays and near the clergy after the service. They're the folks with the red ribbon on their nametags. Their primary job is to say "hey!" (that's "hi!" for you folks who may be visiting from other parts of the country...this is the South, after all!), but they will also be happy to tell you how to find a bulletin, the nursery, the bathroom, or whatever else you may require
  • Ushers: When you enter the sanctuary, an usher will offer you a bulletin and help you find a seat if you like. They also direct people up to the altar rail during communion, and can help you discreetly if you're not sure which way to go.
  • The Bulletin: (Program of the Service): We print the entire service in the bulletin, including the text for the readings, so you don't have to worry about finding your way around an unfamiliar Prayer Book. If you prefer to use the Prayer Book, you will find one next to your seat. The appropriate Prayer Book page numbers are also printed in the bulletin.
  • Name Tags: We encourage all our parishioners to wear name tags, so you can put names to faces and know whom to ask if you have a question and can't locate an usher, a greeter, or a member of the clergy. There are also temporary name tags available in the narthexes for visitors...please wear one, if you feel comfortable doing so, so we can be sure to greet you before or after the service!
  • Maps and Literature: In the Addison Sprague Community Room, immediately behind the sanctuary, you will find an information table with maps of the church, past sermons, past and current newsletter, articles and other information of interest. You will also find a tract rack, with pamphlets addressing various aspects of the Episcopal Church...our history, our mode of worship, and some of the issues that we deal with. Please take anything that interests you.
  • For our Younger Visitors: Children of all ages are welcome at all services at St. Luke's. If you prefer to have your youngsters with you in church, you will find coloring sheets relating to the lessons, paper and crayons in each narthex...we encourage you to allow your children to enjoy these during the service! Your children are also welcome to make use of our nurseries (infant to age two in Johnson Hall; toddlers and preschoolers in the Kindergarten building). Visiting kids are also welcome to join our Children's Chapel in Johnson Hall, where they will find a special service of songs and stories designed just for them during the first part of the service (Children's Chapel kids join their parents in the main church for communion). Please ask an usher or a greeter if you're interested in any of these options.
  • Coffee Hour: Please join us for coffee and conversation after either of our Sunday services. You'll find us in the Addison Sprague Community Room, immediately behind the sanctuary. This is a good time to meet people and ask questions about the service or the church community, if you like. Juice is usually available for children in the kitchen in Johnson Hall after the 10:00 service.
We've put together a few documents, listed below, that we hope will enhance your worship experience at St. Luke's.  In fact, you may find them interesting and useful even if you are planning on visiting an Episcopal Church other than St. Luke's...while the exact formula may vary somewhat from parish to parish, the differences are usually minor.  If you have any questions, please feel free to Email us or call the parish office at (919) 286-2273.

What's going on?  A walk through a Eucharistic Service  This is a basic "script" of the Service of Holy Eucharist (Holy Communion), Rite II, as it is usually celebrated at St. Luke's.  This is our primary Sunday service during most of the year.  During the seasons of Advent (before Christmas) and Lent (before Easter), we use the more formal Rite I, which follows the same basic pattern, but differs somewhat in tone (more solemn), language (more formal) and specific prayers used.  There may also be subtle differences on a given day, based on the season or on special services that might be included (such as baptism or confirmation), but this will give you a working idea of how we worship.
What do I do?  A Guide to Participating in Eucharist Worship This document, based on a pamphlet written by our former rector, is intended to help you participate as fully as you wish in our worship service.  It answers some basic questions, such as "What do I do when?"  "May I take communion? (and how do I go about doing that?)," and "How do I know if I should stand, sit or kneel?"
Confirmation  An article on the history of and reasons why we have Confirmation, by the Rev. Joshua H. Varner, from the St Luke's Newsletter of December 2003 - January 2004.
Episcopal FAQ: Frequently Asked Questions  This document addresses some questions we are often asked about the Episcopal Church and Anglicanism.  If you think of others we haven't addressed, please  e-mail us! .
To Stand or to Kneel? A Liturgical Dilemma This humorous poem and drawing by our former rector Jay Sidebotham addresses a question that even troubles life-long Episcopalians from time to time:  Should I stand or kneel to pray during worship? (and does it make a difference?).  You may want to print this one out (it's a keeper!).

More Resources
  • Parish Newsletter: Published bimonthly, and mailed to all parishioners, The St. Luke's Newsletter is a wonderful way to keep up with what is happening in our parish. It includes a schedule of events and services, updates on outreach ministries, prayer requests, announcements of births, deaths, baptisms, weddings, confirmations, ordinations and other important events in the lives of our parishioners. 
  • Parish Handbook and Mailing List: Published annually, this booklet contains a lot of useful information, including information on activities, ministries and standing committees, suggestions on when to call the church, a brief history of the parish, and, of course, a list of members (including addresses, phone numbers and e-mail addresses). 
  • Parish Library: We have an small, but excellent, library of books on all aspects of faith, religion and spirituality.  There is also a collection of children's books located in the Children's Chapel in Johnson Hall. 
  • Information Tables: These tables are located in the Sprague Community Room, behind the main church, and is always loaded with free information, including reprints of articles, copies of sermons preached at St. Luke's, and pamphlets on various practices of the Episcopal Church.  This is also where you are most likely to find sign-up sheets for parish activities, so it is worth checking on a regular basis.
  • Tract Rack: This rack gets moved around occasionally, but is always located somewhere near an entrance to the Main Church. A wide variety of free pamphlets is available.  Also available are free copies of  "Forward Day by Day"...a seasonally published booklet of readings and meditations. 

This page updated 14 Nov 2005