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From
Hats and Gloves to Anything Goes, Churches Get Casual
By
Vicki Brown
(UMCom) -
The Rev. William Shillady spends an hour each Sunday outside New
York City’s Park Avenue United Methodist Church inviting
joggers, tourists and others to morning services, whether
they’re in suits or shorts. But he remembers when his
congregation wasn’t so welcoming.
"One
particular Sunday an older member of the church asked someone
who had shorts on to leave," he recalls.
The next
Sunday, the congregation heard from the Bible’s book of James 2:
"My brothers, believing as you do in our Lord Jesus Christ, who
reigns in glory, you must never show snobbery. For instance, two
visitors may enter your place of worship, one a well-dressed man
with gold rings, the other a poor man in shabby clothes. Suppose
you pay special attention to the well-dressed man and say to
him, ‘Please take this seat,’ while to the poor man you say,
‘You can stand, or you may sit here on the floor by my
footstool,’ do you not see that you are inconsistent and judge
by false standards?"
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My brothers, believing as you do in our Lord
Jesus Christ, who reigns in glory, you must never show
snobbery. |
"God works things out," says Shillady, who preached a sermon
about accepting people.
Congregations increasingly are welcoming casual attire. Some say
the trend reflects today’s more casual society, but others are
making the change to give their congregations a more welcoming
and hospitable feel. While most black congregations still
maintain a formal dress code in keeping with the belief that
only the best should be presented to God, some ministers are
seeing younger members forget the fancy tie and jacket at home.
"It’s a
part of our history, tradition and culture," says the Rev.
Walter Barton of the formal dress at St. Mark’s United Methodist
Church in New York’s Harlem neighborhood. Nonetheless, Barton
started a casual summer service in the church’s lower level
after a member passed out from the heat in the sanctuary, which
has no air conditioning.
"I had
printed in the bulletin that casual attire is appropriate.
Someone on the worship committee said, ‘But not too casual,’" he
says with a laugh. Worshippers turned out in polo shirts and
khaki pants but not jeans or shorts.
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I think casual dress can be a tool for ministry.
I’ve actually heard people say they don’t have any
church clothes. I say come as you are. |
"I think casual dress can be a tool for ministry," Barton says.
"I’ve actually heard people say they don’t have any church
clothes. I say come as you are."
Some
churches, particularly the so-called megachurches of the
non-denominational, white evangelical movement, use informality
to make a statement about who they are, says Ian Evison,
director of research for the Alban Institute, an organization in
Herndon, Va., working in support of congregations.
He says
for a congregation to announce "`you can come, from white gloves
to cutoffs,’ would be a positive ministry statement."
The Rev.
Kennard Murray of Seay-Hubbard United Methodist Church, a
predominately black church in Nashville, Tenn., uses casual
dress to connect with young people.
"We have
always brought out our best when we come to worship," says
Murray, who says that tradition is rooted in Scripture. "The
first of your fruits," he says.
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‘Just As I Am,’ as the song says. If that’s
all you have and you are clean, that’s the bottom line. |
But he dressed down on Youth Day, giving up his robe since
teen-agers wore khaki pants and shirts. "I used casual dress as
a tool to connect with them," he says.
In the
West, casual dress is so much a part of church that no one
really thinks about it, says the Rev. Derf Bergman of First
United Methodist Church in Miles City, Mont.
"That’s
just not an issue," Bergman says. Weekday attire is so casual,
he would hate for the cost of clothes to keep someone from
church, he says.
Affordability is a concern even at formal churches.
Shirley
Wax-Copeland, a St. Mark’s member who Barton describes as "very
fashionable," says she was raised to wear her best to church,
but she recalls when her mother made her dresses from flour
sacks. She adds that she would hate to think of someone not
coming to church because they didn’t have "the right clothes."
"‘Just As
I Am,’ as the song says," she notes. "If that’s all you have and
you are clean, that’s the bottom line."
Vicki
Brown is a freelance writer in Nashville, Tenn. |