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Jennifer

Silly, Serious, Savvy, Saved

Mother of three boys, wife of hero, sister of two family secrets

Lover of Jesus, life’s challenges, God’s beauty in nature

Who feels joy with her children, love with her husband, comfort with her friends

Who fears mediocrity, laziness, and hypocrisy

Who gives laughter, counsel, and encouragement

Who dreams of her youngest son running and singing a song, her entire family knowing Jesus for REAL, and living to see her great grandchildren

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What am I reading?
Nothing right now.
 
Just finished recently:
"I Dared to Call Him Father" by Bilquis Sheikh
The Shack by William P. Young
"The Same Kind of Different as Me" by Ron Hall, Denver Moore, and Lynn Vincent
"The Kite Runner" by Khaled Hosseini
"Left to Tell:  Discovering God Amidst the Rwandan Holocaust", by
Immaculee Ilibagiza
"The Secret Life of Bees" by Sue Monk Kidd
"The Pillars of the Earth" by Ken Follett
The Harry Potter Series by JK Rowling
 

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Friday, June 30, 2006

Wednesday night we were invited to a neighbor's home for dinner.  They live only a short walk down our country road.  So instead of going to church, we thought it would be hospitable to visit this family.  We went and had a lovely time visiting and my children had fun playing with their children.  Did I mention they have 9 children?  6 boys, 3 girls.  Anyway, our host mentioned that they had a Chigger problem in the play area, so we might want to apply some Off.  So I applied it to the children.  We continued our visit near the play area, but not in it. 

 

Well, needless to say they don't have a Chigger problem, they have an infestation!!!!!!!!!  I have Chiggers head to toe, probably over 100 bites.  The kids must have been moving around too much because they only have about 10 bites each.  So we are all itching, scratching and being rather grumpy. 

 

So last night, Tyler couldn't sleep b/c of the bites, I was awake itching and then Ben woke up with a sore throat.  So now you can add sleep deprivation to the list! LOL  I've got a doctor appt for Ben since it's a holiday weekend, I thought we should probably get in just in case. 

 

So we are off to the doctor and I plan to mention the bites in hopes for some suggestions for ME!!  

 

Have a great day!

 

Jen - "who thinks Laundry and Chiggers must have been part of the curse of the earth when Adam sinned."

30 jun 06 @ 8:40 am

Wednesday, June 28, 2006

Well, I'm doing better today. No more whining.  We went yesterday to have my car windshield fixed and then the body work will be done later in July.  The deductible was not so bad, only $250 since it was non-collision accident. 
 
We shopped around for a storage building yesterday and found one that was big enough for Tim's shop area and storage.  It is 24x12.  Here's picture: scan0010.jpg It is a little different but you get the idea.  It has a rolling door in the back and a double door in the front.  The windows are a little different too, and there's a window in the loft.  It's scheduled to be delivered Saturday.  So the building takes over where the car payment left off for a few months.  That's fine with me! 
 
I also wanted to share some pics of the boys.  Our digital camera is on the blink so I had to wait till I had some recent pics developed to share.  Here you go. 
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Ryan screaming while wearing my shoes
 
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Ryan looking sweet and innocent.
 
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Tyler in character for a local play production.
 
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Tyler being his positive, smiling self.
 
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Ben "jamin" getting ready to hit!
 
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Ben looking very mischievous!
 
Hope you enjoyed the pics!
 
Be blessed!
28 jun 06 @ 5:47 pm

Sunday, June 25, 2006

Would you like some cheese with that whine?

Good evening,

 

Yesterday ended up being just glorious.  I did my daily routines and then scrapbooked for a while.  Then, last night we hired a babysitter and Tim and I went kayaking and then to dinner.  After kayaking we went to his parent’s house and watched a beautiful sunset on the lake.  It was very peaceful.  At dinner we went to our favorite Mexican restaurant and ate outside on the patio.  It was quiet and a wonderful end to a great date night. Tim and I were grateful to get some much needed alone time.

 

Well, today was going well too.  I did some scrapbooking.  And while I was scrapbooking, Ben said very calmly, "There is an emergency, come here now."  Well, I doubted the "emergency" and I said, "Just tell me what's wrong."  He said, "No you have to look."  So I did.  Well, about 1 month ago we purchased a large outdoor tent from Sam's to house some of our outdoor equipment.  It was temporary until we could get a building of some sort.  (We do not have a garage in our new house.)   Well, there were strong winds today, and despite the tent being well staked, it had blown over into the driveway.  So the kids and I went out and with some hard work, we disassembled the tent.  It is broken beyond repair. 

 

We came back in and the boys and I played a game of Pirates of the Caribbean Life and I noticed that the satellite system was not working.  I thought it was because of the windy weather.  So we popped in a DVD and watched a movie.  When the movie was finished the satellite was still not working.  So I decided to take a look.  Well the tent must have hit the satellite on the roof before it went out into the drive.  But as I looked closer, I realized my minivan was also damaged.  The tent shattered the front window, dented the right front quarter panel, tore off and shattered my passenger side mirror, and scratched down the right side of the van.  Did I mention that my car is PAID OFF NEXT MONTH? I was/am devastated. I'm trying to remain calm and see how God is going to "work everything together for good." 

 

So now, we will need to get a building, pay our deductible for the car, be out a car while the van is being repaired, etc.  I just feel bad for Tim.  I’m sure you all experience this (please tell me you do), just when you are getting ahead, or you make plans for something, there is something like this that comes along and messes them all up.  Waaaaahhh! 

 

So there I can whine with the best of them.  As I tell my kids regularly, “Would you like some cheese with that whine?” 

 

Jennifer, who is hoping her car is not totaled. 

 

25 jun 06 @ 11:47 pm

Saturday, June 24, 2006

Good Saturday Morning!

 

I got up this morning and now I'm wondering what I'm going to do.  You have to know me to understand how bizarre this question is for me.  I am a very task oriented person who occasionally throws aside common sense for the sake of completing a task.  Baby and bath water come to mind.    Anyway, the house is cleaned, the laundry is done, I changed the sheets on the beds yesterday, there are no groceries that need to be bought, and I'm not in the mood to lay around, so I'm thinking....a whole Saturday, what to do?  Many things come to mind, but most involve a great deal of money. LOL So I will exhibit restraint in my decision process, but who knows what we'll do today. 

 

So with my extra time I watched a video that a friend sent to me.  I also saw this guy on the Today Show recently. "It's called the Evolution of Dance" and you think you will watch it for just a few seconds and then minutes later you find yourself playing it again! Very funny if you have time….

 

http://www.break.com/index/evolutiondance.html

 

24 jun 06 @ 8:46 am

Thursday, June 22, 2006

Good morning!

 

I officially feel like summer has begun (the summer solstice was yesterday so I guess I'm right on target).  We have our calendar clear and I'm ready for sleeping late, going swimming, and finding great local day trips for the family.   Now for you homeschooling families, we are still doing a small amount (30 minutes a day) of school work and some summer reading to keep the skills up over the summer.  And for you moms, the laundry, bills, housekeeping and meals are still getting done too.   Um...this is a break? 

 

The duties of life still need tending, but it's what you do in between those duties that make it worth living.  It reminds me of an Oreo cookie.  It's the cream that makes the cookie great.  So I'm focusing on those in between times and making them memorable for the summer of 2006. 

 

For my friends, try and carve out some time this week for some family fun.  It may be only 30 minutes here or there, but it will build your relationship with your kids for a lifetime.  Take a pajama trip (your kids not you) to the store after bedtime for late night ice cream.  Take the kids for a surprise trip to a local park while you are out doing errands.  Set up the sprinklers and let the kids play, and if you are really brave, you run through them too.  Pick out an adventurous chapter book from the library and read it to them each night snuggled up in bed. 

 

There are so many things that are free or inexpensive to do with our kids that make memories and make your kids feel that they are special and loved. For me it makes those loads of laundry seem not so daunting.  I hurry to get them done so we can get back to our special times of the summer of 2006. 

 

~J~

22 jun 06 @ 9:09 am

Monday, June 19, 2006

Well, I'm back from camp. It was fun for me to do something away from home and my kids.  Even though I was around children, I was in my old career mode, a nurse.  I was quite busy giving all the scheduled medications and bandaging the boo-boos.  I felt needed and wanted and that is always a self-esteem booster.  While I like being home with my children, it’s nice to see that as a nurse, I’ve still “got it”. J

Yesterday was father’s day and we went to my in-laws home with my dad and his wife.  We had a good visit and dinner.  Tim and I made a collage of photos for each dad, and I wrote a list of why I love my dad and included it with my collage.  Here’s what I wrote:

Why I love my dad

Father’s Day 2006

 

He always loves me.

He taught me about Jesus.

He writes me little love notes.

He talks to me every morning.

He went to all my sports games.

He is a support in all that I do.

He comes to the rescue.

He tells me the truth.

He rode the big rides

at Six Flags with me.

He likes ice cream.

He taught me to drive a car.

He loves Tim and my boys.

He can fix anything.

He is my friend.

I love you dad.

~Jennifer~

 

It was rather simple and short but nevertheless, things that I remember the most about my dad and things that I love about him today.  I am thankful for him. 

 

Also, I am getting things ready to accomplish some of the goals I set out for myself and the kids for summer.  In the midst of this, dinner, and general housework is still planned but I’m looking for ways to add time to our long summer afternoons without heating up the kitchen.  So I’m re-initiating my Flylady daily schedule and using the crock pot more often.  Here is one of my favorite easy and delicious recipes for the crock pot:

 

Crock Pot Enchiladas

12 corn tortillas
1 to 1.5 lbs. ground beef, browned and drained
1 can cream of mushroom soup
1 can diced tomatoes with chilies (Rotel brand is best)
1 can Ranch style beans (aka Texas style beans)
2 cups shredded cheese

 

Mix all three cans (do not drain) with the ground beef. Spread just a spoonful of the mixture on the bottom of the crock. Cover the bottom with four tortillas, 1/3 of the meat mixture, 1/3 of the cheese. Do two more layers of tortillas, meat mixture, and cheese. Cover and cook on low for three to four hours. Uncover and let sit for 10 minutes and serve. Dish can be garnished with sour cream, guacamole, and/or black olives.

 

Be blessed! ~J~

 

19 jun 06 @ 1:15 pm

Wednesday, June 14, 2006

Warning:  If you read today’s blog you might get your feet stepped on.  I recommend steel toe shoes or a willingness to move your feet!  

 

 

The “End of the Year Party” was a big hit.  The children did their program beautifully and I was so blessed by them.  The sign language song was especially touching to me, probably, because it is an attempt on their part to communicate with their brother.   All the grandparent’s were present for the program and they all were impressed with how much the boys had learned over the last year.  We had all their folders and notebooks out for everyone to see in addition to their 30 minute performance.  As I drag across the finish line this year in homeschooling, this party was a breath of fresh air.  In a evening I was able to see just how far we came this year, and hear the accolades of family who commended my hard work. 

 

It is such a blessing to have supportive parents (Tim and my parents) while homeschooling.  Not many families have such a strong support system.  They love us; they love our children;  and they support us all the way.  I’m not sure I could do it without their love, support and help.  It is a thing rarely seen today.  So if any of my or Tim’s parents are reading this today.  I love you and thank you.

 

On Sunday we took Tyler to camp.  When we arrived, it was brought to my attention that they were missing an afternoon/evening nurse for this week.  So I have been filling in this week.  At first I was overwhelmed by the change in schedule so quickly, but with the help of my family (again thank you) I was able to go and help the church.  There are about 75 kids at the church camp this week.  I’ve enjoyed bandaging, patting, hugging, and praying for all of them. 

 

The one thing that I’ve been most touched by is the worship service in the evening.  Just to watch all those children open their hearts in worship to Jesus is incredible.  You can truly feel God’s presence.  Children have no agenda, they for the most part have to baggage and they are innocent and pure when they worship the Lord.  Adults could learn from them.   I am. 

 

This week’s camp focus is “Free to Be Me.”  They are encouraging the children move away from the pop culture and the pressure for them to look, feel, and act the same as everyone else, and instead look at their God given strengths and talents; embrace them and use them for the Lord.  God has a purpose and plan for each child, and it is different that anyone else. 

 

As I was listening last night during the service, I thought , “what is in my own life that is different than others?”  “How can I make a difference?”  I know that having Ryan and dealing with challenges that most people never encounter is different.  I feel like God is calling me to reach out to other moms and families that have children with special needs and encourage them that no matter the disability, God has a purpose for them, and their child.   They can change the world, they can have impact , they are important too.  I’m not sure where I fit or where to go but I definitely feel that this is something that I have to offer and I’m praying about what to do next.

 

So I ask you today, are you “Free to Be Me?”  Are you looking at what makes you different?  Are you using the gifts God has given you?  Or are you just fitting in?   They say that the average person touches and can change 10,000 people’s lives.  How do you want to change them?  Are you making a difference for Christ? I want to change them for good, for Christ, forever. 

 

If you want me to pray for you, encourage you or tell me how you are being “Free to Be Me” email me at Jenny29.11@verizon.net

 

 

 

14 jun 06 @ 8:13 am

Thursday, June 8, 2006

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A friend of mine had this pic on her blog and I thought it was so funny.  We are getting ready for the "End of the School Year" party today.  The boys are practicing their Bible verses, songs, sign language, and science experiments to get ready.  I am making out a folded program to hand out.  It sounds very fancy for only 8 people, but it's a big deal to the boys to show off all their hard work.  As homeschoolers, it is a challenge to make sure there is enough encouragement and compliments paid to the children for their dedication. This is their turn to shine!  I'm looking forward to it.
 
I also have to get that ever growing Tyler some new clothes today!  He is going to camp soon and he barely has anything that fits.  Last years shorts have some knobby knees sticking out...and that's just not cool.
 
We are also looking forward to tonight, Game 1 of the NBA Finals.  Go Mavericks!  We are having burgers and veggies on the grill.  Then we will relax for the game.
 
I also wanted to report a praise!  There are some homeschooling boys that live down the street from us.  They are from a family on NINE children. Wow!  Anyway, three of the boys are close to Tyler and Ben's ages.  Two of them rode their bikes over to play yesterday.  My boys had a wonderful time and the neighbor boys were so well behaved and such a blessing.  I am looking forward to developing the relationship with this family.  Thank you God for such a wonderful gift to our boys!
 
Have a great summer Thursday! 
~J
8 jun 06 @ 8:08 am

Monday, June 5, 2006

Well, I made it through the busy weekend.  Ben finished off his baseball season with the playoffs.  They came in fourth for the entire league of 7-8 year olds.  Pretty good considering there are several dozen teams.  We were proud of them and I was exceptionally thankful for our coach this season.  He was so positive and really brought out the best in each player and encouraged them to improve.  He is one of those coaches that every mom wishes for! LOL

 

And of course, the Mavs won the series!!!!  Woo Hoo!  To the finals we go.  The boys (big and little) love watching the games.  My dad came over for one of games and I enjoyed visiting and watching with him.  It was nice to have some father-daughter time.

 

Also, we went to see "Over The Hedge" last night and the Olin boys give it 2 big thumbs up.  One mommy gives it a "this is hilarious" rating. 

 

It was a great weekend.  Oh yes, one dear mommy moment...when Ben was playing with Ryan, Ben said to Ryan, "I really love you Ryan, you are the best little brother in the world."  My heart melted.  I will remember this moment when Ben is purposefully irritating his older brother by singing Queen's "We will, we will, ROCK YOU!" at the top of his lungs while Tyler is concentrating on his favorite TV program.  Oh boys....the are interesting. 

 

5 jun 06 @ 8:01 am


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