Ann Lane, Re. OUTWARD BOUND COFFEE
By the way - I really enjoy this amalgam of posts. I love the way people think and (most of the time) I love that we all
think differently. With Rob in Iraq I devote a lot of thought to Peace - and since I believe that Peace is not necessarily
the absence of War, I wonder very often what it really is. Hence my comments before - that it is day to day respect and acceptance.
I do know that it gets much more complicated on a geo-political level, but I just do wonder what we really can do that would
make a difference in the world. And does that really start at the cellular level or is Peace something that can be imposed
from the top down? I'm of the mind that Peace has its origins in each person's heart - how they love themselves, is how they
will love other people...and I don't think many people really love themselves. Lots of blue sky thinking but, you know, what
we're doing today does not seem to be working. Enough ramblng for today.
Ann
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From March Poems,
By Willy Timmerman
March 15, 2004: After Listening About the Hubble Telescope on NPR and Reading About It in the Paper This Morning,
I See a Greyhound Bus in Mesquite, TX
The big silver bus flies / down heaven's highway / at five miles per
second / with its headlights off / peering into deep black space / without a human driver / without friction, without wheels,
/ gears locked on one place / without diesel without any / passengers without brakes / locked into ultra deep space / without
stopping at each / galaxy spinning out on / the edge of dim lighted / deserted road heading out / to creation to the original
/ ignition of gas the 10-ton / magic bus locked into / a permanent skid with / the curvature of light.
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CAFE TUESDAY
1. Helen Cariotis writes, Re. Coffee
Hi Dot Tom! (why don't you and Carolyn get separate addresses)? : )
First, I really like how you have edited COFFEE so those of us who are a little slower can see who writes what....thanks.
It is much more clear now.
I agree with Ann L. that there's nothing like war to make us think about (wish for) peace. This is, after all, what propelled
the anti-war movement of the '60s. And for those of you who weren't there, it was huge...we practically closed down the University
of Texas on a number of occasions. Ahhh, the good old days...sit-ins, boycotts, burning effigies, tear gas!
Now, it seems to me that war is not only normal and usual for just about all human cultures, it may even be needed. Other
than natural disasters, war may be the only great leveler. Of course, since my Marine son is stateside, it is easy for me
to go on about war. If I were in Ann's place, who knows, would I revert to my old peace-preaching self?
Helen
...
Helen,
At this point seperate e-addresses for tr and cb mc would create more problems that it would solve.
Glad Coffee is going down easier.
I've forgotten the name of the essayest who hoped to find a rational alternative to war. He said most young men from late
teens through early twenties need some form of death-defying team contest - it's just part of male human development. Any
proposed alternative to war would have to take that into account. Let them count coup with stone-age weapons, then, far from
the threat of nuclear annihilation.
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2. Don Hockaday writes, Re. Enduring Freedom
"...so call it Operation Enduring Freedom."
"Enduring Freedom" is brought to you be the producers of "Clear Skies Initiative." There are unofficial alternative names,
but for the sake of achieving peace in our own Dot Tom, I will sit on them. Those who write the score can name the tune applies
to sonatas in war drums. Naming wars is very recent. Even though we like "War for Independence," the "Revolutionary War" seems
to have stuck. Nobody hired PR professionals back when the distinction arose between "The War Between the States" and "The
Civil War." It is trivia -- we don't have wars anymore anyway. We have conflicts, actions, campaigns, and initiatives instead.
They avoid messy congressional articles of war and we can kick butt without them. "Its just a police action; its not even
a war," bled the same in Korea. With modern marketing, think what could have been done with "The Viet Nam War/conflict."
In 1846, President James Polk sent General Zachary Taylor to start a war. Taylor assembled what he called his "Army of
Occupation" to start the Mexican American War. President Polk sent him to start the war at --- Where? Three, two, one -- buzz,
Port Isabel. I spent the last two days and nights in the south Texas thorn brush. Skinned two rattlesnakes and stomped at
least a dozen scorpions. I have salve on the scratches, and appreciated the hot bath on return. On the whole, I prefer the
brush to the bath. Nevertheless, it is difficult to grasp why two nations would invest so much blood for what I can find between
the Nueces and Ramondville. Neither knew of the oil reserves.
I think it is safe to say Mexico had a plethora of cactus and ticks. A million or so square miles, more or less, was hardly
worth the trip from Mexico City. What Mexico fought for was --- What? Three, two, one, buzz -- the port at Brazos Santiago.
Polk didn't need South Bay or the enormous expanse of brush land south of the Nueces. If Polk had sent Taylor to, for instance,
Hebbronville, Mexico would have probably just sent a sent a deed to everything north of Red Gate and an offer to supply minimum
wage laborers. However, Polk then wouldn't have had much of a campaign, so he sent Taylor to Port Isabel. Think what Polk
and Taylor could have done with modern marketing. The "Mexican-American War" and "Army of Occupation" just would not sell
today.
While administers are administrating, legislators are legislating, protesters are protesting, and we discuss over coffee,
we all know the terrorist cells are meticulously plotting to end it all. It is difficult to build much satisfaction in kicking
it all around in front of a computer monitor, but we must or we will lose regardless of suicide bombers.
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Don -
Re. Naming Wars: That wry name given to the Civil War - The Current Unpleasantness - has caught on at some websites, says
my search engine, as a name for GW II.
It is also Mother Trudie's preferred term for the Anglican argument over the confimation of New Hampshire's Bishop, Gene
Robinson. Opinion on Robinson's confirmation was divided at General Convention and is still divided, down into the parish
level. It has become the elephant in our ecclasiastical living room - you know, the entire family pretends The Large Grey
Animal is not there.
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WEDNESDAY CAFE
1. Don Hockaday, Re. CAFE TUESDAY
Helen Cariotis wrote, "Now, it seems to me that war is not only normal and usual for just about all human cultures..."
I
realize the statement is not meant to justify war. However, the general statement echoes common justification or rationalization
-- wars are inevitable -- by those opposing conscientious objectors to all war, and often at least hint at it for objectors
to specific wars.
It is based on the contention that aggression is normal and usual in humans, hence so is war. This
was addressed by UNESCO in what is referred to as the Seville Statement:
http://www.unesco.org/shs/human_rights/hrfv.htm
I should point out it is a debated political statement. I expect most general
sociobiology texts deal with it.
Tom said, "He said most young men from late teens through early twenties need
some form of death-defying team contest - it's just part of male human development."
Gender differences in aggression
is a different topic.
Conspicuous group aggression and group aggressive display, especially with rooting spectators
(=participants), is far more common than is "death-defying."
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Don -
Quite some time back I asked Larry for a recollection from his stint in Veit Nam. He told of calling in an airstrike on
an attack of his compound by North Vietnamese troops. The fighter jets came with guns, rockets, and bombs - and deadly accuracy.
Soon, Larry said, he and the other troops were cheering the pilots' success. The compond was an ammo dump, so he was very
aware of the oddity of the moment: "There we were," he said, "sitting on tons of explosives, cheering like spectators at a
football game."
And of course there was Saddam's statue being pulled down, the cheering Iraqi crowds. And cheering crowds also in Palestine
when the World trade center burned to the ground.
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2. From March Poems, By Willy Timmerman
March 6, 2004: Talking Near a Swimming Pool on a Balmy March Night
Down in the bottom of a swimming pool / Drowned in the bright light held under by night / A person could be curled as if
asleep.
If an adult, a whole life passes slowly -- / The struggle serene, soft and fluid, / Spirit slips out of body,
then out of water, borne on air.
And if a child, not only the short past is seen / But the entire as-of-yet unlived
future / Moves across eyes that barely saw an ancient star.
The night the sky seems light / Is the far north in the
middle of summer -- here, / Clouds low and luminous, a liquid afterglow in the air.
One star dances on the water the
moment / A word is spoken about the past and / Another one flickers something on into the future.
The thing at the
bottom of the pool / Bothered my sleep all last night. In the shower / This morning I dove down to rescue it
Only to
discover it was the spring / Constellation Scorpio wrapped around / The southern horizon of a season
Not quite here,
or was it the end of / The Big Dipper pointing south to Arcturus / Back up behind your house on the corner?
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THURSDAY COFFEE
Re. CAFE WEDNESDAY
1. Helen Cariotis
Don H. presents the "Seville" paper as a rationale that humans are not, genetically, a war-like species. The position paper
was, I supposed, drafted by a UNESCO. So consider the source of the document. I say every living organism has the right to
defend itself. Every living thing has the right to defend it's young, and it's territory. All species try to claim resouces
that will benefit them. Not to so do puts them on a very precarious path if they want to survive over time.
I think Coffee is being steered by pacifists.
...
Helen -
I'm glad to know someone's steering this blasted thing.
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2. Mike Wright
Re. "war is normal and usual for just about all human cultures" and subsequent
discussion:
It seems to me that rape, murder, speeding, cheating, drug abuse, and tax
evasion are also "normal" for all human cultures. Makes you wonder why we waste money on law enforcement when we could be
using it to buy our own guns.
Time (3 September 1983) detailed one such disturbing case:
"Last March, a 21 year
old mother of two walked into Big Dan's tavern in New Bedford, Massachusetts, to buy a pack of cigarettes. A man in the bar
threw her to the floor, stripped her and hoisted her onto a pool table, where he and three companions took turns raping, sodomizing
and beating the woman. Other patrons cheered the rapists on, screaming, Go for it! Go for it!"
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Hey,
why oppose things that are perfectly normal?
Cheers,
Mixer
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From March Poems By Willy Timmerman
March 14, 2004: If I Could Record and Replay
The cardinal shoots his song / across the rain-soaked yard -- /
it pierces the window, hits me / right in the head. Then he's silent, / watching with head askew or sneaking / through branches
beginning to bud. / His silence is now as noticeable as / his song. He is either guilty of / something or he is celebrating
/ his freedom. He moves down the street, / firing his staccato song again. / If I could record and replay it / loud at a very
slow speed, I know / it would sound like ice / on a river beginning to crack.
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FRIDAY CAFE
1. Helen Cariotis, Re. For Coffee
Mike Wright, surely you are kidding, right? You are comparing what our Marines do to protect our way of life to rape, murder,
speeding, cheating, drug abuse, and tax evasion? Do you honestly think these crimes are normal, in the same way my son wants
to serve his country?
My husband, also a Marine, spent 26 months in 'Nam. Maybe he killed many people, maybe he didn't. I don't know because
like every real hero (not the ones on Diane Sawyer or writing a book) he doesn't talk about it. He is gentle and law abiding.
Maybe you need to meet some of our Marines if you honestly believe what you wrote.
And anyone who thinks he can be protected 24/7 from all things by law enforcement is nuts. And by the way, I do have weapons
and am glad I can have them.
Helen Cariotis
(Proud Marine wife and mom)
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Don Hockaday, Re. THURSDAY COFFEE
Helen C.: "So consider the source of the document."
If it is a group, should it be "ad hominuris"?
As I said, it was influenced by politics. It is not a political question, but it is used politically.
Helen again: "I say every living organism has the right to defend itself."
On a population basis, usually selection pressure favors the winner (defence or aggression) that does not kill within the
species. Humans have three problems:
1) Lethal weapons did not slowly evolve.
2) Many kill for reasons unrelated to personal, family, or population survival.
3) Many tend to think of enemies of other races or cultures as being members of different species. From the standpoint
of war, especially among the soldiers, it is convenient to build on that. "Slant eyes," "gooks," "rag-heads" are not people
with families, hopes, and souls. Segregationists actively promoted the concept that blacks are sub-human.
Helen in closing: "I think Coffee is being steered by pacifists."
As well as I can tell, there aren't any pacifists on board. If everyone agrees, there is nothing to steer. If very few
disagree, they are necessarily steering and stirring.
1) What are positive attributes of war?
-- e.g. Wars build internal cultural cohesion
2) What are good reasons to go to war?
-- e.g. Defence against aggression.
In my mind, going to war to build internal cultural cohesion is not a good reason for it. Having to risk human lives to
defend against aggression is not a positive attribute of war.
3) What are positive attributes of a specific war?
4) What are good reasons to enter a specific war?
5) What are good reasons to avoid a specific war?
What are common false reasons given for each?
Politicians and activists should be respected for their dedication toward greater good.
Balancing #4 & #5 is a political decision. The questions themselves should not be political. They are only made political
by politicians and activists.
Defining the problem and avoiding bias are difficult, unsatisfying, and necessary in the search of truth. Politicians and
activists aren't usually searching for truth; they are searching for converts and support.
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RESPONSIVE COFFEE
1. Mike Wright, Re. SATURDAY CAFE
Helen Cariotis, Re. For Coffee
"Mike Wright, surely you are
kidding, right? You are comparing what our Marines do to protect our way of life to rape, murder, speeding, cheating, drug
abuse, and tax evasion? Do you honestly think these crimes are normal, in the same way my son wants to serve his country?"
Hey,
I was just adding a data point to support what was being said about humans being a naturally violent species. Or, do y'all
think that only foreigners are naturally violent? Maybe they're a different species?
Helen again: "My husband, also
a Marine, spent 26 months in 'Nam. Maybe he killed many people, maybe he didn't. I don't know because like every real hero
(not the ones on Diane Sawyer or writing a book) he doesn't talk about it. He is gentle and law abiding. Maybe you need to
meet some of our Marines if you honestly believe what you wrote."
I met, and worked with quite a few Marines during
my 20 years in the Army (1962-1982 -- my elder son did his 20 years, too, by the way). I've served under Marine NCOs and Warrant
Officers, and alongside Marine NCOs. I even had a Marine roommate for the first six months or so after Basic Training. I've
also heard some pretty scary stories from those same Marines about the behavior of their troops in Okinawa--and been told
which areas to avoid because of danger from Marines.
Some American military personnel have certainly committed war
crimes, though few have ever been tried for them. Some have also brutalized civilians who were not the slightest threat to
them. I've heard first-hand accounts from troops who saw such crimes, and from others who actually took part in them. Another
rule--a result of WW2 and the Nuremberg trials--is that it is illegal to follow an illegal order--but illegal orders have
been given, and they've been knowingly followed--even by me, though not at a level that caused anyone harm (except maybe the
US taxpayer).
You might enjoy the book discussed at
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1557507430/103-9076720-7935828?v=glance
Here's a bit from a reader review:
"For the contemporary study of these issues, Gary Solis offers an excellent
historical lesson in Son Thang: An American War Crime. He recounts the story of the killing of several women and children
during one night operation by a small band of U.S. Marines in Viet Nam, not long after the more notorious massacre of non-combatants
by Americans at My Lai. Within earshot of their commanders, the Marines pulled women and children from their homes, gunned
them down, and then tried to cover it up. From the story of the atrocity, he unfolds the story of its exposure by other, relentless
Marines, and then the story of its legal accounting, in a series of courts martial right there in the field. When Solis has
finished his report, he leaves readers to judge the effectiveness of the American process of military criminal justice for
the prosecution of war crimes. For a former Marine with combat experience himself, Solis the story-teller excels in making
the context intelligible for the rest of us. He seems to know just what needs explaining, from the art of night patrolling
to the atmosphere of the ramshackle huts in which court was held so close to the continued fighting. He tells a gripping and
tragic story clearly. Having heard it, we are the better to judge whether even as distinguished and professional a fighting
force as the U.S. Marines can be left to police its own. Son Thang: An American War Crime is not only a fine read, it is an
excellent lesson."
Try
http://www.boston.com/news/nation/articles/2004/04/02/soldier_may_face_court_martial/
for a rather low-level kind of violation. Although the NCO involved may sincerely have thought that what he did was okay,
there's little excuse for his not knowing that it wasn't. It's certainly not up to the level of the Son Thang and My Lai--or
even trying to injure children by throwing cans of food at them.
But this is not really the point. Official US military
policy is that such crimes are not justified by fear or anger. However, fear and anger often shape national policies, and
it is entirely legitimate to ask whether the results of particular policies violate accepted norms of behavior at that level.
If
we want to live in a world where other countries follow international law, then we lose all credibility when we don't follow
the rules ourselves. If we permit our soldiers to torture prisoners (I spent some time among Army and Marine interrogators),
we can't complain when our enemies do likewise to our troops--no matter how we try to justify our own actions.
If we
say that we, as a nation, can do whatever we want to do whenever we feel threatened, then we shouldn't be surprised when other
nations take us as a role model. Actions like assassination attempts against the leaders of other nations present the same
kind of problem.
Helen: "And anyone who thinks he can be protected 24/7 from all things by law enforcement is nuts.
And by the way, I do have weapons and am glad I can have them."
That's fine, but when you hear that there are lots
of criminal gangs in some area of your town, do you and your neighbors jump into a couple of vans with your weapons and go
out to attack them? And, if you did, what would you expect your local DA to say about it? And, would you like to live in a
world ruled by vigilantes and blood feuds?
Do you believe that Israel's policies of retaliation will ever lead to peace?
Do you believe that Palestinian militants' policies of retaliation will ever lead to peace? Would you like to move over there
to live? How about Northern Ireland?
Do we really want the whole world to be like that? And, if we don't take the moral
high ground, who will?
If I have to accept "My country, right or wrong" as my national slogan, then I'm sorry for the
way I spent the middle 20 years of my life.
Cheers,
Mixer
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DAYLIGHT SAVING COFFEE
Re. RESPONSIVE COFFEE
1. Helen Cariotis -
WOW. At least we know where Mike Wright is coming from.
I don't even know how to respond to what he wrote. I am just the wife and mom of Marines. I can tell you, Mike, that my
husband still remembers and carries the responsibility/guilt of his Marines that were cut down because they wouldn't pull
the trigger on a "non-combatant" woman or child. We can't imagine what it must be like to see a little kid, or a woman carrying
a baby, reach out to you only to step aside at the last moment to reveal a machine gun. Many, many more Marines were killed
because they were "good" and moral people than ever killed in error. Nick had to write the letters to the mothers of those
boys.
It is so sad that you feel the way you do about our brave Marines, and your country.
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2. Ann Lane -
I gotta say - that's pretty rough reading for a Mom who's frantically worried about her son's 'heart'. Not that I'm not
a big girl, but I wrestle daily with the defense of freedom and liberty and the sacrifice of my sweet-hearted son - the balance
that I pray that my young man will maintain when exposed to unspeakable horrors.
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3. Robin Glynn -
Just because we may be capable of violence doesn't mean we will actually be violent.
I may be capable of killing
my children but that doesn't mean I will act on that. I also don't believe because some stay-at-home, home-schooling
moms kill their children that most stay-at-home, home-schooling moms, will kill theirs.
There seems to be some
stuff in Coffee lately that sounds like "if there's one bad apple then the whole barrel is rotten" philosophy.
I will
say, as a mom, if I hear that my neighbors may have a gun and be planning to kill my children, I am going to make a preemptive
strike. Especially since the above mentioned neighbor's kid has put my darling son in the ER once already. No, I don't think
I'll cruise over there in my "mini van" with a gun, but I will dial 911. If their day is ruined b/c I had bad intel,
so be it. If they'd been nice in the first place I would have questioned the intel, probably not even believed it at all.
What those people? Planning to kill my kids? Pleazzzzze. get outta here.
It seems like our government made the best
decision it could with the information it had at the time. I don't believe Bush was war hungry, I don't care what some guilt
ridden guy Clark says. I was watching Powell myself. When Powell came out for war I thought well then I guess there's something
to be worried about. Now he want's the intel investigated and is talking to the CIA. I think it says a lot that we haven't
found any WMDs in Iraq. Humm kinda blows the idea of war just because Bush wanted one. Seems like he'd have made sure we found
some WMDs had that been the case.
It's really something to sit back and criticize when we're not responsible for the
safety of this whole country. That's a huge thing to have on your shoulders. I have personally stood and taken physical violence
and not fought back, taken the high ground, but not when it comes to my kids. I'm not so sure I wouldn't have done the same
thing in his shoes. And after all he is a "Texan" - you mess with our kids don't be surprised if you get shot, even if you
didn't pull the trigger yourself but just stood there laughing while someone else did.
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