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VERNON R. BRADLEY, M. A., MFT
Marriage Family Therapy License Number MFC 17232
Consulting and Staff Development 909-797-8325
Welcome! Thanks for visiting my site. My Practice in Marriage Family Therapy provides professional services to individuals,
couples, and families of all ages. My "job" is to be a supportive ally for my clients as they face the various
life challenges that come their way. If you've never experienced
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Wednesday, June 14, 2006
SOMETHING HERE THAT NEEDS HEALING--ON FLAG DAY
What is all the HOWLING about when it comes to ALIENS? I forgot, no one is howling about
just any ol' alien, just the ILLEGAL aliens? So tell me, what category of ALIEN do the PILGRIMS fall under? Were
they legal or illegal? Can the Native Americans go to court at this late juncture and demand that we all acquire green
cards?
YES, IMMIGRATION is an issue, a problem to be solved, perhaps it's complex, perhaps
it's not. It definitely has a lot to do with economics. Like OIL.
Issues can be tossed about and even rejected or discarded. BUT immigrants and aliens, themselves, legal
and illegal alike, are not issues, but real-live PEOPLE. Treating people as issues is the scarey part.
At this very moment, in other parts of the world, there are large numbers of people, legal
and illegal alike, who are identified and treated like issues and in some cases the powers-to-be deem it necessary
to cleanse the world of these issues. And history abounds with examples of those in power seeing it as
their mission to cleanse the world of people who are identified as "issues," burdens, evil, and alien. It's an
impoverished day when talk radio DJ's resort to illegal immigrant bashing as the sole means of touting their craft.
Bill, you stooped to Ken and John--a first for you!
As long as we build our "village" on the fear of those who are different, as long as we build
walls around the village to protect the pie that belongs to us alone, then we are all vulnerable to being identified
as aliens and "issues."
I wonder what this is all about ultimately. Perhaps there's something here that needs
healing.
Wed, June 14, 2006 | link
Monday, June 12, 2006
AN OLD FASHIONED TIP WITH RELEVANCE
Remember Mom admonishing us, "If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at
all"? In recent years, as therapists, with all of our infinite and new-age wisdom, we have tended to encourage
folks to do the opposite. Just put it all out there, VENT, discharge, cathart! And there is some
wisdom to our encouragement. Often times, when I find an appropriate means for discharging all the "bad-stuff energy,"
then I create room for "lifegiving energy." However, there is something to Mom's "old fashioned" advice. We now
know that our brain produces neuropeptides (enzymes) which are emotion specific. So if I wake up in the morning already
thinking that today is going to be a bad day, then sure enough, my brain begins to produce neuropeptides which literally invade
my entire body and "program" me for seeing and finding every bad thing there is to see and find. The reverse is also
true. So when I "shift" from saying something negative to something more uplifting, I also shift neuropeptide production
in the brain! So maybe Mom knew what she was talking about after all! Well how about that? I'm still not
convinced that Dad knew what he was talking about!
Mon, June 12, 2006 | link
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Scott is the GENTLEman on the left. You can tell how much we love each other!

The music, Clair De Lune, is from the CD Debussy/Ravel Piano Works.
It is a Classical Gallery CD produced by Platinum Disc Corporation, P. O. Box
2798, La Crosse, Wisconsin 94602
This is one of my favorite piano pieces from the many concerts I attended as a little
kid right there in my own living room--listening to Mom play.
See blog for March 10.

Ian on his favorite morning--CHRISTMAS--with his favorite animal--ANGEL! See Blog for August 23.

My Birthday buddy, Glenn, getting into WILDFIRE!

Maynard on his 92nd birthday, contemplating kicking my butt in cribbage!
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