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Resources: Ceremony
A brit milah is one of those rare Jewish life cycle rituals that can, in fact, on occasion, must, be performed on a Shabbat or festival, even Yom Kippur; eight days is eight days. However, if the brit milah needs to be postponed because of the baby's health, the rescheduled event cannot take place on a Shabbat or festival. If it cannot happen on the eighth day, the timing is no longer considered sufficiently imperative to risk the violations of traditional Shabbat practices that could potentially be involved.
The mohel will examine the baby to certify that he is healthy enough to undergo the procedure (unless a doctor has decided he is not). If he isn't, it will be postponed to a later date. As usual in matters of physical health, Judaism takes a cautious approach, and mohalim are generally more strict on this issue than doctors.
Perhaps the first decision you have to make is where to hold the ceremony. There is ample precedent for having a brit milah in the synagogue, in the context of daily morning services, if you so choose. The main argument against using the synagogue rather than your home is that it involves unnecessarily moving the baby around, which may be unsettling for a newborn (and more work for you!). If your home is large enough, you may choose to host it there. The mohel can even do the circumcision in the hospital on the eighth day, should there be health considerations that aren't serious enough to postpone the circumcision altogether but which would be helped by this setting.
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Dear Rabbi Malka
Our belated but sincere thanks to the wonderful Brit ceremony you conducted, your expertise & skill was quite evident by our son's quick healing and the very brief bout of discomfort, I am also so appreciative of your warm and flexible disposition, your warmth, humor, and knowledge made the ceremony meaningful to everyone who attended, most of whom had never been to a brit before. On such a wonderful note.
Our deepest thanks and our wishes to you and your family for a happy New Year.
With appreciation.
Belinda Frankel, Karl Begley & Alexander |
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