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This site is for those of you that have suffered any forms of abuse or for those that are dealing with individuals that have suffered abuse. Please feel free to come in and have a look around before you leave please sign the guestbook. We welcome all comments feel free to email me. mailto:latialacey@verizon.net

My Prayer To God

I need to talk to You today, My daddy won't let me go out and play, I tried to tell Mommy, but she don't listen to me: God, I need your help; This is my final plea!

I hate when it gets late at night, That is when I always have to fight. He comes into my room you see, So that he can play with me, It hurts so bad until I want to cry, I wish I could just bid this world good-bye!

Mommy told me there were Angels up there, So please send one so I won't be scared. Let the Angel come my way, Then I can go to Heaven and play.

I'll wait as long as you want me to, But please, dear God, help me through: The pain and tears will all go away, When I get to Heaven to stay, If you aren't ready for me to come home, Then help My Mommy to see that Daddy don't roam. Amen

PLEASE STOP CHILD ABUSE! LISTEN TO YOUR CHILDREN WHEN THEY TALK TO YOU!

Stop The Violence – Don’t Suffer in Silence!©

Purpose Of This Site

To give visitors all the support and encouragement possible. To help victims of all forms of Family Violence, various abuses,our loved ones, The mission of this website and myself is to be there for those who need the support.

This website wishes to not only offer support, but to take a stand on issues it deals with and help others learn what they can do to make a difference. The goal being to keep our homes and communities safe for our children for generations to come.

This website is dedicated to helping others, and to do so while providing some laughs and support along the way. This website is about giving and will sell nothing to its visitors. This website will do it's part to offer an enjoyable and informative visit for all visitors.

This is a website that cares about it's visitors. May God's angels shine upon all of you who have taken the time to look through this site.

Give all your cares to jesus he knows exactly how to handle them.

Too many people have remained silent for far too long!

Assaults against our children, especially at the hands of a relative or someone else with whom they are familiar and trusting, leave scars they carry with them throughout the remainder of their lives. They may become active Christians or go through extensive counseling, yet the memories remain...memories which must be battled against forever. They can forgive, but not forget! The best cure is one of prevention. However, if you know of a child who is already being abused, be it physically or sexually, and you do not raise your voice in protest, are you then any less guilty than the perpetrator of this crime?

I especially address you ladies who find yourselves in a relationship where your child is being repeatedly attacked. Let me assure you that no man is worth "loving" who could do such a thing. You are being brainwashed into believing there is no solution, and no better way for you and your child. You are VERY WRONG!! This is not true love, and there is a way of escape if you will reach out for the help. Are you willing to sacrifice your precious child, your own flesh and blood, for what one depraved person is telling you is your only option in life?

Let's consider the very worst scenario for yourself here. I am all-too-aware that the process of escaping from this sort of person is often extremely dangerous...and that danger often follows you for a very long time. However, I would ask you again, "Is your own preservation more important than that of your child?" It could literally become a choice between yourself and your child. Would you be willing to lay down your own life to save that of your baby? I know the answer to that would be a resounding "YES!" if the enemy attacking was some deadly disease. In that case, the choice of sacrificing some essential part of yourself to spare the child further suffering would take you no more than a moment's deliberation. Why, then, should it be any different in the case of assault or abuse? Is your child's suffering somehow less painful in this case than it would be in the face of illness or death? How many times too often do we hear the news about another precious life that has been unjustly ended at the hands of some brutal tormenter. How many more "silent sufferers" stumble through the years, and on into an emotionally confused and/or addicted adult lifestyle, with such a burden buried deep within them. Is this the sentence of doom you will allow to be imposed on your innocent offspring?

This "Take A Stand" quilt represents others who are available to help or refer you to those who can offer you help out of your seemingly-hopeless situation, as well as direction for guiding your child toward his/her only hope of a "normal" adult life. Left alone, you can be assured that your son, your daughter, will face many issues that will end in their making terribly wrong choices--and your support of their assailant (which is how they perceive your lack of action against that vile criminal) will come home to roost on your doorstep much sooner than you would ever dream or expect!

(For those who have survived and recovered from such a lifestyle, and have a website that reaches out to help these people who are now in need, please send me your personalized square {130x130 pixels} and URL.)

Survival Resources

A page of links to other places I have found that may be of help to you.

 

 

 

 

 

If you would like to join our support group for survivors of abuse please go to the left and download paltalk its free.Look in groups under Social Issue's the room name is "Debbie's Room Of Survivors Of Abuse"

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There are four different kinds of abuse and they are Verbal,,Mental,,Physical,,and Sexual. I would like to take this time and tell all who pass through this site you may say ( oh it will never happen to me) Well I hate to tell you this but never say never. I have had black eyes a ruptured ear drum broken legs an arms and knives at my throat stitches in my head and all because someone decided they wanted to take control of my life. Well I ask you this not one person rather it be an adult or a child woman or man no matter the age no one deserves this kind of treatment no one!! Please take the time an look at some of the other sites that are linked to this site an please feel free to comment or send me an email. Maybe if we stop hiding and we get this to be an open issue maybe then someone in the law will step back and have a real good look and they may just start listening. God bless all who pass through this site. I will also say any emails that come through to me are kept very confidential that I promise!! Remember God loves all never lose faith and try and stay strong. I love you all, Debbie

 

 

TRUST IN GOD AND HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH

ATTENTION!!!!

Helen Pearson was murdered on January 23, 2005, Helen was battered by her partner. She fell into a coma. Three days later she died. Last year, over four million Women, Children and even Men were beaten in their own homes. Thousands of them died. Don't let Helen Pearson be a drop in the bucket. STOP THE VIOLENCE!!

Are You BeingHurt?

Have You Been Hit, Slapped, Kicked, Pushed, Punched, Threatened, Controlled, Called names?

Is Your Partner Jealous, Demanding, Possessive, Mean to you?

DO YOU KNOW HOW TO BE SAFE? WHERE TO GET HELP? ABUSE IS NOT YOUR FAULT. PLEASE FEEL FREE TO USE THESE CONTACT AND HELP NUMBERS!! TO THE RIGHT OF THIS PAGE, PLEASE STOP THE ABUSE BEFORE IT STOPS YOU!!!!

 
 

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Abuse is nothing to take lightly anyone that has been abused or that is being abused can tell you that it stays with you a lifetime. If you know of anyon being abused or that has been abused in the past "PLEASE" report it."SILENCE IS THE KILLER"

Both the reporting party and the child who is allegedly being abused must reside in the same state for the following reporting numbers to be valid. When the reporting party resides in a different state than the child, or for states not listed, please call Childhelp's National Child Abuse Hotline (800-422-4453). TDD: 1-800-2 A CHILD. Childhelp USA is a non-profit agency, and is not involved in investigations by a goverment agency. Hotline counselors are able to provide the state or country reporting number to callers or to provide other referrals

Boystown National Hotline 800-448-3000

Child Abuse Hotline 800-4-A-CHILD

Child and Parents Helpline 800-348-5437

Family Violence/Sexual Assault 800-252-8748

Nat'l Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233

Parents Anonymous 800-882-1250

Abuse Feeling low deep inside so scared that I would hide,never telling
anyone the pain the tears that had become, My tortured mind ,my deepest
thoughts that day1 was torn apart,my world not like before as i just wept
there on the floor,Who would believe it was a friend, I trusted deeply till
the end. Feeing guiilt as not before,my heart is broken,I smile no more.
Head messed up I lost that trust, Im withdrawn from life itself.When I
scream
out no one hears ,its all inside the lost the fear.Like a child I had
become, when scared as be I would run

I thank you my dear friend from paltalk for this beautiful poem you wrote and dedicated to the site, God bless, it was written by Glenn from Australia

If you have a poem or something special that you would like to share in the site. By all means Please email or contact me and we will be sure it gets on this site. Thank You and God Bless

Welcome! I started this site because I myself am a survivor of abuse. There is so much abuse in our world today this will not stop it but maybe kust maybe it will help people to speak out more on abuse. I was eight years old when I was sexually abused and till this day it has had a big affect on my life. I have over the years learned so much about abuse and what makes people think they can just violate someone. I will never understand our laws I know cases where abuse and neglect are just over looked. Well I am sorry but I feel that the victim of abuse knows what is not right rather it be man,,woman,,child and there is no age limit that comes with abuse. Our children come to us looking for help we tell them the judge the children and youth services (C.Y.S) will help them then when you go to court and they say the child is not old enough to say where or what is going on. That is such a bunch of crap the ones we depend on for help are the ones who let us down. So what are we suppose to do put up with it I think not. I made a vow years ago no matter who it is if they need help I will do my very best to help them get the abuse taken out of there life. So if you come in here and have a look around please feel free to email me and all comments are welcome too. I thank you for taking the time to read through this all and for visiting our site. This may not stop abuse but it may just be seen by someone who has a heart that would like to help some of the people I have talked to. And may God bless our children and keep them safe cause some of our laws sure do not seem to care. Do we need for someone to get killed before they will help us!!!! I sure do hope not!!!! Thank you and may God bless you all,, All my love Debbie!!!!

 

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Is Your Partner Jealous, Demanding, Possessive, Mean to you?

DO YOU KNOW HOW TO BE SAFE? WHERE TO GET HELP? ABUSE IS NOT YOUR FAULT. PLEASE FEEL FREE TO USE THESE CONTACT AND HELP NUMBERS!! TO THE RIGHT OF THIS PAGE, PLEASE STOP THE ABUSE BEFORE IT STOPS YOU!!!

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