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Monday, April 6, 2009
Kent Place School, NJ volunteers at Empopongi Primary School
More Tales from Kenya
By
Kevin
Williams, Maywood Rotary Kenya
Project Chair
Well it happened again to me, for the sixth time. One week, I am sitting home in Maywood where it had snowed and the next
week I am in Nairobi Kenya
in the heat of their summer. When you were celebrating St. Patrick’s Day, I was
working with 330 Maasai elementary school children and volunteers. And it wasn’t for our annual Maywood Rotary volunteer trip. How did that happen?
Two years ago, I was privileged to go with Maywoodian Reverend
and Doctor Karen Rezach on our annual Rotary volunteer trip to Kenya. Karen is also the middle school principle of a private K-12 all girls school called
Kent Place School
in Summit NJ. She was so impressed with the Maywood Rotary Kenya Project trip that she asked me to set up a trip for
6th, 7th, 8th and 9th grade KPS students.
So, I did. Dr. Rezach, three teacher/chaperones and twelve courageous
girls (and me!) left on Friday March 13th for ten days of volunteer service for our one little adopted elementary
school. I have been honored to write five previous articles for the readers of
Our Town on past trips. Here is my sixth report to the readers and supporters
of our Rotary Kenya Project about another wonderful volunteer trip. I won’t bore
you with every detail in chronological order, just a few of the many miracles I was privileged to see. It’s not an official report on the trip, just my perspective.
The first miracle that deeply touched the hearts of all 16 Kent Place volunteers is the same one that all the past trip
volunteers experienced. On the first day, the volunteers walk about one mile
from our tent camp to work at the school. As they approach the collection of
cider block walled and tin roof buildings, the come up the hill to see a wave of 300 children in red uniforms running fast
to greet the volunteers as they approach the gate to the school. Dozens of these
jubilant children encircle each volunteer joyful to just touch them, hug them, shout “Jambo” or “Sopa” (hello) and bring them
up to the school. Trust me, it’s not because of anything we give them, it’s just
because they are so happy to see new friends from their favorite place in the USA,
New Jersey. Most
all of the volunteers are overwhelmed at the out pouring of love, attention and caring given just for being there. For five years, I have heard from many volunteers that this is a soul moving event that they will not forget
for the rest of their lives. I understand.
And I agree, there is not enough money in the world to pay for such a wonderful experience. I wish everyone in Maywood could know what
it is like to be so wanted and welcomed by children who have so much less than our children have.
There are so many people that make this event and trip possible.
One of them is a gracious woman called “Mercy Purity”, who now works for the
Maywood Rotary Kenya Project since last year. This is not a job for Mercy, she
says it’s a dream come true to be able to work all day for Rotary to help the children of Empopongi Primary School. Now Mercy is so happy that she has 16 new friends and she arranged for all their volunteer work for the
week. And on this trip, it’s all about life saving clean water. You may not know that a source of fresh water can save more lives than three full time doctors in Africa. In 2006, thanks to donors like you, we completed
a water project that brought clean water to storage tanks the main area of the school. And we have previous built a school
dormitory for the girls but the problem was they had no water pipes to the dormitory, two hundred yards away from the school
water tank. The girls had to carry buckets all the way to the tanks and back
to the dorm just to wash up each day. And bring even more water up to wash their
clothes each night. A water pipe would allow them to use showers installed in the dorm and sinks to wash their hands and clothes.
But that would be a big, expensive, project that I didn’t
think the Kent Place volunteers could complete in
less than a week. I got tired just watching them work, and believe me, that’s
all I did was watch (I call that “supervising”). I am too old for hard labor.
The soil is rock hard and it would be a massive amount of deep digging in the hot sun with shovels and pick axes. Boy, was I wrong! By the end of the first day, the 12 girls,
four chaperones and their assigned student buddies had already dug up the top part of the trench needed for the new pipes! No one was more surprised than I was. By
the second day, they had dug deep enough to install the pipes from the tank to the dormitory.
And by the third day, the girls were already washing their clothes inside the dorms without having to haul buckets
of water so far. The Kent Place
volunteers had also built a clothes line for them to hang their newly washed uniforms.
You would think that these hard working girls would be satisfied
completing their main construction project and just spend the rest of their time being with the elementary school students. But no, they noticed that the PVC pipe line from the water tanks to the school kitchen
was broken because elephants had crushed the pipes while walking by. This meant
that that Lillian the school cook had to walk a long way several times each morning to fill buckets of water and carry it
back in order to cook the 330 lunches of Rotary provided beans, rice and corn each afternoon.
This was not acceptable to the girls so I had to find eight 15 foot lengths of pipe to replace the broken plastic pipes. Basically, I don’t like confrontation, so in a land of no Home Depots closer than
500 miles, I found a way to get them the pipes. And of course, they spent many
more hot hours in the sun digging and laying the new metal pipe to the kitchen. Of
course, I supervised. I can’t begin to tell you how happy that made Lillian. She
came to work at 6:00am the next morning just so she had the time to wash down the whole kitchen from the water that came out
of her pipes! Just another miracle for the Kenya Project.
By now, I figure my job as the trip organizer is safe and
I won’t have to run around finding plumbers and pipe. The Kent Place volunteers
are done with the big construction work for the school, they will move on to teaching English, teaching a class on the USA,
teaching a class on AIDS, sitting through the Maasai school children’s classes and having the Kent Place School teachers meet
with the Empopongi School Teachers. Less work for me! But NO! One of the Kent Place girls discovered
that the previously installed plastic water pipes from the tank to the vital school garden were broken because a jeep crossed
the pipe line.
I thought to myself, “Oh, No!” Yes, you are right, the Kent Place School volunteers demanded we also fix
this water problem. The school children showed up just after sunrise to dig the
trench, the pipes were installed and the Kent Place
volunteers buried the newly installed pipe. I started to think, this is too much
for me. Three major and important water projects completed in only one week! How lucky can I get?
But so much more happened for these brave volunteers on this
trip. In the next part of “More Tales from Kenya” next week in Our Town, you
will meet many of the volunteers who made this life changing trip as well as the Kenyan people who worked hard to make this
happen for 330 children on the other side of the world. Stay tuned.
More Tales from Kenya
Part Two:
The Girls!
By
Kevin Williams,
Maywood Rotary Kenya
Project
This was my sixth trip to Kenya
and I have learned to answer to many names. All the little school children scream
out “Jambo Kelvin”, shortly followed by “Where is Corey (my son and frequent visitor).
The resident Maasai naturalist at Siana Springs tent camp calls me “Williams, Kelvin from the Rotary.” I answer to that also. But one day on the ride to the school,
we passed a group of Maasai mothers washing their clothes in the stream. One
of them turned around to all the others and said loudly, “Look, it’s The Kelvin!”. It
was like she said, “Look, there’s the Pope”. No matter what they call me, I couldn’t
be made to feel more welcome. And they ask about every Maywoodian who ever volunteered
in the past. “How is the Mayor?” “How
is Jay the veterinarian?” “How is Judge Lois?”
“Nurse Alice?” “Librarian Diane?” And so many others, they never seem
to forget a volunteer. Others asked what President Obama asked ME about Kenya; as if he is
someone I have breakfast at Hillmans with every morning.
It was a new experience for me to bring the twelve girls from Kent
Place School instead of mostly
adult volunteers. And it had a big impact on Empopongi Primary School. You have to realize that Kent Place
School is probably the best private school in New
Jersey. Their girls are extremely well educated, confident
and mature beyond their years. But the Maasai girls are taught from birth to
be submissive and to always yield to any man’s wishes without question. So, I
was curious to see how this turned out and was happy at the result.
What few girls who are not married off and drop out of school by the 6th, 7th, and 8th
grades were inspired by the Kent Place
School girls. The Maasai girls worked side by side with the Kent Place School
girls in the classroom. They did geometry, algebra, English and other subjects
together. You might be surprised to know that
some of the best educated girls in New Jersey not only were
able to teach their Maasai counterparts, you’d expect that, but were also able
to learn from them. The Maasai taught the girls how to get the correct algebra
answer one way, and the Kent Place
School girls showed the Maasai another “American” way of getting the
same answer.
You would expect our strong and confident girls to inspire the Maasai girls, but Mercy had another point to make. She said that it’s just as important for all the Maasai boys to see that girls can
be brave, confident, and outspoken because they know they are equal. She’s right;
some of the boys were absolutely amazed at the girls’ behavior in class. And
so were the teachers! Our girls respectfully pointed out when a boy or even a
teacher made a mistake in English or Algebra. “No, that is not how you determine
the volume of an Ostrich egg”, one student pointed out. The teachers handled
this culture shock very well in my opinion. All the boys and the teachers will
never think of girls in the same way after our visit. That’s a good thing, even
if it clashes with traditional Maasai culture.
I am not saying there were no cultural conflicts, there were. All Kindergarten
through 12th grade students in Kenya are required to take a class each day on fundamentalist Christian education
as outlined by the federal government. Even our one Muslim teacher, Safia, must
teach this course. And every student must pass this course to move on to the
next grade. One of our girls was baited by a Maasai student who asked “You believe
in evolution? Prove to me that I was a monkey!”
They tried to ridicule her. Now I, being a Christian, but also a hot head,
would have made a big argument about this and insulted the Maasai. Luckily, I was not in that classroom at the time. But not our Kent Place School girls, they disagreed with grace
and dignity. But I knew some of them were hurt by this.
Simply put, the girls changed the school but they were also changed by the school, and I think for the rest of their
lives. They will never look at water in the same way, they will see it as a rare
and life saving commodity. They will appreciate what a luxury clean clothes are
for people on the other side of the world. They will come home grateful for paper,
pens, pencils and school books because they are so precious in other countries. They
have learned that a school lunch of beans, rice and corn each school day can save your life if your family has no other food. I think all of them have learned that by accident they are blessedly gifted to not
be born in a poor part of the world. And that these children, through no fault
of their own, were born in a poor part of the world. So, when I am elected to
be “KING” of New Jersey, I will declare that EVERY school
child must volunteer for ten days of work at a Maasai school. It’s an education
in real life that will last for the rest of their lives!
The girls did not work every single minute of their trip to the school. Who
wants to go all the way to Africa and not see the wildlife? So I scheduled as much time as
possible to go on jeep safaris so they could see the “Big Five”, the lion, leopard, elephant, rhino, and buffalo. And they did see all of them. Reverend Dr. Karen Rezach started
to call me “Kelvin, the 6th of the Big Five.” I liked it. I only heard one problem happening on the Safaris. One jeep
pulled up very close so that the girls could get a good look at a Kenyan lion. Unfortunately,
one 12 year old student forgot to turn off her camera’s flash which threatened the lion.
Luckily, instead of eating several high grade students, the startled lion just turned around and sat down.
Mercy and I had a surprise planned for Karen Rezach, the middle school principal of Kent Place School. It occurred after dinner on our first night at the school. About twelve Maasai warriors came to perform the traditional Maasai “baptism” and re naming ceremony of
a worthy Mzungu (white person). Karen was called up by the head Maasai warrior
so the tribe could talk with each other about which Maasai name would be best for this honored person. The tribe settled on “Nashupie”, meaning “Ever Happy”. I think
that Karen found this ironic, but was so pleased to be honored in this way. The
lead Maasai warrior instructed her to be sure to change her birth certificate and driver’s license when she returned home
to Maywood. For
the rest of the trip, no one called her Dr. Rezach, Reverend Rezach or Principal Rezach; she was now called Nashupie by all
the volunteers. I think she liked
that a lot.
Probably the hardest thing for our volunteer girls to do was to say Good Bye on our last day at the school, Friday. They had grown very close to their assigned student buddies, the faculty and other students at the school. We were invited up
to “Maywood Rotary House” (a small house on school grounds built by contributions so Mercy has a place to live while she works
for the Kenya Project) for lunch. After lunch, the girls and the chaperones walked
back to the center of the school for the good bye ceremonies. You could
probably call it a tearful event because it was so heart breaking for the girls to say good bye to their friends. They listened to many speeches of thanks and watched the students perform thousand year old dances and
songs of appreciation. Then came our turn to say good bye. The girls wrote a wonderful speech/poem about how deeply their visit affected them. The Empopongi school principal translated that poem into Mai, the tribal language of the parents who came
to honor us. They laughed, agreed and applauded the deepest feelings of our girls. Because the Maasai performed for us, our girls got up and sang the Kent Place School
anthem as well as Amazing Grace. It was well received by the students and community. When I saw the girls walk away from the school, it was a trail of tears. Happy tears, but still tears.
How lucky could I get, to be a part of all this? I used to think that
all the donors and trip volunteers gave so much more than what they received, not anymore.
Now I know that anyone who gives their hard earned dollars, or gets to work at the school, gets so much more than they
give. Like Corey, they have changed the world; the world of 330 children on the
other side of the world.
Next time, in part three of these articles, it’s going to be more of a personal look at what it was like for me to
be on my 6th visit to that other side of the world on the Kent Place School trip.
After reading it, you will never look at electricity or water in the same way again!
10:27 am est
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
How we helped this year: Our Annual Report
2008 Annual Report for:
The Maywood Rotary Kenya Project
As Chair of the Maywood Rotary Kenya Project,
it is my pleasure to submit this report on all of our activities this past year. Five
years ago, this project’s annual report could be summed up in two paragraphs, one about providing food and one about providing
school uniforms. Below you will find how much our project has grown since then.
Double
the Donations:
You may not know that the Rotary Foundation has
tens of thousands of dollars available for Rotary service projects just like our Kenya Project, but there is one string attached. You must have the cooperation of a local Rotary club in Kenya. Dominic Jengo and I have been
trying to accomplish this for five years and only ran into road blocks. For example,
none of the six Rotary Clubs in Nairobi were willing to help without demanding our donations pay for their club expenses to
go down to Siana Springs Tent Camp. As Chair of the project, I will not allow
any donation to pay for administrative expenses.
But thanks to 08 trip volunteer Jerry Kallman
(past president of the Ridgewood Rotary Club) and his relentless internet research, we now have an official in-country Kenyan
Rotary Club in Narok (87 miles away from our school). This very small club is
very excited to work with us to get Rotary Foundation grants and they do not expect us to pay for them. In effect, every donor dollar towards specific school projects will be DOUBLED by the grant for that project. 08 Trip Volunteer, Kathy Palumbo, will be in charge of writing the grants we need. She will work with Diane Rhodes on this but please don’t tell Diane, she doesn’t know
that she volunteered for this yet.
Our
Angel Mercy moves into Rotary House:
For five years, Mercy Purity, the front desk
manager at Siana Springs tent camp, volunteered without any pay to be our representative to the school. She got construction estimates, beans and rice for the children each school day, and a hundred other details
that made our project successful. But as the project grew, she could not work
full time for Siana Springs and almost full time for us. It would be too much for any one person. It became necessary to hire
Mercy away from Siana Springs (at a yearly salary of $5,000.00 per year) and build a home/office for her on the school grounds. Thanks to the sponsor donations from the 08 trip volunteers, Mercy was able to move
into her new home and new job this past month. Her used furniture and solar electricity
will be delivered this week. Thanks to past donors, she has her own laptop and
internet connection (via cell phone). You might want to send her an email of congratulations to Mercy@maywoodrotarykenyaproject.org. But give her time to answer you; she has
to answer all my Kenya Project’s emails first!!!
Now I have become a boss and already Mercy is
causing me problems. She is working seven days a week and refuses to take off
one, much less two, days a week. And she won’t work less than ten hours a day. You would think we pay her by the hour.
Ridgewood
Rotary starts their own Kenya Project:
A great idea (thank you, Corey) spreads fast.
There are so many other local Maasai schools
that are as deserving of help as much as our Empopongi Primary School, but we don’t have the resources to help them. Or perhaps more honestly, I don’t have the time in each day to help another school. Ridgewood Rotary Club
has stepped up and created their own Kenya Project to assist another school called Kishermoruak
Primary school, only nine miles away from our school. Jerry and Lorraine Kallman came on our 08 volunteer trip to visit their newly adopted school and begin
on the road we went down five years ago.
I will be assisting them in their own Kenya Project
Volunteer trip which will occur the week after the Maywood Rotary Kenya volunteers work at the school next July. We wish them the best of luck in changing the lives of the students at their newly adopted school. May they do as well or even better than we have!
I foresee a day in the future, when I retire
from this job, that Kenya Project Chair Corey James Eustace-Williams has gotten a Rotary Club sponsor for each of the 29 schools
in the Maasai Mara!
Mercy
comes home to Maywood Again!
Yes, three years ago, Mercy saved up her money
and took out a loan to pay for her visit Maywood for two weeks
with James Kathurima, Siana Manager at the time. They gave wonderful talks to
over a dozen community groups and schools about the Maywood Rotary Kenya Project. And
then last year, Mercy came to bring Empopongi students Benson and Samuel for needed operations in Salt Lake City thanks to Coral Terry who covered those costs.
But Mercy has a personal friend who is paying for her to come visit her in her home in California. I insisted that on her way back
home she stop and visit her second home town, Maywood, for a few days because we all miss her.
07 Trip Volunteer Dorothy Fenniman graciously offered to host a reception
for Mercy and all of you are invited. RSVP required.
If you wish to see Mercy while she is here either
at Dorothy’s reception dinner, or hear her speak at Maywood Rotary, I’d be happy to tell you when both events will occur. But as all of you know about Kenya,
everything is relative and often changes. As usual, the American Embassy in Nairobi is being difficult in granting Mercy a Visa. She is supposed
to arrive on October 15th, but I am sure that date will change several times before we really know when she is
coming. When I know for sure, I will e-mail you about the dates of Dorothy’s
party, and when Mercy is speaking at Maywood Rotary.
Past
Trip Volunteers do all the Hard Work:
If only because I complain about it, most people
think I do all the hard work on the Kenya Project alone. In fact, this is not
true. Nine past trip volunteers are
part of a Volunteer Committee who work hard all year around to assist me with
all the work and difficult decisions on how the project should be run. We meet
in a different volunteer’s home for dinner and a meeting.
Let me tell you who they are. Past trip volunteers
Jim Croal (06) and Linda Tobin (07) meet with me on the first Thursday of each
month to record all the donation checks for deposit in our 5013c account. Then Dominic Jengo (06) makes those deposits. Linda Tobin is also in charge of our emergency
medical fund to help any school child or their family who needs urgent medical care.
And Jim Croal along with fellow 06 trip volunteer Dorothy Fenniman and 07
trip volunteer Arlene Rotolo are working hard mailing letters to everyone who has every made a donation to us. They are asking them for their e-mail address so we can update them on the progress that their donation
has made for our adopted school. We can’t and don’t want to send out expensive
fund raising letters, but email updates will cost us nothing.
Often running the Kenya Project requires me to
make ethical and difficult decisions, so past 07 and 08 trip volunteer Judge Lois Lipton has volunteered to help me do the
right thing! She is my Ethics Consultant. That’s
been invaluable help. Also when you have a committee, there is always one person
who has to do all the boring and tedious jobs like writing up minutes, writing long grant applications and scheduling meetings. That thankless job goes to 07 and 08 trip volunteer Kathy Palumbo.
A new member of our volunteer committee is past
Rotary President & 07 and 08 trip volunteer Diane Rhodes. She is in charge
of the library at the school and is working on ways to get adult books; so that even the faculty at the school will have books
to read.
Former trip volunteer Lyn Ofrane was in charge
of our very successful card sale fund raiser this past year and next year. As
a professional photographer, Lyn took the best of her great pictures, and put them on blank note cards for sale to raise over
$8,000.00 in card donations for the school.
You may not know that every single donor to the
Maywood Rotary Kenya Project for the past five years has received an individual thank you letter from Kenya Project Co-Chair,
JoAnn McKay. Another big and hard, but unrecognized job that helps us succeed
in our goal of helping the school.
Clean
Water at Empopongi:
In 2005, the first clean water source in the
entire area was built by donations to our school. In Africa,
they say that clean water can save more lives than three full time doctors. And
we have found this true at our school. But there have been problems we have to
face.
Back in 2005, we built the water system with
PVC pipes, which seemed like a good idea at the time. I was wrong about that. Elephants have walked across the water pipes causing them to break. It’s obvious that we need metal pipes to prevent this interruption in providing clean water to our students.
We also need pipes to deliver the water to the boys’ & girls’ dormitories, the kitchen and school garden. There is also
a problem with getting this water to the school and Rotary house. It seems we
need a pump to accomplish this. However, a gasoline powered pump would be too
expensive so we are getting an estimate for a solar powered or manual pump. We
are currently getting an estimate of the cost of all these challenges and will try to get a Rotary Foundation grant to correct
all of these problems. And with enough new matching donations, we will accomplish
this goal.
Scholarships
for Empopongi Graduates:
The Maywood Rotary Kenya Project has provided
scholarships to 14 graduates of our school. This entire effort is run by the
trip volunteer committee. With Mercy’s help, Jim Croal and another trip volunteer,
Janice Goldfarb, make sure that each scholarship donor receives a copy of every student’s report card every semester, and
a personally written thank you letter.
Also, committee member Linda
Tobin wrote the last application for students wishing to apply for a scholarship. And ‘08 Trip volunteer Ronald Smith has updated this application and worked hard on improving communication
with the school on issues concerning scholarships. He, trip volunteer Judge Lois
Lipton and Kathy Palumbo have not only interviewed the current 8th grade scholarship applicants while they were
in Kenya this past July, but also conducted
in depth person to person interviews with all of our past scholarship students.
Ron, Kathy, and Lois have been invaluable in
improving the entire way scholarships are granted so that donors can be sure that their money is well spent. All of us have
learned the vast cultural differences that affect schooling and are working to improve the scholarship program.
Food
for the School Children each School Day:
Every single school day for the last five years,
donors to the Maywood Rotary Kenya Project have provided a well balanced lunch of beans and rice to each of the 308 children
of Empopongi Primary School. You may have heard of the political unrest that started last December. This caused a large increase of the cost of food for our children.
We hope to increase our fundraising to provide the $425.00 per month cost of providing beans and rice to our children. We are renewing our fund raising efforts to cover this increase cost of food, let
us know if you can help.
Thanks to 07 trip volunteer Spencer Fenniman,
we were able to start a school garden to help grow some food for the children and help them become more independent. ’08 Trip
Volunteer Lorraine Kallman worked hard to help expand and improve the school garden.
The produce from this garden will supplement the children’s lunches each day.
Kenya Project Partners from Far Away Helping our School Children:
Several years ago, a British architect named
Wayne Collins visited our school. He wanted to help; so Mercy put him in touch
with us. He, and his friends in London,
raised enough funds to build the Nursery (baby class) and Kindergarten (top class) building.
Wayne also designed “Rotary House” which Mercy moved
into this month. He has always been concerned about water conservation and recycling. This November, Wayne
will visit the school for several reasons. Being concerned about using well water
from the spring for the garden, he will be designing a “grey water recycling system” with gutters on each building to collect
rain water into a tank for use in watering the garden. Wayne will also be consulting
with the school about next year’s big project, to build a building attached to the kitchen to be used, not only as a cafeteria
(so the children can eat their lunch inside when it rains), but also as a Community Meeting place for the different villages,
and as a Church on Sundays.
We hope to take Wayne’s plans and attempt to raise the needed funds for these improvements from our 09 Trip
Volunteers. Our trip volunteers on this trip will work on completing these construction
projects during our volunteer week at the school. This will be the biggest construction
project we have done for the school.
When speaking of Kenya Project Partners from
far away, we cannot forget to mention Coral Terry from Utah. It was through her hard work and donations that Empopongi
Primary School students Benson and Samuel were able to come to the USA for needed medical treatment. But Coral’s help doesn’t stop there; she is a high school scholarship sponsor (at a cost of $2,500.00 for
all four years) for six of our Empopongi Primary graduates.
Kenya
Project Partners From NJ Helping our School Children:
Every year, for several years, we have received
considerable help from the Hackensack Rotary Club. Through their donations, two
classrooms have been built for our school. Hackensack High School’s Interact Club (a Rotary Club for high school students) has raised the
funds to provide our children with the required school uniforms. Maywood Avenue School’s React Club (a Rotary Club for middle school children) has raised over $1,000.00
in donations, each year at a Student Faculty basketball fund raiser for several years, to help our school.
St. Martin’s Episcopal Church in Maywood, All
Souls Presbyterian Church in
New York, as well as many other churches have supported the Maywood Rotary Kenya Project for several years, all of them have helped make a big difference in the lives of the students, year after year.
Even
More Help for our School from a Summit NJ
School:
A few years ago, Karen Rezach, a principal of
a private school for 600 girls, called Kent Place
School, was a Trip Volunteer for the Kenya Project. Her school has an “International Day” each year; they invite two teachers and two students from a foreign
country to help their girls learn about different cultures. This year, the school
was kind enough to pay for Empopongi teacher Boniface Mwanzia, a seventh grade girl, Namunyak, and 8th grade girl,
Seenoi to visit Summit New Jersey
for the International Day classes. This was a very rare and wonderful opportunity
for all three of them. Karen Rezach has now asked the Maywood Rotary Kenya project
to plan a March 09 trip for 20 students, five parents, five teachers and their group leader, (me) so that all of us can volunteer
to work at the school for a week.
Hygiene,
Health and Medical Care:
I have been told by our medical volunteers that
many of the school children’s illnesses are caused by poor hygiene, specifically not washing their hands. 08 Trip Volunteers Richard and Maria Edmonds solved this problem by installing soap at the boy’s dorms,
girl’s dorms and the central part of the school itself. They also taught the children exactly how to wash their hands. Like last year’s health improvement, providing anti malaria nets for each child, I
fully expect to see a reduction of communicable diseases from this effort.
There is no medical or nursing care at the school. The nearest medical care is 87 miles away in Narok.
I was informed by my medical volunteers (Maureen Timony, Jay Buchholz, and Tim Eustace) that we must address this problem
now because too many children are sick at the school and illnesses spread at a rapid rate to so many other students. Dr. Jay Buchholz has donated thousands of dollars in needed medicines. The Trip Volunteer committee has approved hiring a Nurse to come to the school twice a month at a cost
of $100.00 per month. We hope to start this program in October and hold a fund
raiser soon to cover the $900.00 yearly cost of this small step to better health for our children.
And for the next year, teacher Kevin Moran at
Hackensack Middle School
has agreed to raise funds for the emergency medical fund. This much needed fund
covers emergency treatment for the teachers and students at our school. In the
past year, this fund has paid for medical treatment to two students who had eye injuries and one parent who was mauled by
an elephant. The students are doing well but the parent passed away from his
injuries.
Solar Improvements:
As you know there is no electricity at our school. So, funds have been donated to provide solar lighting in four places to improve the
education of our students. You may know that the 7th and 8th
grade students have to go to school from 6:00pm to 10:00pm each night to study for their national graduation examinations. Now solar lighting has been installed in these classrooms, but three 11 watt bulbs
are not enough. So wonderful donors from the Netherlands, Simon Watt and his family have made a donation to improve the solar
lighting. Solar lighting in both dormitories has been provided by a donation from Rotary District Governor Dominic Jengo. He has provided solar lanterns for both buildings.
After Wayne Collins from the UK built the new nursery and kindergarten, we were left with
the old dilapidated two (very small) room building. We made the needed repairs
and one room became the school’s library. With donations and the massive work
by trip volunteer Diane Rhodes, we now have a well stocked library in one of these rooms.
Our library will not only have electric lighting but to provide electricity for one computer donated by a Dutch organization
and a radio donated by Maywood Rotary.
The other room was being used by the Teachers
as a Staff Room. But they gave up the only space they have to work in because
they saw the need for a separate science classroom. Wayne Collins donated the
cost of a very expensive “Science Bench” that will now be powered by electricity provided by our new solar panels. We hope this will help the children do better in the science portion of their graduation examination.
Volunteer Trips to the School:
The July 08 volunteer trip to our school was
a big success due to the hard work and sponsor donations of the twenty volunteers. If
you exclude my family, over twenty thousand dollars was donated by the trip volunteer’s family, friends and their community
organizations. This money allowed for many important improvements to Empopongi Primary School.
First, they allowed us to build Rotary House
where our full time representative, Mercy, will be able to live in and work to help not only our school but other Rotary Club’s
sponsored schools. So, thanks to these trip volunteers, the Kenya Project will
be able to help the Maasai schools for many years into the future. But there
donations gave even more, seeds and tools for the garden, solar lighting, paint for the classrooms, school supplies, more
library books, underwear and clothes for each child, needed medicines, puppets, and yoyos, kazoos, for the children, solar
flashlights for each teacher, signs on each classroom or building, soap, and so much more.
Each 08 trip volunteer worked so hard and put their whole heart into our adopted school.
The July 09 trip is coming together very well
and the trip applicants come from varied backgrounds and have many talents that will help the school. We currently have many applications and are interviewing possible trip volunteers in the next two weeks. PLEASE note: applications will CLOSE on September 30th, so if you or someone
you know wants to go they must apply NOW. I am attaching an application with this report. After the committee interview applicants,
we will vote and announce who will go on the 09 volunteer trip on October 12th.
At this time, due to my family’s finances, I
am sorry to announce I am not sure we will be having a July 2010 trip. But I
am sure we will have a 2011 volunteer trip.
Financial Budget for 08 to 09:
The trip volunteer committee has approved and
submitted the following budget to Maywood Rotary Board of Directors for their vote and comments. You will find this budget attached to this email. Should you
have any comments or questions, please feel free to email me.
Our website: maywoodrotarykenyaproject.org
Because of all our other work, I must admit that
I have not devoted enough time to our website. However, we have had 3,939 visitors
to our website and many questions from people all over the world. I hope to do
better work on the website in the future.
In Conclusion:
I am confident that Maywood Rotary Club members,
Trip Volunteers from each year and all the donors can be proud of the tremendous good we are doing for 308 children on the
other side of the world. We are building for the future of helping where the
school can’t help themselves and striving to make the school more self supporting for where they can help themselves. We are also working hard to over come the vast cultural differences and improve our
communication with the Maasai.
I would never have been able to imagine that
Corey’s little acorn could grow into such a large oak tree. Well, in Kenya that would be a large Acacia tree. It’s an honor to be the director of such a project for Maywood Rotary.
Should you have any comments, suggestions or
willingness to help raise funds for a specific part of our project, please contact me at: Kevin@maywoodrotarykenyaproject.org. I also want to thank all the volunteers who work so hard so that my job isn’t
so hard. I promise NOT to send you such a long email until the next annual report.
Respectfully Submitted,
Kevin J. Williams,
LCSW
Chair
Maywood
Rotary Kenya Project
September 19, 2008
11:39 am est
Sunday, August 3, 2008
Learn about our July 08 Volunteer Trip...
Maywood Rotary goes to Kenya:
Making a Difference
By
Kelvin
Williams
Part One (and more):
We came. We gave. We made
a big difference to 308 little children on the other side of the world. And at
the same time, we got so much more than we gave. Here, in five parts, are some
of the stories about the twenty ‘08 Maywood Rotary Kenya project volunteers.
Sudan Peace Conference, Fire Ants and a Pick Pocket attempt to Disrupt Maywood Rotary Trip:
All of us left on Friday morning from JFK on a fifteen hour flight to Dubai
courtesy of Emirates Airline. Perhaps I did not do a good job of trip preparation
because when we landed, one anonymous trip volunteer said, “Welcome to Saudi
Arabia!” Of course, we were not actually in
Saudi Arabia, but a different country called the United Arab Emirates. Three hours later, we left for Nairobi,
the capital of Kenya, where Rose and Chris,
members of our Kenyan family for five years now, greeted us. We were supposed
to stay one night in Nairobi at a modest little hotel after
our long flights. BUT, the government of Sudan was holding a peace conference and wanted to stay an extra night in the hotel,
our hotel. I have nothing against peace in the Sudan, but was annoyed that it disturbed our plans at the last minute. However, we were “bumped up” to one of the most expensive hotels in Kenya, the Safari Park hotel at no extra cost.
As in life, a good thing can be a bad thing and sometimes it’s hard to tell which is which. This leads me to tell you the first story about one of our volunteers.
Many of you know Maywoodian, Anne Quigg, who already was one of my personal heroes before she even arrived in Kenya. She
has always inspired me to get back up after life knocks you down. We were eating
our first dinner at the hotel and watching a Maasai dance presentation when someone stole her wallet, credit cards, hundreds
of dollars of cash and most importantly, her passport.
Now I know this would have ruined my trip and be a cause for much complaining and whining. But not Annie, she said, “It’s only money, it doesn’t matter, I’ve lost more important things in my life.” Not one word of complaint left her lips and she still says it was the most wonderful
trip of her life. Almost all of the volunteers came up with handfuls of cash
to loan her. Rose and Chris arranged for Annie to get an emergency passport at
the USA Embassy where she was treated in the most arrogant, rude and meanest way possible.
But trust me, if it takes me years, they will regret the day that they mistreated this Rotary trip volunteer. That Embassy employee will be hearing from our congressman and state department very
soon and often until a written apology is issued to Annie.
Annie was our group’s inspiration to understanding the true importance of our trip, helping the children. And she did
this more than once.
After Nairobi, we left on several tiny and
terrifying planes to the Siana Springs tent camp near the school. These planes
are so small. How small are they? They are officially banned by the American Phobic’s Association. We were warmly greeted by the staff. One of the staff members
is a waiter named Kennedy, who works from 5:00 am until midnight seven days a week, serving our group breakfast, lunch and
dinner with the kind of service you rarely see in the USA. And he is paid $70.00 a month for doing this.
We brought gifts for his two children (who he sees once every seven weeks for a few days), clothes for them and of
course a big tip from the group.
All of our tents but one were wonderful, hot showers, comfortable beds with a hot water bottle placed in your bed each
night. Each tent even had a dressing room area and front porch. But Debbie Slevin,
a drama teacher from Demarest, was Ann’s tent mate. Late one night, they innocently
walked into their tent to find Safari ants crawling over everything, including their feet.
Both ran out of the tent shouting while taking off their shoes and pants. Within seconds, the staff arrived to solve
this situation; they emptied out the tent, sprayed and moved both the startled volunteers to a new ant less tent. Both faced the whole thing with grace and courage, unlike me who would have wanted to go home to Maywood. And again, no complaints from Annie, she just moved on with
the trip. She made all of us better people by coming on the trip. If you run
into her on Pleasant Avenue, tell her, “Way to go,
Annie”. Peace conferences, pick pockets and ants ain’t gonna stop us from making
a difference for the children.
SHOWTIME: WE GOT PUPPETS!
If Annie was our teacher on how to be a better person, her tent mate, Debbie was our Master of Creativity. Often volunteers come to me with ideas on how to help the children that sound strange, wrong or won’t work. Debbie proved to me how wrong I can be about that.
She bought ten very beautiful, professional quality puppets each representing the animals of Kenya and taught the children how to use them.
Of course, they have never seen a puppet in their lives. Surprisingly,
the younger children loved them immediately while the older children were a bit scared at first. But all of them enjoyed Debbie’s puppets so much, they wrote their OWN play about them and presented the
puppet play to us and the entire Maasai community on the last day of our work at the school.
Debbie taught all of us to have the courage of our own ideas even when Kevin doesn’t agree, because you can truly enrich
the lives with something new and meaningful for these children who have no TV, no computers, no Xboxes. And yet, I think that
Debbie has no idea how large and meaningful her contribution was to the children.
So many people in Maywood think they know our Maywood
veterinarian on Pleasant Avenue, Dr. Jay Buchholz. Trust me, you don’t. I’ve come to realize that you don’t really know anyone for sure
until you’ve been to Africa with them. Dr. Jay
paid for and brought thousands of dollars worth of much needed medicines for the school children. But you’d expect that from a big hearted guy like Jay. But
you wouldn’t expect that he has a previously undiscovered talent as a puppet master who can make you laugh long and hard. I know I didn’t expect that until one night.
My tent was very close to the area of the camp where each night they have a bonfire, and guests from many different
nations sit and listen to the Kenyan guitar player perform for them. One night,
when I was trying to sleep, I heard this singing and a loud, high pitched, Shari Lewis like voice screaming, “Yes, tell us
about Africa!” Jay was standing behind the guitar
player putting on a puppet show that had all the guests enthralled. When he wasn’t
busy painting the 6th, 7th and 8th grade classrooms, Jay brought us all together with his
talent as a comedic puppet master. He was so good at it that at times, I found
myself listening to and answering the puppet as if it was a real and separate person, completely forgetting that it was really
Jay Buchholz.
Government Grants, Bull Stuff and Teaching:
You might also think you know our Maywood Mayor, Dr. Tim Eustace. I know
I thought I did. In one way, he did exactly what you would expect of Tim. For years, I have been trying to get several local and federal politicians to come
to the school and increase the $1.42 per student per year financial support. The
Maywood Rotary Kenya Project is always working on ways for the school to become more independent, to stand on their own two
feet as much as possible. But these government representatives never answer my
letters and invitations to come see the little miracle school in the Maasai Mara. This
year, they showed up and the Maywood Mayor gave them all a wonderful speech, a certificate of appreciation from Maywood Rotary
and the gift of a Maywood Rotary polo shirt. And when they left, we had an agreement
that as of September 1st, they will fully pay for three new teachers, build a new building on the school grounds
AND purchase a school bus to transport the students to school and events. I was
afraid that if the politicians stayed another hour, Tim would have gotten a “Streetscapes” grant from them too!
Tim taught all of us in our group how to be a leader: don’t complain, work hard at hard jobs, and forget about taking
credit for it. Two years ago, Tim and that year’s trip volunteers built a mile
long fence around the school to keep the wild animals away from the little children.
Unfortunately, since then, large elephants broke down certain parts of the fence because of me. In an effort to encourage more independence, I pushed hard for the school to plant corn for the school
lunches. No one told me that elephants can smell corn up to three miles away,
so the fence was in disrepair. While repairing the fence with this year’s team
of volunteers, several Maasai warriors near the worksite asked if Tim would help them slaughter and skin one of their cattle
so their families could have some food. If you want to know if Tim did or didn’t
help, you’ll have to ask him yourself because I won’t tell you in this article.
Volunteer Kathy Palumbo, a middle school teacher in New Milford, is the invaluable
kind of volunteer that every organization desperately needs. The Rotary motto,
“Service Above Self” is her middle name. If there is a thankless, boring and
detailed job, Kathy does it all without complaint. She made sure that every needed
school supply item, from flash cards to microscopes were purchased, packed and delivered to the school. She also does all the boring, but necessary things like taking all the meeting notes at the school and
back here in the USA when our committee
meets. And much more, she taught us all how to really help others.
But Kathy is a teacher and as a repeat trip volunteer well known to the teachers
at the school. One day, a teacher asked Kathy to teach his class. Some of the students were interested in the form of government in the USA. Kathy moved up to the painted
on black board and proceeded to teach the legislative, executive and judicial branches of government compared to the Kenyan
form of government. Then the teacher pulled out a hand drawn picture and said,
“Now, Miss Kathy will teach us about the different parts of the human heart.” Her
head spinning, Kathy switched subjects and proceeded to teach about the four chambers of the heart as well as the major veins
and arteries. These diversified lessons continued to jump from one subject to
another unconnected subject for over an hour but Kathy was a trooper and although dizzy, did a great job.
They made me cry, a lot!
We even had a spiritual teacher among our volunteers. Maureen Timony from
Rochelle Park is a nurse at Hackensack Hospital
who works with adults who have Leukemia. Since she was a small child, she felt
a strong connection to Kenya after watching
Kimba the White Lion, seeing Born Free and then reading Out of Africa, by Karen Blixen. She even named her daughter Karen after the author who helped Kenya so much before her death in 1962. She
stumbled upon our project after reading about it in the Our Town last year, and decided she HAD to go. After saving a few dollars each day, her dream came true. It
did. Not only did Maureen teach first aid to the teachers, and provide medical
services to ill and injured volunteers and students, but she was “picked” by the local Maasai to be honored in a name changing
ceremony. Maureen was baptized with her new tribal name, “She who is at home
in Kenya”.
I cried, a lot, just watching how deeply moved she was during such an honor.
We also visited the home of her heroine, Karen Blixen, in Nairobi. Although I must confess that some volunteers were not all that interested in this
part of the tour, ALL the volunteers wanted to take a picture of Maureen standing on the front porch of Karen Blixen’s house.
I work all year full time on this project with no paycheck. But watching
Maureen gives me a paycheck bigger than any salary of any person in Maywood. She inspired all of our volunteers to follow our heart to help our brothers and sisters,
even if we never have met them and they happen to live on the other side of the world.
Please don’t think I am bragging, I am not. Our son Corey contributed
what he did not because I am any kind of great parent. He did it because of who
he is in his own heart. Five years ago he fought me tooth and nail to help these
children who looked like him but had so much less than he did; I told him we can’t possibly do it. But, as usual, he didn’t listen to me and said, “What about Maywood Rotary?” The rest is history.
It’s nothing new that Corey makes me cry. I cry every time I look at his
messy room or see his report card. But this time in Kenya, I was crying for different reasons.
We brought a lot of needed clothes to Kenya
for the children. For hours on end, fourteen year old Corey was in the kindergarten
classroom picking out children with no underwear (most all of them), badly tattered sweaters, worn out shorts and no shoes. I watched him pick out new clothes, fit them for each child, dress them and after
that each child walked out smiling with pride and gratitude. And he did it all
with an open heart. Several times, I just left the kindergarten, walked around the back of the building (not to have a cigarette)
and cried shamelessly because I am honored to be the parent of such a good person. Take
it from me; you are one lucky and blessed parent when your own child can teach you how to be a better person.
You may wonder who brought all those clothes. It was Lyn Ofrane, a repeat
trip volunteer, and excellent professional photographer from Teaneck. Do you happen to have a friend whom you love deeply but frequently want to kill her
because she drives you nuts? That’s Lyn Ofrane for me and she made me cry. One day about a month ago, she asked me if there were some last minute things that
the school might need. So I found out they needed underwear and maybe some soccer balls.
But only if we could find a few, and put them in our luggage and it was okay if we couldn’t. But Lyn, who never has heard the motto, “there is too much of a good thing”, wrote an email to hundreds
of her generous photography clients, and asked if they would like to drop off some clothes or deflated soccer balls at her
home. You can’t imagine the hundreds of soccer balls, underwear, and even new
clothes that she collected. Under pain of death, she bullied each of the 20 trip
volunteers to take at least one of her 50 pound duffle bags of supplies.
And the entire school is much better
off because of this wonderful woman who has such a big heart. She was our teacher and we are grateful she was able to teach us how to give.
Maywood
Rotary goes to Kenya:
Making a Difference
By
Kelvin
Williams
Part Two:
Many people ask, what is this “Empopongi” (pronounced “mmm Poe-Pong-e”) school we are helping? It is on a Maasai reservation called the Maasai Mara, not far from the boarder with Tanzania. There are nine teachers
for 308 pre school to 8th grade classes. The school is ranked as fourth
in the area. The children study the same subjects in the same grades as our children
do but they must take a national examination at the end of 8th grade to graduate elementary school. The government pays $100.00 per month per teacher, and they also pay $1.42 per student per year. That amount is suppose to pay for construction of all school buildings, all textbooks and school supplies,
food each day for the student, and school uniforms. Even in Kenya, $1.42 a year doesn’t come close to paying for any of those needs in full.
We have helped in many important ways but to be honest, the conditions for the students are still miserable. Since we provided a source of clean water in 2005, there is a dramatic decrease in the number of children
who die from drinking polluted water. But we need donations to insure the water
flows every day because the pipes often break when elephants walk over them. I
hope to replace the PVC pipes with stronger metal pipes and install a solar powered water pump this year. Each child is so
grateful for the beans, rice and corn we provide each day but it is often their only meal of the day and most students are
always hungry. We started a huge school garden and protected it with a fence
but it is not big enough to feed all the children. Since the political unrest in December, the cost of beans and rice has
tripled and we must work hard to raise the funds to cover this essential cost. Although
we provided anti malaria nets to each family and the deaths from malaria have gone down dramatically, many of the children
are very sick with infections, ringworm, allergies, and more serious illnesses. There
are no doctors in the area and the nearest clinic is 87 miles away in Narok. We hope to raise enough donations to hire a local
nurse to come to the school for one day every two weeks. Every child is proud
and grateful for the simple uniform we provide each year but long before the end of the school year, they are tattered and
worn out. It would cost $4,700.00 to give them a new uniform more often than
once a year. Many of the children are also cold (it’s their winter when we visit) and we hope to raise the donations to give
each child a sweat shirt to keep them warm in the cold months.
People often ask me “Why isn’t the government helping more?” and “Why aren’t the parents contributing more?” Those are good questions with sad answers. Why didn’t the
United States government help Native Americans
more when they forced them onto reservations like the Maasai have been forced?” The
Maasai are not liked, they have no political power in the government to improve their own lot.
And Kenya is a very poor country,
it was only a few years ago they instituted a “Free Education Law” for elementary students.
But as you can see it’s really another unfunded mandate like we have here in the USA. Free education has turned out
to be very expensive for these poor people. As for the parents, the nearest real jobs are 87 miles away but they won’t hire
Maasai even if they could read, write and speak the national language (Kiswahili or English).
But the parent’s can’t, so they can not contribute more to the school.
WE INTTERUPT OUR PROGRAM FOR A FEW WORDS FROM OUR SPONSOR: You can see we need more help. If you, your family, your friends want to help us get more done for these children, please send a donation
to: Maywood Rotary Club Foundation, 453 Golf Avenue, Maywood, NJ 07607 or make a credit card donation from our website: “maywoodrotarykenyaproject.org” The children will be grateful to you.
But enough sad news, let’s go back to our story of glad news about our volunteer trip.
Ridgewood Rotary President Lets Us Down & Wife Picks Him Up:
On my five trips to Kenya, my Kenyan
friends have brought me to other local elementary schools. I think this was a
mean and sneaky thing to do to me. It’s emotionally devastating to see how bad
the other schools are. They have no sponsor like Maywood Rotary but deserve help
just as much as Empopongi. Because taking care of this one school is a full time
job for me, I have always been looking for another Rotary Club to sponsor another school.
My prayers were answered with Jerry Kallman, president of Ridgewood Rotary who, with his wife Lorraine Kallman, started
the Ridgewood Rotary Kenya Project this year! Both came along as volunteers on
this trip to work with us and to visit their newly adopted school, KISHERMORUAK (don’t ask me how to pronounce it) Primary
School. They spent two days at the school and told me that they felt the same
overpowering emotions that I must have felt seeing Empopongi Primary for the first time five years ago.
Jerry Kallman is a big hearted, wise and loveable kind of guy. He decided
to bring some fun into the lives of the students by bringing kazoos and harmonicas for them.
He taught them how to play them and was surprised at how quickly they caught on.
The Maasai traditionally have great musically abilities. However, Jerry
(we call him Jelly) had both of his knees replaced this past winter. While walking
to a class, he fell down on the job and our medical volunteers decided he must go back to Nairobi
to get an x ray to confirm or deny that. It turns out he was fine and he made
it back to the school to continue to bring the joy of music to the children.
If it is at all possible, Jelly’s wife, Lorraine
is even bigger hearted than her husband. She brought seeds from American and
was a workhorse in improving the garden. She even made signs for each vegetable
in English and Kiswahili so that everyone knows what is growing where. She worked
hard each day in the preschool and kindergarten classes making sure that each of the 80 little children got a big share of
her love and attention. That was an exhausting job. And you can bet that she will be the foundation of the Ridgewood Rotary Kenya Project, working by her husband’s
side making sure that every little detail gets done right. And whenever anyone
was stressed out or had a problem, Lorraine was there to
be supportive and nurturing to them. The next time you have a project, find yourself
a Lorraine, you can’t go wrong.
In know this is true. I warn every volunteer that you must always keep
an eye on your personal belongings even when you are sitting on the porch outside your tent.
But did I listen to myself? No.
One day, I walked into my tent to go to the bathroom and left my personal bag outside on the porch. In the middle of my personal business, I heard a loud warning from Lorraine Kallman, “Kelvin, get out here
now, the monkeys are eating your diabetes medicine!” I did and they were. I am just glad that there were no monkeys needing anti depressant medication. Thank you, Lorraine.
Smart Man, Wonderful Woman & Two Tireless Substitute Teachers:
Each of the ten classrooms doesn’t look like any American classrooms. They
look like a typical Maywood garage but with a tin roof. They have concrete floors, cinderblock walls and it’s very loud inside when
it rains. But the sixth, seventh and eighth grade students study each night for
their graduation examination and it gets dark. The nearest electrical lines are
87 miles away. Trust me on this; if you need something at the school, it’s always
87 miles away. So, we needed to install solar lighting for the night classes. But the bare concrete walls would absorb the light if we didn’t paint the walls a
bright color. That job fell to Jay and an Englewood Rotarian named Eddie Hadden. No offense to any other volunteer but Eddie was probably the most well educated volunteer
among us. He’s the kind of guy you just want to sit down with, shut up and learn
from him. We spent many a night sitting in the lounge watching Eddie debate with
the local people the African American experience, slavery, the middle passage and history.
It was an education for all of us. So, if you’re going to Africa, take Eddie with
you, you won’t regret it.
Yet, he was stuck with getting the painting done and was a real trooper with the host of problems that came along with
that task. The rollers didn’t work, the paint was mixed wrong, the children helping
never painted anything in their lives and of course the ladders we bought weren’t delivered from Narok (87 miles away, again!). But as you would expect, Eddie got the job done.
Each classroom is ready for solar lights so the students can study at night.
But that wasn’t enough for Eddie, he went around, interviewed many students and teachers, and put it on video. Soon, we hope to have the best of the interviews on our website so you can watch and
hear the actual words and feelings they have about our help. Thanks Eddie, despite
what I’ve said, you are the best.
You may think you know Diane Rhodes, the even tempered, efficient, model of mental health who is the director of the
Maywood Public Library. But you don’t.
She is not only our library director, but she has a second unpaid job as the director of the Empopongi Primary School library. She catalogued countless books for the children and parents in the seven surrounding villages to read in
the only library in the entire area. She organized thousands of dollars of donated
school supplies we brought. But late at night, this mild mannered librarian turns
into Wonderful Woman: hilarious, outrageous and fascinating. It’s going to be very hard for me to go on the next trip without her.
I’ll miss her each day AND night. So, the next time you go to the Maywood
Library, give Diane a big “Jambo!” (Hello in Kiswahili) and a wink to let her know that you know she is an incredible woman
who made a great contribution to our work.
You might also not know that Diane has a great 24 year old daughter named Carolyn who also came a second time on our
volunteer trip. She, along with another volunteer named Maria Edmonds from Ridgewood; both had the hardest job of all of us. You see
the preschool and kindergarten, 80 children in all, used to have two teachers. But
one left and wasn’t replaced yet. So the remaining teacher, obviously exhausted,
was helped by Carolyn and Maria. Both very shy women, you would not expect to
see both of them open their hearts and jump into the chaos of caring for so many needy children each and every day of our
trip. Yes, other volunteers tried to help Maria and Carolyn but couldn’t work more than an hour because it is so physically
and emotionally hard to help so many needy children at the same time. You’re
the greatest, Carolyn and Maria!
Soap on a Rope, Judge Prevails, & More
Hygiene is very important in cutting down the rate of communicable diseases and the Maasai need a lot of help in this
area. Dr. Tim, Dr. Jay and Nurse Maureen taught separate health classes for the
boys and girls on this subject. But the school has no money even for soap for
the children to wash their hands. But Maria brought along her husband, Rich Edmonds,
a macho, Marine, fighter pilot who creatively solved this problem with his wife. It
was a “soap on a rope” kind of solution. They placed soap bars in each of the
dormitories and at the main water faucet in the center of the school. Rich engineered
the logistics for a rope system where the soap can easily be replaced when it is gone. After installation, I was privileged
to see Rich, standing in front of twenty Maasai children, washing his hands as an example to teach them how to do it. All
of them promptly copied his actions. It may not sound like much to someone in
Maywood, but this little miracle that is going to have a big
impact on the reduction of illness among these children. And trust me; it took
an innovative fighter pilot to solve the many logistical problems for this task.
And like with Eddie, we have Rich to thank for video taped interviews with many students as well as him videotaping
the Farewell Ceremony that the Maasai performed for us. Coming soon to the “maywoodrotarykenyaproject.org”
website near you!
Every volunteer project has a jewel in its crown and for us, the last three trips; it was Superior Court Judge Lois
Lipton. You may not know that our project is sponsoring fourteen graduates from
Empopongi Primary so that they can go to high school. It costs a total of $2,500.00
to pay for ALL the expenses for these four years for one child. Lois spent hours
eloquently explaining to our scholarship winners that we expect them the minimal requirements we demand for them to continue
their scholarships; a “C” average, writing one letter a semester to their sponsors and other culturally different complex
concepts. You would think this would be easy, it was not. It’s like trying to explain to the Maasai what snow is. Or
that we have been to the moon, concepts that are out of their realm of experience. But
Judge Lois succeeded, not only in her meetings with the students but also with our meeting with the school’s Board of Education
explaining the complex rules of Rotary giving as well as doing individual interviews with potential scholarship applicants
from the current 8th grade. It’s not just that she is a great communicator;
it’s that she is a wise and wonderful woman who generously gave of her talents to make the Kenya Project even better.
Long after registration closed for this past year’s trip, Judge Lois called me and said we need to take one more person,
Melanie Long, a DFYS worker in her court system. I have known Lois since Kindergarten
at MAS. You don’t say “No” to Lois because it would be wrong. And it would have been. Melanie was described by another trip
volunteer as “no nonsense, straight shooting, clear headed. You are a pleasure to be with, such a direct, upfront person.
Our court system is so lucky to have you!” That’s true. Melanie worked hard in the hardest job of all, with the 80 children in the Pre School and kindergarten. She also taught all of us volunteers how to face unbearable poverty with limits and class which helped
all of us appreciate the limited help we can give. We were lucky to have Melanie.
You would think that Judge Lois wouldn’t trade on our friendship again by asking for more but you would be wrong. She called again to ask if her friend, Ron Smith, would be also able to go on our
trip. Again, I caved in to the wisdom of Lois and am glad I did. How can I describe Ron? A British citizen living in Kinnelon? A doctor of Anthropology? An invaluable
asset to our group? A 70 year old power house of wisdom and experience? No, he is a lot more than that. As the head of the Maywood Rotary Kenya Project, I
consider information to be as valuable as gold. Ron took his wisdom and interview
skills to Maasai families to find out how they really feel about the help from our organization. His report will determine the direction of our project for years to come. And his wicked sense of dry British
“humour” helped all of us cope with the stress of being in Kenya
and trying to help.
See Samuel Run. Run Samuel, Run! Merciful Rotary House and ME!
Our last trip volunteer came the farthest to help the children, all the way from Salt
Lake City, Utah. You
may recall from past Kenya Projects that we brought two students from our school for needed medical operations paid for by
Shriner’s Hospital in Utah.
Our volunteer, Cassandra Steel was one of the caretakers for the two boys. Fifteen
year old Samuel had his club foot surgically corrected there. Before this, he
could hardly walk on the bent food. One day, Cassie was in our van on her way
to a village to interview some parents of the school children. They passed some
Maasai walking in the same direction so Cassie asked the driver to stop and pick them up.
She then turned her head to see if the boys were catching up with the van and was stunned to see Samuel actually running! If I were there, I would have cried.
Another volunteer described Cassie as “a rose in the middle of the desert”,
and she is. This wonderful Mormon mother of three children has a deep love for
the Maasai people and worked hard on gathering information on how best to help them.
She also interviewed current 8th graders who would like to apply for a scholarship to high school and past
scholarship students who needed to understand Rotary rules for continued funding. Beyond
that, Cassie researched the progress in the school garden and will prepare a full report on how we can improve it (with no
elephant attracting corn, please).
People give me a lot of credit for working full time on this school project.
But I don’t actually get three estimates for each construction project, buy the paint and have it delivered, deal with
medical emergences among the students or meet with the school board each month. That
almost full time job goes to our Angel in Africa, a woman named Mercy Purity. She is the Front Desk Manager at our tent camp near the school where she works from 6:30am to midnight. One day, I got an urgent phone call from her sister Rose, our in Kenya travel agent. She was worried
about Mercy doing two full time jobs, one for the tent camp and one volunteer job for Maywood Rotary. “She is doing all the work for one school, but she works so hard she is loosing weight and very tired,”
Rose said, “And now Ridgewood Rotary wants to adopt another school. She also runs the micro loan water bottling project for
Rotary so the mothers can earn their own money. And I know you, Kelvin; you will get more Rotary clubs to adopt more schools.
She can’t go on with this work without getting sick.” And if we lost Mercy, the
whole projects stops.
Rose was right, so we came up with a solution for our Angel in Africa. We hired her away from the tent camp to work for us and all the Rotary clubs full time and we are building
a modest building called Rotary House near the school so Mercy has a home and office for only one full time job. Her $5,000.00 a year salary, worth every dollar, is being paid other Rotary clubs and by many past trip
volunteers who see how hard Mercy has worked for us for five years with no salary at all.
When Mercy starts work for us on August 31st, we will be ready for the future. It will be a future of changing the lives of many more students in many more schools in the Maasai Mara.
Not that you asked, but for me, it was the best volunteer trip ever. If
I might get personal for a moment, dealing with clinical depression is something I won’t wish on most of my worst enemies. After trying and continue to try all the medications and therapies, on many days it’s
hard to get out of bed and do the family’s laundry as well as all the other tasks any stay at home dad should do. But on even the worst days of depression, I can plug in my laptop and spend hours working to do some good
for 308 children in Kenya. So to everyone who thinks I give so much, it’s actually the opposite, I get more than I give. I am not saving them, they are saving me.
Yet, being depressed comes with being constantly agitated and that’s not a good thing for any group leader. For that, I apologize to the volunteers who put up with me. But I am good enough, at least until someone
else wants to do this job. But, on the volunteer trip when we walk up the hill
to the school and see literally hundreds of children running towards us with joyful faces just wanting to welcome us, I am
happy. On those mornings, I am the most mentally healthy and highest paid person
in Maywood. And
it’s cheaper than Prozac!
You interested?
So many people ask
me if they can share this life changing volunteer trip in either 2009 (filling up fast) or 2010 (filling up). If you can save $75.00 a week until next July to cover the $4,000.00 cost, fill out a volunteer trip application
(available on the website on August 30th), and be interviewed by the volunteer committee, you have a good chance
of going.
If you can’t go but want to be a part of this miracle, you can still help. Ask
your children to donate the cost of a slice of pizza each week to help feed the children lunch. Instead of a Christmas gift, ask Aunt Martha to donate money so that the children have clothes to wear
to school. Ask your church or temple to raise some funds to keep the clean water
running at the school. All of this can be done by making out a check to “Maywood
Rotary Club Foundation, 453 Golf Avenue, Maywood,
NJ. 07607” or by credit card on our website, “maywoodrotatykenyaproject.org”
And please remember; don’t leave your medication where the monkeys can get at it.
8:04 am est
Monday, January 14, 2008
Going Back to our school in Kenya in December 07
It was time for me to go back again, to head back to our adopted school in Kenya
on December 7 th. One reason was that the two students we brought over to the USA
for needed medical treatment were ready to go back home. They have spent the last four months with our Rotary Kenya
Project “Angel” in Salt Lake City, Utah,
Coral Terry. After visiting our school last year in Kenya,
her big heart told her to help Benson who is missing an arm and Samuel who was born with a club foot. Coral opened her
heart and home to these boys, arranging for donated medical care from the Shriner’s hospital in Salt Lake City.
Driving an hour and a half each day for months, she made sure that both boys got the love and medical care that they needed.
It wasn’t easy for us to get the boys here. Coral had to raise a lot of money for transportation costs from donors.
But we had other troubles also. Benson was turned down for a medical Visa at the last minute because “We only have five
finger prints and we need ten to grant him a Visa”, said the American Embassy in Nairobi,
Kenya!
It made as much sense as if they required Samuel to walk correctly. With some strings pulled from New Jersey,
the problem was solved. Benson packed for the trip home with his new artificial arm and Samuel was able to walk straight
on his foot for the first time in his life. Of course they enjoyed the wonders of the USA
like television, electricity, big homes, cars and video games, but they missed their families.
Maywoodians Doreen and Bill Wetzel drove me to Newark airport that Friday
so I could meet up with Coral, her family, Benson and Samuel. They came for another chance to see the boys who they
took all over on tour in New York City
when they visited Maywood on their
way to Salt Lake. It’s a long flight, 7 hours to Amsterdam and then 8 hours to Nairobi,
but we arrived Saturday night and got Coral, her family and our two boys into a hotel for the night before we left in the
morning for the school.
I was invited
to stay with our two Nairobi Kenya Project Angels, Chris and Rose Nugundu. Both with jobs in travel agencies have worked
for over four years to get our volunteers the lowest prices on our trip to the school at cost with no commission or profit
to themselves. Beyond that, Chris and Rose have volunteered so many hours to purchase school supplies and construction
materials from our donations and transported them 300 miles to our adopted school. Rose has kept strict records of every
one of our donations. They truly are our Kenyan Angels.
Now Nairobi is a big city of almost three million
people but one million of them live in the largest slum of Africa
inside the city.
But the Maasai are like the Native American Indians on a reservation, struggling to keep thousands of years old traditions
in the Maasai Mara. But the other 26 tribes of Kenya
have long since moved into the 21st Century, it seems like all of them have a cell phone. So I was curious
to see how non Maasai Kenyans live in Nairobi. Some Americans
would consider Rose and Chris’s Nairobi home a tenement or
slum apartment because it is a cobbled together group of rooms in a building. I found dozens of water filled plastic
bottles at the house because the water can go off for weeks due to frequent droughts. They have a home phone but it
can be out of service for months before service to their neighborhood wires are fixed. They have a television, electric
stove and a sitting room as well as bedrooms for their two teen age boys who attend private school.
It may be considered a slum by some Americans, but I have never been inside a richer home than Rose and Chris’s home because
I have never felt more welcome and wanted as a guest. I was treated like a royal visitor. They worked hard cooking many
wonderful Kenyan dishes on my first night in their home and I stayed up too late drinking Tusker, a Kenyan beer talking to
my good friends. We talked for hours about how best to help our one little school and that we were all blessed to be a part
of this Rotary Project. The big secret is that it IS better to give than receive. Before I went to bed that night, I
noticed that it’s true, the water in the toilet goes down in the opposite direction from Maywood because Nairobi
is just 1 degree south of the equator!
On Sunday morning, we picked up Coral Terry, her husband Doug, her daughter Brenda, her neighbor, Cassandra, Benson and Samuel
for our 45 minute trip to our lodge near the school. When the 11 passenger plane landed on the tiny dirt landing strip,
I looked out the window to see over three hundred Maasai waiting for Benson and Samuel to come back home. All of them
were dressed in their best formal Maasai attire. Most of the 300 were relatives of the boys. They all cheered when Benson
and Samuel got off the little plane. They were greeted like royalty.
I got out of the plane last and walked over to the side of the crowd so as to not crowd the homecoming, but not for long.
First it was a few Maasai mothers who came over to me on the hot airstrip, then it was a few dozen and in the end, almost
two hundred Maasai who wanted to shake my hand. “Kelvin, welcome back home!” “We miss you Kelvin.” “Jambo (hello
in Kiswahili) Kevin.” “Sopa (Hello in their native Maasai Language) and “We missed you Kelvin.” “How is Maywood?”
When I looked into their eyes, I noticed they all really did remember me, it wasn’t a staged event. And they were truly
grateful that I came back. My hand was getting cramped shaking so many of their hands. “Assanti Sana, Kelvin.”
I felt like a rock star but after a while, I felt less embarrassed because I finally realized that their sincere gratitude
wasn’t for me personally, it was for all the donors back home in Maywood
and other people who gave to help these school children. I wish everyone in Maywood
could see how sincerely grateful these people are for the help we send.
We went back in jeeps to our volunteer home, Siana Springs Tent Camp and Benson and Samuel came back with us. Coral
Terry was confused, after all these months, why would the boys come back with us rather than go home with their parents to
the village? It didn’t make sense to her because she knew the boys really missed their parents. I explained to
Coral that there is a “Maasai Right of Return Ritual” she must complete. She must formally go to the village, give her
speech and formally return the boys to their families. It was a wonderful event as they praised Coral and her family
for caring for their two children. It must have been so difficult for Coral go give back the two boys who have lived
in her heart and family for so many months. They dressed Coral, her husband, her daughter and neighbor in gifts of traditional
Maasai clothes and jewelry to honor their hospitality. “They were wearing thread bare clothes while giving us new Maasai
clothes and jewelry, it didn’t seem right”, said Cassy, Coral’s neighbor.
All of us were staying where we always stay, Siana Spring Luxury Tent Camp, a tourist resort. And it is luxury! A sink,
toilet, hot shower, two beds and a concrete floor in each tent. It also has an open restaurant and bar as well as a
pool and full time massage therapist. All this luxury only one mile from our adopted school where there is so much poverty.
At Siana Springs, the front desk manager is a wonderful woman called Mercy Purity. Mercy, who is Rose’s sister, who
has worked countless volunteer hours during the last four years making our project a success, was our host for our stay.
Having been to Maywood not once
but twice, she had many “Maywood Questions”: “Is Lorraine
still Mayor?” “When does Tim become Mayor?” How is Diane Rhodes?’ Maywood
Library? And Pleasant Avenue? She asked about every single trip volunteer for the last four years. And after
all that, “So how is my Maywood Rotary? Sawa Sawa (Okay), I hope?”
Mercy is truly the mother of the Maywood Rotary Kenya Project. Her love for the Maasai children and willingness to volunteer
forty hours a week is what keeps it going. Without her, there would be no help because no one else in the area are willing
to work that hard and long for no money.
While at the camp, I got to know a wonderful neighbor of Coral Terry’s in Utah.
Her name is Cassandra Steel, and she was a “second foster mother” to Benson and Samuel during their visit to Utah.
Cassy is a mother to her three children and is whole heartedly devoted to helping the Maasai school children thru the Maywood
Rotary Kenya Project. She even promised to pay for all four years of college for Benson and Samuel when they finished
high school scholarship! And she wants to return to Kenya
with our next volunteer trip in July of 2008. I could see how much she wanted to help and asked her to join me at all
the work meetings Mercy scheduled. I was so lucky to meet Cassy.
Mercy set up a full schedule of work meeting for me while I was at the camp. My first meeting was with our partner in
London,
a generous man named Wayne Collins. He is my “go to” man. When I needed to build a new preschool room and kindergarten
room and didn’t have enough donations, I went to Wayne and he paid for it.
When I had enough donations to build a boys dorm but not a girls dorm, I went to Wayne
and he paid for it. When I needed plans to be drawn up for a school classroom I go to Wayne, an architect, and he gives
them to me. At this meeting, he explained to me his plans to set up a “rain gutter and water storage tank” system so
we don’t have to use precious well water for the garden, and dorm showers. He is coming back again to the school at
his own expense in February to make sure it’s installed properly. Wayne
also met with several construction contractors to get us the lowest price and best workers for our next school project.
So, you can see, he is our London Angel.
Mercy also scheduled a meeting for me with the head Maasai Chief of the entire area. I was honored. He turns out
to be a young man, but I found he was very wise in helping all the Maasai under his rule. “Kelvin, your Rotary help
is much appreciated. There is much need and poverty in all the villages, but your dollars will do the best good caring
for the schools. Then every dollar will make the best helping changes for my Maasai.” The Chief was very impressed
and supportive of the many full four year scholarships we have been able to give to the graduates of our adopted school, Empopongi
Primary. He was excited to know that Ridgewood Rotary and Wayne Rotary would help a second school in the area, Nkoilale
Primary school.
“We have never had a woman Chief but when you go home,” the Chief said, “give my regards to the Chief of Maywood State, Lorraine.”
It was an honor to learn from him on how best to help his people with much needed food, water and other education essentials
to better there lives. I appreciated it so much because it’s my job to make sure every dollar of donations is
spent in the best way possible. He helped me do that.
Cassy and I were supposed to meet with our school’s Board of Education, the group of elders who are responsible to run the
school, at 10:00 in the morning. But that could mean as late as 11:00, “African Time”. So many issues were discussed
during the three hour meeting, use of the only area library at the school, solar electric for lighting the dorms and library,
replacing broken well pipes (the elephants step on the pipes causing no water for days). I was most impressed by one
board member, Paul, who said we must not become too dependent on Maywood Rotary and hoped they could look into other ways
of funding the school besides our donations. It’s a courageous idea because the parents are too poor to pay more than
the few pennies they already pay to the school and the government will not give them one more dime (or shilling). But
that is Maasai wisdom, to make sure that everyone who can help the school is helping the school.
But one Maasai elder on the Board of Education wanted to tell me “We are not like the traditional Maasai, we have allowed
a woman to serve on our board, even though it’s not allowed by Maasai law. We even let her talk!” I thought to
myself, “LET her talk?” But Board member Mama Letura, whom I’ve met before, always opened her mouth when the men were
going in the wrong direction. God bless her.
The board also told me that the anti malaria nets we donated last July have dramatically reduced the illness among the children.
Fewer children are dying.
It was also a difficult meeting because I am representing every donor and have to fight for their best interest. So
it’s my job to make sure that every dime is spent correctly and that the school does the best possible job to support itself.
For example, last year the school board asked if we would have enough donations to build a “Dinning Hall” attached to the
kitchen. At first, I though this was a luxury, but then I changed my mind. Right now, our children eat their lunch outside,
but when it rains or the dry winds blow dust into their food, their lunch is ruined. They eat it anyway. Plus a dinning
hall could also be used for a gym when it rains, a community meeting place for the entire seven village area and a place for
religious services on Sunday morning. It’s a good idea. During my meeting, I gained an agreement with the Board
that they would pay $700.00 toward the cost of the building construction. The $700.00 is only five percent of the cost,
but a massive amount of money for the school to raise. It’s wonderful to see them take ownership and responsibility
for their own school.
The three hours I spent in the meeting was probably the most important hours I could spend in Kenya
on this trip. We also talked and came up with policies on parental involvement in fund raising, dormitory policies,
and even broken windows. Much was accomplished.
That afternoon, I went back exhausted to my tent at Siana Springs. Soon, Benson came by and said someone walked
here to see me and could I talk with her now? Of course, I said. It turned out to be Lucy. Lucy is
a proud and hard working school cook. For the past two years, she has cooked lunch for all our students every school
day, often working for many months without being paid her $20.00 a month salary because she loves the students. Before
we installed the well, she would haul water in large and heavy jugs a half a mile each many times each day until she had enough
water to cook the beans and rice. Before we built the kitchen, she would cook every day, even if it was raining. Twice
in the past, I have used donations to pay her back salary.
I had heard that Lucy was pregnant a while ago, but when I met her at the camp that day, she was carrying her new born baby
on her back. The beautiful baby, Linda, did not look healthy. Lucy grabbed my hand tightly. She started
to speak in her native language, Mai. Benson interpreted for me. “Kelvin, I pray for you every day, you are my
family. Linda is sick with malaria and I was fired from my job because the school elders said I cannot cook because
I have a little daughter. I have no money today to buy food or medicine for Linda. Please, please, adopt my Linda
and take her back to Maywood where she will have a good life. You be her father.”
I was truly stunned, for several moments, I couldn’t decide what to say to Lucy. I felt outrage, despair, and overwhelming
sadness. Here is a hard working woman, fired for being a mother, and loving her sick child in a country with inadequate
health care. She loves her baby enough to give her up. To regain my composure, I had to remind myself that no
matter how much good we do for the school, it’s only one drop in an ocean of poverty and suffering. A good drop, and
it’s our drop, but only a drop. So, I asked Benson to translate for me, “Lucy, thank you so much, you honor me with
the biggest gift you could give anyone, your little baby girl. But because of laws here in Kenya and the laws of
Maywood,
I cannot accept your wonderful gift. They will not allow me to be Linda’s father.” Then I gave her some of my
own money for medicine and food and told her I will speak with the school board. And I did. But I am haunted by
the desperation on Lucy’s face every day since this happened. She loved Linda so much she would give her away if it
meant a better life for her.
Sometimes, I think I volunteering full time on the Kenya Project because I think that if I do some good, all the other horrors
of poverty and suffering won’t hurt me so much. Well, I am wrong. It still hurts just as much.
Speaking of sexism, when Samuel was back in Utah, someone asked him why is it that in the Maasai culture women do all the
hard work, hauling fire wood, carrying water, building all the homes and other manual labor? Samuel responded, “Oh,
you don’t know? Everyone knows that women’s backs are built for hard labor, men’s spines aren’t. That’s why it’s men’s
jobs to watch the cattle everyday.” I am sure Coral corrected him anatomically.
I am always proud to tell everyone that the entire Kenya Project is run by email. Telephone would be too expensive and
postal mail too slow. But email between two people of different cultures is still fraught with problems. For example,
I spent many hours as I could sitting down at Siana Springs and talking face to face with Mercy. It was a golden and
rare opportunity to transact business in person. Mercy brought up the subject of the recently constructed classroom
for the 8th graders and asked me if I would have enough donations “for lockers”? My first thought was that
there was no need for lockers, the 8th grade students have lockers in their newly constructed dorm and I just didn’t
want to spend donations on unnecessary duplication. Mercy disagreed and we both went on and on for about a half an hour
before we realized we had no idea what the other person was saying. Mercy was trying to tell me that in her country,
lockers are not gym type lockers but individual school desks! It turns out that the word desks means a three person
classroom desk!! Now that all happened in just a half an hour. If I was trying to solve this request by email,
it would have taken weeks of emails back and forth before we understood each other across the cultures.
I also was given a tour of the school by Assistant Head Teacher, Boniface. The beautiful kitchen built by donations
from Glenn Rock elementary schools, is still beautiful. The library is stocked with our books and with the card borrowing
system set up by Maywood Library director Diane Rhodes is working well and adults walk miles to the school to borrow books.
Dorothy Fenniman’s grandson built a wonderful organic garden this past July on our volunteer trip. He told them to “thin
out” the seedlings after they started to grow. The Maasai students didn’t listen, they thought it was a waste to throw
away growing plants so they just dug up new garden area and planted them. Now the garden is FIVE times bigger than it
was. It provides fresh vegetables everyday for the school children’s lunches.
Then Boniface brought us to the dorms for the 7th and 8th grade students. Mercy sewed curtains
for the girls dorm and the boys dorm and we are a few mattresses short in the boy’s dorm. But then Boniface brought
us to the bathroom in the boy’s dorm, the sinks were concrete but fine and the showers worked. The boy’s urinal (which
Mercy with her Kenyan accent somehow calls the “Rhino”), was a half wall with a gutter type system on the floor that emptied
into the latrine. I then went to look inside the stalls to the toilets. I had wanted flush toilets in each of
the dorms but Mercy and the school board had insisted that they were too expensive and that just latrines would be fine.
So I respected their choice and expected to open a stall to see a flush toilet into a latrine. I didn’t. I found
just a six inch hole cut into the concrete. I was stunned. In my own western mind, this was terrible. I
thought, “Somebody call a plumber and get a water flush toilet here, now!” But, that’s what I would want, their culture
is different and I have to respect that. Another lesson in learning that my way is not the only right way.
The time came to leave the school and go back to Nairobi
to do some work with our Nairobi partners, Rose and Chris. Chris came
to pick me up at the Teterboro style airport and insisted on showing me all around Nairobi.
The capital city has a population of almost three million people but one million of them live in Africa’s largest slum, called Kibera. It’s an ocean
of heart breaking poverty so I didn’t go there. Interesting things about Nairobi:
it’s illegal to smoke cigarettes in public, although there are hundreds and hundreds of people walking in the streets, more
often than not, I was the only white guy in sight, and all the advertisements are for one of three presidential candidates.
Their once in five year elections will be held on December 27th. And I got to see where Chris and Rose work
in their jobs as travel agents.
Both Rose and Chris wanted to introduce me to their good friends who were so curious about the white guy from a place called
Maywood
who wants to help the Maasai. And besides that, it was there chance to met a real live gay person, something that never happened
to them because to be gay in Kenya
means 21 years of prison. So, by 8:00pm that Friday night, there were over twenty “Rafikis” (friends) of Rose and Chris
and a bounty of native Kenyan dishes for the party. It turned into a long and fun question and answer party. I
was astounded on how they knew almost every Democratic and Republican candidate for president and could give a fact based
opinion on each of them. I could barely name the three presidential candidates who were running in their Kenyan election
next week.
These lively, wise and open hearted people kept the conversation going well into late into the night, even after I went to
bed. I had to because I had to get up at 5:00am in the morning to catch my flight.
So, what lessons did I learn from Kenya
this time? That the Maasai parents are deeply grateful for all the help we have given the last four years. That,
with our help, they sincerely want to work towards other ways of funding so they don’t become too dependent on Maywood
Rotary Kenya Project. And I suppose I learned the hard lesson that no matter how well the school is doing, there will
be heart breaking poverty and suffering for the Maasai. But with donations the future can be different for our 300 “adopted”
school children. If you want to be a part of making a big difference on the other side of the world, please make out
your donation to “Maywood Rotary Club Foundation” and mail to 453 Golf Avenue,
Maywood, NJ. 07607. For further information,
go to “maywoodrotarykenyaproject.org” on the web.
Yes, I did make my early morning flight from Nairobi
to a two day layover in Amsterdam. But we will not talk about that
because in Amsterdam I had my wallet with credit cards and
cash pick pocketed, I came down with a bad upper respiratory infection and my back went out. I got home to my beloved
Maywood,
and that’s all that’s important!
Maywood
Rotary Kenya
Project
12:37 pm est
Friday, July 13, 2007
We are back from volunteering at the school:
07 12: Latest News: Our July Volunteer Trip Blog:
Kevin Williams,
Kenya Project Chair
After a wonderful Bon
Voyage party thrown for us by Maywood Kenya Project co chair Joann McKay, 22 of us left for JFK to start our adventure.
But we picked a very bad week to fly to Nairobi via London’s
Heathrow airport; they had a terrorist threat, heightened alert, and baggage mismanagement problem for ALL passengers’s transferring
to other flights. When we arrived in Nairobi, all of our luggage
was lost! You may have read about that in the news, but we thought it was just
our luggage lost, not tens of thousands of people’s luggage. Some luggage was found after four days, but for six volunteers,
their luggage only arrived hours before we left. Can you imagine living out of
your carry on luggage all week? But my 21 volunteers didn’t complain but took
it as a challenge. The people who did get luggage shared with those who didn’t. We bought out the gift shop’s t shirts and taxed the tent camp’s laundry. It was a bonding experience for all of us. One volunteer
summed it up, “How can I complain about not having my seven days worth of clothes when the school children only have one uniform
for the entire year?”
Worse than losing our luggage, we lost four volunteers, Jeanne Matullo, Monica Reeder, and Bill and Doreen Wetzel who
were stuck in London security while our plane to Nairobi
took off. We were constantly worried, but they had a nice night in a good hotel
in London courtesy of British Airways and then joined us in Kenya the next day.
For the rest of us, we spent a wonderful night in a Nairobi hotel and then a nice visit to a giraffe rescue center. They ate right out of our hands! Then there was a 45 minute
flight in a too small plane to Siana Springs Luxury Tent Camp. Everyone was so surprised at how wonderful their beds, showers, electric lights and full bathroom was,
they expected primitive not luxury.
On Sunday night, we had our first dinner at Siana
Springs. Shortly after dinner, you could hear the singing of
the Maasai warriors approaching the open air dinning room. And they came with
a surprise for one of our volunteers. Diane Rhodes, the head librarian in Maywood, was to start that day as the new incoming president of Maywood Rotary but she was in Kenya. So the
Maasai Warriors held their own “Installation Ceremony” to officially recognize Diane’s presidency. She was pinned by the warriors and given an honorary Maasai name which in English means “Dependable”. She
was very surprised. It was Maywood
Rotary’s and probably any Rotary Club’s first Maasai Installation!
Every morning,
our volunteers could have an in person wake up call with hot coffee and or tea delivered to the porch on their tent. And if you had your coffee on the porch, you might be joined by a few small deer that
are called “Dick Dicks”. One volunteer, Michelle, said, “We aren’t going to a
zoo, we are living in a zoo; all the animals just come right to us.: And to everyone’s surprise, the tent housekeeper placed
a hot water bottle in your turned down bed each night! And every night, there
was a cacophony of animals sounding off and led by the Tree Hyrax.
You might ask, “Why a hot water bottle in Africa?”
No one believed me when I told them that where we are going in Kenya
it is NOT hot. But it was very cool at night and in the morning. In fact, on Monday, the first day of our visit to the school, we were greeted by Boniface, the assistant
head teacher, and he was wearing a full length down filled ski coat! He said,
“I apologize for my dress, but it is very cold this morning.” It was 58 degrees! While you were having a heat wave back here in New
Jersey, we were wearing sweaters and long sleeve shirts while sitting around a bonfire each night
to stay warm.
Monday was our first
day of volunteering at the school for all but four stranded passengers. Volunteer
Lynn Ofrane was the head of the volunteers who wished to walk the 1 kilometer each morning to the school. It was her responsibility to collect the walkers and find the Siana Springs
security man who accompanied everyone with his rifle so we did not lose any valuable volunteer labor to hungry wild animals. We called him Chuck Connors. Few in Maywood will believe it, but I actually walked to the school one morning
and have the pictures to prove it.
The rest of us
went in a Jeep to the school at 8:30 each morning. The first day was the most
meaningful to many volunteers. They were astounded and deeply moved at how hundreds
of children ran up to them to greet them. They wanted to touch them, hold them
and hug them while they thanked them. They shouted “Jambo” in Kiswahili or “Soapa” in their native language “Mai”. It was
a warm “Welcome” in any language. Several returning volunteers were so surprised
that the students remembered their names. Kelly Wright of Maywood listened while the Kindergarten children sang the songs she taught them last year. And when I started to speak at the welcome ceremony, I asked all the 280 assembled
students “Do you remember who I am?” and they all shouted “Kelvin Williams Rotary!”
We were given
a tour of the school showing all the progress that was made thanks to donors during the last year. I was so impressed by the new school kitchen built with the donations from two elementary school children
in Glenn Rock. Unlike the old kitchen, it had a roof, four walls, a fireplace for three large cooking pots, a storage space
for the beans, rice and corn as well as the very first building in the entire area with water piped into a building! Imagine your kitchen not having water and you will see how important this is.
Last year, the
volunteers gave a four year scholarship to the only 8th grade girl, Janet Lepore.
Janet was the first Maasai girl to attend high school, such a thing never happened before. And Janet came down from
her high school to see us give the second four year scholarship to 8th grader Margaret Letura, again, the only
girl in eight grade.
This year, I
decided that the best way our volunteers could better understand Maasai culture was to assign each of them a “Student Partner”
who would “shadow” or be with them the entire week. It was the smartest idea
I came up with. Each volunteer was assigned their student on Monday morning. And relationships grew very deeply by the end
of the week to the point that one volunteer from Maywood,
Linda Tobin, promised her seventh grade student a full four year scholarship to high school.
And that’s a $2,500.00 donation! Other volunteers are considering doing
the same gift to their students.
Monday was a
difficult day with more challenges. Four volunteers were still back in London. The truck carrying
library books, garden tools, seeds, school supplies (pens, pencils, blank notebooks, etc) thousands of library books, two
swing sets, one see saw, one jungle gym, other playground equipment, 36 bunk beds for the boy’s dormitory did not arrive. But that did not stop our 22 volunteers. They
took the paint that was already there and started to paint the entire boy’s dorm. Other
volunteers cut the tall grass and dug up the hard dirt for the new school garden. Nothing
was going to stop our volunteers.
What happened
with our volunteers during the next four days was just one miracle after another:
Returning volunteer
and former Maywood councilwoman Jeanne Matullo had a great
idea that was very popular among all the students and staff. She enlarged and
printed out all the pictures she took on last year’s trip and put them into an album she donated to the school. For children who have never seen a picture of themselves, it was a wonderful gift. Jeanne also had help
from her fellow volunteer Gail, also from Florida in assembling
all the playground equipment. The children had never seen a swing or sea saw
and had to be taught how to enjoy them by another returning volunteer, Kelly Wright from Maywood.
Professional photographer Lynn Ofrane from Teaneck took Empopongi Primary School’s
first class pictures which she will print and matt at her own expense and sent to the school as her gift to the children.
Her last “class” picture was of our 22 volunteers which she labels “Mr. Kelvin Williams’ volunteer trip class 07”!
When the supplies
did show up, there was no one happier than the Director of the Maywood Library, Diane Rhodes.
She was joyful to be able to create the first school library in the entire area.
With her volunteers Dorothy Fenniman, Bill Wetzel, Doreen Wetzel, Jane Dineen, Cathy and others, they cataloged over
a thousand books purchased in Kenya with
donations to the Maywood Rotary Kenya Project. The library is no bigger than
a very small bedroom in any house in Maywood, but it is the
most beautiful library I have ever seen in my life. Diane set it up so that the surrounding two schools and seven villages
can borrow any of the books the teachers requested we buy.
The Maywood Rotary
Kenya project is always looking for ways to make our adopted school more self sufficient.
Last year our volunteer team built a fence around the entire school to keep the animals out. That accomplishment allowed us to build a school garden so that the school could grow their own food for
lunch each day. We were lucky enough to have Maywoodian Dorothy Fenniman’s grandson,
Spenser Fenniman, a manager of an organic farm in Maine
join us. Spenser spent months researching how best to start the garden while
each of the students of Empopongi Primary students brought cattle manure to the school each day. With the help of many of our volunteers and dozens of students, they planted Kale, pumpkins, onions, tomatoes,
carrots, cabbage, spinach, lentils and potatoes. And Julie Harris Kleinert not
only dug the garden like Peter Rotolo, she also made up signs for each plot from small pieces of wood she found. When she wasn’t busy with the garden, Julie spent time painting the boy’s dormitory.
Cathy Palumbo,
another volunteer, had a complaint about painting the dorms, if she stopped painting for even one moment; one of the student
partners would grape the paint brush right out of her hand. All the students
wanted to work on our projects because it was their school. At one point I was
worried because we had to carry the parts for 36 bunk beds from a storage space up several hundred feet to the dorm for assembly.
It would take the volunteers a long time. But before our volunteers could start
the work, dozens of very small children were carrying bed head boards, foot boards and box springs!
Maywood volunteers Bill and Doreen Wetzel, both Clinical Social workers, got a special assignment. About a year ago, a tourist from Utah,
Coral Terry, visited our adopted school. She noticed two children who needed
medical operations, Benson with a missing arm and Samuel with a deformed foot. She
made the commitment to bring both children to Salt Lake City
for the medical operations they needed. Bill and Doreen did many hours of interviews
with both students so that we would have the information needed to make them feel more welcome and less uncomfortable visiting
the USA. In the process of these extensive
interviews, Doreen and Bill became our first hard experts on Maasai culture, learning more cultural information than we could
have hoped for. Look for them to give a talk about it soon in Maywood.
Returning volunteer
and Superior Court Judge Lois Lipton taught “Gender Equality” last year. This year she used her skills to help run the meeting with the Empopongi Primary School Board of Education. Lois was impressed that all the elders were sincerely grateful for the four year’s
help by the Maywood Rotary Kenya Project. They did not want to be dependent upon
us and agreed to help cover 10% of the cost of all future construction projects. That
is a massive amount for the Maasai community and a good step towards independence.
The board of education
members wanted to show their gratitude to me personally for all the work I do for the Kenya Project. I was honored until they explained to me that the highest traditional Maasai honor they could give me was
to give me a newborn daughter!!!! Knowing that Tim would kill me, I had to decline
so they offered me two cattle.
Volunteers Alyssa
Locascio, a first grade teacher from Glen Rock and Kelly Wright from Maywood,
provided a lot of joy for the children. Alyssa taught yoga to children, wisely
using yoga positions the children would understand: the lion, the cat, the rabbit, and other animals the children were already
familiar with. Kelly brought music and taught the American dances they learned
last year during her visit. There were literally hundreds of children crowding
around both volunteers and eager to learn. Carolyn Rhodes, another volunteer had the brilliant idea of bringing bubble mixture
and wands for the children, something they have never seen before. With the help
of Monica Reeder, volunteer from Washington,
the Maasai children learned how to blow bubbles while other children chased the bubbles.
Monica had another great idea, she brought many jump ropes, something the Maasai have never seen before. But within a few short hours, they learned how to “Double Dutch” with great skill.
If you have seen the pictures of our adopted school, you know it is rather stark looking, so one donor gave
specific funds to plant flowers and bushes around the school. Volunteer Michele
Dick and Arlene Rotolo, with the help of many students, dug through the hard soil to plant these flowers and bushes. It took a lot longer that you would think.
Some of our volunteers
did manage to do some teaching. With the battery powered DVD player we brought
to donate to the school, Linda Tobin taught a class on different American families.
Linda told me, “I have found that if you have an 11 inch DVD screen, you can fit 22 attentive Maasai children in chairs
to watch the entire DVD.” Bill Wetzel did a short health class for the older
boys. And Alyssa Locascio and Kelly Wright gave an extensive, detailed and helpful
health class for girls. Dorothy Fenniman stood at the door making sure no boy
students tried to get in.
Did you know that the
Maywood Rotary Club’s Kenya Project has a branch in London, England? It’s headed by Wayne Collins
a donor who has provided so much to the school including a new Nursery/Kindergarten last year as well as two four year scholarships
to 8th grade boys to go to high school. This year, he donated the
cost of the girls dormitory and brought his party of six volunteers to work with us at the school. They arrived on Wednesday July 4th, so naturally, we invited them to our surprise (to the volunteers)
4th of July party!!! Being good sports, they joined us in a special
dinner in the bush under a tent decorated with 4our surprise (to the volunteers) 4th of July party!!! Being good sports, they joined us in a special dinner in the bush under a tent decorated with 4th
of July decorations. Our Master of Ceremonies, The Honorable Superior Court Judge
Lois Lipton made the following official proclamation at the party:
“By the legal
power invested in me by myself, I hereby proclaim that every USA and UK citizen will be an honorary Kenyan Citizen tonight and that every Kenyan Citizen is an honorary
USA and UK
citizen today!” But Judge Lois didn’t stop their. She then insisted that all Kenyan citizens (every staff member), UK
citizens and USA citizens sing their national
anthems, one after another. It was so wonderful, it almost made up for missing
Tim as Grand Marshall. But when we were done singing, Lois wasn’t yet done. She then ordered we all sing all our national anthems at the same time as loud as
we could. We did and it was hilarious!
The “Brits” as
they became known as, were a very helpful, important and funny addition to our volunteer group. They would work hard at the
school each day and then at night we would all meet in the bar lounge. The Brits on the left side of the room and the Yanks
on the right. The rivalry continued with a singing competition. Led by Jeanne Matullo, the American’s would come up with one song, like “My Country Tis of Thee” and then
the Brits would retaliate with “God Save the Queen”. At one point, a Swedish
Doctor came into the bar and we all switched to singing Abba! I haven’t laughed
that hard in years and look forward to seeing the Brits again next year. They
are Rotarians without even knowing it.
Our last day
at the school was deeply moving. The students came to dance and sing for us. But most impressive to our volunteers is that almost every student’s father and mother
showed up to thank us. The mother’s presented each volunteer with hand made jewelry
as gifts of thanks. It was heartbreaking to say good bye to our student partners,
the teachers and all the other students. Every one of our volunteers left a piece
of their heart at our adopted school, Empopongi Primary School. And as group trip leader, I am so proud of each of them. I hope next year’s group leader is as lucky as I am with the volunteer’s contributions and hard work.
Four years ago,
Corey saw the school and said something had to be done about it. I told him it
would be impossible. I was wrong and I am glad that Corey was right. It changed the world for over 280 children and their families because now they can live with food, clean
water, an equipped school and hope for a better future.
Kevin Williams, Chair
Maywood
Rotary Kenya Project
July 13, 2007
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Now available for purchase: blank note cards
with pictures of our school and wildlife in Kenya. All proceeds go to benifit the children. For further information,
please contact Kevin@maywoodrotarykenyaproject.org
We are now available to come to your club or oragnization with a power point presentation on
the Kenya Project if you are in the New Jersey area. Contact Kevin (see address above).
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website are copyrighted and may not be reproduced without prior written authorization. Kevin Williams, Project Chair
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