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Monday, November 28, 2005

Xmas Shopping Part I
I've never participated in the Black Friday ritual.  Infact, I find it absolutely amazing that people actually get up at the break of dawn (or earlier) just to get into stores for a great deal.  And to fight the massive crowds.  All I have to say is, THANK GOD for online shopping.  Or better yet, THANK GOD for weekday shopping.
 
My sister's sorority friend works for the Scholastic Store.  We went to the store in SoHo and knocked off at least half of the kiddie list, which was great.   I might have to go back another day to finish off the list.  I guess having a sorority sister does pay off in the long run!
 
As for the adults list (aunties, uncles, grandparents and great-grandparents), this will be easy.  I bought various sizes of picture frames during the year, so all I have to do is print some photos of Sophia and plop them in.  A friend is sending me a USB cord to hook up my color picture printer (thanks to Martha Stewart!) to my computer.   I'll get additional gifts for my parents, but for now, this will have to do until I'm done with the projects. 
6:13 pm

Grandma's Premonition
During my Thanksgiving meal, my grandmother told my father the baby I'm carrying is a boy and the baby will come within a month.  Sorry Grandma, but yer definitely wrong- it's a girl (blood tests don't lie).  I just hope she's wrong about me giving birth next month. 
 
We're not quite ready for the baby to come just yet- there's a Christmas tree to be decorated (the first time since Sophia's born- we think Sophia will be on good behavior to NOT tip the tree over), Christmas parties to attend to (three in one week!), perhaps a Depeche Mode concert (if tickets suddenly appear last minute), we need to assemble the baby's bassinett and changing table in our room, we need a light dimmer for our bedroom, newborn clothes that needs to be laundered, diapers that needs to be bought, I need to pack for the hospital, I'd like to celebrate Chinese New Year before the baby comes, etc., etc.,
 
I can't believe I'm already counting down in the single digits- this year flew by!
9:21 am

Friday, November 25, 2005

One More Thing
Most importantly, we all came out unscathed in last night's dinner.  Phew.
10:29 am

Thursday, November 24, 2005

A Quick Recap of Turkey Day at Our House
  • My hands are dry (any indication why?).
  • My back hurts (aside from my *baseball, any indication why?).
  • My feet hurts (same as above).
  • Sophia went to bed late.  She was thoroughly entertained by all guests.
  • No food coma for me which was nice (when you're preggers, you don't shovel a large amount of food down your throat.  Okay, maybe some do- that's why they end up gaining 50lbs. total pregnancy weight.  You actually eat at least five times a day).
  • Made turkey stock from leftover carcass (the ham bone is in the freezer).  Gonna make some turkey soup this weekend.
  • The sweet potato pie was DEEEE-LICIOUS.
  • The turkey was OUTSTANDING (if you've never brined a turkey, LEARN TO DO IT).  Props to Kim.
  • Lemon-dill mashed potatoes was very nice.  Props to Judy (sorry, no props on your pumpkin pie- use graham crust next time!).
  • Mom's famous potato salad was like old times.   Mmm.
  • Good call from Tio Rolly on adding cheddar cheese to the asparagus and broccoli (parmagano reggiano would probably have been better, but there was none in the house).
  • There was literally NO ROOM to put our plates on the table because there was just mountains of food everywhere (I sat at the computer desk because the chair is the most comfy).  And to think we extended our table.
  • I used anti-bacterial Clorox wipes to wipe down the house after our guests left (I am a germaphobe!).
  • My grandmother brought over yellow sponge cake that she made- it always brings me back to childhood.
  • I totally forgot about watching football. 
  • No annual Thanksgiving bowl-a-thon this year (or probably for the rest of our lives or until my parents are willing to let them stay over for the night).
  • Sophia made $10 after saying, "bay chien (give me money in Chinese)" from Great-Grandma, Great-Grandpa, Grandma and Grandpa (my side of the family).
  • I concluded that this is probably the first AND last time we'll do this. 

*baseball- Sophia calls my belly a "baseball", not a basketball, so HA.  Yes, she knows the difference between those two.

Goodnight.

11:43 pm

Wednesday, November 23, 2005

Pre-Thanksgiving Dash
What a day to run errands.  With Phil working the late shift tonight, we headed out early (and in a hurry) to West Harlem to pick up the bestest sweet potato pie ever.   There was a line by the time we got there, but luckily there was still plenty of assorted pies left.  It is definitely worth the drive to trek up there for a pie.  Mmm.
 
We then headed back south and drove to Ninth Avenue.  I love going to Ninth Avenue- it's an amazing avenue for foodies because there are some mom and pop stores that sell reasonably priced foods.  There is a fish market, fruit and veggie farmer's market, an Italian pastry shop, a French bakery, a meat market and more.   They even host a Ninth Avenue International Food Festival every year (I have yet to go!) in May.  
 
We went to the Greek International Grocery Store that sells an array of spices and herbs from around the world as well as Greek delicacies (spinach pie, baklava, tzsaziki, taramasalata, eggplant dip, feta cheese).   We picked up some dips and pita bread for tomorrow's feast.
 
We were so hungry, we decided to go eat at Maganaro's Hero Boy for lunch, which is located a block away from the grocery store.  We shared a chicken parm and a large side salad.  It was sooooo good.
 
We walked a block down to a French bakery and picked up some rolls for tomorrow. 
 
Back home, I picked up some aluminum pans to hold our veggies and meats.  Screw the presentation- I don't wanna be standing at the sink all night washing gazillions of plates, bowls and utensils.  It's all about convenience, feeding the family and in-laws and booting them all outta my house (I'm such a wonderful hostess).  I even picked up small aluminum pans for guests to take food home (turkey is mine...ALL MINE!). 
 
Let the feast (or the food fight) begin!
8:02 pm

Monday, November 21, 2005

My Belly & Sophia
Washing dishes is becoming to be a backbreaking chore.  Since I don't like the way Phil does the dishes (do guys ever know how to wash them properly??) and since we don't have a dishwasher (I don't know if I'll ever get used to them- I need to feel the dishes to make sure it's grease free), it looks like I'll have to deal with it until I give birth (or when it becomes impossible to wash).  My belly isn't that huge where my arms are overextending itself, but still, it sure ain't easy washing them.  Sigh.
 
And my belly button kinda sorta popped out (that didn't happen with Sophia).  Kinda sorta because when I had my gall bladder removed, they had to tie my belly button down.  So it's partially popped. 
 
On Sophia-
 
She has my mother's stubborness.  My father's short temper.  Both of those I have as well.  Phil's slick attitude (believe me, it's not a good trait to have).  She does have some good ones- she's compassionate whenever one gets hurt (she genuinely looks at you with huge concern, asks if you're okay and pats you), she's very giving and willing to share (let's see if that still holds true when baby number two comes) and is open to play with other kids (especially with older boys- what a flirt).  I wonder if any of those traits will teach her how to be a tough, but understanding person.
 
She has a knack for remembering (I guess all kids do at her age?)- she's like a sponge.  Just last week we bought a 30 piece puzzle and today she figured out how to put puzzle together by herself.  She understands Christmas is coming, there is a Santa Claus, a Christmas tree with bright lights, Christmas songs (she loves singing/listening to Deck the Halls and Jingle Bells) and there are presents involved.  And I just taught her that within a week too.  Wow.
 
Every minute she asks me "What's that?", "What's so and so doing?", "Where are they going?", etc.  Yes, her repeating the questions over and over drives me up the wall, but I realize repetition is how she learns.  It's amazing how in one year, she grew up to be a smart and inquisitive young girl.  If this is only the beginning, the coming years will be very interesting to see and watch. 
 
I can't wait.
8:26 pm

Rolling
So our Thanksgiving dinner seems to be rolling smoothly (so far).  Kim will be brining the turkey (turkey will be cooked at my house).  She'll also be making the ham at her house (she claims that adding Coca-Cola will make it tasty).  My father will be marinating the prime rib and we're going to have Phil's parents make that.  Yes, that is a total of three different meats on the table.  My family almost always make two different meats for the holiday.  No idea why, but that's always been our tradition.  I just hope no one eats all of the turkey.  I want that all to myself.  (Could you say, turkey casserole, turkey sammiches, turkey soup and turkey pot pies...)
 
We're also going to have corn, peas, strings, asparagus, garlic mashed potatoes (Judy), candied sweet potatoes, candied chestnuts (Momma), Stove Top stuffing, bread rolls, pumpkin pie (Judy).  I would like to pick up a sweet potato pie, but I don't think we're gonna have time to get it (supposedly there is a place in West Harlem that makes it really, really, REALLY good). 
 
We're having my grandparents, my grandfather's friend (who doesn't have a family), Phil's parents, Phil's niece and nephew (their mother is working), my parents, Judy (I think Tio Rolly is going to his family's house) and Kim.  We invited our nanny and her husband, but they're planning to go to the casino with friends for the day.  Seems like a small gathering for such a large feast, but if I invite more family members, there might be a head chopped off (one of my family member does not like one of Phil's family member)!  Getting both of our families together at my house is an amazing feat.  We'll see if any blood will shed...
11:57 am

Thursday, November 17, 2005

My house or Your house?
For weeks now, my sister Judy and I have been asking our parents whether or not they will be having Thanksgiving dinner at their house.  Reason why we asked is because my mother has been threatening for years to not cook for Thanksgiving even though my father says he'll do the cooking.  So this year I decided to take the matters into our hands and finally have the dinner at our house.  Instead, it's turned into a parental vs. children Thanksgiving war.
 
My father insists that we WILL have it at his house because it's been tradition to have it there.  Plus he wants his parents (my grandparents) there.  Little does he realize that it really is my mother who will end up doing all the cooking (she can't stand the way he cooks and messes up the kitchen).  My mother doesn't even know if she's off from work, so for her to rush back home and help cook dinner (or rather clean) is probably not how she wants to spend Thanksgiving.  Hence why I stepped in to offer to have it catered so it will relieve some of the work for her.  I have to admit it won't be the same (she really makes this kick ass candied chestnuts and potato salad), but if it makes my mother temporarily happy (that woman is never satisfied!) so be it. 
 
I spoke to my mother yesterday morning if that would be okay with her.  I wanted and needed a solid answer.  Thanksgiving is next week for goodness sake.  I was tired of the run around with them.  I cornered my mother and asked WHAT THE DEAL WAS.  OUR HOUSE or THEIR HOUSE.  If their house, does she want me to have it catered.  I was pleasantly surprised she said, okay, fine, YOUR HOUSE, do what you have to do, which to me means GREEN LIGHT.  I didn't say anything to my father.  I mean, what's the point?  I figured it would be okay.  Ha, read on.
 
My other sister Kim had a discussion with them last night about this when I thought it was a dead issue.  Mother gave the okay sign to me.  But wait!  It was the first time Father was hearing this and had his own thoughts and lame excuses on WHY it must be done at his house.  According to Kim, he was angry and pissed.  Except I had asked them over and over if we were having dinner at his house for weeks now, leaving us in limbo land.  Well, too bad for them.  At this point, my sisters and I decided that we had enough of their shit we are going to go ahead with our plans and have the dinner at my house.  End of story. 
 
I think.
4:24 pm

Tuesday, November 15, 2005

Shopping
Phil, Sophia and I went shopping at Target this morning to pick up some new toys and other stuff for the house.  Here are some of the funny comments she came up with:
 
  • We passed by a row of bras.  Sophia asks, "Who's bra?"  I answer, "I don't know."  She replies, "Somebody's bra."
  • We drive by a Toys 'R Us store on the way to Target.  She's all excited, thinking we're going there.  I tell her no, Goong Goong and Paw Paw (grandpa and grandma) is going to take you there.  I'm trying to figure out how the hell did she know it says Toys 'R Us?  (I think she recognizes the font from the Sunday circular)
  • A few minutes later, we drive by Party City (they sell all sorts of party paraphenelia).  She gets excited again, thinking it's Toys 'R Us once again (I think it was the bubble font and colorful sign they have).  I tell her no, Party City is not Toys 'R Us.  She was probably thinking, same shit!
  • We buy a puzzle map of the United States (individually pieced).  She keeps asking me, where is the guitar, where is the hat (my parent's house has the same puzzle except it's not individually pieced and has different icons on the state).   I didn't understand what she was saying when she said "guitar."  She kept repeating the word over and over and realized I still didn't understand.  She then made the motion of strumming the guitar and the sound.  I exclaimed, "OHHH, GUITAR!" and we all laughed.
7:51 pm

Monday, November 14, 2005

All Fixed/Congrats
Computer is finally bug free, thanks to Kenn (thanks yo!). 
 
And congrats to my cousin, Kelly, who had a baby girl yesterday (no name as of yet).
4:12 pm

Sunday, November 13, 2005

Privacy
Now when Sophia uses the toilet, she kicks out whoever escorts her into the bathroom.  She's tried that with me although I refuse to leave (I need sit on the stool to wait and the stool is inside the bathroom).
 
In other news, our computer was hit with an ugly virus that doesn't want to be deleted.  So I have to sit here and wait until Norton fixes itself and will hopefully do its job.
9:53 am

Friday, November 11, 2005

Chicago boy
Andrew, a friend/ex-colleague, was visiting NYC (after years of living in NYC) from Chicago.  Several ex-Elektra employees (Anne, Mark, Sam, Ben and Mike) came out to catch up with Andrew at a bar in Alphabet City.  Andrew commented if we were to meet up at a bar in Chicago, a pregnant woman like me wouldn't have lasted very long- people still smoke in bars.  Some of the guys offered to buy me a shot, but unfortunately I had to turn everyone down.  It was definitely great seeing Andrew and the old gang (Heather, I apologize for not calling you- I forgot!!!).  It was as if the EEG family was never torn apart.
 
When I got home, Sophia was asleep (unlike two weeks ago when I went to the DM show).  I asked Phil if she had asked for me and he replied, "Are you kidding?  She had me read 13 books!"
9:36 am

Wednesday, November 9, 2005

Stupid-stition
One of our friend's grandparent's passed away and I can't attend the wake/funeral.  In Chinese culture, when a woman is pregnant or just gave birth, you are not allowed to attend a funeral function.  Something about not mixing sadness with happiness.  Then again, it depends on who you talk to and who really believes in all this crock of shit.  I'm just sad that I wasn't able to bid Grandma G farewell. 
 
May she rest in peace with Grandpa G.
6:32 pm

Password?
So I log into my Mac this morning, thinking I'll get some work done.  I type in my login and password.  Doesn't work.  That's odd considering I just changed the generic password to a new password yesterday.  I type in the old password that was given.  Nope.  I type in an extra last letter.  Still nothing.  Now I'm pissed.  I e-mail the IT guy (thank goodness I saved his e-mail address on my personal e-mail account) and said that I'd have to schlep the damn heavy laptop back to the office to reset the password.  AAAAAARGH.
 
What a farkin' schmuck I am.
10:12 am

Monday, November 7, 2005

Checkup
Had my monthly checkup at the doc's office and all's well.  I'm weighing in about 145lbs which is pretty good.  Apparently the baby is positioned head down, but that could change at any time as there's plenty of room for her to roam in.  I'm still hoping for a miracle the baby will be born in the year of the dog (no real reason, just that I was born in the year of the dog), not in the year of the rooster although I'm feckin' scared about going into contractions (didn't go through that with Sophia).  I guess there's always a first for everything.  I can't believe how fast time has gone.  I'm in my last trimester!  Thank the stars above...
 
Going off tangent-
 
Over the weekend, I had shouted, "HOLY!" Sophia pipes in and says, "Cow."  What a funny girl!
4:41 pm

Sunday, November 6, 2005

Running Up That Hill
Yesterday, Phil, Sophia and I trekked to Paragon Sports at Union Square for free lunch supplied by Paragon.  Even though Phil's not running in this year's NYC Marathon (he's ran it four times before- the whole 26.2 miles!), we were able to score tickets to get in for free.  The lunch isn't extravagant- it's just your basic running food staple- bananas, apples, bagels, pizzas, hot dogs and water.  But it was ghetto enough for us to nosh on without having to spend money at Micky Dee's. 
 
With that said, I'm sad that Phil isn't able to run in this year's marathon.  He was pretty close to changing his mind a few months ago but backed out because of problems in his knees.  I really don't know how people run that many miles, but I suppose if you put your mind to something, work hard, you can actually achieve it.  Not only do you have to train your body, you have to train your mind.  If you've never gone out to support the runners, ya gotta do it once.  It's super fun to cheer the marathoners on- it's such a natural high for them to hear you and you walk away with pure amazement and pride for all of them. 
 
Go runners!
10:38 am

Friday, November 4, 2005

My New Toy, Dinner, and stuff
My job FINALLY gave me a laptop to work on- it's a Mac Powerbook.  I don't know much about Macs, so I've been spending a lot of time getting acquainted with it.  So far, I'm getting the hang of it though it's going to take some time to learn the shortcuts.  I have no assignments given to me yet, so things are slow right now.  But at least I get paid to fool around with the Mac.  Wee!
 
Phil had a bad bug for the past week and I think I caught the tail end of it.  My throat was so sore last night, I couldn't sleep.  I'm feeling better now, though who knows by tomorrow.
 
We had a delicious meal for dinner tonight- a Greek restaurant on the Lower East Side called, Pylos.  Ever since we went to Greece for our honeymoon, I have a thing for Greek food even though I don't eat lamb or octopus.  For appetizers, we had tsatiki (my favorite!) and chicken soup.  For entree, I ordered a moussaka and Phil ordered baby lamb chops (baahh).  Food was not cheap, but amazingly good (Phil said it was okay, you can't fuck up lamp chops).  The ambience was a bit chi-chi for me (I was wearing my K-Swiss sneakers!).  The restaurant was decorated very nicely (Pylos means "clay" and they had clay pots on the ceilings, lots of mirrors on walls, long couch with pillows, a huge marble table in the back as a family style dinner table).  Service was impeccable.  I never ran out of water!  I really miss having a glass of red wine- everytime I have Greek food, I always, ALWAYS, drink a glass of red (okay, a couple of glasses).  I can't say whether or not we'll be back to Pylos- I have a soft spot for Uncle George's!  Opa!
 
Sophia's favorite song these days is "Where is Thumbkin."  She constantly plays that song ALL THE TIME on her cd player (thanks Aunt Judy). 
 
By the way, I've officially started tying my shoelaces to the side.  My belly is in the way and I'm way too big!  Twelve more weeks to go!
10:16 pm

Thursday, November 3, 2005

Judy Mo-Mo's version of Halloween

(Mind you, Auntie Judy was a bit intoxicated whilst writing this)

while sophia's mommy was giving out candies to the slew of children who gathered in the building lobby, sophia and i stood off to the side and watched the mayhem incubate before everyone ran off separate ways in lickety split time.  (sophia and juey-mo-mo both need time to get acclimated with strangers).

once the whistle blew (in a manner of speaking), we crammed in an elevator with maybe six kids and five or six adults.  juey-mo-mo was secretly wondered if all would enjoy halloween night stuck in the elevator, gasping for air.  alas, that was not to be - thank goodness!

as the elevator opened at each designated floor, it was a race to the designated apartment that signed up to give out candies for the children.  at first, juey mo-mo thought the ones who left candies outside their door were a bunch of chumps who couldn't find the time to humor the children by opening the door and let the kids have someone to scream out "trick or treat" to, until sophia's mommy explained that these were the parents who are already out chaperoning the other ten thousand trick or treatin' kids.

at first, sophia (or fia) was shy and would quiety say "trick or treat" or rather, "chick or cheat" about ten feet away from the door while the older kids bombarded the homeowners who gave out candies or coins to the kids.  Fia had to be ushered a little closer to the door to get her share and almost always got a few extra because "the little bumblebee was soooo cute" and at 2.7 years old, damn straight she was with her little "chick or cheat" bag that barely held much of anything (mommy, the prego piggy loaded up on all the goods the cute little bumblebee collected between each floor). 

it was hard for juey-mo-mo to keep up with the rest of the rushing crowd of kids and adults screaming, "trick or treat", "no, not that door! the other door!",  "ring it just once! don't ring it again!", etc. etc.  it was crrrrrazy and juey-mo-mo felt she didn't get to enjoy the night casually walking from door to door with her cute little bumblebee neice.  BUT the little bumblebee, really started to get into the spirit of things and after each door, would say, "try again" - meaning, to do it again at another apartment.  she even started yelling "CHICK OR CHEAT" louder as the night wore on but still, at 10 feet away from the door - which was cute.

when we were done with fia's place, we headed to fia's grandparent's building and selectively hit a few apartments of families we already knew.  at the last apartment, no one was home and that was when the little bumblebee kept repeating over and over, "no one home".  the look of concern on her face was insanely cute. it was if some injustice had occurred and she didn't understand why.  as we were leaving the building, a crowd of kids were heading our way and the little bumblebee stood off to the side and repeated loudly, "no one home", "no one home" - she was doing them a favor!  don't waste your time, there's no one home! what a cutie!  (editor:  she really said NOBODY, not NO ONE)

by the time we hit the other building, her patience was starting to wane and she told mommy, juey-mo-mo and kim-mo-mo, "no more.  go see gung-gung (grandpa)".  but of course, we HAD to make sure she saw the halloween legend.  this one particular man, since mommy and juey-mo-mo were kids, always got into the spirit of halloween by decorating his doorway and having the kids bob for apples which contained coins (quarter, nickles, dimes, pennies).  but this year, it seems he was concerned for the kids whose parents made the effort to put makeup on the kids and he didn't want to ruin their makeup, so he developed another way to entertain the children.  one way, was by having a spider quickly drop down as he opened the door.  The little bumblebee was petro when this happened and it was the cutest thing.  the little bumblebee's face froze and was dumbfounded like a deer in headlights.  when the little bumblebee's mommy assured her, "mommy's here, it's ok", the little bumblebee quickly ran to her mother's side, eyes still glued to the big ugly spider. 

when all was said and done, the little bumblebee was glad to be with her grandparents.  she was so pooped, she barely moved when having snacks and a drink.  it was a great halloween and juey mo-mo can't wait for 2006!!

9:23 am

Tuesday, November 1, 2005

Trick O' Tired
I have to admit that I am not a huge fan of Halloween.  When I was a kid, the holiday was not something my friends and I participated in.  I don't think my sisters and I ever donned in a costume (wait, maybe ONCE) though we did go begging for candies and coins.  Usually, Halloween was a day for us to dodge rotten eggs, shaving cream and baby powder stuffed in a smelly athlete's sock (the knee high ones were the best).  Halloween was definitely a day that I never cared to get excited for.
 
I did enjoy watching Sophia participate in the trick o' treating ritual (I'm not a total Scrooge afterall!).  Thanks to our apartment complex, it was a huge success.  Instead of having kids ring all 150+ doorbells, the management office had volunteers sign up to give candies out to the treaters.   We visited at least 30-40 apartments (not including the parents that were escorting the kids), enough to fill a kiddie Halloween bag. 
 
My sister Judy came by after work to experience Sophia's second year of trick o' treatin'.  Thank goodness she did- it was total mayhem with the elder kids running to get the treats.  I was in no shape to protect my belly and Sophia.   We were broken up into a group of five adults (there were a total of 37 kids) and a sheet of apartments that were doling out.  Towards the end of the evening, the group I was in, was down to two. 
 
In the beginning, Sophia was a bit timid and shy shouting "trick o' treat", but she gradually got into the swing of things.  I think the massive crowd and the kids running and shouting was too overwhelming for her.  There was one apartment that didn't answer their door (strange considering they signed up for it) and all night she kept repeating like a broken record, "Nobody home." 
 
After we were done with our apartment complex, we moved on to my parent's place- we were on a roll.  We didn't go to many apartments- just a handful where our friends live/lived (PastryDad, no one was home at your parent's place!).  By the time we got to my parent's place, she sat on my mother's lap and didn't move once.  She ate her cookies, pretzels and milk quietly (that's a first!).  Sophia was literally pooped out from all the walking (I was too). 
 
Now that I am living through my child's eyes, maybe Halloween can be fun for her and me.   It was definitely fun to watch her get excited for.  But don't start thinking you'll see me in a costume.   I promise you that won't happen in the near century.
 
PS- All the candies were divvied up with her Aunt Judy, Aunt Kim, Tio Rolly, Great-Grandpa (he has a sweet tooth), nanny, Mommy and Daddy.  Sophia was allowed to keep pretzels, raisins and Teddy Grahams.  Lollipops are only used to play with (and to encourage her grandparents to stop smoking and have a lollipop, like Kojak). 
8:33 pm


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