Tuesday, October 21, 2008
O update
I seem to have fallen into a funk writing here. I think it's pure lazy-ness these days. Without further ado, here are my
latest updates and observations on the PITA (pain in the arse) or sweet little pumpkins, depending on my/their moods:
Olivia
is still stuck on the nipple bottle. She doesn't care for the cup with a straw although I force to her to drink out of it
from time to time. If the nanny or Phil gave her the cup with a straw, she'd have a hissy fit and will call a strike on them.
She knows she can't get away with it with me.
I'm so glad we got her off diapers early. She can go to the bathroom
by herself- she tinkles and wipes all on her own. She loves to brush her teeth and rinse. If anyone tries to assist her,
she'll push their hands and proudly says, "ME DO MYSELF!" She is the epitome of miss independence.
But when
it comes to playing by herself, she prefers not to be alone. She'll turn into my shadow, following me around from room to
room. Unless I turn the TV and she has her bunny and thumb, she'll sit there without complaints. She really misses having
her sister around during the day, or better yet, someone she can beat up on (or vice versa).
She is obsessed with earrings
(and that's saying it lightly). We were at Trader Joe's recently and she makes friends with every customer, especially those
with big hoopy earrings. She'll make comments to them, points at them and shouts, "ME LIKE YOU EARRINGS!" Also
on her accessories checklist- she loves to point out my watch, necklace and ring.
I dress her in pants in the morning
and by the time I leave the house, she is running to the dresser to pull out a dress. Thank goodness summer is over. I've
hid most of her summer dresses so she can't get to them (or the nanny- she caves into her needs, so annoying). Cutest thing
though, when she sits down, she lifts her dress up to carefully not sit on it. She even smooths out the dress in front of
her. Hysterical.
Her biggest food craze is kimchi, kkadugee (spicy radish) or Korean anchovies. If she doesn't eat
her chicken, sometimes I'll give her some of the leftover kimchi sauce for her to dip in. The crazy kid ends up drinking
the sauce!
I'm not sure where this came from. When she speaks, she'll squeak her last word to the highest pitch.
I have to video this...it's so weird!
One more thing- she loves to flash people to show everyone her bee-bo (belly
button). Hmm.
Sophia update soon...
10:06 am
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Disney article
Not only do I have hatred for evil politicians (nothing but a bunch of liars and cheats with empty promises),
I think Disney is almost up there. My friend Norm sent this article to me while I was down there. Read this article:
9:51 pm
Monday, September 22, 2008
Disney trip recap (in June)
I know, summer is over but I realized I hadn't posted the trip review!
Phil, the girls and my parents flew on JetBlue
for the first time (for everyone except my mom, who went to PR with my two sisters). TV screens are set up on each chair.
LOVE IT! Crappy part was, you had to buy your own food if you were hungry. Since our flight wasn't until the late morning,
I picked up lunch at Whole Foods the night before.
The girls napped a little and soon enough, we landed in Orlando
on time. It was steamy hot (NYC was only in the low 70s that week). I hadn't been to Orlando since I was in my early teens
with my dad and sisters. We were stalled for a bit because we had to wait for our luggage and car rental. From the airport
to Disney, it took us less than a half hour.
Check in wasn't too bad but we had to wait about an hour before going
to our room. The biggest surprise was when we received a package from my girlfriend Linda- she sent us a talking Mickey Mouse-you
push MM's hand and it will give you a tour wherever you are in Disney. Pretty neat! By the way, another neat tip wherever
you travel- ship all non-important items to your hotel (ie, cereals, diapers, snacks, etc.) so you don't have to pack it in
your suitcase!).
Since it was already late in the afternoon, we didn't want to rush and run around in the park, we
decided to unpack, relax, walk the hotel grounds before heading out for dinner (we lodged at Port Orleans). We ate at Salt
Island Restaurant (off the Disney premise) with my parents, my cousin Cliff (who lives in Orlando) and Phil's sister and her
family (who flew in to meet us there). One of Phil's assistant gave Phil a $100 gift certificate so we had to use it. Food
was horrible. My salad was drowned in dressing and my filet mignon was charred crisp. The girls didn't really eat much either.
My mother complained about her salty dinner and the owners deducted her meal off the bill. Definitely wouldn't recommend
eating there.
Second day, we made our way to Magic Kingdom (MK). We took the ferry boat over and it sorta felt magical
that we arrived there by water. I think Sophia was in awe too. After going on some of the kiddie rides and shopping in the
store (to get some A/C relief), we took the train back to Main Street and ate at The Plaza for lunch. The Plaza had your
basic sandwiches and a kids menu (I had a vegan sandwich, really good!). Free drink refills. It also helped that I got 20%
company discount off the bill. We also bought a fan spray bottle that helped us cool down. That sure came in handy (and
pricey too).
O was getting tired and cranky, so I brought her back to the hotel room along with my parents. S stayed
with Phil and her cousins, aunt and uncle. I think for dinner, my parents, O and I drove around looking for an Asian restaurant
(those old folks need their daily rice intake) outside of the Disney complex. S and Phil got back pretty late that evening.
She told Phil she had a magical day. Aww.
Second day, we headed over to EpCot Center. The weirdest part of it all
was the entrance area where they erected stones that reminded me of tombstones. Fans everywhere would purchase a "plot"
where one can inscribe on the stones. Some even had their photos etched in! Really spooky. Just another way for Disney
to rob consumers.
We bypassed the "golf ball" and walked towards the different countries. The kids were
beginning to get hungry and hot, so we tried to find something suitable. We were close to Japan, so we went to Tokyo Dining.
There was a long wait and I didn't want to sit on a big table eating hibachi style food. So we left and went over to Yakitori
House which sold quick rice bowls and such. Maybe it was me, but the food was HORRIBLE! I ordered chicken terayaki bowl-
looked all gloopy. Blech. Phil had curry and said it was good (he always says that, so not sure whether or not to believe
him). Annoying situation- because everybody was hungry, somehow I was the only person standing in line. Phil, his sister,
brother in-law didn't even bother to get up and order food for themselves or their kids. My main concern is feed my own kids
and my parents!
After our bellies were full, we watched the Taiko drums. And after that was done, we went over to
the pavillion and a Japanese lady was making animals out of sugar candy- totally cool. The lady made a dog for Sophia (she
was the last customer).
We started rushing all the others cities and decided to call it a day. We went back to the
hotel room to nap. Phil's sister and family went to Animal Kingdom (AK) since it was their last night. When everyone woke
up from their nap, we went to AK for dinner at the Tusker House and saw them as they were on their way out. Food at Tusker
House wasn't great. Despite the good reviews I read, the food was either cold or too spicy. Maybe we had too late of a
reservation? It didn't help that the restaurant was freezing from the A/C.
The next day, we drove to Clearwater Beach,
east of Orlando. It took alittle over an hour to get there. The Gulf water was definitely warm. Not much to report about
the beach except it was a nice change from Disney. We had dinner at the Japanese restaurant again (my father wanted to eat
at Ponderosa- disgusting!).
The other days we went back to the parks again. Sophia and I met with Sophia's ex-classmate
from her old pre-k for 3 yr olds school (they moved to Florida) and spent the afternoon at Magic Kingdom. We had lunch at
Pinocchio Village Haus- great fish and chips! They even had a kid's menu where they offered carrot sticks instead of fries.
The following evening Phil and I had dinner at Marrakesh (in Morrocco) at EpCot. Food and belly dancing entertainment was
great...highly recommended. We also had dinner at the Animal Kingdom Lodge called BOMA. Buffet food was AMAZING. They
even had carrot ginger soup...ahh, so good.
One evening we ventured to Downtown Disney. I was reluctant on eating
Rainforest Cafe food but it turned out alright. The area is mostly food and shopping. I think I did more pocket damage in
this area by buying silly pins and souvenirs.
I never got to swim in the pool (unbelievable, I know), but Phil and
the girls did. My mother and I went outlet shopping (nothing great) instead. We were always too busy running around at the
parks.
All in all, thinking back, a great family bonding trip (although I begged to differ then). The girls got to
spend more time with their grandparents, even though we only live a few blocks away from each other. Phil and I never got
to go on a "date" by leaving the girls with my parents. Phil did though, go on a scary ass roller coaster ride
by himself (we had just finished eating dinner and I wasn't about to barf it up) at AK. Sophia and I got my mom to ride "It's
a Small World" (one of my favorite rides). Olivia learned how to finish my sentence when I repeated to her, "No...touching."
Sophia now believes Cinderella lives in a magical castle along with Aurora, Belle and Snow White (roll eyes). Ah,
it's good to be five years old with princess dreams.
12:45 pm
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Reflection
Ted, a few weeks ago I was cleaning my bedroom when I came across a book that was made by your friends and colleagues. I
forgot that I had it. As I blew the dust off the front cover, I read the book once again. The memories of you came back.
Never failing to help others, never failing to give a great a story (especially about music), never failing to be a good
person. Never forgetting.
Rest in peace, Edward Hennessy (and Paul Friedman).
9:16 am
Thursday, September 4, 2008
I'm Baaaaack!!! Sorta.
Hey! Sorry I haven't been updating lately. I seemed to have taken a bit of a summer break there. Can't
say I'm feeling refreshed and excited to blog about the crazy life I'm living, but I will try to, nonetheless...like,
starting tomorrow. Promise!
10:39 pm
Monday, July 14, 2008
Wahs in the AM
For the past week, S has been a bit weepy in the mornings after dropping her off at school. She claims that she
misses her sister (beating her up? stealing her toys?), but somehow I think that's only the small picture. Her
summer school program runs until 5:45p, but I generally dash out of work to get her by 5p. I think she just misses playing
at the park with her sister. Or she could be super cranky and tired after missing her afternoon nap (yes, she still
needs at least a half hour of princess naptime).
One day, I got to the school ten minutes late which prompted her to freak out and cry. Could be because they moved
the class to the cafeteria and she was probably worried I wouldn't find her.
Phil leaves work early last Friday just to pick her up. He gets to the school and notices that she's
having a grand ol' time in gym (the teacher told me she often gets frustrated when they practice their dance skit).
Somehow, I think it's just a little game she's playing.
Also in this crying mix, O has been very upset watching us leave for work/school. She's been very latchy with Phil
in the mornings, so I had to make him leave home early so she doesn't see him.
My only real hunch is that we've gotten them to sleep together and that seems to be their sisterly bonding time (I've
also gotten them to BE QUIET at 7:15a and to let me lie in bed for another 45 minutes). Or, maybe they're just at that
level where they're speaking to each other in another language called WE ARE SISTERS AND WE WILL MAKE ALL ADULTS, INCLUDING
OUR PARENTS, MISERABLE.
10:52 pm
Friday, June 27, 2008
Hello, McFly!!! Anybody Home?!?!
My patience with my year old nanny is waning. Lately she has been getting on my nerves. We inherited a mouse
(due to construction next door) and the maintenance guys were to come over and stuff our pipe holes with a brillo pad.
I had to run to work, but I called Phil to tell the nanny that she should be expecting them. I came home around 4:30p
only to find out they hadn't stop by because they went to the wrong apartment. If she had any common sense, she
should have called either Phil or myself to let us know they didn't show up. What a dummy!
I took Sophia to her first Yankee/Met game (Yanks lost the 1st game and won the 2nd rubber) in a two part double header
series in two different ballparks). We got home pooped out but had to head back out for Phil's mother's birthday dinner.
Got home and guess what, THERE'S NO MORE MILK. I would like to think our nanny would have the common decency to
call us and to let us know we are running out of milk!!! I guess it's just way too difficult for her to think.
There are other little things that annoy the fuck outta me- she gives into Olivia's demand for cookies in the morning
for breakfast (uh, in my house, that is a huge no no). The toys are not where they should belong (maybe I'm anal, but
it's a huge stickler for me). When she does their laundry, she often mixes up the girls clothes when putting them back
in the dressers (like, duh?!). Worst part of it all- I've heard her yelling at the girls, not just once or twice.
Many times! (only I should be the one to yell, not her!) Lately I noticed she hasn't been making O any lunch.
Is she dependent on what Phil's mom brings over (macaroni and pork- so weird)? I'm like, where's the healthy food like
veggies! Fish! Sometimes I think she takes better care of my plants than my girls!!!
We are in the midst of contemplating whether or not we should send O to daycare since Sophia will be in kindergarten
and at an after-school program. If the price comes out cheaper than what we are paying the nanny, we just might have
to make the move. But for now, Phil is going to change his work schedule a bit and stay with O for a few hours and work
out the kinks with the nanny. I am so frustrated by her plain ol' stupidity and lack of common sense. I really
don't know what to do with her!
Or maybe we were just too spoiled by our previous nanny????
11:08 pm
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
S+O Update
I know I owe you a post on Disney and I promise you that one will come. It's taking me some time to get in the
mood to write about my horror, I mean, family bonding trip, but for now, just a quick update on S+O, only because I will forget
what I wanted to post about on them. They are growing so fast (but oh-so-not fast enough for them to be self-reliant
on everything)!
Let's start off with O. She is one smart cookie. She pretty much knows most of her alphabet and numbers.
Infact, everytime we are at a grocery store, she points out what aisle number we are in. My favorite quote from her
is, "Me hold tight?" It reminds me of David Sedaris' book title, "Me Talk Pretty One Day" (if you haven't read any of Sedaris'
books, YOU MUST NOW. He is one funny guy!). She loves to play with wooden puzzles.
She has a funny way of calling me, "Mommy-ah" and Phil, "Daddy-ah." I have no idea who taught her that or if she
picked that up somewhere. But it often cracks me up.
She's progressing really well on the toilet training. A few accidents here and there, but that's expected.
A few days ago, she had me in a really bad mood when she shouted for me at 6a because she had to poo (and she really did)...TWICE,
in a fifteen minute interval. I was not happy, but, at least it wasn't in her diaper which would have made it disgustingly
messy. Oh, and she knows how to brush her teeth and spit and rinse. Awesome!
She still refuses to wear pants if the nanny tells her to wear it. If it was the weekend and I told her , she knows
she can't argue with me. Thank goodness I have lots of dresses for her this summer.
I have to admit, she's learning at a quicker pace than what Sophia was learning at her age. But I'm sure it's only
because she learns from Sophia and having to fight for her say and wants. You don't want to trifle with her. She's
tough, stubborn and knows what she wants and goes after it. But she's quite friendly, charming and charasmatic at the
same time. And can be very funny (ask her where do you think and she'll point to her head and says, "think think think"
from Pooh and friends. She'll be one of the cool kids to hang out with.
In addition to O's addiction with dresses, she loves watching, Barbie's "12 Dancing Princesses" (I would never buy such
trash...it was her father!), she loves to dance ballet (her hands up in the air and tippy-toe) and sing ABC non-stop.
Sophia, Sophia, Sophia. Where to begin. I seriously don't think she learned much from her pre-k class with
the exception of being a little more extrovert. I suppose that's a start. According to her teacher, she
had a tough time in the beginning of the school year by not participating in class and it seems like she's embracing the notion
of hanging out with her "friends" in school.
The school year is almost over and in some ways I am happy the gazillion class trips are over with. That is my
one complaint- too many out of class trips. I don't know if the teachers understand that many parents are working parents
who can't afford to take off to attend out of school functions. I send Phil to go since he has more of a flexible schedule
than I do.
She can be really naughty- I've heard so many complaints from my grandfather that she doesn't listen to him when he picks
her up from school. And I think I know why- she knows that my grandfather (her great-grandpa) loves playing with
O more than he does with S, and it bothers her. And I know my grandfather, when he focuses on someone he really loves,
he really shows it. And it looks like she wants to be loved by him and the only way to get his attention is to get a
good scolding by him.
Her drawings are quite pretty. She draws mostly about trees, snails, butterflies, rainbows and of course, princesses
(thanks to Disney's brainwashing). She also loves to assemble a mini "Sophia's book." Kinda cute.
She's slowly learning how to read. Not the most proficient, but slowly getting there. A bit lazy at times
about not sounding out the words and depending mostly for us to give her the words (which makes me lose patience with her
very, very fast and get really annoyed). Naturally her favorite books these days are Cinderella and Snow White.
She is really good about helping me set the table, bringing food onto the table, helping O put her shoes on and taking her
clothes off, etc. But when it comes to sharing toys with O, FORGET IT. When WWF ensues, I have to step in and
remove the toy so no one can claim it, no matter who it belongs to. Drives me up the wall when S can't let O play with
it for a few minutes!!!
Finally, an up-to-date on the two twerps!
11:10 pm
Friday, May 30, 2008
I Can't Believe It...
My boss decided to mention me in his blog...errm, so embarrassing.
We are off to Micky, Minnie and their cohorts who steal money from everyone in the world and cultivate our children that
they will grow up to be pirates and princesses. Such silly lies. Sadly, I must put a happy face for the girls.
I am excited though, to fly on JetBlue!
10:59 pm
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Undies vs. Diapers
O already knows how to poo on the toilet (well, most of the time), so teaching her to tinkle should be a cinch, right? Not
so. We chucked out the porto-potty months ago, mainly because it was hogging up closet space. I've asked her numerous of
times if she knows where she's supposed to go "shee shee" and she points to the toilet and says in her littlest
voice, "over there." So last night for three hours, I tested the panties wearing and no accidents. I just might
have to bring some panties with us on vacation to test it out some more.
Sounds promising...
10:21 am