In my view of the subject, a woman in an institution of marriage is responsible for properly raising the kids if there are any, making sure that the home environment is clean and the meals are cooked, and doing the weekly food shopping.  In addition to those mentioned chores, there is a responsibility to be at home and display happiness every time the husband arrives.  When a married woman is working it is nearly impossible to fulfill the duties of a wife that society for many years has established for a married woman.  The transition from the roles of a wife from earlier times up to now are not fully accepted and recognized.  Once women began to abandon their duties and roles as a wife to persue schooling and careers, the divorce rate rose,  not only that as the child or children, if their were any, move through their stages of life without the support or guidance of the wife, being a mother as one of the duties of wifehood, were subjected to the streets, drugs, inadequate schooling, negative influences of not only their peers but adults as well, the institution of marriage was jeopardized and a lot of problems were created.  Within this transition of women defining a new way of marriage life and straying away from centuries of the norm is a battle within itself.  For the past twenty-five years, since the definition of working mom/career wife was established their has been ongoing problems within many families and within society.  The husband strayed away from the marriage to peruse other women, the wife within a marriage were enticed by other wives' husbands on their jobs or in school, the abandoned children became young mothers and fathers and/or went into a life of crime, and others viewed wives, now called working women/career moms, with the stigmatism of not caring about their children, husband, or family.  Because of the decision that many wives within the marriage a few years ago to choose school and careers, the women of today are left with the burden of limited choices of performing the duties within a marriage.  Instead women within their marriages today have to work to pay the bills.  There is no time to devote quantity time with the children, within the home or with their husbands, barely with their selves.  The devoted time that wives, women within a marriage, have or had were geared toward objects (new shoes, new clothes, a house, a car, a few benefits, a piece of jewelry) has replaced the role of a woman in a marriage.  When everything is done, the pursuit of a career or schooling had led to the husband gone, the grown children (?), piece of mind not established and unhappiness.  But look at what a married woman accomplished after choosing a career- material objects, family members who are ready and willing to squander, debt, psychiatry and the question, "Why is this happening to me, what did I do wrong?"  The roles of women and marriage have changed, and for many, more than many, it has not been a good experience, especially for the children.  If women within a marriage makes a choice to pursue a career before raising children and establish who is going to raise the child or children maybe within that institution of marriage the problems are lessened.  Women have to consider society's new view of a woman and marriage and hope that she has a positive real backing of her decision to choose schooling and career or the role as a woman in a marriage.

 

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