Provided that we talked about pardon is very difficult that our religious beliefs not be played, fundamentally the teachings of the talking Bible very much of pardon; Specifically the master Jesus that told Pedro: That it was necessary to forgive seventy times seven to catch up with the sky's kingdom. Neither we can brush aside the traditional science ( psychology ), that you establish the pardon and the oversight like therapy ...

Really we must not cling to all of the teachings of the Bible, since this has been written by men with a level of mental development very basic blindly, many things ignored that. Which has made room for the Clergymen on duty to repair it times's infinities in order that you say what they want that you say . With respect to the Maestro Jesús, you had to adapt his teachings at the same level as the knowledge of the epoch, because you had to talk in a so simple language, in order that they may understand it, of the opposite they had not understood it.

Neither we must act on psychology, because this is ignorant of the reactive mind, you sod them like hers upsets and the ego. Which when they suggest the pardon and the oversight like therapy, the one thing that they do is to foment the ego and therefore the dramatization of you sod them, because when the person's ego increases you are more vulnerable to the upsets engramicos. That is instead of helping the patient to heal, they make him ill more.

Pardon.- according to Real Diccionario Academia of the Spanish Tongue: 1. m. Action to forgive, that is, from remitting the debt, offense, lack, crime or something else the damaged for it. â•‘â” Remisión of the merited punishment, of the received offense or of any debt or obligation pending.

Taking this definition like generic platform, we would be able to say that pardon is an expression eminently of the ego, one-act of arrogance, for the one that the person that is considered offended, in a facial expression of such magnification, absolves the supposed offender for. The pardon necessarily implies an offense, that is than in order that you may forgive somebody, first it has to have been offended, and nobody has the power to offend nobody, unless one had felt that power; They offend you because you get offended ... It Is, when somebody forgives an offense, the one thing that is doing, in reality, then he is to shake off of the responsibility that one is room for him to be his own offender to transfer another one.

Because, we can say, that pardon is an expression of the ego in arrogance, when you have devoted yourself to somebody the authority to offend us. To forgive is an act of arrogance, do not give love. We can not forgive from the heart, because the heart does not accuse ; Then, if not there is fault there is no pardon. Therefore the heart is not going to forgive that that you have not accused .

Really what we can do is not personar neither forgetting offenses but simply not to accuse. Not to accuse is an act of love. If not ���†needs not faults And when it is tried not to accuse, it is getting along well and understanding the one you try to offend us to, that is the compassion; And compassion is an one belonging to the roots of the true love

Is the teaching of the car valid pardon? This teaching is absolutely stupid and senseless as such same, because for one to forgive him, it has first that to get offended. It is to say: First one commits a hostile act, next one takes offense at having committed that hostile act itself and next I join himself the car forgives ���†Really, it does not have somebody be very versed or very intellectual, in order not to become aware of this total piece of nonsense. Being lenient? The error of the Catholic religion with the confession is that one: One makes confession and the parish priest absolves our Angry ���‡!! What we have to do is not car to forgive him, because that is an attitude not only mistaken and the coward rather makes us feel culprit; It is to assume the responsibility bravely and to confront what's made, and if it cans, to repair the error, but always learning the lesson that you bear having done bad, because this attitude puts you in cause and to forgive him on the other hand one in fact becoming one to feel guilty with everything goes down his consequences: Fear, anguish, discouragement, depression, and you remove his joy to live. Nobody of sound mind you can believe that he is going to feel happy after having auto-pardoned.

Juan Fortunato.-