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This One's for Meredith

"...she almost got away..."

by Kathy Jackson

Today, I remember Meredith Emerson, a strong and healthy young woman who was struck down in the prime of life even though she desperately fought against her attacker. Rest in peace, Meredith. God knows you earned it.

I never met Meredith Emerson. The news pictures show her to be a beautiful young woman -- strong, vibrant, alive. You can see her posing with her dog, smiling for the camera. She looks like a joyful sort of person. We know she was outdoorsy, that she was independent, that she could take care of herself. Could she take care of herself?

Like most healthy young women, Meredith thought she could. She cared about her physical ability to defend herself so much that she took martial arts classes. And although she loved to be alone in the outdoors, she rarely hiked without the company of her large dog.

That's not why I remember Meredith.

I remember Meredith because the horror that struck me, after reading the news accounts of her death, followed me for days. I was so angry I literally shook from the emotion. And of course I cried. Who wouldn't? A strong and healthy woman, struck down in her youth by a violent predator, a shark among human beings. No, not a shark. Sharks are --- mere animals. What happened to Meredith was evil, pure evil far below anything an innocent animal could achieve.

Shall I retell the entire gruesome tale? I'd rather not. Let us repeat only the important facts, mercifully blurring over the details.

Meredith Emerson went for a hike one beautiful day. She was young, in her early 20's. She was in good health. She'd had training in the martial arts, and knew how to take care of herself. And she took her big dog, Ella, with her on her hike.

She should have been safe.

But on that hike, she met a ... words fail. She met something so evil it defies description. She met wickedness masquerading in human form. Gary Michael Hilton was 61 years old. He briefly befriended Meredith, spoke to her. For a short spell, they hiked together. But, he told police later, Meredith soon outdistanced him and he fell behind.

Could her intuition have been working, even then? I suspect it was. I suspect she walked with him briefly, out of ... not fear, but wariness. A desire to dispel the creepiness of the first encounter. And I believe she walked away from him for the same reason. I think her alarm bells must have been ringing, so she deliberately forged ahead and away from the unwelcome contact.

According to later interviews, he had already selected her to be his prey.

Hours later, she returned along the same trail. Surely by now the man had gone away, she must have thought.

He had not.

While she hiked, he had armed himself with a baton and a knife. And when she returned, he attacked her.

She fought. She fought like a wildcat. "She wouldn't stop," Hilton later told investigators. "She wouldn't stop fighting. And yelling at the same time. So I needed to both control her and silence her."

She did disarm him successfully, just as she'd been taught to do. She knocked the knife out of his hand. She knocked the baton away. This petite, martial-arts trained young woman fought with everything she had. And she disarmed him. They rolled away from the baton and away from the knife. Barehanded, she fought him.

She almost won.

Almost.

Almost....

Almost is not good enough.

Four days later, he finally finished killing her. Months later, her attacker returned to the crime scene, to tell the story to the officers who had arrested him for her kidnapping and eventual murder. She almost won, he said.

"She was doing everything she could to stay alive," Georgia Bureau of Investigation Director Vernon Keenan later told reporters. "It's not something you can train for. Instinct kicks in ... She nearly got the best of him. She's very much a hero."

She almost got away.

Almost.

This is just another sad news story of a pathological creep overpowering a young woman, raping her, and finally killing her. It happens every day in America, in towns and cities, in state and national parks, and on private property. It has happened in your neighborhood -- if not this year, then last year or the year before.

Just another serial killer, without pity and without remorse.

Just another innocent victim whose mangled body was found in the woods.

Just another beautiful, vibrant soul snuffed out to give a few minutes' sick pleasure to a man who had no soul of his own.

The day after I heard the news, I was talking to a friend, a liberal friend. My friend asked why I was upset. I told him I'd been listening to the news, and couldn't get over the story of Meredith Emerson. He asked me what had happened to her, so I told him.

"The thing is," I told him, "the thing is, she was young, strong, healthy. She had martial arts skills. Her big dog was with her. She fought with grit, determination, bravery. She fought with him everything she had. She did all the right things ... "

My friend said slowly, "... but the attacker had a gun?""

No, I replied. The attacker did NOT have a gun. He didn't need one.

So what's the lesson? "Give the attacker what he wants"? Oh no. What the attacker wanted was to kill, to deliberately and gruesomely slay, this vibrant young woman. What he wanted was to watch her suffer and struggle, to watch as her life slowly ebbed away, to take his sick pleasure from her helplessness, her pain and her death. Should this sociopath simply have been given what he wanted? Gah! That's not the lesson.

The lesson certainly is not that martial arts are useless. For every Meredith, I can point to dozens of women in slightly less-desperate circumstances, who did successfully fight back using empty hand techniques, and who survived and prevailed because they had the physical skills they needed in order to escape their attackers. Only a short-sighted man or a fool would tell his wife, his daughter, his girlfriend or his sister that she is so helpless there's no sense in even trying to defend herself if she is caught while unarmed. If someone you love is ever caught in a horrific situation as Meredith was, I hope she uses at least as much determination and intelligence as Meredith did in her efforts to survive and escape.

And I hope she makes it.

So what is the lesson?

Here's one part of it. Women need to be taught that fighting back can make a difference and that you should never ever just give up. Women should know that they are not, by nature, incapable of defending themselves, no matter what the "women can't..." brigade might tell them. Most of us can benefit from martial arts training, sometimes to an amazing degree. In part this is because the self-confidence the physical training gives also often provides its own protection during the prey selection process. From an early age, girls should be taught that if they are attacked they should use every ounce of strength, guile, savvy, and grit that they can summon to get away. The physical skills to do this are beneficial and should not be neglected.

Teach your daughters well. Teach them to protect themselves. Teach them how to escape from a grab, where to strike, how to use misdirection, why sometimes it is necessary to fight back. Teach them to defend themselves with every ounce of their strength, every smidgeon of guile and deception they can concoct, and -- above all -- teach them to never, ever, ever give up. And ... teach them one more thing, the final lesson.

For Meredith's sake, teach your daughters that there might come a time when a larger and stronger attacker can overpower them, when their physical skills are not enough and when their natural intuition has catastrophically failed. In the gravest extreme, they may need a gun to defend themselves. And in that final and desperate place, only a gun will do.

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Kathy Jackson is the Managing Editor of Concealed Carry Magazine.

 

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A landlord was horrified when his tenant was victimized-raped by a convicted sex offender. In addition to repairing a damaged window and installing security devices, the landlord bought the tenant a shotgun. The latter move probably saved her life. Just a week later, as police prepared to file charges against the rapist, he returned to the scene of the crime. Likely angry his victim had gone to the authorities, the rapist cut the power to the house and crashed through the basement door. But the woman inside was not about to be a victim again. She fired her shotgun for the first time, killing her rapist. "I'm glad I had something to protect me," the woman said. "When your life is in danger, you just do what you have to do." (Southeast Missourian, Cape Girardeau, MO, 11/01/08)

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Dean Woodling was stopping by his father's property when, according to police, he saw a robber loading a truck with stolen items. Woodling, who is a hunter, had a shotgun in the vehicle. "I jumped out with the shotgun as he was coming out of the barn," Woodling explained. "To say he was scared was an understatement," Woodling, who has a concealed-carry permit and likes to keep a firearm handy, held the suspect at gunpoint until police arrived. "The way the world is, it's like American Express," said Woodling. "I never leave home without it. Police cannot be everywhere all the time." (Pocono Record, Stroudsburg, PA, 11/14/08)

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Brian Berthiaume was walking his dog when he saw a large man acting suspiciously. The man had entered the neighbor's garage through the garage door, which construction workers had accessed earlier in the day, but Berthiaume decided home renovation was not this man's goal. Police say Berthiaume feared for his neighbor, a woman with two young children, so he ran home for his .40-caliber pistol and told his girlfriend to call police. When he returned, the suspect was carrying away a large saw. He confronted the man, who was already on probation for burglary. After a brief standoff, the 240-pound suspect sprawled out on the ground and waited for police. Berthiaume's neighbor lauded his actions, saying, "One of the reasons my family has stayed in New Orleans [following Hurricane Katrina] is because of neighbors who watch out for you, like Brian." (The Times-Picayune, New Orleans, LA, 11/13/08)

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Mark C. Johnson had been arrested 33 times since 1986, including charges of robbery, larceny and battery, according to law enforcement records. Some would suggest he should have been in jail. Unfortunately for sixth-grade reading teacher Juanita Enzor, he hoped to prey upon yet another victim. Police say Enzor, who lives alone, heard Johnson burst through her front door. Grabbing her gun, Enzor hid in the bedroom, and when Johnson entered the room, she shot him. Johnson attempted, albeit briefly, to attack Enzor before falling dead. (St. Petersburg Times, St. Petersburg, FL, 10/24/08)

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Alejandro Salinas was paying for his gas when the clerk warned him he'd seen several suspicious men outside. On his guard, Salinas walked to his truck, but before he could close the door, one of the men put a gun to his neck. "Get out of the truck. I'm going to take it and I'm going to kill you," the suspect said, according to police. But Salinas executed a classic tactical move: In a fast, fluid motion, he pushed away his assailant's gun while drawing his own 9 mm pistol and shooting the assailant twice. The wounded suspect fired once into the air as he fell to the ground. His accomplices grabbed him and took him to a hospital, where he died. Salinas has a concealed-carry permit. (The Monitor, McAllen, TX, 11/10/08)

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There were about 15 people enjoying a game of bingo at a gaming hall when a masked man wielding a shotgun ran into the room. The armed robber fired a round into the ceiling and demanded money. According to police, that's when bingo hall manager Chad England decided to take action. England retrieved a pistol from an office and shot the masked man, possibly preventing several tragedies. The suspect died en route to the hospital. (Pensacola News Journal, Pensacola, FL, 10/25/08)

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January, 2009

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Paul Garner was awakened by shattering glass when, police said, an intruder with a prior burglary conviction attempted to break in through a window. Garner grabbed his .45-caliber, semi-automatic handgun and, when the burglar lifted the window blinds, he fired three rounds. The intruder died at the scene. The incident was at least the fifth time since April that a San Antonio property owner shot an intruder.(San Antonio Express-News, San Antonio, TX, 10/17/08)

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A woman was talking on the phone with her son when he yelled that an armed man was trying to break into his apartment. Suddenly, the connection was severed and the woman phoned the police. By the time officers arrived, the woman's son had shot the suspect and was holding him at gunpoint. (The Sacramento Bee, Sacramento, CA, 10/16/08)

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Police said four men were intent on committing their second burglary of the evening but, on this attempt, they met with a prepared homeowner. As the four entered the home, the barking of the family dog awakened the homeowner and his family. The homeowner confronted the men, who demanded money. As the homeowner fled back to the bedroom, one of the robbers fired a sawed-off shotgun. The homeowner returned with a handgun, shooting one of the robbers and causing the four intruders to flee the scene. All four robbers were later arrested. (The Lancaster News, Lancaster, SC, 09/24/08)

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A 23-year-old University of Arizona student was at his residence several blocks north of campus when two men knocked on the door. According to police, the knock came at an unusual hour, so the student retrieved a handgun before opening the door. One of the men asked to speak to an individual whose name the student didn't know. At that point, the student noticed the second man was wearing a bandana and holding a handgun. The student tried to slam the door shut, but the men, both of whom had criminal records dating to 1997, forced their way inside. The student drew his handgun, shooting and killing both men. "Had he not done what he did, he probably would have been dead right now' said Tucson police Sgt. Fabian Pacheco. (The Daily Wildcat, Tucson, AZ, 10/17/08)

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When Steve Manning's wife heard someone breaking into her home, she woke her husband, who sprang into action. Manning said a "huge man full of rage" was repeatedly charging the front with a straight arm and shouting, "Dude, you are going to get yours! Dude, you're going to get it!" But Manning was not about to allow himself or his wife to be harmed. He quickly armed himself with his handgun, shouting to the intruder, "If you come into this house, I will shoot you! According to police, the man did not heed the advice, forcing the door open. Manning fired two shots, wounding the suspect. Manning said the shots appeared to surprise the suspect and, strangely, calmed him. Police arrested the suspect in a nearby flower bed. (Tulsa World, Tulsa, OK, 10/18/08)

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Two assailants armed with shotguns approached a man sitting in his pickup outside his home, according to police. They ordered the victim out of the truck and, having not entirely formulated a plan, paused to consider their next course of action. "One of the men decided to force [the victim] back inside his residence and told him to get up' said police spokesman Lt. Paul Henderson. "As [the victim] began to stand up, he retrieved a handgun that was concealed in his pants and began slinging lead at the two would-be robbers. One suspect was hit multiple times and immediately collapsed in the street." The wounded suspect died. Police are investigating leads on his alleged accomplices. (Star¬Telegram, Fort Worth, TX, 10/17/08)

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Georgia Boll. Sullivan of Clinton, La., will never know if her former employee, Arthur Sanford, came back for money, revenge or both. Sullivan was up late watching television when she heard a noise that caused her two dogs to start barking wildly. She took her pistol and went to investigate, but before she fully realized what was happening a shadowy figure lunged at her. Although she fired at the intruder, he kept coming and the two struggled for the gun. Sullivan said, "He beat me with his fists. He was trying to get the gun out of my hand, but he never did." Sanford continued to attack, saying that he wanted money, until his grip finally loosened and he died on the spot from a gunshot wound to his chest. Sanford had worked on Sullivan's cattle farm for years, but had been fired three years earlier because of suspected drug use. Sanford also had a history of arrests for armed robbery. (2theadvocate.com, Baton Rouge, LA, 02/17/05)

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It's not in my nature to even kill a mouse, but he forced it and I do not feel guilty of any wrongdoing," said Robert Birtwhisrle, an 84-year-old homeowner in Mishawaka, Ind. The local police agreed that this was a justifiable shooting. Birtwhisrle had been awakened at about 1 a.m. To the sounds of his front door being kicked in. He took his pistol, went downstairs and warned the intruder to stop or "he was going to get what was coming to him." The intruder, however, kept trying to get in and eventually broke down the door. Birtwhisrle fired once and the intruder fell to the floor. When police arrived, the intruder was pronounced dead at the scene; he was later identified as James Rosebush, who lived only blocks away. Police commented that it was possible Birtwhistle was targeted because of his age, which would lead criminals to believe he was an "easy target." (The Indianapolis Star, Indianapolis, IN, 02/18/05)

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Thanks to the quick thinking of a sub shop owner in Dayton, Ohio, a robbery attempt was quickly thwarted. The manager and his wife were working the morning shift when they spotted a man with a mask and sunglasses heading toward the store with a gun in his hand. The owner triggered the security system and retrieved his gun. One employee described what happened next: "[The suspect] got up on the counter. I was scared. I just dropped to the floor." The robber, however, who was pointing his gun at the manager, did not even have time to speak because the manager pointed his gun and shot him in the arm. He fled and was later apprehended at his sister's house. He was expected to be charged with aggravated robbery. (Dayton Daily News, Dayton, OH, 01/15/05)

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The restraining order was not worth the paper it was printed on," said the victim's mother, but her daughter, Joy Burgess, knew it long before that night. Burgess was two days away from a court appearance in which her husband, Brian Gathing, was charged with domestic trespassing, only one in a string of charges pressed by his wife that caused him to be jailed five times in five months. But that night Gathing cut her telephone lines and used a shovel to break open her door. Their 6-year-old daughter was asleep in the back room, and Burgess was not taking any more chances when she saw Gathing coming. Gathing was later pronounced dead at the scene from a single gunshot to the chest. No charges will be filed against Burgess, according to local officials. (Winston-Salem Journal, Winston-Salem, NC, 12/04/04)

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In the dark of the night, an Eliot, Maine, homeowner was awakened to the sounds of pounding and screaming at his front door. David Oeser went to the entrance to find a 6-foot, 2-inch, 330-pound man breaking down his door. Oeser then fled to his bedroom but was followed by the intruder, who continued to scream incoherently. Oeser grabbed his gun and yelled several times, "Stop or I will shoot" but the man kept coming. Oeser fired, hitting him once. The man was apprehended at the scene. Police later revealed that less than 24 hours earlier, the intruder had been arrested and given a psychiatric exam after an unprovoked attack on a man in a local restaurant. (Central Maine News, Eliot, ME, 11/05/04)

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Leon and Eleanor Cash were spending a quiet evening in there Natrona Heights, Pa., home when they heard suspicious sounds coming from the kitchen. When they went to the kitchen to investigate, a man dressed entirely in black forced his way into the house by pistol-whipping Mr. Cash. When the intruder pinned Cash against a kitchen appliance, holding him down by his throat, Cash called to his wife for help. She responded by grabbing their shotgun and shooting the intruder. Ras-Saleem Hudson died at the scene and no charges were expected to be filed against Mrs. Cash. (Pittsburgh Tribune-Review, Pittsburgh, PA 09/26/04)

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Candy Mitchell of Waterford, California, started losing sleep after she learned that her ex-boyfriend was released from jail. He had served only two months of a six-month sentence for physically abusing her, so it did not seem like a coincidence when, night after night, she heard strange noises in her back yard and banging on her bedroom walls. Despite repeated calls to the police, no prowler was ever found. But the night Mitchell heard someone enter her home, she grabbed the gun she kept next to her bed and, when she saw a man heading for her daughter's room, fired several times. Her ex-boyfriend, John "Bud" Russell, stumbled outside. When police arrived, they found Russell dead in his truck. Mitchell later said, "I could not imagine any reason he'd be in my house but to kill me." (The Modesto Bee, Modesto, CA, 08/07/04)

 

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Early one morning, a Sunset Hills, Missouri, man heard a knock at his back door.

Deciding to err on the side of caution, he retrieved his handgun and carefully opened his door to a stranger who asked for gasoline. Before the homeowner could respond, the stranger forced his way into the house, where a struggle ensued. When the intruder shocked the homeowner with an electric stun gun, the homeowner responded by firing one shot at the intmder, who ran out of the house and made it about 200 yards before falling dead. At press time, police were trying to identify the man who appeared to be in his 20s, but who had no ID. In addition, no car was found in the area. The homeowner, whose name was not released, was not seriously hurt in the incident. (The St. Louis Post-Dispatch, St. Louis, MO, 08/04/04)

 

 

 

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