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Home: More than Just a Word
Marybeth Whalen
Devotion:
I opened up my email to discover
another one of those forwards we all get from time to time. I almost hit “delete” but my eye landed on this
acronym for the word “Home”:
Honor the Lord
Obey His Word
Minister to one another
Establish walls of truth
I was glad I took a look at this
forward, because it made me think about whether or not these four components are present in my home. When looked at
it in this light, the word “home” means so much more than just a place to live. Isn’t that what we want
all of our homes to be? More than a place to sleep and eat and occasionally clean, we want our homes to be a place where lives
are shaped into God’s design. This little acronym zeroes in on four important goals we should have for our home.
The exciting thing is, no matter who lives there, or what problems we are facing, or what limits we feel like we have, with
effort and intention our homes can be places where these four things happen.
Honor the
Lord: We can honor God with our lips, but yet our hearts
can be far from Him (Mt. 15:8) — and the people who live with us will be the first to know when we do this! Let’s
seek to honor Him behind the closed doors of our homes, living out our devotion to Him in a visible, gentle way as we realize
that our families are watching.
Obey His
Word: Obeying His Word at home is not always easy.
The Bible tells us to be submissive to our husbands, to love others more than we love ourselves, and to pick up our cross
(as we pick up after our children, or care for our elderly parents). When we do these things with humility, those we
most want to impact will notice. More than that, they will file it away in their hearts, and our lives will echo in
theirs in ways we can’t possibly foresee.
Minister
to one another: Ministry requires us to love others, to
reach others, and to lay down our lives for the sake of those God has placed in our sphere of influence. This must happen
at home first. And yet, if we’re honest, it’s usually the last place it happens. We go out and give
the best of what we have to offer to others, then give our leftovers to the people we profess to love the most. Let’s
minister to those in our own homes first.
Establish
walls of truth: When I first read this, I will confess
that something prickled in me. Establish walls? How is it Biblical to establish
walls? I questioned. However, I soon realized I was thinking of walls as a means to keep people out.
When in actuality, we need to be building walls of truth—God’s truth, designed not to keep others out but to guard
our hearts and give us a safe place to retreat and to rest. These walls of truth make our homes into fortresses—a
place to run to when our daily battles wear us out.
These are not things we can just
do once and move on. They are daily requirements, regular sacrifices, and even personal struggles. We won’t
ever do it perfectly and there will be days we feel we are taking one step up and two steps back. But with God’s help,
we can keep working to make H.O.M.E. mean so much more.
Dear
Lord, make my home a place that includes these four components. I want my home to be more than just a place to
live in—I want it to be a place where lives are impacted and relationships are strengthened. Lord, I need Your
help to do these things. Thank You for Your promise to always help me when I ask. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Application
Steps:
Choose one of the four components
of the word HOME and concentrate on it today. Ask God to show you creative ways you can live for Him within the walls
of your home.
Reflections:
How do you honor God, obey His
word, minister to your family, and establish walls of Truth in your home? Can you share some practical ideas—even
simple little things you have seen work?
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