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Puppy Socialization Do's and Don'tsSocialization and
puppy training are of utmost importance as puppy hood is the most important and critical time in your dog's development. What
you do and do not do right now will affect your dog's behavior forever.
Puppy SocializationA properly socialized dog is well adjusted
and makes a good companion. It is neither frightened by nor aggressive towards anyone or anything it would normally meet in
day to day living. An un-socialized dog is untrustworthy and an unwanted liability. They often become fear-biters. Often they
like to fight with other dogs. They are difficult to train and are generally unpleasant to be around. Unsocialized dogs cannot
adapt to new situations and a simple routine visit to the vet is a nightmare not only for the dog itself, but for everyone
involved. Don't let this happen to you and your dog. Start socializing your new puppy NOW! The Cornell University College
of Veterinary Medicine agrees that the socialization period lasts up to about 12 weeks (3 months) of age. However, at 12 weeks,
the puppy must continue socialization to refine its social skills. Socialization most easily occurs before the puppy is 3
months old. Any later than that and it becomes an excruciatingly difficult and time-consuming process that very few owners
have the time, energy, money or patience to cope with.
Socialization Do'sMake sure that each of the following events
are pleasant and non-threatening. If your puppy's first experience with something is painful and frightening, you will be
defeating your purpose. In fact, you will be creating a phobia that will often last a lifetime. It's better to go too slow
and assure your puppy is not frightened or injured than to rush and force your pup to meet new things and people.
-Invite friends over to meet your pup. Include men, women, youngsters, oldsters, different ethnic backgrounds,
etc.
-Invite friendly, healthy, vaccinated dogs, puppies and even cats to your home to meet and play with
your new puppy. Take your puppy to the homes of these pets, preferably with dog-friendly cats.
-Carry your pup to shopping centers, parks, school playgrounds, etc; places where there are crowds
of people and plenty of activity.
-Take your puppy for short, frequent rides in the car. Stop the car and let your puppy watch the world
go by through the window.
-Introduce your puppy to umbrellas, bags, boxes, the vacuum cleaner, etc. Encourage your puppy to explore
and investigate his environment.
-Get your puppy accustomed to seeing different and unfamiliar objects by creating your own. Set a chair
upside down. Lay the trash can (empty) on its side, set up the ironing board right-side up one day and upside down the next
day.
-Introduce your puppy to new and various sounds. Loud, obnoxious sounds should be introduced from a
distance and gradually brought closer.
-Accustom your puppy to being brushed, bathed, inspected, having its nails clipped, teeth and ears
cleaned and all the routines of grooming and physical examination.
-Introduce your puppy to stairs, his own collar and leash. Introduce anything and everything you want
your puppy to be comfortable with and around.
Socialization Don'ts-Do not put your puppy on the ground where
unknown animals have access. This is where your puppy can pick up diseases. Wait until your puppy's shots are completed. Do
not let your pup socialize with dogs that appear sick or dogs that you don't know, that may not be vaccinated.
-Do not reward fearful behavior. In a well meaning attempt to sooth, encourage or calm the puppy when
it appears frightened, we often unintentionally reward the behavior. It's normal for the puppy to show some signs of apprehension
when confronting anything new and different.
-Do not allow the experience to be harmful, painful or excessively frightening. This can cause lifetime
phobias in your dog.
-Do not force or rush your puppy. Let your puppy take things at his own pace. Your job is to provide
the opportunity.
-Do not do too much at one time. Young puppies need a lot of sleep and tire quickly. It is much more
productive to have frequent and very brief exposures than occasional prolonged exposures.
-DO NOT WAIT!! Every day that goes by is an opportunity of a lifetime that is lost forever. You can
never get these days back. If socialization does not happen now, it never will.
Winning Your Puppy's Trust, Respect and Confidence
Many people try to win their new puppy's
love by letting the puppy always have its way. The pup is showered with affection and attention because he is so cute and
cuddly. Buckets of affection is a wonderful thing for most puppies, but it must be tempered with respect. If you give in to
your puppy's every whim, your pup will never learn self control and self discipline. Your puppy will never learn to respect
you. If your puppy does not respect you, it will have no reason to do anything for you. Your relationship will be like two
5 year olds bossing each other around. Just as a child needs a caring parent; an athletic team needs a coach; your puppy needs
a leader and a clear social hierarchy. If you do not take up the role of leader, your dog will; and you will end up with an
unruly, disobedient, out of control, often aggressive monster of a dog. Most of these dogs end up living a life of isolation
in the back yard because no one can deal with it; or they end up dead - euthanized at the local animal shelter. They end up
at the shelter because either the owner can't live with the dog anymore, or a member of the public has filed a complaint against
the dog and government officials have taken the dog away from the owner. DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU AND YOUR DOG!
Other people have an equally erroneous misconception of this issue. Instead of showering the dog with
love and affection, they think that to earn the dog's respect they must bully, dominate and terrorize the dog into being submissive.
A dog treated this way will eventually bite their owner. This is not respect. Respect is not something that is forced. It
is won. A dog will not respect someone it does not trust.The old fashioned method of dominance via the alpha roll over does
not win respect.
Housetraining Tips for Your New Puppy
Establishing good habits early on in housetraining your puppy is critical. If you allow your puppy
to eliminate every where and any where he wants in your home, you will end up with an adult dog who will always have a tendency
to want to eliminate in your home. You will have to live with it forever, or go through some time-consuming, tedious retraining
later on. A dog is either housetrained or not. There is no such thing as weekly 'accidents.' A truly housetrained dog will
NEVER eliminate in your house unless forced to do so or because of illness or excessively long confinement. Don't expect your
puppy to be reliably housetrained until it is at least 6 months old.
Puppy Housetraining Do's-Provide
constant access to the toilet area. If you are home, take your puppy there every 45 minutes or less.
If you are not home or cannot tend to the puppy, then you must make sure he cannot make a mistake.
It's actually not really a mistake because he doesn't know any better. With young puppies, when the urge comes, they go -
it usually doesn't matter where they are or what they are doing. If we didn't put diapers on human babies, they too would
soil our carpets and floors. Confine your puppy to a dog-proofed area and line the entire floor with papers. If the weather
is nice, the area safe, etc, you can confine the pup to a small pen outside. Don't leave your pup out in the sun, wind, heat
or cold. Be sure to provide shelter and water in the confinement area. It's ideal if the pen is set up on dirt, grass, gravel
or concrete. The idea is that no matter where the puppy eliminates while confined, it is on something that resembles his toilet
area. Your goal is to never allow your puppy to eliminate on carpet, tile, hardwood, or anything that resembles the flooring
in your home. Once a habit is established, it is difficult to break, therefore, do not let your pup form bad habits in the
first place.
-Praise and reward your puppy each and every time possible for eliminating in his toilet area.
-Feed your puppy at regular times. What goes in on schedule will come out on schedule.
-Use a crate to help your puppy develop self control. Confine him for gradually increasing periods
of time when you are home to monitor him.
-Be patient. It can take until the dog is 6 months old ( if not more depending on the dog and the way
it is being trained ) for him to be housetrained.
Puppy Housetraining Don'ts-Do
not reprimand your puppy for mistakes. Reprimand has no place in housetraining.
-Do not leave food and water out all day and night for your puppy to eat and drink at whim. Use some
common sense here. Obviously if the weather is hot, it is appropriate to give the pup access to water, but if this is the
case, then you need to be more alert to the possibility of the pup needing to urinate more frequently.
-Do not allow your pup to eliminate anywhere other than his toilet area.
-Do not give your puppy free unattended run of your house.
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