THE GRAND SQUARES
OF PRINCE WILLIAM, VA
TRIBUTE
TO NORMAN TENNANT
Although we became acquainted at church, Norm, as I called
him, was not a
church goer. Something had transpired in his life. We didn't talk about
it.
Nevertheless, he didn't lack for good christian values. He loved his
family and
he loved children. His wife Barbara and daughter Jean attended church
regularly. Norm seldom missed a "Men's Breakfast" at our church and
loved to show-off and talk about his newest knives he had added to his
collection. He was one of the early members of a square dance group
called the
Grand Squares and he was the designer of our club badge. I have always
worn my
badge proudly, perhaps from some selfish pride in knowing that I helped
get the
group started, that I have been the club caller from its inception and
that I
taught Norm to Square Dance. The badge now has new meaning to me, a
remembrance
of a good friend. I shall cherish it the rest of my life and as I look
at it, I
will once again be reminded of Norm. We shared a lot in common, Norm
and I. He
was a simple man. We grew up as depression babies (I am only slightly
older
than he) in the midwest. He grew up in Michigan and I grew up in Ohio.
We often
shared childhood experiences which were so much alike that we could
have grown
up together. One of the things was the love of knives. You see when we
were
youngsters every boy carried a pocket knife. We used it for everything
from
cutting strings on burlap bags, to paring and pealing apples, or
skinning a
rabbit for Sunday dinner, or playing "Mumbly Peg", or just whittling.
Although I never got into the collection of knives, I still find myself
lost
without one. Mine are well worn and have broken blades, but they still
might
come in handy for cutting a string or something. We grew up to respect
our
knives and guns and knew that the gun was used only for target practice
or
killing wild game for a meal. It was never, ever to be pointed at
another human
being. The knife was a trusted friend to do those things a boy had to
do with
his knife. Although I knew Norm had experienced some medical problems,
he never
dwelt on them and he was in good spirits the last time we shared
breakfast
together a few months before his death. His death came as a shock to me
as I am
sure it did to others. I will miss his company at our men's breakfasts.
Farewell good friend. I promise you that each time I call a Grand
Square, it
will be for you and I hope you look down and savor every beat of the
music and
every step of the Grand Square. Norman was a writer. A sort of modern
Will
Rogers or Mark Twain, but more like Andy Rooney. I don't think Norm
ever
published a book, but his wit was enjoyed by everyone who read his
editorials
in the local Potomac News. He even wrote a tribute to this old gravel
voiced
square dance caller one time. He may have been in search of a bigger
story and
got caught with a deadline, I don't know; but, he always gave credit
where
credit was due. His stories were the truth as he saw it.
NORMAN
H. TENNANT FEBRUARY 17,
1931-MAY 31, 1998
His business card read "Norman H. Tennant - Renaissance Man -
Reader,
Writer, Listener, Thinker, Whittler, Cutler, Doodler, Tinker.
~Slayer
of Small Dragons~"
In a poem to his daughters he once wrote the following poem:
"And even if the time should come to be
When memory's all we share
You need a hand, just think of me
And somehow, I'll be there."
Expressions of sympathy and memorials may be made in Norman's
name to:
Hospice of Northern Virginia
13168 Centerpointe Way
Suites 201 & 202
Woodbridge, VA 22193
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format for profit. Walter R. Peterman
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